FarmBusinessNG:
Sorry dear. Heal first and don't blame yourself for everything. In relationship failures, both parties make mistakes. Also circumstances may not be right. Give yourself time. Get out, go out. Enjoy even the breeze. Who knows, better maybe ahead

Anny69:
Ehya. Enjoy your single life. Quotes 1&2 have given the best advice already.

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

Don't u think time........u sat yo ass to type dis long nonsense to seek attention would have been for something meaningful??

Prettygirl200:
Thanks for the encouragement.

Matix222:


I pity that your boyfriend if he is still with a lesbian like you

Small girl of 19 years has gone awol even your boyfriend are at fault

advanceDNA:


.....u both have different expectations....
He wants a lady thats more investing in a relationship...but you want to do little or nothing, which some men don't mind..
.
....there's no crime here..... Break up is fine instead cheating on or hurting each other.....

Single life is bae..no one to demand and stress you for anything.....

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

woginid967:

A man has a mission or vision to his life, a wife is the one who comes to assist.... A knife is the one who comes to divide ➗ that vision.


A wife is supposed to be HELPMEET

This means every guy has areas in his life he is screaming HELP ME.

If you cant help a guy.. dont go on dates with him

Dont spread your legs for him

Dont collect money from him

Dont gist long with him

Simple.


You will heal, go to the gym, go out more and meet new people.

Its well, you will find someone who is suited for you.

A4alpha:
another one don chop break fast
I have learnt not to make decision or action out of anger, peace of mind above all but I think you shouldn't block him yet. just delete his number or add a figure to his number so you won't see his whatsapp activites anymore.

They said when a man marries two wifes then and only then he will know which one is better, so unblock him for now.

It's obvious your heart is still with him.

over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that

Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

Johnycastro18:
"According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional...."

No man would want to continually date a liability....

If the above statement from him is true,
Then you self, you no try

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

Mhizzard:
Peace of mind is the best thing that could ever happen to human in his/life.however,if you ain't being supportive try and amend yourself in that aspect because no man can ever crave for unsupportive wife

Johnycastro18:
"According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional...."

No man would want to continually date a liability....

If the above statement from him is true,
Then you self, you no try

lordnkem000:
The kind of comments I've been reading here on this matter makes me feel so proud of being in this forum. There's nothing wrong in a man looking for a woman who can join him build his dreams and if that woman can't do that, then she's free to go as u rightly did. All u had to do was show him u can be that girl for him but u chicken out because u know u can't support a man's dreams I guess. As long as that man never drove u away, then it means he still believed in u but u lack faith in yourself to see it.. be wise prettygirl200