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Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Uyi2017(m): 11:21am On Dec 11, 2023 |
Let's put money aside, what else is your guy bring into your relationship? 2 Likes |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by chatinent: 11:22am On Dec 11, 2023 |
Money is everything. He also brings love in exchange for respect.. He keeps making sure there is money in the relationship until he goes six feet yonder. 151 Likes 8 Shares
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Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Uyi2017(m): 11:24am On Dec 11, 2023 |
chatinent: I won't conclude on that cus there are marriages that even with money, they still fall apart 21 Likes |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Jeon(f): 11:24am On Dec 11, 2023 |
sex. 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Uyi2017(m): 11:25am On Dec 11, 2023 |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Kooldon(f): 11:26am On Dec 11, 2023 |
More money and less sex 4 Likes |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by chatinent: 11:27am On Dec 11, 2023 |
Uyi2017: Those are marriages with too much western education...where very trivial issues can make one forget everything. Besides, a relationship is like a flower, it must be nurtured or it will dry up with time. 2 Likes |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Jeon(f): 11:27am On Dec 11, 2023 |
Uyi2017: ooh I forgot about this "Men are polygamous in nature ". Yes, they do also bring this to relationship. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Uyi2017(m): 11:28am On Dec 11, 2023 |
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Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by FuckingMachine: 11:45am On Dec 11, 2023 |
A big, attitude-resetting preeq. 16 Likes |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by FitCorper: 11:47am On Dec 11, 2023 |
Gbola . Ladies just want money eland plenty animalistic fucking 18 Likes |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Magnoliaa(f): 11:51am On Dec 11, 2023 |
Almost 6 comments in and no one has said anything meaningful. Okay. 47 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Uyi2017(m): 11:51am On Dec 11, 2023 |
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Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Uyi2017(m): 11:52am On Dec 11, 2023 |
Magnoliaa: YOU READ MY MIND. But lemme wait sha 5 Likes |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by GreatAchiever1: 11:56am On Dec 11, 2023 |
His faith in God. His Vision. His Leadership. His Protection. His Love. That's all I can think of for now. 72 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by folake4u(f): 12:20pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Big dick energy? 1 Like |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by folake4u(f): 12:21pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
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Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Magnoliaa(f): 12:21pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
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Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Magnoliaa(f): 12:23pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
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Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by folake4u(f): 12:23pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
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Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by folake4u(f): 12:24pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Magnoliaa: You too like trouble. ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Magnoliaa(f): 12:24pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
folake4u: O necesstri. If you feel it's needed, I support you. π€£ 1 Like |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Magnoliaa(f): 12:25pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
folake4u: πππ 1 Like |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by kkins25(m): 12:27pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
I remember my neighbor back in Naija; the community council was about to sell a nearby land and were re-measuring lands in the area, including ours and my neighbor. Let's call her mama Gloria. Mama Gloria, is a widow with two daughters. when the community folks came, every house hold men had come out to defend their land, except, of course, mama Gloria. She came out to defend herself, but, she was a woman amongst men. At the end of the day, they took a little portion of Mama Gloria's land, claiming that she had built into the land next to her. Later that evening, I heard Mama Gloria tending to her backyard farm speaking to herself, mostly grumbling. The words that made ingrained that day into my head was "it's because I don't have husband." If you live in a society where traditions of old are still clinged to and you're a woman, a man will be your greatest asset. LIke most other women, mama Gloria was employed and was able to single-handedly raise her two daughters through school and even higher education. She was also a farmer, who managed several plots of land worth of farm produce. She was not an average woman, even then, as aggressive as she had become, in the presence of aggressive men, she was still shut down. Ladies in the city have no clue what women in the rural areas go through, and therefore cannot fathom why women desperately want to cling to their fvcking abusive husbands. It's either that or homelessness and shame. In today's society, Nigerian society, where women earn 77% less than men, men still hold all the bargaining power. So, what do men bring to the table is a ridiculous question to ask you man, knowing he's most likey way more richer than you. I think we make the mistake of using western society's data to analyse our situation which is a gross misrepresentation of relationship dynamics. 101 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by luminouz(m): 12:30pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Magnoliaa: *Sighs* ππππ.... As if na small dick energy you want before... I have brains too!!! Omode yi, sho ara e! Oma jegba lowo mi! |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by folake4u(f): 12:39pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Magnoliaa: Mai dear. βΊοΈπ€© 1 Like |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by gratefulheart(m): 12:57pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
When it comes to woman you exchange money for respect NOT love. She does care about your love. The only love language a woman understand is money. The amount of money you bring to the table determines the respect you get. chatinent: 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 1:20pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
kkins25:Epistle on top small question... Shaking my head ![]() ![]() 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 1:21pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
luminouz:Nibo? Where? When? How? 1 Like |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by kkins25(m): 1:38pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Persephone1:hahah... If I start they troll now, no complain oh ![]() ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Zonefree(m): 1:50pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Magnoliaa:So, money is not meaningful enough? ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by CaveAdullam: 2:02pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
I know OP belongs to the camp of "it goes both ways. It's vice-versa. What's good for the goose is also good for the gander". You all think that inter-sexual dynamics are words and synonyms. Anyway, your topic even proved it wrong. Back in the hunter-gatherer's days exchange wasn't based on fiat. Here was how women benefitted from men and even up till today. Being married or in a relationship: 1. Brings the woman respect from all and sundry. It separates her from the girls and puts her in the league of women regardless of her age. 2. Placed the woman on the same level as the man. A peasant girl can become a queen because of her marriage to a king. 3. Extends the hands of the man to her immediate and extended family. For protection and provision. Strongmen are a sought-after species of humans. 4. Protects the woman from danger and predators. That's why women don't like weak men. Because women are weak and need a stronger force - masculinity to protect them. 5. To help her do difficult work. Men can do all women's jobs. But not vice-versa. So, if by chance she comes across difficult work, her husband or spouse is there to help her. 6. Family name. Women don't bear their husband's name for nothing. A name associated with status is an identity that sets her apart when she steps outside. 7. She can decide to be nothing. But having a man will grant most of her desires. You've heard of "stay-at-home mum or full-time housewife, right?" 8. Reproduction is expedient for both. However, a man can cater for a woman and her child. And not vice-versa, else, chaos in the family. Even in the absence of money, the man ought to defend them. Thereby extending the lineage of the woman. 9. Men bear the burden of proof. There is hope that a man can become a recognizable force, and he must work hard because it's expedient for him. It's not to prove society right, but that a man feels worthless when he is at the bottom of life - lacks power, authority, and resources. Nobody expects anything tangible from women. Only let her be gentle, kind, and feminine. Unfortunately, these are characteristics of nice guys who are tortured by women and men. Being with the man will compel him to do and become better, which benefits her too. 10. The presence of a man in a woman's life proves her feminine power. The woman who isn't able to "tame" a man is a woman who will suffer shame ridicule, and bullying. Summarily: a woman can't be strong enough for herself. The man is her stronghold and defense. Thanks. 91 Likes 19 Shares |
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