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Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by moneyissweet(m): 10:23am On Nov 05, 2023 |
No issues,just make more money |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by BiGVEEN58(m): 10:24am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Curiouscity: Dem put gun for your head? 1 Like |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by JohnAOne: 10:25am On Nov 05, 2023 |
seyigiggle:You must have subconsciously created your circumstances that lead to this. Are you yourself a lastborn? |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by joyandfaith: 10:25am On Nov 05, 2023 |
missimelda01: Are your siblings girls or boys? Boys are much easier to manage than girls. I think try to have independent thinking when conversing with potential suitors. They want to know if you can differentiate between necessary and unnecessary responsibilities. 1 Like |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by Lexusgs430: 10:25am On Nov 05, 2023 |
missimelda01: The men, are simply not men enough...... A real man should have the abilities, to control all family dynamics......... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by Allisgud: 10:27am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Curiouscity:why won't they be down to earth,if it was the opposite ur name for be gold digger |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by ojonugba2014(m): 10:27am On Nov 05, 2023 |
My 1 cent advice is. If u are a broke nigga, avoid first Born like a plague. U are warned ⚠️ 3 Likes |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by cheeseballs: 10:31am On Nov 05, 2023 |
missimelda01:I did a video on this on tiktok. Just search JOSEPHOCONNORS99 you will find the video |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by Olarewaju89: 10:35am On Nov 05, 2023 |
missimelda01: Then, you are yet to morning right? |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by zumbigbo(m): 10:35am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Not just if you are the first child but if the prospective husband is marrying a woman who is the first to get married out of all of her siblings, wahala don land. He go become LinkedIn by force 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by maxiuc(m): 10:35am On Nov 05, 2023 |
That's what I am about to enter now she's the first daughter and first child of 6children, her mother s trader and her Dad a driver but you know sometimes them go dey disturb her for this and that... Firstly I will give the mum 300k to add to her business and her Dad I will gift him a mini bus since he drives for someone and I will give them my reasons for empowering them because me I like to be plain with people I don't want a Case whereby everyday send this send that 5 Likes |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by Cutehector(m): 10:36am On Nov 05, 2023 |
The problem with girls of nowadays be say dem no wan calm down respect man wey dem dey date. Why will he marry you when all you do is puff up? Tell the nigga see guy, i know say i be first daughter but make you no fear, my family wont be a liability to you whatsover and i wont begin to cause unnecessary family financial issues for you to bear, but in whatever way you can assist, no matter how small, it wont be taken for granted and i will always appreciate your efforts. Him head go swell, and he will do the needful knowing that he is marrying a first daughter wey no lazy and then wey dey appreciative. 5 Likes |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by Allisgud: 10:38am On Nov 05, 2023 |
First daughter from a well to do homes na wahala,na ur house her siblings go dey spend their holiday,play play they will become permanent citizens,the solution is to establish ur wife or look for a job for her with the agreement to settle her family needs |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by achimendy(m): 10:40am On Nov 05, 2023 |
missimelda01: Not just housing your relatives but also catering for their needs. I have a friend who also got married to a first child in a family of 17 children, and she's just 23 years of age. And they're poor, just imagine the unending demands from them. My guy got angry of the whole thing because they're always demanding from him. So he sent her to learn tailoring so wen she's done he will open her own shop for her, then she can be catering for her family needs. So my dear that's the main issue o. 2 Likes |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by zebszebs: 10:40am On Nov 05, 2023 |
If she is the first born and is Igbo? My brother run o!!! 1 Like |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by Blackdisciple(m): 10:40am On Nov 05, 2023 |
I'm single but the truth is she will put her biological family first before her own family, her siblings will turn your house to like I can come to my Sis at anytime even without prior notification. You will cater for them with out complain but let just one of your siblings come around you will see the hatred and bitterness. I mean you will not have rest of mind Sorry am just saying oo 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by achimendy(m): 10:42am On Nov 05, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: Did anybody said something is wrong with her? 1 Like |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by Chetas81(m): 10:42am On Nov 05, 2023 |
GBÉSÉ BECAUSE YOU WILL TAKE CARE OF WHAT YOU DON'T THINK OF 1 Like |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by Blackdisciple(m): 10:42am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Curiouscity: Omoh oga you try oo, so what about your own siblings?? |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by achimendy(m): 10:43am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by viceddy95(m): 10:45am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Curiouscity:I hope you are doing for your family as well… |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by lexzyy(m): 10:48am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Allisgud:Fact not sentiment. |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by Ndidi2: 10:56am On Nov 05, 2023 |
poshestmina:my family pattern too God bless us.. 1 Like |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by kaymart: 11:03am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Curiouscity:So, would you advice men to follow suite? |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by tete7000(m): 11:07am On Nov 05, 2023 |
missimelda01: Including your little sister or brother? If you like your space and privacy to the point of nit willing to take in your young siblings if need be, it makes you evil more dangerous. If you reject your own, you won't have any qualm rejecting those from your husband's side and you are going to hand over the same belief to the children making them toxic and unaccomodating. |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by Chizigreat(m): 11:11am On Nov 05, 2023 |
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Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by Primebuilders(m): 11:16am On Nov 05, 2023 |
I married first girl child my problem is that she sees me as one of her little siblings she will control and micro manage. That's is the greatest problem I am having in my marriage now. It have been war 2 Likes |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by GloriousGbola: 11:16am On Nov 05, 2023 |
blaise26abj: By implication, women should also ask the same question for the same reason. So they too do not marry a guy who already has multiple responsibilities 1 Like |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by Exceed15: 11:17am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Two things Are involved: 1. They are used to giving order which means they can be vauthoritative. 2. They have lots of responsibilities on their shoulders. 2 Likes |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by mightyhaze: 11:19am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Mine is not just the first ,but the overall first child And only girl .. And we doing real great 1 Like |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by awofemi26(m): 11:19am On Nov 05, 2023 |
[quote author=MrBrownJay1 post=85629278] stop hanging around immature insecure men... there is nothing wrong with you. U that is mature why not go after her Mumu looking for validation Woman wrapper |
Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by Caleycash(m): 11:19am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Curiouscity:Omo leave her ooo, for your own sanity!, her focus should be her immediate family once married!, finally when you wreck same family will bad mouth you and dump you, use your number 6! 2 Likes |
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