Where did it all go wrong?

Fine Naija girls on Insta and X. I go just slide in their dms. It's easy for them to reply me cos the boy is fine and I don Japa tey tey. My problem is this; Many of them can't hold a good conversation. Like they literally have nothing interesting to talk about. Some don't even have short or long term plans. Some of y'all should add words like daft, unintelligent, uninformed or slow to your bio

Their he-goats offcourse.

Most of today's men/boys are extreme dullards.

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When young girls develop into their teenage years, they begin to realize more and more how easy it is for them to get their way with the things of life just because of their LOOKS

And when they finally realize how powerful that tool at their disposal truly is, they rely on it full force because
1. It's easy and
2. Their parents (most especially the mothers) encourage it and even gives them fine tuned instructions on how they can use it to get their way with daddy and the boys in her area/school. This will even make her mastery of her craft even faster and easier

However, this comes at a cost
Her total investment into mastering the power of her looks will make her (almost always intentionally) neglect the other more difficult but more rewarding and long lasting ways of getting the things you want in life e.g. becoming smarter and more analytical in solving problems

Why should she strive to become the top dog in her class and win the Scholarship money so that she can buy that dress/purse she's being eyeing for a long time when she can just latch onto one mumu boy that will give her all the money she wants just necause she's pretty and he doesn't wanna lose her? (Whereas he never had her in the first place)

Hence her higher faculties degrade and she gradually loses the ability to critically think.
She will increase in her mastery of craftiness in confusing men, but she will lose intelligence in other fields.
That is why you always see them around topics on sex, relationships.and so on. That's the only place they know whats up

This trend continues through their teenage years into their 20s and it blooms into the way they like to use SM nowadays to advertise their wares and seek attention

When they clock 27-30 and their looks start winding down, they will revert back to their original settings (since the power of their looks are gone now) and they immediately adopt a new facade to get their way, Religion.

A religious mask if well worn will make people not judge her and also trust and like her more, and that is a good thing because a person who trusts you will want to do favours for you e.g. suggesting marriage to the unsuspecting man who thinks he has finally found a gem whereas it's a game she's been playing since she was 13.

The only way to halt this Trainwreck of a situation from developing is if a strong external force (aka a highly disciplined father/father figure) forces her to stop depending on her looks to get her way and actually make her develop her mental faculties. This is why the geeky girls in medicine and engineering tend to be way less slutty than their counterparts studying fine art and music in the university (no offence to the artists and musicians out there)

SapaProMax:
Where did it all go wrong?

Fine Naija girls on Insta and X. I go just slide in their dms. It's easy for them to reply me cos the boy is fine and I don Japa tey tey. My problem is this; Many of them can't hold a good conversation. Like they literally have nothing interesting to talk about. Some don't even have short or long term plans. Some of y'all should add words like daft, unintelligent, uninformed or slow to your bio

I believe you read what you wrote up there before you posted for public to read, what is different between you and ladies you are accusing? Infact, they even better than you.

In your own case, not only that the content of your write up is watery, the grammatical blunders are something else. Infact, it's unreadable.

speedy0420:
When young girls develop into their teenage years, they begin to realize more and more how easy it is for them to get their way with the things of life just because of their LOOKS

And when they finally realize how powerful that tool at their disposal truly is, they rely on it full force because
1. It's easy and
2. Their parents (most especially the mothers) encourage it and even gives them fine tuned instructions on how they can use it to get their way with daddy and the boys in her area/school. This will even make her mastery of her craft even faster and easier

However, this comes at a cost
Her total investment into mastering the power of her looks will make her (almost always intentionally) neglect the other more difficult but more rewarding and long lasting ways of getting the things you want in life e.g. becoming smarter and more analytical in solving problems

Why should she strive to become the top dog in her class and win the Scholarship money so that she can buy that dress/purse she's being eyeing for a long time when she can just latch onto one mumu boy that will give her all the money she wants just necause she's pretty and he doesn't wanna lose her? (Whereas he never had her in the first place)

Hence her higher faculties degrade and she gradually loses the ability to critically think.
She will increase in her mastery of craftiness in confusing men, but she will lose intelligence in other fields.
That is why you always see them around topics on sex, relationships.and so on. That's the only place they know whats up

This trend continues through their teenage years into their 20s and it blooms into the way they like to use SM nowadays to advertise their wares and seek attention

When they clock 27-30 and their looks start winding down, they will revert back to their original settings (since the power of their looks are gone now) and they immediately adopt a new facade to get their way, Religion.

A religious mask if well worn will make people not judge her and also trust and like her more, and that is a good thing because a person who trusts you will want to do favours for you e.g. suggesting marriage to the unsuspecting man who thinks he has finally found a gem whereas it's a game she's been playing since she was 13.

The only way to halt this Trainwreck of a situation from developing is if a strong external force (aka a highly disciplined father/father figure) forces her to stop depending on her looks to get her way and actually make her develop her mental faculties. This is why the geeky girls in medicine and engineering tend to be way less slutty than their counterparts studying fine art and music in the university (no offence to the artists and musicians out there)

Wow. You must be intelligent.


You explained it all. In fact, you must be Chinua Achebe. It was as if I was reading an interesting novel.


Now back to the topic. I know you will have the answer to this since you gave us a comprehensive problem/ or root cause facing girls of these days.


Now what are the solutions?

Is it still possible for single guys to get married to girls with a high IQ, and if Yes. Where do we find them?


Or are we going to end up with all these dummies littering around?


What does the future hold for us?

A huge portion of the females brain stops developing once they reach their teenage ...

SapaProMax:
Where did it all go wrong?

Fine Naija girls on Insta and X. I go just slide in their dms. It's easy for them to reply me cos the boy is fine and I don Japa tey tey. My problem is this; Many of them can't hold a good conversation. Like they literally have nothing interesting to talk about. Some don't even have short or long term plans. Some of y'all should add words like daft, unintelligent, uninformed or slow to your bio

F*ck and bounce, stop expecting so much. Nigeria has no education sector. People go to university and graduate without ever studying. It is not a female problem alone.

speedy0420:
When young girls develop into their teenage years, they begin to realize more and more how easy it is for them to get their way with the things of life just because of their LOOKS

And when they finally realize how powerful that tool at their disposal truly is, they rely on it full force because
1. It's easy and
2. Their parents (most especially the mothers) encourage it and even gives them fine tuned instructions on how they can use it to get their way with daddy and the boys in her area/school. This will even make her mastery of her craft even faster and easier

However, this comes at a cost
Her total investment into mastering the power of her looks will make her (almost always intentionally) neglect the other more difficult but more rewarding and long lasting ways of getting the things you want in life e.g. becoming smarter and more analytical in solving problems

Why should she strive to become the top dog in her class and win the Scholarship money so that she can buy that dress/purse she's being eyeing for a long time when she can just latch onto one mumu boy that will give her all the money she wants just necause she's pretty and he doesn't wanna lose her? (Whereas he never had her in the first place)

Hence her higher faculties degrade and she gradually loses the ability to critically think.
She will increase in her mastery of craftiness in confusing men, but she will lose intelligence in other fields.
That is why you always see them around topics on sex, relationships.and so on. That's the only place they know whats up

This trend continues through their teenage years into their 20s and it blooms into the way they like to use SM nowadays to advertise their wares and seek attention

When they clock 27-30 and their looks start winding down, they will revert back to their original settings (since the power of their looks are gone now) and they immediately adopt a new facade to get their way, Religion.

A religious mask if well worn will make people not judge her and also trust and like her more, and that is a good thing because a person who trusts you will want to do favours for you e.g. suggesting marriage to the unsuspecting man who thinks he has finally found a gem whereas it's a game she's been playing since she was 13.

The only way to halt this Trainwreck of a situation from developing is if a strong external force (aka a highly disciplined father/father figure) forces her to stop depending on her looks to get her way and actually make her develop her mental faculties. This is why the geeky girls in medicine and engineering tend to be way less slutty than their counterparts studying fine art and music in the university (no offence to the artists and musicians out there)

One bottle of Glenfiddich for you

Fiscus105:




I believe you read what you wrote up there before you posted for public to read, what is different between you and ladies you are accusing? Infact, they even better than you.

For your own, not only that the content of your write up is watery, the grammatical blunders are something else. Infact, it's unreadable.

Na wa o. Someone gave a fantastic reply meaning he understood. You wey be English Nazi no get anything to contribute. Shame on your grey matter.

speedy0420:
When young girls develop into their teenage years, they begin to realize more and more how easy it is for them to get their way with the things of life just because of their LOOKS

And when they finally realize how powerful that tool at their disposal truly is, they rely on it full force because
1. It's easy and
2. Their parents (most especially the mothers) encourage it and even gives them fine tuned instructions on how they can use it to get their way with daddy and the boys in her area/school. This will even make her mastery of her craft even faster and easier

However, this comes at a cost
Her total investment into mastering the power of her looks will make her (almost always intentionally) neglect the other more difficult but more rewarding and long lasting ways of getting the things you want in life e.g. becoming smarter and more analytical in solving problems

Why should she strive to become the top dog in her class and win the Scholarship money so that she can buy that dress/purse she's being eyeing for a long time when she can just latch onto one mumu boy that will give her all the money she wants just necause she's pretty and he doesn't wanna lose her? (Whereas he never had her in the first place)

Hence her higher faculties degrade and she gradually loses the ability to critically think.
She will increase in her mastery of craftiness in confusing men, but she will lose intelligence in other fields.
That is why you always see them around topics on sex, relationships.and so on. That's the only place they know whats up

This trend continues through their teenage years into their 20s and it blooms into the way they like to use SM nowadays to advertise their wares and seek attention

When they clock 27-30 and their looks start winding down, they will revert back to their original settings (since the power of their looks are gone now) and they immediately adopt a new facade to get their way, Religion.

A religious mask if well worn will make people not judge her and also trust and like her more, and that is a good thing because a person who trusts you will want to do favours for you e.g. suggesting marriage to the unsuspecting man who thinks he has finally found a gem whereas it's a game she's been playing since she was 13.

The only way to halt this Trainwreck of a situation from developing is if a strong external force (aka a highly disciplined father/father figure) forces her to stop depending on her looks to get her way and actually make her develop her mental faculties. This is why the geeky girls in medicine and engineering tend to be way less slutty than their counterparts studying fine art and music in the university (no offence to the artists and musicians out there)

Speedy speedy
You have dropped another gem today

SapaProMax:
Where did it all go wrong?

Fine Naija girls on Insta and X. I go just slide in their dms. It's easy for them to reply me cos the boy is fine and I don Japa tey tey. My problem is this; Many of them can't hold a good conversation. Like they literally have nothing interesting to talk about. Some don't even have short or long term plans. Some of y'all should add words like daft, unintelligent, uninformed or slow to your bio

Likes attract likes.

Instead of you to say you are only attractied to d@ft ladies cos you are obviously d@ft yourself, you want to use one umbrella to cover millions of women.

Don't you read what your fellow Nairaland men comment and post on a daily basis? Aren't 99 percent of them downright imbeci!c? But the comments no go shock you cos you join dem with thier warped mindset..

Your fellow men from China and US are developing lives and making world discoveries making thier countries superpowers but you Nigerian men only know how to vote bad leaders and bash Nigerian women. So much for being Albert Einsteins.

DKM123:


Likes attract likes.

Instead of you to say you are only attractied to d@ft ladies cos you are obviously d@ft yourself, you want to use one umbrella to cover millions of women.

Don't you read what your fellow Nairaland men comment and post on a daily basis? Aren't 99 percent of them downright imbeci!c? But the comments no go shock you cos you join dem with thier warped mindset..

Your fellow men from China and US are developing lives and making world discoveries making thier countries superpowers but you Nigerian men only know how to vote bad leaders and bash Nigerian women. So much for being Albert Einsteins.

Ode. I work at NASA

Jobless

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SapaProMax:

Ode. I work at NASA

No wonder...National Association of Stupid Assholes (NASA)

speedy0420:
When young girls develop into their teenage years, they begin to realize more and more how easy it is for them to get their way with the things of life just because of their LOOKS

And when they finally realize how powerful that tool at their disposal truly is, they rely on it full force because
1. It's easy and
2. Their parents (most especially the mothers) encourage it and even gives them fine tuned instructions on how they can use it to get their way with daddy and the boys in her area/school. This will even make her mastery of her craft even faster and easier

However, this comes at a cost
Her total investment into mastering the power of her looks will make her (almost always intentionally) neglect the other more difficult but more rewarding and long lasting ways of getting the things you want in life e.g. becoming smarter and more analytical in solving problems

Why should she strive to become the top dog in her class and win the Scholarship money so that she can buy that dress/purse she's being eyeing for a long time when she can just latch onto one mumu boy that will give her all the money she wants just necause she's pretty and he doesn't wanna lose her? (Whereas he never had her in the first place)

Hence her higher faculties degrade and she gradually loses the ability to critically think.
She will increase in her mastery of craftiness in confusing men, but she will lose intelligence in other fields.
That is why you always see them around topics on sex, relationships.and so on. That's the only place they know whats up

This trend continues through their teenage years into their 20s and it blooms into the way they like to use SM nowadays to advertise their wares and seek attention

When they clock 27-30 and their looks start winding down, they will revert back to their original settings (since the power of their looks are gone now) and they immediately adopt a new facade to get their way, Religion.

A religious mask if well worn will make people not judge her and also trust and like her more, and that is a good thing because a person who trusts you will want to do favours for you e.g. suggesting marriage to the unsuspecting man who thinks he has finally found a gem whereas it's a game she's been playing since she was 13.

The only way to halt this Trainwreck of a situation from developing is if a strong external force (aka a highly disciplined father/father figure) forces her to stop depending on her looks to get her way and actually make her develop her mental faculties. This is why the geeky girls in medicine and engineering tend to be way less slutty than their counterparts studying fine art and music in the university (no offence to the artists and musicians out there)

I agree with your submission, but what of girls that are ugly & still dull (unintelligent)?

Any explanation for that?

TimFisher2:




Wow. You must be intelligent.


You explained it all. In fact, you must be Chinua Achebe. It was as if I was reading an interesting novel.


Now back to the topic. I know you will have the answer to this since you gave us a comprehensive problem/ or root cause facing girls of these days.


Now what are the solutions?

Is it still possible for single guys to get married to girls with a high IQ, and if Yes. Where do we find them?


Or are we going to end up with all these dummies littering around?


What does the future hold for us?

My brother I feel your pain and due to age and since I find it hard to get the once with high IQ and I need a child 🙁 I have to choose one with d hope of changing if I nurture her..

Thank God I have 2 children now
But she is still a dullard and am thinking of divorce soon 😢

SapaProMax:

Ode. I work at NASA

Shatty my man how far? Are you shatty?