Brokendad:


Did you read the entire article? I have gone to see her parents already. The girl just confirmed to me that she never wanted the baby.
So, I guess I don't have anything to fight for again.

I did mention she is complicit, and there you have proof.

Ishilove:

I did mention she is complicit, and there you have proof.

The girl just texted my sister this morning that the abortion has been successful. People are just impossible.

Imagine her telling me that she needs my support now than ever. Jeez.

They even prayed in the church before commencing the abortion. Wow.

Well, it has all ended. Although I don't want to end things with her so abruptly so she doesn't plot evil against me.

You know, some people's thinking can be ridiculous. This girl might at the end of the day, play the victim card, claim that I got her pregnant that led to her doing the abortion and abandoned her.

I need to play safe as much as possible. She was asking me from the hospital bed what is the way forward? Hahaha.

I don't know how I got myself involved with this type of girl and family.

Shokoloko:

You went to see her parents WITH WHO?
Did you go with an ELDER?
Did the Elder (not you) provide a firm date to her parents? Don't know your culture but in mine the man goes with an elder and gives a date for introduction. After introduction the elder then asks for a date for traditional wedding.
Bottom line is that you cannot proceed with marriage alone.

It is good you are asking questions and not making statements.

Because, most people here make comments with limited information and it's difficult clearing their views.

Yes, I went with an elder and a wine, but that visitation didn't end well. It's a long story.

The mother is too toxic and the daughter isn't any different.

Brokendad:


The girl just texted my sister this morning that the abortion has been successful. People are just impossible.

Imagine her telling me that she needs my support now than ever. Jeez.

They even prayed in the church before commencing the abortion. Wow.

Well, it has all ended. Although I don't want to end things with her so abruptly so she doesn't plot evil against me.

You know, some people's thinking can be ridiculous. This girl might at the end of the day, play the victim card, claim that I got her pregnant that led to her doing the abortion and abandoned her.

I need to play safe as much as possible. She was asking me from the hospital bed what is the way forward? Hahaha.

I don't know how I got myself involved with this type of girl and family.

This kind of hypocrisy na first class. Na wa o. I have never seen this kind of thing in my life

Brokendad:


The girl just texted my sister this morning that the abortion has been successful. People are just impossible.

Imagine her telling me that she needs my support now than ever. Jeez.

They even prayed in the church before commencing the abortion. Wow.

Well, it has all ended. Although I don't want to end things with her so abruptly so she doesn't plot evil against me.

You know, some people's thinking can be ridiculous. This girl might at the end of the day, play the victim card, claim that I got her pregnant that led to her doing the abortion and abandoned her.

I need to play safe as much as possible. She was asking me from the hospital bed what is the way forward? Hahaha.

I don't know how I got myself involved with this type of girl and family.

It's like u still av the mind to continue the relationship till she breaks up with you finally.

Wow! Just wow!!

Brokendad:


It is good you are asking questions and not making statements.

Because, most people here make comments with limited information and it's difficult clearing their views.

Yes, I went with an elder and a wine, but that visitation didn't end well. It's a long story.

The mother is too toxic and the daughter isn't any different.

Fact is they never viewed or accepted you as a potential in-law because if they did, they will not go to such great lengths to erase any long term connection between their daughter and you.

Brokendad:


The girl just texted my sister this morning that the abortion has been successful. People are just impossible.

Imagine her telling me that she needs my support now than ever. Jeez.

They even prayed in the church before commencing the abortion. Wow.

Well, it has all ended. Although I don't want to end things with her so abruptly so she doesn't plot evil against me.

You know, some people's thinking can be ridiculous. This girl might at the end of the day, play the victim card, claim that I got her pregnant that led to her doing the abortion and abandoned her.

I need to play safe as much as possible. She was asking me from the hospital bed what is the way forward? Hahaha.

I don't know how I got myself involved with this type of girl and family.

There is nothing to play safe about here. Just tell her the way forward is what she decided. That is rejecting you. Tell her the abortion signified she and her family rejected you and you have accepted your fate and moving on.

Don't even attempt to pretend to have anything with her again if you love your life.

Foodqueen:


It's like u still av the mind to continue the relationship till she breaks up with you finally.

Wow! Just wow!!

Not at all. The girl is still with my old phone. All my important logins are still there. I just want to get my phone from her and leave.

Brokendad:


The girl just texted my sister this morning that the abortion has been successful. People are just impossible.

Imagine her telling me that she needs my support now than ever. Jeez.

They even prayed in the church before commencing the abortion. Wow.

Well, it has all ended. Although I don't want to end things with her so abruptly so she doesn't plot evil against me.

You know, some people's thinking can be ridiculous. This girl might at the end of the day, play the victim card, claim that I got her pregnant that led to her doing the abortion and abandoned her.

I need to play safe as much as possible. She was asking me from the hospital bed what is the way forward? Hahaha.

I don't know how I got myself involved with this type of girl and family.

If you accept her back, then you are the greatest fuul on earth. The fact that you are even being lenient about the whole issue is annoying. You should have broken off ties with a two-faced snake like that. She is not someone who has your back. And the whole family are hypocrites!! Imagine saying the Grace before killing someone. WTF!!!

Stevenbright:


There is nothing to play safe about here. Just tell her the way forward is what she decided. That is rejecting you. Tell her the abortion signified she and her family rejected you and you have accepted your fate and moving on.

Don't even attempt to pretend to have anything with her again if you love your life.

Exactly. But the way he is talking on NL signifies that he might be too weak to tell her off.

NoahHadNoArk:
Abstain from premarital sex next time.


Take your bride to the altar, pure and clean in mind, body and soul.

And how many marriages of nowadays do go to the altar, pure and clean in mind, body, and soul
Alot of marriages these days, they involved in premarital sex before putting on that white gown instead of red to the altar of God. We should stop deceiving ourselves.

No shades! No Offense!!

luminouz:


If you accept her back, then you are the greatest fuul on earth. The fact that you are even being lenient about the whole issue is annoying. You should have broken off ties with a two-faced snake like that. She is not someone who has your back. And the whole family are hypocrites!! Imagine saying the Grace before killing someone. WTF!!!

I won't and I'm not being lenient about it. I just want to break up with her in such a way that I don't have too much bitterness in me so it doesn't affect my relationship with the next girl.

luminouz:

Exactly. But the way he is talking on NL signifies that he might be too weak to tell her off.

Bro, you can tell the way I sounded from the beginning. I can't be too weak to tell such a girl off.

But when someone has a lot of information they can use to hurt you, you have to thread carefully.

I want to catch her unaware.

trollx:

And how many marriages of nowadays do go to the altar, pure and clean in mind, body, and soul
Alot of marriages these days, they involved in premarital sex before putting on that white gown instead of red to the altar of God. We should stop deceiving ourselves.

No shades! No Offense!!

What’s your point?! condoning evil and encouraging sin makes it right?!

If we learn to abstain then issues like these will never come up.

My thoughts

Brokendad:


I won't and I'm not being lenient about it. I just want to break up with her in such a way that I don't have too much bitterness in me so it doesn't affect my relationship with the next girl.

Good one 👍👍👍

Ishilove:

Fact is they never viewed or accepted you as a potential in-law because if they did, they will not go to such great lengths to erase any long term connection between their daughter and you.

That's exactly what they did. It's good I didn't leave them without a scar. Because no matter what, the scar of this abortion will remain with that girl and her family for life.

I have never seen this type of family before. Some of my siblings were against the union simply because they are from River state. With everything that happened, they seemed justified.

I have learned a great deal of lesson here.

Brokendad:


That's exactly what they did. It's good I didn't leave them without a scar. Because no matter what, the scar of this abortion will remain with that girl and her family for life.

I have never seen this type of family before. Some of my siblings were against the union simply because they are from River state. With everything that happened, they seemed justified.

I have learned a great deal of lesson here.

I am sorry about your experience. Love is a beautiful thing, but giving your heart away to the wrong person is risky and the unlucky ones get theirs returned to them in bits and pieces. I really hope you find your true love.

Mumu Op.

The mother did so well by terminating your useless semen.

You usvless beings should stop skyrocketing the already useless unproductive population.

Stupeed eediot with brain filled with pvssy juice.

NoahHadNoArk:

What’s your point?! condoning evil and encouraging sin makes it right?!

If we learn to abstain then issues like these will never come up.

My thoughts

The truth is; I don't have time for duns like you because I am a very busy person!
Next time don't just read, always read to comprehend before typing... Read what I responded to before typing, since you have assimilation disorder😱

No shades! No offense!!