Tempulated:


What is matrix?

I am unique in my own way and i know it.

Elijah thought he was the only one that loved God whereas there were thousands more.

There are millions of people in Nigeria..... If only one percent were like you, how many people would that be?

I've never asked my ex or even my male friends for money!!! The truth is the thought never crosses my mind since I don't except a guy to provide for me.
Kapish!!!

Tempulated:


Hmmm are you really sure.

Am I sure? I'm doing it for myself, what do I gain in lying

Shalommy:
Op... Can a guy date a lady without asking for sex？If yes, then i can date a guy without asking for money. Stupid question.

Yes we can, I've been dating my virgin gf for over two years, the sex discussion doesn't even come up at all, just a little romance and we are good. The sex is reserved until we get married, which will be immediately she completes her NYSC God’s willing.

There are many other guys like me too

Shalommy:
Op... Can a guy date a lady without asking for sex？If yes, then i can date a guy without asking for money. Stupid question.

Sex is not a favor done to anyone

tunize:

Sex is not a favor done to anyone

Wow i like men like you.

I wish ninety percent of nigerian men can have this mentality.

Pinkyposh:

Am I sure? I'm doing it for myself, what do I gain in lying.

Well i believe you to an extent.

But i'm very sure you can't date or marry any man below your standard. This i know for sure.

If i ask can you date or marry a promising guy who earns 50k monthly now. You will say God forbid over your dead body😊

Lollz:
I've never asked my ex or even my male friends for money!!! The truth is the thought never crosses my mind since I don't except a guy to provide for me.
Kapish!!!

Hmm wonder woman.

Tempulated:
Hello Ladies.

Can you date a man without asking him for money.

The relationship/marriage scene in Africa is totally different from the outside world♂️

A white woman behaves and lives like an adult, hence she takes responsibility for her actions anytime anyday, she takes relationship or marriage as a partnership if she finds love, and an avenue to enlarge her tentacles(children) with the man of her dreams!!!

In Africa is different, black women believes their are children that need to be taken care of from her birth to her death⚠️
A black woman sees a relationship or marriage as a gold mine where they can easily come and reap a man's sweat without raising a finger!!!

Every black woman expects money in a relationship whether she's vocal about it or not, but the difference is that while SIMPs pay their women without getting anything in return... Alphas get their women to invest in them first before reaping any benefits.

That's why you will see a black woman collecting money from many men and giving it back to a particular ONE man that's in charge💯

Tempulated:


Well i believe you to an extent.

But i'm very sure you can't date or marry any man below your standard. This i know for sure.

If i ask can you date or marry a promising guy who earns 50k monthly now. You will say God forbid over your dead body😊

That is a male and a female nature for you.
I can't be earning above 50k and get married to a guy earning just 50k.
Who is to provide for the family, there won't be respect.
A man is the provider while the woman is the helper
The man won't even try it cos he will feel insecure

Yes, because if you ask him for money he will eventually ask you for something in return but if he gives you from his heart he trying to test you.....

Pinkyposh:

That is a male and a female nature for you.
I can't be earning above 50k and get married to a guy earning just 50k.
Who is to provide for the family, there won't be respect.
A man is the provider while the woman is the helper
The man won't even try it cos he will feel insecure.

I bet you didn't see where i wrote a Promising Future And Prospect. A Hardworking Guy With Side Hustles. Your eyes went straight to the 50k.

Nobody wants to start small again and help each other grow, No genuine feeling and respect anymore except a lot of money is involved. It is now provide provide, earn higher earn higher than me so i can brag about you amongst my peers and society at large Hmmm.

If i say i don't understand you perfectly, it means i'm being mischievous and feigning ignorance.

If i may ask, As you are earning above him, is it a sin to still submit to him and still support him to improve on his finances provided he is a calm, humble, good and caring husband.

I don't want to write much epitsles because i noticed you have a fixed mindset like most of your peers nowadays. The older generation of ladies weren't like this.

It is well with everyone of you these days.

Tempulated:


I bet you didn't see where i wrote a Promising Future And Prospect. A Hardworking Guy With Side Hustles. Your eyes went straight to the 50k.

Nobody wants to start small again and help each other grow, No genuine feeling and respect anymore except a lot of money is involved. It is now provide provide, earn higher earn higher than me so i can brag about you amongst my peers and society at large Hmmm.

If i say i don't understand you perfectly, it means i'm being mischievous and feigning ignorance.

If i may ask, As you are earning above him, is it a sin to still submit to him and still support him to improve on his finances provided he is a calm, humble, good and caring husband.

I don't want to write much epitsles because i noticed you have a fixed mindset like most of your peers nowadays. The older generation of ladies weren't like this.

It is well with everyone of you these days.

That you've had bad experiences with girls does mean you should come to yell at me while addressing your concerns 🙏

First of all you started on a good note by saying I didn't see where you said PROMISING, and to be sincere I didn't see that, but you spoilt it by saying MY PAIRS and that nobody wants to start it small and bla bla bla, generalizing the whole thing.

Secondly I would have loved to respond to your question, but your approach you used has and the mindset you have for ladies is so irritating to me

Like I said you don't know me
I don't mind if my man is not earning big for a start,but has a promising future

And stop being bitter about women, stop generalizing, learn to talk and argue calmly, not everyone can handle such
Thanks

There are only two ladies in Nigeria who can date a man without asking for money. Sadly enough, the two ladies died two hours ago

Tempulated:


Wow i like men like you.

I wish ninety percent of nigerian men can have this mentality.

It is what it is now sex is never a favor in as far both parties is benefiting from it weda its been paid for or gotten for free.

What an Interesting thread though.

Tempulated:


Hmm wonder woman.

It's the Truth my brother!!! Sounds Farfetched right??

Lollz:


It's the Truth my brother!!! Sounds Farfetched right??

Yes offcourse.

Lollz:


It's the Truth my brother!!! Sounds Farfetched right??

So u a gold diga? ...amd then u complain u cant find a mens on nairaland..Shame on u sir!!!(no oofensece)

MrCork:


So u a gold diga? ...amd then u complain u cant find a mens on nairaland..Shame on u sir!!!(no oofensece)

If you are not blind or stupid you would see that it's a reply to the comment above but I don't blame you and I would have said all the females in your family are gold digas but since they didn't really offend me, I'll leave that title of chief gold digger to you!!! But in the main time lemme help u since you can't read...... Ensure you read the post below carefully and with an dictionary to understand clearly!!!

Lollz:
I've never asked my ex or even my male friends for money!!! The truth is the thought never crosses my mind since I don't except a guy to provide for me.
Kapish!!!

Tempulated:
Hello Ladies.

Can you date a man without asking him for money.

during my bachelor years I was fortunate to date a very wealthy girl that really loves me so much that she bought a car for me,she doesn't ask for money but once in a while I do buy some stuffs for her which she cherishes so much,no matter how well off a lady is,as a man it is always natural to give no matter how small and always what you can afford to lose

Lollz:


If you are not blind or stupid you would see that it's a reply to the comment above but I don't blame you and I would have said all the females in your family are gold digas but since they didn't really offend me, I'll leave that title of chief gold digger to you!!! But in the main time lemme help u since you can't read...... Ensure you read the post below carefully and with an dictionary to understand clearly!!!

TOOO LATES TO APOLOGICE.UUU A GOLD DIGER & U BEEEN EXPOSE!!(no oofensece)