Women are like buses; if one goes, in the next fifteen minutes — another’s coming.

Funny , the guy is very wise . Celebration is approaching after the guy don chop tired he cleans mouth and Move on to the next person. This has to stop. Enough of playing and toying with Individual Emotion. Its not the best.

Prettygirl200:
That was why I let him go, I don't want that constant reminder of him telling me that am with him for what I will gain, he's the type that always wanted a supportive lady he always tells me that and it seems all the ladies who usually fall for him are always in that category so I just felt I shouldnt be there, that's why I just broke up myself. I want him to be happy and if being with that lady makes him happy who am I to do otherwise.

U go dey alright.....
U are in ur prime....men still dey rush you....

Prettygirl200:
I want him to be happy with whomever is able to support him, i think leaving him is the best thing to do. I want peace of mind. I hope he's happy.

That is what you are telling yourself or that is what he told you? I noticed something in your statement, you never said he didn't love you or that he told you to leave, it is your pride to fight for what you love that is disturbing you. Funny thing is, you made life easy for that man because you failed to prove him wrong

As a man, happiness is nonnegotiable. Every man needs a supportive woman in his life, she may not have money to give, but she should have every other ingredients to compliment her. That way she'll be adored and respected by the man

lordnkem000:

That is what you are telling yourself or that is what he told you? I noticed something in your statement, you never said he didn't love you or that he told you to leave, it is your pride to fight for what you love that is disturbing you. Funny thing is, you made life easy for that man because you failed to prove him wrong

They had different expectations.....Nigga wants more ....she doesn't have more to give...what's there to prove??

lordnkem000:

That is what you are telling yourself or that is what he told you? I noticed something in your statement, you never said he didn't love you or that he told you to leave, it is your pride to fight for what you love that is disturbing you. Funny thing is, you made life easy for that man because you failed to prove him wrong

He didn't really have to tell me, it was all ovee his doings his statement to me his constant attack, telling me am acting up and prettending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him? Why fighting a lost battle or fighting for what isn't there? I just want my peace of mind I know very well later in the future all of those will be a reminder, it's better he is with whom actually supports him so it will be a reminder of thank you to that person.

Jeon:
This happens when you placed love at the top of your life budget instead of improving yourself, you are trying to improve for someone.

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Remember this "Men can never be pleased no matter how good and dedicated you are" .


Not one lady, not two, but all the past ladies supported him before you came into the picture,yet he left the supportive relationships .Why did you not ask him why he left the supportive ones?.



You ask Wahala, you no ask Wahala.



Omo ,you don suffer for relationships since I know you for NL. Sorry dear. Next time open your eyes and don't love with all your heart

Love takes advantages of good girl.

Thanks jeon

advanceDNA:


They had different expectations.....Nigga wants more ....she doesn't have more to give...what's there to prove??

So true

advanceDNA:


They had different expectations.....Nigga wants more ....she doesn't have more to give...what's there to prove??

He wanted more, and I didn't have more to give, that's why am leaving when I tried to make changes and adjust he said I was acting up. I got tired!;

Prettygirl200:
He didn't really have to tell me, it was all ovee his doings his statement to me his constant attack, telling me am acting up and prettending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him? Why fighting a lost battle or fighting for what isn't there? I just want my peace of mind I know very well later in the future all of those will be a reminder, it's better he is with whom actually supports him so it will be a reminder of thank you to that person.

If he told you you were pretending how does it call for u to end things? It is clear you create a toxic atmosphere all the time and when you told him you changed he didn't believe you. All you had to do was assure him you are his girl and you would do everything to be his girl, sometimes that's all you need to win your doubting man who needs proof. We haven't seen any crime from your boyfriend so you better check yourself again. Better go back before that girl takes him over finally

with what you just stated, now I can understand he isn't "stable" and as such not reliable/fit for relationship so what is your objective and goal putting up with such individual? someone who is ready to let you down at every opportunity??

maybe his dickmatic is good enough to becloud your reasoning lol. left for me, I think you should not block him yet as that will leave a sense of "unfinished" deal which will always push you back, but unblocking him will give you an advantage to listen to his rants, which will increase your (woman) "see-finish" that will ultimately help you to detach faster than you think.

My one cent doe!

Prettygirl200:
Won't unblocking him be harmful? I just want to forget about him. Unblocking him will make me want to go back or if he messages me I wil want to reply him, according to him when the lady confessed she loves him he told her that he has a girlfriend and the lady to him to leave me that since I couldn't support him that am a leach, u see it has always been like this whenever a lady happens to fall for him they tend to do all of these and the comparison will start whenever he does that I always try to leave because I want his happiness, I don't want him to use it against me in the future.

Anny69:
🐈‍⬛ Meow.

Your parents are at fault

Prettygirl200:
Thanks jeon

When you take advice from someone like jeon no wonder you won't be able to keep a good boyfriend. According to jeon that your bf is a bad person right? I pity you. It is you alone who knows if he's a good man or not, but for you to tell us you are trying to adjust yourself to be better shows you have been a problem all along, but that feminist jeon is giving you advice

A4alpha:
with what you just stated, now I can understand he isn't "stable" and as such not reliable/fit for relationship so what is your objective and goal putting up with such individual? someone who is ready to let you down at every opportunity??

maybe his dickmatic is good enough to becloud your reasoning lol. left for me, I think you should not block him yet as that will leave a sense of "unfinished" deal which will always push you back, but unblocking him will give you an advantage to listen to his rants, which will increase your (woman) "see-finish" that will ultimately help you to detach faster than you think.

My one cent doe!

Oga how sure are you the man is the problem?
Did you not hear her say she is adjusting herself to suit him? Will a woman adjust herself for a bad man or unstable man? U sef think am na

You are so pissed off by me ignoring you and can seize any given moment to get my attention.

lordnkem000:

When you take advice from someone like jeon no wonder you won't be able to keep a good boyfriend. According to jeon that your bf is a bad person right? I pity you. It is you alone who knows if he's a good man or not, but for you to tell us you are trying to adjust yourself to be better shows you have been a problem all along, but that feminist jeon is giving you advice

You this foolish man won't you leave me alone and face that your unhealthy girlfriend that was ready to sacrifice her life for you to try to prove her supportive to you "which is a man ".


The situations of your gf are mostly hunting those girls that refused to used their head to build up themselves or acknowledge their parents warnings about love and man

You sound like a lady below 25years, from the look of things he would be better with someone mature

lordnkem000:

If he told you you were pretending how does it call for u to end things? It is clear you create a toxic atmosphere all the time and when you told him you changed he didn't believe you. All you had to do was assure him you are his girl and you would do everything to be his girl, sometimes that's all you need to win your doubting man who needs proof. We haven't seen any crime from your boyfriend so you better check yourself again. Better go back before that girl takes him over finally

It will be easy for her to take him because she gives what she wants, what do i have, am just starting life i haven't built anything that i can suppport a man with, i did my best but it wasn't enough to him hence the comparison every now and then with different women. He already told me that the lady loves him unconditionally while my love for him was conditional he kept re affirming it whenever I ask again, for such a man there's nothing I will do that will impress him he saw who was able to give him unconditional love and all i can do is to wish them well, I couldn't have done less. I want him to be happy,and I believe he is now.

Jeon:
You are so pissed off by me ignoring you and can seize any given moment to get my attention.



You this foolish man won't you leave me alone and face that your unhealthy girlfriend that was ready to sacrifice her life for you to try to prove her supportive to you "which is a man ".


The situations of your gf are mostly hunting those girls that refused to used their head to build up themselves or acknowledge their parents warnings about love and man

No I'm not, I keep wanting you to be sensible and realize men and women need each other, but you keep castigating men whatever chance you get, it's bad na. Stop it.
That girl never told you her bf was bad to her, or complained he didn't love her, she said she couldn't support his dreams like another girl was doing to snatch her man and she left and blocked him and needed advice. What you did was spoil her bf, na wa for you o. Can't you see she's the problem?

Prettygirl200:
Am a human am aren't perfect, I can't be everything a man wants in a woman, I have my good and bad sides, I can't change but can adjust because I love and care for that person, tried to adjust to suit him that was when he told me I was pretending and acting up to love him which wasn't true. I was trying to adjust because I cared about him too even though am not as rich as those ladies supporting him financially.

hmmm, well if you truly adjusted as you claim above to suit him and he was still complaining

Then perhaps he most likely have seen another lady who is giving him wat he wants, and is just looking for an excuse to booth you out

Sorry for the heartbreak

A4alpha:
with what you just stated, now I can understand he isn't "stable" and as such not reliable/fit for relationship so what is your objective and goal putting up with such individual? someone who is ready to let you down at every opportunity??

maybe his dickmatic is good enough to becloud your reasoning lol. left for me, I think you should not block him yet as that will leave a sense of "unfinished" deal which will always push you back, but unblocking him will give you an advantage to listen to his rants, which will increase your (woman) "see-finish" that will ultimately help you to detach faster than you think.

My one cent doe!

So you are advicing I unblock him? I honestly do not want to go back because all of that comparison my efforts are seen as acting up or pretending.

Jeon:
You are so pissed off by me ignoring you and can seize any given moment to get my attention.



You this foolish man won't you leave me alone and face that your unhealthy girlfriend that was ready to sacrifice her life for you to try to prove her supportive to you "which is a man ".


The situations of your gf are mostly hunting those girls that refused to used their head to build up themselves or acknowledge their parents warnings about love and man

Who be my unhealthy girlfriend? Abeg who's ready to sacrifice her life? E shock me o.
Just be truthful my friend, I am not your enemy jeon. Never

Johnycastro18:
hmmm, well if you truly adjusted as you claim above to suit him and he was still complaining

Then perhaps he most likely have seen another lady who is giving him wat he wants, and is just looking for an excuse to booth you out

Sorry for the heartbreak

Yes he has, there's a lady in his life doing the supporting he said I wasn't doing, he claimed the lady is his Friend but I know something is going on between them, she's the one he's always using to make comparisons and all that. This isn't the first lady though he has been doin it, they usually leave him when he refuses to date them. This is just the last one and now he said am acting up because I tried adjusting myself to suit him he said I was pretending to love him while I don't because of what I stand to gain, it pained me thats why i left so he can be happy with her i also want peace of mind because relationship with him has given me mental stress.

advanceDNA:


She no try kee? Be like u nor get most naija women thinking.....Women don't ever believe they no try in their relationship........ To them, once they say yes to dating u ...that's 20% contributing to your life...having sex with you is 80% ....their contribution is complete.....

No thanks to men that worship women ...most naija women are used to relationship that men do all the work to keep the relationship going....

they want to get spoiled, want u to contribute to their life and progress, open shop for them if they are not productive, if they have no education, u should pay, while their own contribution is sex they also want to enjoy but make u feel like their doing u a favor by "giving" u the sex .....

What's worse is that they also make u feel the sex is a bigger contribution than all your efforts.....

That's why once a man comes along that wants more, like the op's boyfriend.. They can't function in such relationship cos such relationship will be too much stress for them..

thesame situation a guy of mine is right now with his girlfriend.

This lady is use to men petting her, and swallowing her bullshit and nonsensical behaviors.....

unfortunately for her this my guy is a principle guy, doesn't tolerate such behaviors from her,
And it has become a tug of war between them on a delay basis....

Not all men are simp and will tolerate behaviors from ladies that are uncultured, narcissistic and over pampering

Prettygirl200:
It will be easy for her to take him because she gives what she wants, what do i have, am just starting life i haven't built anything that i can suppport a man with, i did my best but it wasn't enough to him hence the comparison every now and then with different women. He already told me that the lady loves him unconditionally while my love for him was conditional he kept re affirming it whenever I ask again, for such a man there's nothing I will do that will impress him he saw who was able to give him unconditional love and all i can do is to wish them well, I couldn't have done less. I want him to be happy,and I believe he is now.

Let me give you my advice as a man. There must be an attitude you have portrayed which made him to doubt you just be honest here. I'm glad u didn't say he was a bad guy or didn't love you, so that helps to understand that you were the cause to some extent. Here's what you should do, stop thinking what he didn't tell you, if you love a man why will you leave for another woman to take over? Call him, tell him how you feel, apologize for blocking him and tell him what you think, your fears and what you don't want in future. Also tell him he shouldn't tell you those things again because he is wrong. Work things out. If you were my sister, this is my advice. Then here what he replies

Johnycastro18:
thesame situation a guy of mine is right now with his girlfriend.

This lady is use to men petting her, and swallowing her bullshit and nonsensical behaviors.....

unfortunately for her this my guy is a principle guy, doesn't tolerate such behaviors from her,
And it has become a tug of war between them on a delay basis....

Not all men are simp and will tolerate behaviors from ladies that are uncultured, narcissistic and over pampering

Bro I think that is the case of this girl but she's not telling us the full story. Tell me which man will want a liability or an uncultured girl as a gf? See my gf no dey even allow me reason any girl, when I complained about her shouting at me na so she change and become okay, she has been everything I want and so when one banny come dey give me things, my banny begin buy me things too, Omo I just weak. It made me love her more because she's doing her best to prove herself for me

Matix222:


Your parents are at fault

🐈‍⬛Meow.

Every man's dream is to find a partner who is willing to adjust and her adjusting or willingness to do so is a good sign brov! noone is perfect, well I'm not here to judge who's right or who isn't.

lordnkem000:

Oga how sure are you the man is the problem?
Did you not hear her say she is adjusting herself to suit him? Will a woman adjust herself for a bad man or unstable man? U sef think am na

lordnkem000:

Bro I think that is the case of this girl but she's not telling us the full story. Tell me which man will want a liability or an uncultured girl as a gf? See my gf no dey even allow me reason any girl, when I complained about her shouting at me na so she change and become okay, she has been everything I want and so when one banny come dey give me things, my banny begin buy me things too, Omo I just weak. It made me love her more because she's doing her best to prove herself for me

that could be it.

Perhaps the only explanation could be that, the guy never loved her from the onset and was just pretending all along to have access to her.........and now he has it.....

If not you can't claim to have the qualities needed by your man, and yet he would let you go just like that. No way...

Johnycastro18:
that is just bro,

Perhaps the only explanation could be that, the guy never loved her from the onset and was just pretending all along to have access to her.........and now he has it.....

If not you can't claim to have the qualities needed by your man, and yet he would let you go just like that. No way...

That's the thing bro, he didn't let her go, read her statement, she left him because another woman came into her boyfriend life and was giving everything she couldn't so she left. I can tell you she's not saying everything

Block button spell cowardice, it demonstrates weakness. every human should learn to take a stand and set boundaries (Redline). note one Bs multiplies to more Bs(es) and if your cool taking BS then by all means your a low value woman and he's right?

Prettygirl200:
So you are advicing I unblock him? I honestly do not want to go back because all of that comparison my efforts are seen as acting up or pretending.

U did the right thing..... Go forth and be single... FOR LIFE!

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.