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Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Bbqekpa: 9:20pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123: Sex isn't life bro. I'm a sex freaking addict but I happen to be married to a most loving lady whom doesn't share same enthusiasm when it comes to sex. It doesn't bother me at all and I have since learnt to do stuffs to get off on my own. Divorcing your wife is the stupidest thing you could ever do. Jeez |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Ortintin: 9:20pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Have you thought of separating from her instead of fiing divorce? In these modern days it's hard shocking anyone. If she values the marriage she will do your bidding. Same goes for most of these marriage palavas, separate for like a year and if the person doesn't come around then divorce and let them be. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Bbqekpa: 9:22pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Acidosis: I shock when I read that part 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by MOYOSPARKS(m): 9:23pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123: Give her 1m to go get her life back ![]() |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Maryam1234(f): 9:24pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123: I will advise you buy her some Aphrodisiac she will come begging and it's natural with load's of health benefits.Just 3k can get you Goron Tula and Sugar Lumps. Please don't leave her because what she's passing through actually has a solution, she's not the first woman experiencing low libido. Try get this two items and observe her for some weeks,first of all tell her you plan divorcing but you're ready to make it work. No sane woman will want to leave her home. Shalom!!! |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Father4all: 9:29pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
I don't know why people are lying in this formum. Some will come saying they earn 500k a month, some will say 700k. Is it not the same Nigeria that there is no work no money, no food that we all are living? Where are you guys seeing the jobs and big big monthly pay? Nigerians are indeed hypocrite and liars |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by PawsitiveBro(m): 9:31pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
I will rather cheat codedly than divorce her |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by folks4luv(f): 9:33pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123:Lol. You a leaving a woman you love, leaving your kids cause of sex but you want to go and be alone? Why are you deceiving yourself? Who is caging you in the marriage? If you want to enter town, do it with your full chest, stop the self deceit |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by dragunov: 9:58pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123: Guy, you're the problem. I even thought she was cheating. But from what you said, she is clean. Your libidos are not compatible. But you can slow down through self discipline. Moreover,do you do pre-intimacy with your wife or you just pounce on her like a useless cat? Women need pre-intimacy to be put in the mood. They enjoy it more than the sex self. Change your style if you're dry and uninteresting. My take! |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by NothingDoMe: 10:03pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Acidosis:😄 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Kobojunkie: 10:03pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ArcSEMPECJ:LOL... you folks like to dissect issues as though you are one-dimensional in your reasoning. OP wants out of the marriage. Must he treat himself as less than human in order that the woman can feel human? Compared to the adulterous culture that is Nigeria today, OP is actually choosing to treat his wife like a human being by divorcing her. How can you folks claim understanding of morality when the vast majority on this threat continues to suggest OP engage in adultery rather than free his wife from a contract he admits he is no longer able to keep? ![]() |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Kobojunkie: 10:05pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Maryam1234:And should her heart give her under the stress of the aphrodisiac on her heart and maybe body, OP becomes a murderer? Are you for real? ![]() |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Folanre(m): 10:06pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Do not do that wicked thing of leaving her. Think of your children together. Report her to her go to person and you will see improvement. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Kobojunkie: 10:06pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Ortintin:She will do his bidding, literally live an uncomfortable existence all so she can hang on to Mrs. Badge. Would you ever advice your own daughter to do that for any man? ![]() |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by exnovio(m): 10:07pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Sex is very important in marriage,even in the Bible,couples were instructed not to starve their partners of it,before I married my I compel her to sign an agreement that anytime I ask for it she must offer me except she is sick,seeing her period or very tired. Bro,don’t divorce her unaware for the sake of your kids ,talk to her about it again if she acting the same way,then call a family meeting on the matter tell them if she continues like that you will get a second,I believe she will giving you like never before. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by galantjoe(m): 10:07pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Have heart to heart talk with her over this. If she still stubborn, it is better you cheat than divorce a woman that gave these sterling qualities. Cheat secretly, clean your mouth very well. Get a friend with benefits, life is too short not to enjoy |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by NothingDoMe: 10:08pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Father4all:You'd be surprised that people still make money in Nigeria. If you're not seeing people who make money then you might need to change your crowd. Painful that you see a monthly salary of $600 as big big money. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Acidosis(m): 10:16pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Mombebe: Are you male or female? Please answer, so I'll know how to respond to your tears. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Luckysbab: 10:20pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
JONSYN7154: Him mama dey give him papa the kain problems him dey face? |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Acidosis(m): 10:24pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Harddiskng: No wahala. Marry someone like your mother. All the best. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by biggal: 10:38pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
So after enduring all these years for the project to mature by 2024. Her own dividend will be #1m and a divorce papers ![]() If it's your sister will you like it? I am a victim of low libido and I can tell you many factors are involved.. 1) overworking yourself daytime 2) nothing interest you nor turns you on again Please let her pause on home chores. Other medical aspect of it can also be looked into. Please don't divorce her. She may not be happy with what's happening to her too for not meeting up with her hubby's demand. The table may turn tomorrow and she will be the tigress. ADURA123: 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by jagaban002(m): 10:39pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Most of u are single and don't understand what the man is going through. Mine is just like this man own , me even open provision shop 2m for madam . she don't sleep same room with me It's been more than 3 months we had sex , I take care of all bills , she don't help with bills, I take my cloths to dry cleaner , I don't eat at home except Sundays cus I leave early and I didn't eat at NYT so whTs my benefit in marriage except having kids . Marriage favour only women not men 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Kobojunkie: 10:49pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
jagaban002:Wetin this one dey talk now! Go whine on your own thread and stop pretending you are in the same shoes as OP abeg! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by opey112(m): 10:55pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Divorce that woman at your own risk,we human can never be satisfied.You will regret it. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by yankison(m): 10:59pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Offpointng: Don't mind the saucy entity... The white man he de try use scope wan copy check most of their homes ..The wifes still take control if the kitchen without the mentality we think here that the wife is no slave ..na lie their wife still cook everyday and bring food to the dinning table for their family ... Na over sabi de worry this one's here |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Kobojunkie: 11:09pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
yankison:There is no concrete truth to that claim actually as more and more men have taken to cooking meaning more even in their marriages do it as opposed to allowing the woman do it alone! This study finds that home cooking in the United States appears to be on the rise, both in terms of the percent of the US population who cooks and — except for men with less than high school education — the amount of time spent cooking. For men, this continues the trend towards increased home cooking. A previous study found that the percent of men who cooked increased from 29% in 1965 to 42% in 2007 , and current results show a further increase to 46% in 2016. For women, these findings indicate a leveling off or even a reversal of previous trends, as the percent of women who cooked decreased from 92% in 1965 to 68% in 2007 , but rebounded slightly to 70% in 2016. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5881182 |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by MrCaesar: 11:25pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Learn to help your wife in doing chores at home or get a house help. Your sex life will improve drastically. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by incogni2o: 11:37pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123: Please view this Video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FWvehrzZrBY |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Kobojunkie: 11:39pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
incogni2o:Are you trying to hoodwink OP into believing that the average 50% divorce/abandonment rate that is Nigeria today no dey affect even people from the family of that your pastors or even his church members? ![]() |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Mombebe: 11:40pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Acidosis: It took me time to reply to your comment because I know all you're commenting was coming from a place of alcohol intoxication. You have never been married, that's why you can comment rubbish,has your father ever given your mother up to 5k for monthly upkeep before in his lifetime?? Answer..so that I will know the kind of individual I'm dealing with here Nkita. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by bukatyne(f): 11:46pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
NoToPile: And has she complained? Has she discussed with her husband and told him her problem which can range from exhaustion due to chores to his lack of skills/hygiene or a lower libido compared to his or the fact she needs to recharge for a day or two before another episode or his lack of romance or hormonal imbalance or any health issues? If the frequency is the issue for instance, has she tried negotiating with him? Daddy wa, 4 to 5 times a week twice a day is too much for me. I can guarantee you 2 to 3 times a week once a day but when I am done with you, you will see stars? If it is exhaustion, Daddy wa, running the home drains me. I would need a maid for XYZ so that I can have more energy for you? Ditto lack of romance or hygiene or whatever. What I see is a lot of emotional blackmail towards the OP for a legitimate need. Others would rather he cheats than honorably divorce his wife. The wife is not a baby and should be emotionally intelligent enough to discuss with her husband and they both reach a compromise that suits their marriage. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by KingLennon(m): 12:19am On Sep 13, 2023 |
Acidosis:Domestic work is now work load? I wonder what our mothers will have said back then in the 80's. Work loadings ![]() |
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