Hope the pilot survive

nkemdi89:
These generation of men demand too much.

like what and what are they demanding?

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

Hmmmm...no man who truly loves a lady seeks for financial help without shame....from all indications he looks like someone who would date anyone, even older women for money...not worth it in my own opinion..pardon me If my words sound harsh....its better to leave early than to be deep in something that would later destroy ones life in years to come

This guy you talked about is a mixture of a golddigger and conman and he's not the type to expect to keep a serious relationship.

OK


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Na you drop the above o

judatech:
Christmas discharging... country hard for men with many chicks this period.

Hehehe.

Tonytonex:
run oh

I just want help

Prettygirl200:
Am a human am aren't perfect, I can't be everything a man wants in a woman, I have my good and bad sides, I can't change but can adjust because I love and care for that person, tried to adjust to suit him that was when he told me I was pretending and acting up to love him which wasn't true. I was trying to adjust because I cared about him too even though am not as rich as those ladies supporting him financially.

your ex sounds very toxic. please move on with your life and forget the hell out of that stingy man.

Regina Daniels don't spend her money on any man yet she's living her best life. girls plenty men don send abroad and sponsor them to vacations.

Don't even reason his matter. Your own man that's made for you will come. he was never the one for you.

SayNo2SmallPrik:

You wey like prick, Dey deceive yourself

You're so senseless. Foolish man.

Please can we just move on from this topic? You don't want the comparisons, you want him to be happy, you left and that should be enough for you abeg. You came here and told us half baked story but refused to expatiate on the things you said he told you he didn't like, you faid to tell us about your toxic character so we can judge you first. My only anger is he didn't dump your liability ass but rather na you quit, tells how that man is a simp for u. Abeg leave the man to enjoy better girl wey get value

Ginaz:


your ex sounds very toxic. please move on with your life and forget the hell out of that stingy man.

Regina Daniels don't spend her money on any man yet she's living her best life. girls plenty men don send abroad and sponsor them to vacations.

Don't even reason his matter. Your own man that's made for you will come. he was never the one for you.

Thank you.

This is what op once stated here.. why are you guys being deceived

richard870:
Hmmmm...no man who truly loves a lady seeks for financial help without shame....from all indications he looks like someone who would date anyone even older women for money...not worth it in my own opinion..pardon me If my words sound harsh....its better to leave early than to be deep in something that would later destroy ones life in years to come

That was why i left so he could be happy with the lady if shes supporting him like he said i csnt stop him or Force myself in. The girl in question already confessed her to love to him.

Na she talk this too

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

Hold your two ears!!!!
Dont allow any man put pressure on you. He is very manipulative and shameful.
HE wants to use a woman's resource to grow himself. What is he doing to make money himself?
He thinks its easy to make money? So if one day the woman at which is providing stops providing, is he gonna leave the woman for someone else?
The only reason you kept being with him was the fear of loosing him or maybe you feel because he might be handsome.
Don't become a shadow of yourself just because of your partner.

Youll def find someone to compliment you. Lastly, you are not meant to provide but you support the best way you can

lordnkem000:
This is what op once stated here.. why are you guys being deceived

I will advice you to just leave me alone as i know who you are pls. Whatever that is was just all cruise pls leave me alone.

She also said this.. how can you people not see op is the problem?

Oh! See my tears for you!
You are a good lady fvcking a bad guy.
Don't worry, you will get someone who will love you unconditionally.
Your kpekus don suffer for im hand sha!

Prettygirl200:
That was why I let him go, I don't want that constant reminder of him telling me that am with him for what I will gain, he's the type that always wanted a supportive lady he always tells me that and it seems all the ladies who usually fall for him are always in that category so I just felt I shouldnt be there, that's why I just broke up myself. I want him to be happy and if being with that lady makes him happy who am I to do otherwise.

Be grateful to God. He just delivered you from a liability husband.

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

lordnkem000:
Please can we just move on from this topic? You don't want the comparisons, you want him to be happy, you left and that should be enough for you abeg. You came here and told us half baked story but refused to expatiate on the things you said he told you he didn't like, you faid to tell us about your toxic character so we can judge you first. My only anger is he didn't dump your liability ass but rather na you quit, tells how that man is a simp for u. Abeg leave the man to enjoy better girl wey get value

I am a liability i agree, i have left him to enjoy the girl who has value, i am valueless bc i cant give more than i have. I pray God heals my wounds. Allow people to encourage nd advice me, it's the reason I dropped it here you can move out of here if you are tired. Thank you.

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

I think wat ur boyfriend did is very bad one secret of relationship dat pple Neva knew is dat is bad to compare d moment u start compare dat relationship will fail. I think he Neva deserve u did he want you to steal for him.baby is normal u give him wat u want if his not enuf den let him go a beta guy will come

lordnkem000:
She also said this.. how can you people not see op is the problem?

I don't know what you plan to achieve with all of this, but i promise you it wont go well with you.

Prettygirl200:
I will advice you to just leave me alone as i know who you are pls. Whatever that is was just all cruise pls leave me alone.

I am not holding you in any way and neither am i ready to know you. Tell the full story so we can all judge you and give you an advice. Don't demonize a man because you can't be his type of woman. Have you been troublesome, say it. No shame in that. But if you feel you don't love or need the man again then let it go, don't demonize him. You left him and so you shouldn't cry foul

DestinedForGrea:

I don't see anything wrong you've done from what you shared. Don't pressurize yourself to fit into someone's description of a perfect woman. You made the right decision to let him go. It's not healthy to be with someone (a friend, a romantic partner, etc) who compares you with others.

Forgive him, hold no grudges, have no expectations about the consequences of his decision to be wiith someone else.

Just FULLY FOCUS on improving the quality of your life in all areas. Don't do it for him, do it for yourself alone. With time, you'll meet someone who will appreciate your qualities and focus less on your flaws.

Thanks 🙏 for the encouragement God bless you!!

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

It is good that you blocked him. You can only help him if you have. You are not married and he's already demanding for support authoritatively .What about if he leaves you after you have spent on him? You did the right thing.If he loves you ,he won't compare you with other girls.

DestinedForGrea:

Please don't pay attention to that person.

You are not a liability, you have so much worth and value to give, and a lot more to add to yourself.

Don't force people to see it. Allow it express itself naturally.

🥺🥺🥺 thank you,

remiopash:
It is good that you blocked him. You can only help him if you have. You are not married and he's already demanding for support authoritatively .What about if he leaves you after you have spent on him? You did the right thing.If he loves you ,he won't compare you with other girls.

He does that every time, constantly witu different women, i got tired the worst part is he never did anything for me.

u are super lady.U really cares and endure enuf.Good that u blocked his lazy a$$.move on jare.Better man go marry u

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

You know I will not join people to pamper you with words. Tell everyone what are the issues he told you he didn't like. You are manipulative and you are already manipulating people here with your one sided story. You must have been terrible before and then decided to change and he didn't believe that, you should have assured him you were not pretending. That's what I'm saying. Calling your man here and making him look bad is not good at all, because life goes bigger than here