I'm a young guy in his late 20's and i live in a sub urban town in Abuja. I live alone in a bed sitter apartment and people see me going out and coming in to my place at will so it obvious am not working, but am living large because i get paid monthly from my late dad's company that i and my siblings inherited.

Women used to be very fond of me, but nowadays i noticed it no longer so. The fact that am a single guy living in another man's land makes everything boring to me and i need women to At least talk to.

When i talk to a lady, she always seem to be interested, and after taking the number, i call them and they start by either giving me excuses or acting strange in a way that pisses me off to even block them off completely in anger.

This thing makes me develop a low self esteem. To the extent that when i see a lady and want to approach her, i will just give up and let it slide.

More About Myself: I'm a young, energetic and eccentric man. Although i don't conform to societal standards of being responsible, i always stay out of trouble. I have a colored dread hair, a nose ring, an ear ring, lots of tattoos that are not visible unless i take my shirt off. I don't even wear the nose and ear ring all the time, just once in a while. I'm really really handsome and well to do obviously.

I just don't know why women don't like me. They just don't fancy me or want to bed me. I feel like it a curse. I need help please.



CASE STUDY:

A young lady living not far from me. She is the daughter of the woman that i normally get my weekly and everyday groceries from.

One day, i asked her simply, can i get to know you ? And she rudely said, "I don't want to know you. I don't feel like to know you." Then she walked away. I got really pissed and had to compose myself and walk off.


It seems like am curse somehow... At first, i thought it was the car and that people see me as a yahoo plus boy, so i gave it out to my sister four months ago. Still it persists.
Also, am an ardent Tramadol consumer... So i don't know if this stuff messes my interaction with people unknowingly to me. Although the tramadol makes me composed, sound, happy and quiet. It still could do something socially repulsive.

I don't gamble, smoke, drink alcohol or womanize... Just d tramadol.

Because you're jobless

You sure say you no resemble either Tinubu or Reno Omokri so?

Make I no talk wetin dey my mind first

Of all the things wey dey worry people currently,na this one dey bother you? 😕

sleek214:
Because you're jobless

but i have money that u will never have in ur life.

How many salary earners get 2.4 Million every month plus allowances ?

Bluntguy:
You sure say you no resemble either Tinubu or Reno Omokri so?

I'm a very handsome guy for real... No capping

I for talk am if i nor fine... I used to dig pussies almost everyday before

You don have money that is why. Go and make money and they would love you.

You have already pointed out one of the reasons,therefore,you don't officially work,how do expect girls not to have fear of you that a man as young as you are not working but he is well to do.actually,in nigeria people who spend without people have the knowledge of where he work or his source of income is either they call them yahoo or ritualist.

Mhizzard:
You have already pointed out one of the reasons,therefore,you don't officially work,how do expect girls not to have fear of you that a man as young as you are not working but he is well to do.actually,in nigeria people who spend without people have the knowledge of where he work or his source of income is either they call them yahoo or ritualist.

how does me spending without known source be a problem to them ?

I am afraid you have tested positive for ugly . You might think you are handsome but probably to yourself

Find some guyz in the area and start hanging out with them.

Aomial:
I'm a young guy in his late 20's and i live in a sub urban town in Abuja. I live alone in a bed sitter apartment and people see me going out and coming in to my place at will so it obvious am not working, but am living large because i get paid monthly from my late dad's company that i and my siblings inherited.
Women used to be very fond of me, but nowadays i noticed it no longer so. The fact that am a single guy living in another man's land makes everything boring to me and i need women to At least talk to. When i talk to a lady, she always seem to be interested, and after taking the number, i call them and they start by either giving me excuses or acting strange in a way that pisses me off to even block them off completely in anger. This thing makes me develop a low self esteem. To the extent that when i see a lady and want to approach her, i will just give up and let it slide....It seems like am curse somehow... At first, i thought it was the car and that people see me as a yahoo plus boy, so i gave it out to my sister four months ago. Still it persists.Also, am an ardent Tramadol consumer... So i don't know if this stuff messes my interaction with people unknowingly to me. Although the tramadol makes me composed, sound, happy and quiet. It still could do something socially repulsive.

First, there is no curse on you.
Second, your drug use may be causing you mental impairment so do go seek professional psychiatric help as soon as you can, just to be safe.
Third, leave women alone and they will leave you alone. They have a right to choose who they want to converse with and who they would not. They are not dogs that are meant to bark at your command. If you have nothing better to do with your time, find a library and spend much of your free time there gulping down knowledge from all across the globe instead.

Bro, take your mind off it..... You are showing desperation in having a relationship with a lady, they will used that against you. Be calm when you meet a new lady, don't be too eager to get along, don't spend too much and improve your self confidence... They will be the one trying to know you more.

Aomial:
how does me spending without known source be a problem to them ?

well,if they were you,what would you think?you have the thought that something is being fishing about them.let me tell you one thing,those people are in your area are criticising behind you about how you are living your life(he is a yahoo.they will even go as far and say you are capable of plusing it).the best option is to find someone to love far from your resident.

Lmao. So you walk up to strange women on the road and ask "Can I get to know you?"

And expect what?

A short biography of themselves, after which they'll follow you to your bedsitter so they can be bedded?

Na so Mango dey ripe? 😂

Aomial:
I'm a very handsome guy for real... No capping

I for talk am if i nor fine... I used to dig pussies almost everyday before

If na so, nemesis don catch up with you be that o.

Aomial:
I'm a very handsome guy for real... No capping

I for talk am if i nor fine... I used to dig pussies almost everyday before

Oga......nothing dey wrong with you ... Na so woman be on normal day... Dem nor get anything but like to dey form godess-bosslady . Calculate everything wey dey their body, plus underwear..e nor dey pass N8320.

You carry coloured dreads with rings on your nose and ears. You don't look responsible at all. You are also into tramadol.
Your problem long pass River Nile

Beremx:
You carry coloured dreads with rings on your nose and ears. You don't look responsible at all. You are also into tramadol.
Your problem long pass River Nile

i think the tramadol is my only nemesis. I won't lie, it makes me happy.

Aomial:
i think the tramadol is my only nemesis. I won't lie, it makes me happy.

okay good luck to you. I hope you find love in your current state

First of all stop being a retard



Second get rid of your ear and nose rings , you scare girls with those fàggot looking rings


Get a decent hair cut , get rid of all those dreads


Read books so your mind can develop
Guys like panosophist was once like you , retarded with daft mindset till they read books


Watch movies especially interesting ones


Socialise with men first before chyking women


Invest your money into something
Do not be a jobless fàggot with a rich dad


You could have dropped your pic with blurred eyes mek we give you better advice

Kaycee54321:
Lmao. So you walk up to strange women on the road and ask "Can I get to know you?"

And expect what?

A short biography of themselves, after which they'll follow you to your bedsitter so they can be bedded?

Na so Mango dey ripe? 😂

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Beremx:
okay good luck to you. I hope you find love in your current state

I don't need love. I need friendship

Aomial:
I don't need love. I need friendship

go work on yourself first before you seek for friendship. It is well with you

Beremx:
go work on yourself first before you seek for friendship. It is well with you

what's wrong with myself ?

tensazangetsu20:
I am afraid you have tested positive for ugly . You might think you are handsome but probably to yourself

Hahaha, you just killed this guy's ego

progressb4andno:

Hahaha, you just killed this guy's ego

Lol op isnt alone. I ugly too.

Where you dey see d tramadol buy

The nose ring and earrings might be a turnoff for most ladies. Feminine-looking men are not everyone's forte, but keep searching; you will find the right person.

You have a bigger problem which is tramadol abuse.


Kindly sort out that one first before thinking of women.

Aomial:
I'm a very handsome guy for real... No capping

I for talk am if i nor fine... I used to dig pussies almost everyday before

Berra concentrate on making your own money

No dey carry woman matter for head
And if you feel your matter is spiritual then I wish you all the best

Na tramadol make u write the nonsense here. You carry nose ring like sokoto cow. Person like you no go near my sister self.