galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.

My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.

Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.

Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention.

nairagenone:

Kobo, stop being half clever here.
There is a difference between single by choice and single cos no one wants to marry you and all you have are only guys who wants to sleep with you.
I myself in my late 30s just started planning for marriage, earlier if you asked me why I was not married I'd say I'd never found a wife but the truth is there were countless ladies who would marry me in a heartbeat if I asked them to but for some reasons I was not ready.

So it's not the situation for men and women is different, stop letting your feminist disposition becloud your judgement, I am sure you get what I am saying but just deliberately trying to skew the facts here.

DavidEsq:

Just look at this illiterate werey! U expect me to bring down your delusional El dorado with a detailed rebuttal? Not worth it. I've seen this happen too many times to bother going all over the cause again and again. It has predictable twist to it and due to the nature of my job that has exposed me to this terrain, I just shake my head, hoot and move on. In a couple of years from now, u will be back here to spill a lot of crap that I'm already familiar with.

galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.

My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.

Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.

Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention.

naijapikin2:
Even at this point in time it's better to cancel than to live in crisis as couples.

I'm married but majority of the time I wish I had cancelled our wedding. Now it's much more difficult and complicated. These quarrels are little foxes than will eventually spoil the marriage.

In my own case I did much to cancel it but emotions found a way to creep in.. so I just use pity enter.. now I have become the object of pity..

Tell your bro if he can run, run o.. if he can flee better flee o. But if he decides to remain then he MUST be prepared to WORK IT OUT.

Shalom 🙏🙏🙏🙏

nairagenone:
A woman is threatening a man that she will cancel the marriage in 2023 and the man is begging ?
Definitely, your brother will wear the skirt through out the life of that marriage.

For the wife to be to threaten him shows she is not into the marriage and marrying him out of pity. He will suffer in that marriage just like the f.ools before him who have enterred into a marriage without exerting authority and respect.

The lady already sees him as a weak and spineless man, what pains me most is the lady may even have body counts in the double digits.

Men, learn from this story, if a woman cannot respect you just like Sarah did to Abraham, dont put yourself in such bondage.

Go to shiloh, countless single women looking fpr husbands, men learn this, you are the prize.

Stop making a fool of yourselves like the OPs brother.

Villa12:
I know a man earning close to 2M monthly. He is 41 and still searching for a wife. Most girls only date him but doesn't want to marry him. The girl he sent to school (polytechnic) still dump him for a guy that earn less than him

Did you know Why? His character. If you doubt me, you can send me a DM and i will take you to meet the guy. This is someone that is doing pretty fine for himself but still struggling to get a wife. I only know about men struggling financially having issues getting a wife. I was surprised to see someone doing fine having same issue

nairagenone:
A woman is threatening a man that she will cancel the marriage in 2023 and the man is begging ?
Definitely, your brother will wear the skirt through out the life of that marriage.

For the wife to be to threaten him shows she is not into the marriage and marrying him out of pity. He will suffer in that marriage just like the f.ools before him who have enterred into a marriage without exerting authority and respect.

The lady already sees him as a weak and spineless man, what pains me most is the lady may even have body counts in the double digits.

Men, learn from this story, if a woman cannot respect you just like Sarah did to Abraham, dont put yourself in such bondage.

Go to shiloh, countless single women looking fpr husbands, men learn this, you are the prize.

Stop making a fool of yourselves like the OPs brother.

Tayorshd87:


YES U ARE 100% CORRECT I was also looking for a particular class until I have to choose below my class just to break d curse of my village people of not getting a wife at age 43 😂😆😂
My brother am now a father of two and am happy Abt that just that I didn't marry the kind of spec am willing to and it's giving me a technical issue till date 🙁☹️

Tayorshd87:


YES u may be correct because the issue of getting a wife and a woman u can settle with is more than just financial commitment.. I was in a similar shoe some years ago until I made up my mind just to impreg6a lady I don't really love but just normal likeness Al because I need a child 🙁☹️


my brother ur money doesn't determine u marry d woman of ur life or rather have d love of ur life sometimes u just have to take life the way it programmed urs for u ..

That's life

galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.

My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.

Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.

Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention.

Tayorshd87:


YES U ARE 100% CORRECT I was also looking for a particular class until I have to choose below my class just to break d curse of my village people of not getting a wife at age 43 😂😆😂
My brother am now a father of two and am happy Abt that just that I didn't marry the kind of spec am willing to and it's giving me a technical issue till date 🙁☹️

Tayorshd87:


YES U ARE 100% CORRECT I was also looking for a particular class until I have to choose below my class just to break d curse of my village people of not getting a wife at age 43 😂😆😂
My brother am now a father of two and am happy Abt that just that I didn't marry the kind of spec am willing to and it's giving me a technical issue till date 🙁☹️

nairagenone:

The bolded is his problem, trying to entice women with money.
In this day and age where multiple women are crying on the internet daily for lack of husband, have you ever seen a man cry on the internet for lack of wife ?
Albinos, hunch back, handicapped men are all getting married even dwarf men are married to taller women, so if a man says he is unable to find a wife, he is either looking for a class that is above him or he has unrealistic expectations.

dominique:
Who gets married on saturday and goes off to work on Monday? He should have applied for leave around the time of the wedding so he can spend time with his wife as newlyweds

nairagenone:

In my opinion, the most important thing for a man is peace of mind.
No woman is perfect, so just highlight what is important to you and check if a lady ticks 70 percent, if she does then go for her.

For me, I was looking for -> fidelity, respect, good family orientation(especially her moms personality), godly and loves God , lastly she must not be olosho(very important). Please what is the full meaning of SU babe

On my journey searching, I saw plenty things because of my requirements I started going after SU looking babes, my brother, wetin my eye see shock me.
Even deeperlife babes some of them I slept with them same day they came to my house... I just dey shake my head.

Las las I met a lady who is SU, and she con be virgin and as I dey follow her talk she con get sense, theres always a level of risk but with this babe I was ready to risk it and since I made that decision I have never regretted it.

She doesnt have money and comes from a very humble background but to me thats a credit, cos many ladies in her shoes would have used that as an excuse to start doing hookup...

Enough of ranting and back to your question... I think you should consider marrying your baby mama, if you think you can't marry her then find a lady who you think has good morals and values, target the SU looking ladies => deeperlife, mfm, cac etc... But in all remember what the bible says, be wise as serpent but gentle as doves...

I wish you goodluck.

Jamie1000:
Your Brother's story isn't clear. His wedding is on Sunday, yet he plans to be at work on Tuesday. Who does that? There's something fishy... There's more to this than what you just wrote.

pek:
A lot. It might sound syrnage to you but thefe are offices like that. When I was about getting married, I worked in the office till 6pm. In fact, I had people waiting for me in the house. I had to force myself to close and damn the consequences. I resumed work on Wednesday.

maasoap:
■ It all depends on the understanding between the couples, their level of maturity. I came home while serving as a youth corper and left home immediately after the ceremony. Returned home permanently after three months.

Villa12:
I know a man earning close to 2M monthly. He is 41 and still searching for a wife. Most girls only date him but doesn't want to marry him. The girl he sent to school (polytechnic) still dump him for a guy that earn less than him

Did you know Why? His character. If you doubt me, you can send me a DM and i will take you to meet the guy. This is someone that is doing pretty fine for himself but still struggling to get a wife. I only know about men struggling financially having issues getting a wife. I was surprised to see someone doing fine having same issue

mikemike50:
Na village people the try bring querrel like this o. Make he sacrifice and go to the village after the wedding him and the girl go discuss.

IbroMaka:
■ You think women care about character
I guarantee most women will marry a man earning 2M monthly and won't give a ratass about his character.