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My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by chazon(m): 1:23pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
Am in my 30’s, My wife and I have been living in separate locations about 4yrs now. With intermittent visits 3-4months intervals. Few days back wen she visited, I exchanged one of my new fones with her so while I was checking out the fone so I could delete some stuff and familiarize with the fone(her previous fone ,now mine)I casually stumbled into her FB & WhatsApp and saw sex chats with different men including her ex. This will be first ever I would be checking her SM, calls, SMS or whatsoever. When I confronted her with these evidences, she rather than apologize to me, began guilt tripping me with how she’s been ignoring my own philandering (but no evidence, she’s just basing them on speculations). She dragged the fone in a bid to snatch it from me at the Mall in public. I told her point blank how disappointed & angry I am and am separating from her. I arranged for for logistics to take her to our house in the town she stays. She’s called my dad. I have no idea what she’s told them, but I got evidences. We do not yet have a child together. Did I overreact?? How do I deal with this situation Mature advices will be appreciated from experienced people 18 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by incandescentena: 1:25pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
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Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by Aaaaarghmed(m): 1:35pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
All I know is that women cheat as much as men.but dem sabi hide am well.Since no child,you better divorce her.you have the chance now,nothing tie una togeda.Taking back a cheating partner is a NoNo..I have being there and I know the major blow I suffered when I took back a cheating partner. I remain your experience master ![]() 437 Likes 37 Shares |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by 1TrippleCee: 1:36pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
chazon: May God grant you wisdom 53 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by mariahAngel(f): 1:42pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
She's cheating and she had the mind to call YOUR dad? Something does not add up. Also, why would you think (there's even a chance) your dad will believe her words over yours, if you're so sure she cheated? (As you stated "I have no idea what she's told them" ) 61 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by Mhizzard(m): 1:51pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
You said she has no evidence of you philandering,to be sincere,is it true you are into it?? initially,why would you confronted your wife publicly.this relationship of yours is already shatter 19 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by Efna55: 2:06pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
This is serious, throw her out, a cheat will always be a cheat, especially this your cheat that doesn't have conscience.. 123 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by woginid967: 2:09pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
chazon: You did this very late... Dont ever trust a woman whose phone you have not haccked Spy on her phone, sms, calls, SM... Before and after marriage if you want peace. Now for the men... Send their evidences to bloggers while protecting your wife's identity. And you will be fine. They will think she leaked it, she will be shamed and become remorseful. Find the men's wives or church members and send the proofs. Simple. Do the same to her parents and siblings and your parents too. Return her dowry. You're forever free. You will never be suspected because it is the online blog you would be sharing. God bless 38 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by Nice2023(m): 2:26pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
If u haven't cheated,then divorce her. How can u allow a woman u have married to live separately for a whole 4years when u are not outside the country. U are the cause of everything. chazon: 56 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by Westerhoffe(m): 2:30pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
I wonder the kind of advise I can give you after all you have seen. Shall I say, "Ignore it and carry on." while she probably later find you a child to cater for since you don't have one with her yet? Or do I tell you to send her away? What kind of advise are you expecting? Tell me. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by Mikespecialone(m): 2:40pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
The earlier the best 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by Pauladex(m): 2:44pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
Westerhoffe:Forgive her even without apologies but always add DNA cost to your investment budget. 14 Likes |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by Kobojunkie: 3:46pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
chazon:1. OP, have you equally been cheating on your wife? The reason I ask is because we all know marriages loaded sort of like yours are typically not without the man playing his own side games. ![]() 2. Please consider marriage counseling at this time so you both can find a way forward for yourselves. ![]() 16 Likes |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by dangermouse(m): 4:12pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
Nice2023: 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by Fountainofyouth(f): 4:58pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
I like the fact that you stylishly didn't admit that you cheated, only that there's no evidence, swear with amadioha say you no cheat ![]() ![]() You can divorce, your choice, but you can also forgive her since you know you also cheated on her. 24 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by capnies: 5:06pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
mariahAngel: don't support evil, one quality of righteousness is hating evil 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by capnies: 5:16pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth: That house can never be conducive for her again. She is better off. A woman can never be a man transgender or not. I just tried to settle one yesterday that the man forgave her for cheating. She said since then the marriage hasn't been same, that's the truth. Now she's opting out. If you are s lady and have the impetus to cheat on your husband if you're cought please just back and go, don't wait to be told. If you catch your husband cheating you can also go if you want 19 Likes |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by Westerhoffe(m): 5:17pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
Pauladex: 21 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by mariahAngel(f): 5:21pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
capnies: Trying to get to the truth is supporting evil? I will always be on the side of complete truth. Why would op's wife (have the guts to) report him to his dad if she did cheat? The answer to that question lies the problem. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by TheWinterBird(f): 5:26pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
I've just looked at your profile and in one of your other threads, you went to a club and gave another woman (who asked to "hangout" with you on another day) your phone number, so you're in no position to talk about your wife cheating because you're a cheater yourself. Don't bother deleting the thread/post, as I've already screenshot it. https://www.nairaland.com/7386252/women-naturally-born-entitlement-mentality 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by OloYeOfEgbE: 5:30pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
Simp dey explain upon all the evidence wey you see... Omo na wa ooo... 12 Likes |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by ahnie: 5:36pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
Where you chop your witchcraft strong well well o woginid967: 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by Kobojunkie: 5:43pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
TheWinterBird:Good eye! ![]() chazon:And Op, this is from over a year ago, yet you claim your wife had no evidence? ![]() 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by ahnie: 5:50pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
You missed this 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by ahnie: 5:50pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
Another cum-in-it -ty preek. 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by Gaspardd(m): 6:44pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
Last week my friend asked me, if my wife cheated on me, what would I do? My response was...she has her own life to live, and I would not tamper with it. It's left for me to consider walking away or not based on whatever reasons best known to me But I wouldn't judge her cuz me sef dey on pursuit of my own happiness. Besides I see her as more of a friend than as a wife. We live separate too cus of work and we've seen each other only 3ice this yr. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by LadyRosa2(f): 7:17pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
![]() Two can play your game i guess ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by MANNABBQGRILLS: 7:19pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
TheWinterBird:God bless you for this. Some men believe they have the right to cheat as many times as they could, Bit if a woman do the same, All hell will be let loose. Stupid men dem 12 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by MANNABBQGRILLS: 7:21pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
Gaspardd:From January to December, You've seen your wife for just 3 times? Averagely of once in 120 days? Una dey try for dis marriage tin o... Gaspardd:Oh, we understand better now. Not having a job before and now having a good one. Definitely both of you will give everything it takes to balance the work and marriage life till you are in a good space to start living together again. It's the understanding between both of you that really matters. All the best in your marriage sir. God gat you both. Btw, Which kin friend go dey ask you dat kin question about "if your wife cheats on you, what will you do"? Or maybe it was just a general question sha and he wasn't referring to madam personally! Perhaps....... 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by ExudeLoveToAll: 7:25pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: 1. Equality in cheating ![]() When they say equality in financial responsibility all of you will run to your holes ![]() There is nothing like equality in cheating when there is no equality in financial responsibility. 12 Likes |
Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by Gaspardd(m): 7:29pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
post=127351399: My nature of work requires I travel to diff states, currently I'm in the North while she manages her thriving biz in Lagos. Although it wasn't like that from d start. We both used to be jobless love birds staying at home 24/7. |
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