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Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by sexiestharam(f): 6:17pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
justmi1:You have just not had enough reason to come out. I was extremely shy too. But the jobs I have gotten needed interaction with people. I had to overcome it to succeed at work. You can also pray about it. See yourself the way God sees you. Low self esteem is a factor too. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by PinkNature(m): 6:20pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Firstly, what's your age? if you're a teen, then it's normal. |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by Maxtipulation(m): 6:21pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
whitejs:Are you a M or F ? |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by jahguide2268(m): 6:23pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Op, know dis and know peace. We are who we are. We can't fight it BT we can work with it. Mine is so bad dat it affects my voice when my heart beats fast, I become non- audible. Am planning to go off- grid in my village, invest in agriculture, plant natural marijuana cos it is d best herb for our condition and wait till d Almighty takes bk d life. Our condition looks like a curse, but self isolation ain't bad. Live and prepare 4 d afterlife. living in dis part of d world is already a curse 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by Naijayouth(m): 6:24pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
jackmrandy: I gist with my friends normally but when called on stage to speak, it's a different story. I have been opportuned to lead songs in the choir at church and the experience is like hell! 1 Like |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by jclassiq(m): 6:25pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
I'd say see a psychologist but everything they will tell are things some peeps are already telling you here on this group: Socialize, socialize, socialize. Like someone said, join a group. Maybe church, maybe volunteer group, maybe football, maybe boxing group, maybe any group basically. You have social phobia/anxiety disorder. 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by Odebayo4010(m): 6:26pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
darealez: I was also like that |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by maak400: 6:34pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Learn digital skills that can secure you a remote work, remote work will allow you to work from home and you won't have to speak in public. whitejs: 1 Like |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by jaxxy(m): 6:35pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
whitejs:. Work on urself and ur communication skills privately then u can apply it publicly. Don't be in a hurry to make a show of ur self in public when u haven't prepared urself properly in private. u can only give what u have or have prepared adequately for.. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by AMI3(m): 6:37pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
[quote author=iamyemiakins post=126824482]You're experiencing Social Anxiety Disorder. Try to join a workforce (church, school etc.) or volunteer group to boost your self-confidence. Meanwhile, kindly copy and paste (close the gaps) the link below to join my WhatsApp group (Introvert Lounge), let's deliberate more on this issue. https://chat. whatsapp.com/LHCiMxcHtxi9rVkeqv5qUu[/qu ote] Add me 08154933420 |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by SimonRose(m): 6:41pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
jackmrandy: 2 Likes
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Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by phemmyfour: 6:48pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
whitejs:If you love football, start going to a viewing centre Take up leadership roles in church, school, your neighbourhood etc Start by addressing few, perhaps people in your neighbourhood 1 Like |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by Nobody: 6:49pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
whitejs: You can use that as an advantage. Be that cool calm person that people will want to listen to, learn and build yourself on a range of subjects. But still, learn to talk not loudly but effectively. Learn to look people in the eye when talking, just that is enough to command respect despite being shy. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by mukthar2000(m): 7:07pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Op social Media have make things easier, u can be working directly from home like one state governor said to limit ur shyness. But mind u, a day we come that u would face crowd that u might not able to escape ooo. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by Tijani009: 7:23pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Which state you day make we hang out 1 Like |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by finebois(m): 7:24pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
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Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by HateBigots: 7:24pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
It is okay to be shy in certain situations... but do not be a pushover 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by Ed12(m): 7:29pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
You need your guts 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by bigman001(m): 7:34pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
whitejs: Definitely you cant go for a job interview comfortably then? |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by shedy03(m): 7:37pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
whitejs:How old can you be? Me, in my late 40's but still experience same. e no easy. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by occfx: 7:46pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
parkervero: Exactly what I did 1 Like |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by Damilola20000: 7:49pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
I was once like that why I became like was as a result of what I was going right from age 11 went to abuse from parent , nobody to share your pain with, parent don go their separate ways, was struggling to feed,No friends I overcame it by joining a department in church so I started developing relationship with people It was so bad to the extent that I don't see any good about my self. Those time if I do something and If some says I love what u did It gives me lot of joy 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by MisterKennedy(m): 7:58pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
whitejs: You're just like me... You're not in this together... But it's something you have to fight... I'm still fighting mine each and every day. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by whitejs: 8:10pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Maxtipulation: M |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by whitejs: 8:13pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
PinkNature: I'm not a teen |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by ManyThanks: 8:19pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Freelancerr:are you around abuja. I eed a data entry teacher. |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by mohammedmuz: 8:28pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
You re ok dear, & i can affirm theres nothing wrong with you. You may be easily pissed off among crowd that doesnt mean u re not normal & u wont be successful. Infact, there're more successful quiet pple than d sparky ones, just that they dont generate attention. The loud takes high world's overall population ratio, reason why they expect everybody to be like them. You can only be influenced but unchangeable. There re many factors that contributes to personality majorly; hereditary, upbringing, enviroment, experience, work nature & lots more. You know urself than anyone, choose carreer(s) that match ur personality & see urself succeed. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by Quinniscent(m): 8:34pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
whitejs:I was almost like that but I realized that as I was becoming a man, I had to step up my game by building my confidence, and my social life although I don't mingle with crowd but that doesn't mean I can't speak when the need arises I'm good at engaging in movies and political debates while sometimes I'll just keep quiet and observe Anyways, working on yourself is a gradual process that you should begin now, don't rush searching for friends, focus more on your personal development and like-minded people will be attracted to you that could boost your status in life This is how I see Life and You can learn a thing or two from it 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by Olabode211: 8:46pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
you can stay indoor a year+ and enter guiness record. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by sheddyboy01(m): 9:17pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Ibime:Don't try this, that drug would dash you free Erectile Dysfunction. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by sheddyboy01(m): 9:20pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
FriendsAndFans:One of the side effects is Erectile Dysfunction, drug shouldn't be an option 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Extremely Shy - SAD - Can I Succeed Like This by Brownbetsport24: 9:56pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
This idea is crazy but na best damn thing Do danfo conductor for Lagos for 3day Let see how it goes 2 Likes |
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