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Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by rickleye: 1:19pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Cantonese: If Op is serious , I’ll give him N1,000 for 15 weeks ( to the end of the year ) to at least make sure that he’s got food in his stomach. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Charliej: 1:21pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
I do not think you are out of place been expectant of your brother or hopeful,i mean we all are,we hope and expect from God even if we go out to work,just as the saying goes everyone is diffrent i know if you were in his shoes you will do better,so for now you need an income at least,the economy isnt fair to none,so do better |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Richking2023(m): 1:23pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
I am not there with you, but I feel if it is your elder brother, the aspect not giving you food is wrong. My cousin brother stayed with me for a year, I spent and make every expenses. I couldn't watch him go hungry even though I wasn't earning much. Kindness is not a gift but an habit intentionally inculcated. Your elder brother is not a kind person generally even with outsiders. My advice to you is to try your best to see how you can eat or feed yourself. Don't let his attitude derail your focus. Reach out to other people for help. Don't rely on him... 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by correctguy101(m): 1:23pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Mindlog: Don't mind the itk... Why on earth would he even take him to the city if he knows his pocket is too lean to cater for his own younger sibling? Your own blood brother o. And the werey go dey spend on drinks and women o... ![]() And some oversabi are supporting nonsense behavior. Will they still say a parent has entitlement mentality if they ask their own son to take care of his younger ones? The young man is even learning trade from him.. smh Yeye elder brother wey he be. Shame on him. Eediots everywhere... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Odidigboigbo(m): 1:24pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
MS247:This your 1k soup doesn't require oil? By the way where can you buy Ugwu and Ogbolo 50 Naira? 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by BoldBrainz(m): 1:24pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Mindlog: This is easily the most sensible comment on this thread so far. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by GoodRocks: 1:25pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Gajagojo: A girlfriend adds no value other offering her kpekus to a man in exchange for Money! However, the so called brother isn't anywhere close to being rip in marriage. You want to marry when you can't even comfortable feeds your brother who came to stay with you while learning a skill! Dey play! This actually shows the girl the brother would mistakenly marry, along with the kids that'll come out of the marriage will die of hunger! I'm sure the brother doesn't even care about their own parents, is it then his so called future in-laws he would now care for? Oga dey play! I don't know if you lack understanding to see where the guy wrote that his is a learning a skill. So he should die of hunger because he came to stay with his brother who is obviously the ill daft illiterate type who clearly lacks understanding? If ordinary food no dey house, which kind business the guy dey do? And you're talking about marriage? U no well at all bro 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by lawrenzooo: 1:27pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Mindlog: Yes it's not out of place for the elder brother to assist but then again his elder brother owes him nothing. Its the sole responsibility of parents to hold the hands of their kids until they become adult and are able to stand on their own. Issues like this only come up where parents fail in their responsibilities. From the OP write up, he feels entitle. What is the financial state of his brother? I would want to believe if the brother was doing well financially he would have been stocking the house with food stuff in which case all that is required of the op is to cook and appreciate the person God has used to provide. I feel the op need to learn how to live with people whether family or not. |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by UnfairLife7(m): 1:29pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
uvie66:are you serious? I owe my siblings and good friends. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Pk01(m): 1:29pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Nigga drop account number na... |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Gajagojo: 1:30pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
GO0DHardDick: So you should feed your brother before you marry? Your mentality is one of entitlement The only reason we are here is to make babies That is the koko |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by GoodRocks: 1:30pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Nazgul: Lol you have a point. The op is yet to clarify any of those. However, it beats my imagination why foodstuffs wouldn't be at home in the house of a man who claims to go to work everyday! Or perhaps the said brother hides the foodstuffs at home. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by jaxxy(m): 1:33pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Openfortruth: people have different characters even brothers. have u spoken to him about this issue? Maybe he has a reason then u can explain ur position. Maybe he's trying to avoid u being dependent on him for everything since he's already accommodating u. Lol |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by GoodRocks: 1:33pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Gajagojo: If I can't feed my junior brothers until they can stand up on their feet, dude I have no business talking about marriage whatsoever! If I can't feed my parents comfortable without them lacking anything, oga I have no business talking about marriage at all. How can someone who can't even eat comfortably well let alone helping or assisting his brothers be talking about being ripped for marriage? U smoke? Or u think marriage is child's play? 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by stanbright(m): 1:34pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
MS247:just shut up your smelling mouth 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Gajagojo: 1:35pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
GO0DHardDick:That is your own business You can do your life how you like That is not the reality in Nigeria If it was their parents won't have had children they cannot train That is why there are more than 200 million Nigerians People have babies and don't educate or train them 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by EruditeSupport: 1:36pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
MS247:You actually don't know what it means to be an elder brother. That's an irresponsible elder brother up there. I'm a firstborn, and i know what I've done for my younger siblings in this world. It's not a matter of entitlement mentality. Blood is thicker than water. In a healthy family, the strong supports the weak until they're all strong. Well, it all depends on the type of family you came out from. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Affiliate117(f): 1:38pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Since you are an apprentice, try and endure till you finish learning your work. Try and be loyal to him ok |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Chris2863(m): 1:38pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
MS247:it looks like you are texting from a different planet or economy😂😂😂😂😂😂 This cracked me up. You probably don't geed yourself dude. |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by erniok(m): 1:39pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
MS247:It's not entitlement mentality. Don't bring western idealogies here. We Africans stand for each other. Hope you don't blame the op when the table turns and he decides to pay back his brother in multiple folds. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Ibrahimlagosian(m): 1:41pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Of course bro.no one gives a Bleep concern about this gender Nasri100: |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Cantonese: 1:41pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
rickleye: Fantastic. I like your words “If OP is serious”. |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by erniok(m): 1:41pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
EruditeSupport:Don't mind that guy. He might be in the western world where it is all man for himself or might come from a family that holds similar notion. Where I come from, it is one for all, all for one. No man must be left behind. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by easzypeaszy(m): 1:42pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
MS247:To me u dont have sense...In Nigeria, we hlp each other as brthrs, sisters n family...Dis is not USA so oga kip som foolish ideas away frm som1 who needs help. Anthr thing...he shld steal to get 1k abi na ur own head no correct sef. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by stickle(m): 1:43pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
while your brother's on action seems strange,I will counsel that you talk to him about your predicament. Also discuss with your trainer to assist you in any way he can. Keep at what you are doing and don't let this dampen your spirit. it is better to starve now and learn than jumping at a paying job that won't be able to sustain you in future. |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Gajagojo: 1:44pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
EruditeSupport:You are talking your own You did what you did I because you can If you don't have the means so because you are first born you should become an armed robber? Nigeria is very hard that is why most girls are prostitutes in their father's homes When there is money there is no problem but we are seeing people sell their own children in Nigeria because of poverty It is like you don't understand how had things are for some people. When things are hard that person you are helping will become a witch,you will see them chasing you in your dream and some pastors will back it up . Parents will call their own children witch What have we not seen as a result of poverty |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by AllBlack: 1:44pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Openfortruth: from the onset did your brother invite you to come and stay with him? when you told him you were coming to join him, did he agree? be honest. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Bnno: 1:46pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
guy do yahoo |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by sgtponzihater1(m): 1:47pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Take heart bro. Never seek to have your own back. If you brought food stuff from the village then cook and try to sort yourself out. Allow your brother eat as well Learn to have a submissive spirit and do not fight back, which is the natural thing to do. Be laser focussed on your future. If you persevere, this pain will pave way for your progress. God has particular interest in the poor, humble and oppressed, so you are in good position. Ask the almighty to give you wisdom, favour and strength. Ask Him to provide for you and cloth you with His grace. In all, never fight back, never seek revenge, and never let this bitterness get into your spirit. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by weslay: 1:47pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
MS247: If the elder brother knows he is not up to the task, he could have left his younger brother to stay back wherever he was. While bring him to a new place, where he probably knows no one and begin to starve him. How does the elder brother expect him to feed as an apprentice? Or should he leave the apprenticeship training n start begging? This me me me mentality is worrisome. What responsible person eats with making provisions for those living with him. 3 Likes |
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