Vijuchoco:
If okay means being able to provide for my basic needs, then yes..

Okay👍

Godsongang:
I don't think so once they accept you, billings don start be that.

There are exceptions though.

1Sharon:
Yes. Can you date a girl w/o expecting her to cook for you?

I can. I have been cooking for myself since all this days, so why should it change when it comes to dating. If she comes to greet me and want to stay over, she will have to cook unless she doesn't want to eat that night.

DyingFetus:
Girl way like go spend on you and no go let you spend your money

My ex was a pre med student, she no day ever let me spend my money on am always buying me gifts here and there
I had to leave the relationship because it made me feel worthless like I'm sort of a houseboy always getting gifts.

It's a good thing you have a lovely and rare gem partner with a heart of gold.

So far you have something tangible doing yourself no matter how small it is, Provided it keeps you busy and you keep trying to improve yourself. You are on the right track.

I wouldn't have left such relationship if i were you.

1Sharon:
Yes. Can you date a girl w/o expecting her to cook for you?

Nice one.

Yes off course i can date a lady who doesn't like to cook because i'm a mild good cook myself. My cooking skills aren't top notch but i'm trying.

I usually prepare my meals myself. So dating a lady who doesn't like to cook isn't something i will be bothered about.

Please try and be asking questions that have answers

Shalommy:
Op... Can a guy date a lady without asking for sex？If yes, then i can date a guy without asking for money. Stupid question.

but sex is not solely pleasurable to male ..


besides,I thought only prostitutes have sex with a man for monetary gain ...


so in a nutshell. are you saying. you're no different from a prostitute ?? . it's a question,,,☹️☹️☹️

Just like mosquito asking for permission to drink blood🤷‍♂️“Not Possible”

DyingFetus:
Girl way like go spend on you and no go let you spend your money


My ex was a pre med student, she no day ever let me spend my money on am always buying me gifts here and there
I had to leave the relationship because it made me feel worthless like I'm sort of a houseboy always getting gifts

you sound like a dummy

Shalommy:
Op... Can a guy date a lady without asking for sex？If yes, then i can date a guy without asking for money. Stupid question.

🔈🔈🔈Lazy Nigerian youth is here oo..

Dzzzz:
🔈🔈🔈Lazy Nigerian youth is here oo..

Like you. Chaiii...

Silentgroper:
but sex is not solely pleasurable to male ..


besides,I thought only prostitutes have sex with a man for monetary gain ...


so in a nutshell. are you saying. you're no different from a prostitute ?? . it's a question,,,☹️☹️☹️

As a man, if you don't wanna spend on a lady then stay on your own. Is it too difficult？

Tempulated:


Please we are not Quarreling here.

Personally i am one of the few men who don't and wouldn't ask for sex from ladies. I see it as demeaning.

It doesn't make any sense to me paying for sex. Why would i ask and pay you for sex??

It's not like i don't like sex but it has to be pure, mutual and consensual and no strings attached.

I can decide to gift a lady material things or money whenever i feel like and deem fit not for any ulterior motive.

And there is no crime for her to ask you for money if she's in need.

harrend:

so in essence, relationship in nigeria is purely transactional..?

It's trade by barter.

Shalommy:
As a man, if you don't wanna spend on a lady then stay on your own. Is it too difficult？

But men have started going their own way, yet your gender is against it .. They always seem to want to bring down the movement .


Ask the MGTOWS

Shalommy:
Op... Can a guy date a lady without asking for sex？If yes, then i can date a guy without asking for money. Stupid question.

So you be ashawo b that na

Even Jay Z spends on his millionaire wife...🤭🤭🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️

Silentgroper:



But men have started going their own way, yet your gender is against it .. They always seem to want to bring down the movement .


Ask the MGTOWS

Samantha124:
Even Jay Z spends on his millionaire wife...🤭🤭🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️

and she does on him too

But most of the time it's him who does the spoiling because no prideful man would be okay with his woman always doing the spending, even if the woman is a billionaire.

They still want to get spoiled by their men... In as much as we live in the 21st century and we're fighting for equality, men will always be men, while women will always be women.

In as much as the woman can spend on a man every now and then, it doesn't change the fact that the man is the provider and protector of his family and same thing applies with us women... In as much as a man can do house chores every now and then, it also doesn't change the fact that we women should look after the house when we're around and not busy.

If you check, most of Beyonce's songs are about women empowerment and feminism, but I'm sure that when she gets home, she leaves those lyrics outside her house to be a loving wife and mother... She can balance between being Queen B and being just Beyonce.

So it's also the duty of a man to provide for his woman even though she can be spending on him every now and then.

Silentgroper:
and she does on him too

Samantha124:
But most of the time it's him who does the spoiling because no prideful man would be okay with his woman always doing the spending, even if the woman is a billionaire.

They still want to get spoiled by their men... In as much as we live in the 21st century and we're fighting for equality, men will always be men, while women will always be women.

In as much as the woman can spend on a man every now and then, it doesn't change the fact that the man is the provider and protector of his family and same thing applies with us women... In as much as a man can do house chores every now and then, it also doesn't change the fact that we women should look after the house when we're around and not busy.

If you check, most of Beyonce's songs are about women empowerment and feminism, but I'm sure that when she gets home, she leaves those lyrics outside her house to be a loving wife and mother... She can balance between being Queen B and being just Beyonce.

So it's also the duty of a man to provide for his woman even though she can be spending on him every now and then.

That's right ....

Silentgroper:



But men have started going their own way, yet your gender is against it .. They always seem to want to bring down the movement .


Ask the MGTOWS

You mean fagottary？. Chaiiii...

Badmashii:


So you be ashawo b that na

Like your sisters.

Shalommy:
Like your sisters.

Ashawo oshi

Op you should also add the question... "Guys can you date a girl without demanding sex?"

Should we remind Op that relationships are Transactional..

wittywriter:

Love is sweet o but when money enter Love is sweeter.


Wittyness

When whose money enter?
The man or the woman?

Dating is becoming really flawed this days.

Once a girl sees a boy, all she thinks is the size of his pocket and she’s already calculating how much she will gained

Once a guy sees a girl, he’s already thinking of the doggy style he will give her

But few guys with good intention ready to settle down will still jam girls with bad intentions and vice Versa. That’s why it’s so hard this days

Tempulated:
Hello Ladies.

Can you date a man without asking him for money.

Would you be comfortable in a relationship where your woman does not ask you for anything?

Only Yorubas can love without money and I respect them for that, good tribe but...

Shalommy:
Op... Can a guy date a lady without asking for sex？If yes, then i can date a guy without asking for money. Stupid question.

That means relationship for you is like a transaction like a private prostitute, exchange money for sex is prostitution.

Shalommy:
Op... Can a guy date a lady without asking for sex？If yes, then i can date a guy without asking for money. Stupid question.

Why ladies quickly desert relationship without s*X?

TemplarLandry:
Lol. Typical Nigerian ladies see relationships as a poverty alleviation scheme.

If the man wouldn't demand for sex. I think it's kinda possible

Shalommy:
Op... Can a guy date a lady without asking for sex？If yes, then i can date a guy without asking for money. Stupid question.

ozuo, that shows how dumb u are...intimacy that u both are meant to enjoy



just talk say u b olosho