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Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by illicit(m): 10:48am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Emperormartin: Yeah I don't see anything wrong with what the guy did She over reacted 9 Likes |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Emperormartin(m): 10:50am On Oct 28, 2023 |
I'll advise you to start having a sexual relationship especially with younger men or be a sugar mummy to someone then when the boy is ready to move allow him to leave... I promise you that boy will not forget the good things you did to him while growing up. He might even become a son to you which you might not have. You can start with virgin/near virgin boys that are ready to have sex 2 Likes |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by folake4u(f): 10:50am On Oct 28, 2023 |
obembet: đđđđđ 5 Likes |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by bluefilm: 10:51am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: I really envy your audacity. Mind you, that is not a compliment. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by LordIsaac(m): 10:51am On Oct 28, 2023 |
From age 60 and above, the consequences of some earlier decisions become clear⌠5 Likes |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Jewessgratitud3: 10:52am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Nextt: Thanks dear. I appreciate. I will try to stop bashing them if they respect themselves otherwise na me and them 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by dododawa1: 10:52am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Problem Full EVERYWHERE 1 Like |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Savedday2: 10:53am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Anytime Ashawo give quotes, na to suit themselves. This one don write episode with mumu quotes to make herself feel better. At the end of the day, she go still go wet her pillow with tears and use cucumber to scatter her pekus. 19 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by bekpo(m): 10:53am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Those men just dotch bullets. 12 Likes |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by VerifiedGadgets: 10:53am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:Some things are Gods way of being God. Its not like you are the only one in this whole wide world, sister. God promise all happy ending. May it not come after our time! Your strength is out of this world though. 1 Like |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by lavylilly: 10:55am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Newborn27:BabyMama thins na |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Puss360(f): 10:55am On Oct 28, 2023 |
ecolime:pains behind your write up... Are you trying to bullying her into admitting what you want to hear even if it not the truth 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Ensa777(f): 10:55am On Oct 28, 2023 |
It is only when you are in marriage that you notice it's much more work than being single. I dey like live my life on my terms but marriage has and is still bending me. My partner dey hear am too. Sometimes when I watch those dancing on Saturdays to officially enter it,I just dey SMH. If not for home training ,I just want to have 2 kids and travel the world without someone always asking me"What of the kids?" Each time I pack for a conference or training or telling me "we need to try for a girl." I want to spend time conducting researches. I want to make money and be a great aunt! To read again the way I used to.The way I used to be in solitude and immerse myself in books.Chai! Nigerian men are stressful ,they will find a way to gaslight you even when they are seeing pepper in their own Jewessgratitude,I hope you live your happiness,whether married or not. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Think9ja(m): 10:56am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Bluearrow: More like saying she doesn't care whether she's rich or poor simply because she hasn't tasted wealth. She said she doesn't regret her decisions one bit but want people to learn. The question is learn what exactly? 16 Likes |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Harddiskng(m): 10:56am On Oct 28, 2023 |
soccerlite: At 70 she would still be writing same related story. You can always tell from what she has written. Some people nothing is their fault. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by DND069: 10:57am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Nawa for some nairaland guys. Person post her story, una dey bash her. Can't you guys respect people's decision. Why must one be pressurised to fit in a game he/she doesn't wanna play. More women will hide in their shells as you guys become more judgemental. 10 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Kaido: 10:57am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Emperormartin:Evil man 2 Likes |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Jewessgratitud3: 10:57am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Harddiskng: I don't get what you mean by situation one deserves.. is not being married a death sentence or bad situation? Your mentality is so warped. If of all the problems in the world, being single is what you see as a problem then you need to get your brain checked because people like you small thing dey lead una into depression and suicide. I have never and will never see me as being in any situation of life. I'm perfectly ok and doing great. If you see singlehood as a situational thing, then you need help. Please get one ASAP. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by FOLYKAZE(m): 10:58am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Puss360(f): 10:58am On Oct 28, 2023 |
worksmart:Is having a child a must? Children doesn't guarantee a high standard of living.. children does guarantee long life.. children doesn't guarantee living a well satisfied life... So why should she have kids when obviously she said she doesn't need them... Live and let live 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Emperormartin(m): 10:58am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Gratefullheart:With her profile she will be good as an older women younger men relationship. The relationship that lasted long according to her was that choir boy... Which she can harness again from church organization. A smart younger guy dating her will just play his role well devoid of sex... It'll be hard on the guy though but they'll definitely enjoy the relationship. Sex will definitely start happening. This kind of relationship might be uncommon in our country but silently it's beginning to happen 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Ensa777(f): 10:59am On Oct 28, 2023 |
DND069: It is normal for them.Eveey thread that doesn't bash Nigerian women doesn't make them happy. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by CandyOps(m): 10:59am On Oct 28, 2023 |
abobote: Not depression per se but the loneliness. My guy the loneliness will hit you like wtf! You go feel sick no one to hold you, down. You go masturbate tire and this is the main cause of being single. You give away your sexual energy to yourself. But all this is temporal if she has family within trekking distance 3 Likes |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Harddiskng(m): 11:00am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: It is not a death sentence. Living your happiness, stop writing like youâre some sort of victim. Inviting us to your pity party. Or now you want the whole world to know you rejected men your whole life but you are still searching and you are happy? All the contradictions, I donât get it lool 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by BigYash: 11:01am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Everybody with his or her own choice of life o.. At some point in life,person go understand say having children of you'd own is important.. Although I didn't read the text book.. |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Dougad: 11:01am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Is this mercychen? 1 Like |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by ThatCEO: 11:02am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:3ice9ce A person whose first instinct is to run away at d first sight of trouble isn't matured enough to be in a relationship, forget d age. Do not date anyone, you will frustrate the person. The guys who you said begged you to no avail... it's not because they r guilty, it's because they can't find closure on how a human being can behave like you. They are using their normal human brain to try understand your own mentally damaged brain. It's kind of why Hamas has a lot of support, because normal humans can't fathom that a terrorists brain is so damaged that it will go n kill innocent people with such barbarism. So they can't even believe Hamas committed any crime. The good thing is you won't regret not having a husband so forget about what most nairaland will say. But I guarantee it, you will regret not having your own child. 16 Likes |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by CandyOps(m): 11:04am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Emperormartin: Ashawo boy. All man I know wey get Emperor as Name na ashawo boy normally lol Emperormartin: I was about to say the same. I say, the worse thing wey go happen to you as man na to jam babe wey done swear say she no ever gree you knack. Lol đ¤Łđ¤Ł na the man go carry all this thing I dey feel for 2 Likes |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Jewessgratitud3: 11:04am On Oct 28, 2023 |
abobote: For you and your likes who see singlehood as a plague but go ahead and marry problems and divorce under 1 year or run a d abandon your family because you can't cope with responsibilities. Go and check the statics of married men who have dumped their family and run away. Which is a problem and is supposed to cause depression between these two situations? Every body sha wan talk. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Godwin4444: 11:04am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:though I really donât have nothing against u but my problem with u is that u present marriage as bad in majority of your post If u ainât posting about your cousins troubled marriage today u are busy talking down on marriage on another thread Stop talking down on marriage madam 12 Likes |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by casualobserver: 11:04am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Bluearrow: Exactly. This is just a self consolation epistle. The reality is that at 42, even if she wants to marry (which deep down she does). She will struggle to find a man. Women should not deceive themselves. No 42yr old woman has âsuitorsâ. A man going after a 42 yr old woman is not looking for marriage. At that age the men chasing you are either already married or want to marry a younger women or are divorced. At 42, it is a woman who does the âsuitingâ. At 42 the only option to find a man is to settle for what you turned down in your youth except this time you are the 2nd wife or side chick whereas you were the main chick in your youth. It is unfortunate that by the time many women realize the realities of dating and matching, it is too late for them. Women do not find husbands like we like to say, men find wives and the age window for a woman to be âfoundâ is limited. Life lessons for women. A woman is like fresh fish in the market and a man is like the buyer. There is a limited period when the fish remains fresh and can command competition amongst buyers and the best price in the market. If the seller doesnât strike a deal with a buyer within that period, by evening you will end up discounting the fish and still no buyers or forced to eat your fish yourself, give it out for free or throw them away. So when the fruit is still Fresh, if the price is reasonable you take it because tomorrow there will be new fresh fish and nobody wants your fish anymore. The difference between a woman and a man is that 1). The quality of your fish goes down by the minute 2) you have a limited period to strike a deal with a good buyer, whereas for a man if he goes to market and his money cannot buy good fish today, he can go home work harder and raise the money to buy good fish tomorrow. The market seller (Women) should remember when their fish is fresh that they are not the only ones in the market with fish, so when you have fresh fish and have competition for your fish, you must strike a deal or else there may never get an opportunity to tell the fish, certainly if you donât sell while it is fresh, if you manage to sell it will never be at the price you were offered when fresh and which you rejected. So coming after the market has closed with epistle nobody asked you for about how you like the taste of your fish is as they say story for the gods, everybody knows you are eating your fish because there are no buyers. The problem with many mature women who are still marriable is that they are still pricing their fish at the same price as fresh fish. After 35 you canât have the same expectations (price) as you had when you were 25. You didnât get that price when it was fresh how do you expect to get the same price when it isnât fresh and there is new stock of fresh fish in the market? 25 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by starpower(m): 11:04am On Oct 28, 2023 |
[quote author=yesloaded post=126659930][/quote] Am married o but let be honest I behave to some extent this way just lucky we are working on it and it working. Life too short to live by many people confusion. Wishing you well ma |
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