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Give them Hamas treatment or stfu

Bullying is bad. But you have to stand your ground most times. Learn to ignore! In my place of work, my line supervisor tried it on me both verbally and nonverbal but I stood my ground she came to accept reality. Though she badmouthed me to others but I don't care! So guy, ignore and face your study with renewed strength and determination.

So sorry for everything that you are going through, please kindly contact any unit of army around you, tell them your problem and I am sure ,the will assist you

Talk to someone of authority in the school.

rockok:

A polytechnic. By mainly fellow students in the hostel and around the campus for my looks and that such kind of looks doesn't deserve to get what I want. This is the worst kind of bullying I have ever received. It has reduced my confidence and my ability to study. I used to be a programmer but they eventually spoilt my PC I believe. And you know I need to be okay to work with a PC especially Since I was interested in Algorithms and problem solving. I am not the same person I was before. This is the worst academic environment ever. I just wish I could leave and find my true self again

Always remember that, your present institution is not Yr permanent abode. Remember that you just have a few years to be there, remember that all you need do is sit tight and scale through, get the needed knowledge and all those who mock you now will worship or come to beg you later. This is the reality

Sorry about you being bullied, it's wrong and it is harmful but the truth is we live in a very brutal world and you need to learn to adapt to situations as bullying doesn't only happen in school and social circles, it happen everywhere and you will need to do a bit of self reflection to see what you are doing that keeps encouraging that behavior towards you.

You can't be a sheep in the midst of wolves and then ask why they keep salivating when they see you, show them your fangs too.

You probably have a behavioral pattern wherein you don't react when stuff happens and you let it slide, to the bullies that is akin to blood in the water amidst sharks, check yourself well and stop doing things that encourage them.

You said they spoilt your PC, if such happened to me personally I am not bragging but omo we go fight and I must injure somebody or them go pay me, I tend to avoid wahala but if wahala come sef then no wahala.

You need to be dangerous and let them know it.

You can't reason with bullies, you need to give them the same energy.

you might want to hit the gym and build your physical appearance

thank me later

rockok:
How does bullying affect someone in an environment especially academic environment. I am actually in an academic environment and I am being bullied. I believe it is having an impact on me.

I am thinking of leaving but I have spent a lot of money and don't want to leave. I want someone opinion on what to do?

they spoil your pc personal computer

report to police
if nothing good is done

cut one for neck with cutlass

Soft kids these days. During my time as a child I gave no one that chance to bully me, even with my small stature. We go rough am o. When I reported to my dad and he laughed at me, I know say omo, na either u beat me or we die there o.

Stand up for yourself.
It's either u bully or are being bullied.

BXNX:
Are you a cultist or intending..cos I no understand this your tory

He or she definitely sounds so weird.

Children of nowadays are just so over pampered.

rockok:

A polytechnic. By mainly fellow students in the hostel and around the campus for my looks and that such kind of looks doesn't deserve to get what I want. This is the worst kind of bullying I have ever received. It has reduced my confidence and my ability to study. I used to be a programmer but they eventually spoilt my PC I believe. And you know I need to be okay to work with a PC especially Since I was interested in Algorithms and problem solving. I am not the same person I was before. This is the worst academic environment ever. I just wish I could leave and find my true self again

Stand up to them and give them back in their own coin. You see the issue with bullies is that they are cowards and will run away when you give it to them back.

But the moment you let them know you are afraid of them,they get more happy and empowered. If they destroy your PC, destroy theirs too. Them dey craze.

They didn't start today,they started as being kids bully and their parents telling them to continue,but you have to fight back and destroy everything or else you will be taken for a fool



FIGHT BACK!!!

mrdharkchild:
Soft kids these days. During my time as a child I gave no one that chance to bully me, even with my small stature. We go rough am o. When I reported to my dad and he laughed at me, I know say omo, na either u beat me or we die there o.

Stand up for yourself.
It's either u bully or are being bullied.

This dude here gets it.

Omo we go dig am, don't be caught being a softie.

mrdharkchild:
Soft kids these days. During my time as a child I gave no one that chance to bully me, even with my small stature. We go rough am o. When I reported to my dad and he laughed at me, I know say omo, na either u beat me or we die there o.

Stand up for yourself.
It's either u bully or are being bullied.

me too, id rather die than be bullied...unless say na case of armed robbery where d person carry gun..

rockok:

A polytechnic. By mainly fellow students in the hostel and around the campus for my looks and that such kind of looks doesn't deserve to get what I want. This is the worst kind of bullying I have ever received. It has reduced my confidence and my ability to study. I used to be a programmer but they eventually spoilt my PC I believe. And you know I need to be okay to work with a PC especially Since I was interested in Algorithms and problem solving. I am not the same person I was before. This is the worst academic environment ever. I just wish I could leave and find my true self again

i initially thought you wanted to write an episode about your child being bullied in school.

Listen stand for yourself. Protect your prestige. At initial stage in my secondary school, I was bullied, until I rose to be the bully myself. University was a different case as I was nicknamed “**the bully”

If you have never confronted your bullies before please leave that place, before your parents hear, you were stabbed or something else.

Can you estimate their strength and the appropriate response and other options if it gets out of hand, just be safe in these nigerian polytechnics

Who are bullying you, a group or gangs or cultists. OR just some random animals.

First thing first your safety, gauge your opponents and understand what is appropriate for your bullies.

rockok:

A polytechnic. By mainly fellow students in the hostel and around the campus for my looks and that such kind of looks doesn't deserve to get what I want. This is the worst kind of bullying I have ever received. It has reduced my confidence and my ability to study. I used to be a programmer but they eventually spoilt my PC I believe. And you know I need to be okay to work with a PC especially Since I was interested in Algorithms and problem solving. I am not the same person I was before. This is the worst academic environment ever. I just wish I could leave and find my true self again

I don’t know how or what you look like that people are bullying you? But if you are the one that typed this message and could convey your inner thought in this manner with this conciseness, all I can say is that you only allowed yourself to be bullied. Remember that different situations in life require different approaches. Most of your bullies don’t know half of what you know and can’t even type a sentence that’s not ridden with errors.

You are not a bullied until you accept such. Bleep them off with whatever you have. Bullies want you to reproach them else they will never stop. They don’t stop. They don’t respect the meek. Reproach them with wherever your strength lies. You are in a higher institution and not some primary school man! You can not be this intelligent and allow anyone to take you for a ride. What’s the usefulness of your intelligence then? You are going to find bullies in all facet of life. Na you go stand for yourself ooo no one gets your time in this life. And as u come be man life don already carries you handicap

Tell them off with whatever you have as a strength like i had said, Once again.

rockok:
How does bullying affect someone in an environment especially academic environment. I am actually in an academic environment and I am being bullied. I believe it is having an impact on me.

I am thinking of leaving but I have spent a lot of money and don't want to leave. I want someone opinion on what to do?

How are you being bullied?

rockok:

A polytechnic. By mainly fellow students in the hostel and around the campus for my looks and that such kind of looks doesn't deserve to get what I want. This is the worst kind of bullying I have ever received. It has reduced my confidence and my ability to study. I used to be a programmer but they eventually spoilt my PC I believe. And you know I need to be okay to work with a PC especially Since I was interested in Algorithms and problem solving. I am not the same person I was before. This is the worst academic environment ever. I just wish I could leave and find my true self again

What do you mean you are being bullied because of the way you look?
What’s wrong with your looks? How are you sure the bullying is because of the way you look?
Don’t you have friends in the school, your department and where you live? Are you a loner?

Can’t you stand your ground and confront the person or group of people threatening you? What exactly have you done to them? If you know the people threatening you, why haven’t you reported them to the student affairs?


Be honest….Are you gay and act effeminate?

rockok:

A polytechnic. By mainly fellow students in the hostel and around the campus for my looks and that such kind of looks doesn't deserve to get what I want. This is the worst kind of bullying I have ever received. It has reduced my confidence and my ability to study. I used to be a programmer but they eventually spoilt my PC I believe. And you know I need to be okay to work with a PC especially Since I was interested in Algorithms and problem solving. I am not the same person I was before. This is the worst academic environment ever. I just wish I could leave and find my true self again

Something must have prompted ds bullying of a thing! U need to sit down n trace your path backward. I don't think people will just wake up one day and start bullying you for no reason (s).

It is obvisously u might not want to disclose everything dat happen but u need to tough up

rockok:
How does bullying affect someone in an environment especially academic environment. I am actually in an academic environment and I am being bullied. I believe it is having an impact on me.

I am thinking of leaving but I have spent a lot of money and don't want to leave. I want someone opinion on what to do?

Are your roommates cultists? Maybe they’re bullying you so that you’d join them. Please don’t. Speak to someone in your school about your plight before the situation gets out of hand. In the meantime you should start getting bold whenever they bully you. Stand up to them. I wish I could help you deal with those wankers! Run them things make their eyes see their ears! Be strong!

@Op, I guess your name is something like Henry but look and act like Henrietta…or maybe your name is Stephen but you’ve been acting like Stephanie to your mates.

Say the truth mister.

Op, know your right, fight for it, and stand on it..

rockok:

A polytechnic. By mainly fellow students in the hostel and around the campus for my looks and that such kind of looks doesn't deserve to get what I want. This is the worst kind of bullying I have ever received. It has reduced my confidence and my ability to study. I used to be a programmer but they eventually spoilt my PC I believe. And you know I need to be okay to work with a PC especially Since I was interested in Algorithms and problem solving. I am not the same person I was before. This is the worst academic environment ever. I just wish I could leave and find my true self again

Law 19. Know Who You're Dealing With – Don't Offend the Wrong Person.

Ah cultists
Be very careful.
Can’t you live somewhat far from the school
Or get military/police involved

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Right now, I am thinking of deferring my admission and taking a break. The whole thing has affected my productivity enormously. My mental health is most important to me.

Would I be able to come back when I am okay and start again without paying school fees even though I have spent around a semester plus?[


Bullies love weaklings.
You have by your weak response given power to those bullying you to continue.
So, what will you tell your kids about how to respond to bullying?
You will tell them that you chickened out as the weakling you’re and ran away?
Give your life to Jesus, rediscover your worth in God, report your bullies to the authorities, probably in writing mentioning their names and departments.
So, if you graduate and your colleagues at work bully you you will run and quit your job?
If you build your own house and your neighbours bully you you will desert your house and still run away.
You will never ever be respected by anyone if you’re always running away from challenges, including bullying.
Man up. Stop disgracing your parents, family and friends.
Do the needful.
May you find strength to be the real tough man you’re born to be.

I guess u don't have friends, find their weakness use it against them. U will get beaten ooh...but you have to speak out.

Teach him to fight back ... I was bullied so much due to jealousy, but I fought my way and turned the bullies the bullied

rockok:
How does bullying affect someone in an environment especially academic environment. I am actually in an academic environment and I am being bullied. I believe it is having an impact on me.

I am thinking of leaving but I have spent a lot of money and don't want to leave. I want someone opinion on what to do?

U can't leave because of bullying. Or is it abuse? They are different. If its not a kind of threatening of life in form of abuse or physical assault, don't leave school because of them

U need to Chanel that energy towards ur performance nd make sure u succeed by outperformed them.

U should also start looking down on them! See those bullying as nothing but just bitter fellow. WE CALLED THEM AFAIMONI SENI IN YORUBA LANGUAGE. which means someone who is bent on doing bad to u despite not bn related or close to u.

They are everywhere. Those u r seeing now would not b last set of pple u will meet in ur life. Where are u running to. After school, u will meet their type as neighbors, co-workers, street dwellers, passerby, association members and so on.

The fact remain, everyone cannot be ur friend.

Even if u r the most handsome boy in that ur vicinity, some pple would still hate u nd b showing it to u how much they hate u.

I had this experience through a colleague who thought he's better than me by talking down on me everytime. I showed him how am equal or even better than him in a surprised ways that he fell sick due to the fact that he was shocked with my performance on the same line of activities with him. All his ego nd bossy stuff disappeared nd he had to runaway nd always avoiding me.

Like I said above, u can't escape them, they are everywhere nd u will continue to encounter them.

Start resisting them now earlier by learning how to fight them with ur inner spirit.

U don't need to talk to them to proof them wrong.

Use non verbal communication to pass ur message through to them via ur accomplishments through hardworking, read nd do more research nd come to the top of ur department. It's achievable, get ur self sit at the top of ur grade, score 4.0 or 3.5 and above in ur CGPA.

If I were u, I will even go and show them my results willingly as a form of retaliation.

One day I told a bully how I am fluent in English than him nd he could not defend it nd was surprised and speechless.

Calm down nd show them results in form of retaliation. U will continue to meet their type everywhere, running away is not going to work out.

rockok:

A polytechnic. By mainly fellow students in the hostel and around the campus for my looks and that such kind of looks doesn't deserve to get what I want. This is the worst kind of bullying I have ever received. It has reduced my confidence and my ability to study. I used to be a programmer but they eventually spoilt my PC I believe. And you know I need to be okay to work with a PC especially Since I was interested in Algorithms and problem solving. I am not the same person I was before. This is the worst academic environment ever. I just wish I could leave and find my true self again

Omo. You seen like an idealist, what you think the world is & how actually the world is are two different things....you've to understand most bully are insecure selfish narcissistic individuals, find whatever they're hiding & each time dey try to bully you. Look den straight in the eyes, ask them " Why the trash talking?" For reference say "you know your weakness is xxxxxxx" but I don't go around trash talking you about it. Dey your dey Niggah...but make sure you're ready to go physical sha incase it escalate. Stand up for yourself and earn your respect. Imagine you run away & the next phase someone else begins to bully you? This is the exact toxic environment you need to learn how to deal with Bullies before you move up the ladder of real life with way crazy Bullies who can destroy your mental health in a second

Dont let any animal tell you what you deserve and dont deserve.

Its time you gain back your confidence, but focus on your study, and get the pc repaired or an alternative, and you must not give ground to those animals, you have to put them in their proper context both physically and mentally, but be wise, and dont attract too mucjh attention to yourself in such a toxic atmosphere, who knows they are looking for who to gang on, and if they attacked you all at once it could be fatal.

rockok:

A polytechnic. By mainly fellow students in the hostel and around the campus for my looks and that such kind of looks doesn't deserve to get what I want. This is the worst kind of bullying I have ever received. It has reduced my confidence and my ability to study. I used to be a programmer but they eventually spoilt my PC I believe. And you know I need to be okay to work with a PC especially Since I was interested in Algorithms and problem solving. I am not the same person I was before. This is the worst academic environment ever. I just wish I could leave and find my true self again