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Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by Visblog: 10:28am On Dec 23, 2023
Men don’t like ‘overly successful’ women –
Nollywood actress, Iniobong Edo

“Some men are threatened by women’s strength. Because we can come off as if we are doing too much. First of all, you’re a woman, you’re beautiful, you’re here and there…

“Naturally, men want to see you [women] not so overly successful just so that they can pull you around, you can be the woman, cook and clean and do all the basic things that they’ve grown up to know is expected of women.

“So when you get too strong, it’s almost like you’re competing with their ego. But the truth is, like I always say, I like to be the queen. I’m not a woman who is looking to subdue any man or ride over any man.

“No matter how successful I get, I don’t think I would like to have a man that I am lording over. Then what is the beauty of it? I mean, the beauty of it is me walking beside my man and he giving me instructions and protecting me.”

She added that it is hard to find men who understand that successful women aren’t threats to their position as the head of the home.

https://www.visblog.ng/2023/12/men-dont-like-overly-successful-women.html

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Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by Zonefree(m): 10:38am On Dec 23, 2023
How many women are successful in Nigeria?

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Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by Little21: 10:49am On Dec 23, 2023
Majority of men will forever be threatened by women being successful, but that's their problem. No one is stopping a woman from being successful. Oh except, "what is my man gonna say if am richer than him", "will he see me as an arrogant woman", "what is he gonna think of me"? and blah blah blah.

I just don't get how some women be thinking about what men is gonna say about them being successful! If he is gonna die, then he better die now cuz no amount of manipulation is gonna stop you, from being who you wish too be.

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Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by Jeon(f): 10:58am On Dec 23, 2023
Darling, are you just noticing this?.

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Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by Offpointng: 11:28am On Dec 23, 2023
A serious rich woman who really wants to have ah husband and a happy home will submit all her worth and earnings to her man, down to the very last penny. If she can't do alla this, then she's not ready

Y'all will kpai single and weep at old age sad

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Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by Dexy4yah(m): 11:37am On Dec 23, 2023
Man and woman palaver doesn't have an end.
Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by Anny69(f): 11:38am On Dec 23, 2023
Offpointng:
A serious rich woman who really wants to have ah husband and a happy home will submit all her worth and earnings to her man, down to the very last penny. If she can't do alla this, then she's not ready

Y'all will kpai single and weep at old age sad
This is where abuse stems from. From this nonsense called "Submission".

Btw, I'm not interested in marriage before you start ranting about dying single and shit.

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Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by Nicepoker(m): 11:38am On Dec 23, 2023
Senate president side chick. grin
Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by Anny69(f): 11:39am On Dec 23, 2023
Dexy4yah:
Man and woman palaver doesn't have an end.
It doesn't sadly. If everyone was gay it would have been better.

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Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by Offpointng: 11:52am On Dec 23, 2023
Anny69:
This is where abuse stems from. From this nonsense called "Submission".

Btw, I'm not interested in marriage before you start ranting about dying single and shit.




Marriage is also not interested in you pls shift away

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Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by Anny69(f): 11:54am On Dec 23, 2023
Offpointng:


Marriage is also not interested in you pls shift away
😂Lmao!

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Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by Palazee(m): 11:56am On Dec 23, 2023
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Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by Palazee(m): 12:05pm On Dec 23, 2023
Men always want a woman that they can easily dominate due to the belief that they are providers. Sucessful women turns them off because no man want to be rubbing shoulder with his woman.


But this type of woman is the golddigging manwh0re haven gringrin
Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by jumokeadele(m): 12:06pm On Dec 23, 2023
true but not every man is worth submitting all your money to , abi no be this nairaland we dey see men they take their salary play betnaija
Offpointng:
A serious rich woman who really wants to have ah husband and a happy home will submit all her worth and earnings to her man, down to the very last penny. If she can't do alla this, then she's not ready

Y'all will kpai single and weep at old age sad

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Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by Merry100: 12:24pm On Dec 23, 2023
Offpointng:
A serious rich woman who really wants to have ah husband and a happy home will submit all her worth and earnings to her man, down to the very last penny. If she can't do alla this, then she's not ready

Y'all will kpai single and weep at old age sad
It's the Audacity for me, see me this 70 years old man o, you for carry gun put for my head and collect all my money, e be like say I no get hand to spend money, nah the same money pesin daughter dey sweat earn dey go use carry side chick left and right, Thief!!! Arm robber ole!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. Golddigger oshi, later dem go talk say nah only ladies be golddigger.

🤣🤣🤣🤣 Olodo, which one be kpai single? E be like say nah only Nigerian men God create, Ghana get men, Togo get men, Botswana get men, Algeria get men, Sierra Leone get men, Senegal get men, South Korea get men, Philippines get men, Malaysia get men, Singapore get men, Australia get men, United Kingdom get men, Ireland get men, France get men, Germany get men, Malta get men, it's an endless list, anu ofia ka gi nma.

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Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by Dexy4yah(m): 12:55pm On Dec 23, 2023
Anny69:
It doesn't sadly. If everyone was gay it would have been better.
If not for procreation....men and women...for no dey get business together

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Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by Vinnie2000(m): 12:58pm On Dec 23, 2023
She is Right.

Many men can't date or manage Successful ladies. sad smiley

But, Dat's because Ladies are hardly humble when they are doing well Financially. undecided

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Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by DevilsEqual(m): 1:07pm On Dec 23, 2023
Then, its fair to say all the overly successful women in Nigera are all unmarried or maybe only few have children sef

Many top Banks in Nigeria have female CEOs and they can enter the "Overly Succesful Female debate"...So most of dem no even marry cheesy cheesy


Just wow
Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by TimiRume(f): 1:19pm On Dec 23, 2023
I think some women use the word "threaten" "intimidate" to shame men that are not into them but they don't have to. I'm a lady and I know very well that men are not threatened or intimidated by overtly successful women, they are just not that attracted to them. It's a positive trait but men don't fancy it much in women.

We shouldn't shame anyone for their preference. They can't help themselves.

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Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by ednut1(m): 1:22pm On Dec 23, 2023
False, if they were threatened will they have dated or married you. The main issue is when the woman becomes arrogant and disrespectful because of her money, most men flee

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Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by okoroemeka(m): 1:51pm On Dec 23, 2023
Zonefree:
How many women are successful in Nigeria?
quite a very interesting question,the few that are successful are toxic,

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Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by TomjoTM(m): 1:51pm On Dec 23, 2023
When a man works or acquires wealth, it is to provide for his family, it is his duty, role and responsibility to ensure his family is adequately taken care of, and he gets motivated to work more. Women are susceptible to a change in character when they start to earn a lot, and oftentimes they are oblivious to their subtle and sometimes overtly condescending and disrespectful words and actions when they relate with men, easier for most women to use the excuse of being successful on why men don't want to deal anymore than actually taking accountability.

If any young woman wants a successful marriage, perhaps you should learn from highly successful women like Ibukun Awosika, Folorunsho Alakija, Ngozi Okonjo Iweala etc.

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Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by Merry100: 1:56pm On Dec 23, 2023
Vinnie2000:


She is Right.

Many men can't date or manage Successful ladies. sad smiley

But, Dat's because Ladies are hardly humble when they are doing well Financially. undecided
Being broke does not make a woman humble. Some broke women might just decide to conceal their pride but true humility has nothing to do with one's financial status.

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Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by udede(m): 3:17pm On Dec 23, 2023
Everybody is threatened by some thing. If overly successful women treathen you look for successful ones and leave the "overly" ones. Me i can only be treathened by a very fat women on bed. I no dey know how or where to begin with them.
Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by ITbomb(m): 3:27pm On Dec 23, 2023
An "overly successful" woman is one who is dedicated and committed to her career.
No matter how much you try as a woman, you can never balance with domestic duties.
It is not the success that drives men away, it is inverted duties the woman have to do

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Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by drimzsmoke(m): 3:30pm On Dec 23, 2023
Zonefree:
How many women are successful in Nigeria?


Change your circle!!!!
Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by Ghoxt: 3:30pm On Dec 23, 2023
Anny69:
It doesn't sadly. If everyone was gay it would have been better.
You and everyone you know would have never existed.
Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by Karlifate: 4:16pm On Dec 23, 2023
In the sexual market, a woman's [financial] success means little or nothing for a high-value man.

👌💯
Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by Anny69(f): 4:20pm On Dec 23, 2023
Ghoxt:

You and everyone you know would have never existed.
Please educate yourself before tagging me with such nonsense. I'm not in the mood to educate someone, so make use of the internet. Learn!

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Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by Karlifate: 4:43pm On Dec 23, 2023
Karlifate:
In the sexual market, a woman's [financial] success means little to nothing for a high-value man.

👌💯

😎

Beverlyjean:


Men are not judged by their sexual past...they are judged by their bank accounts while women are not judged by their bank account.... we can't eat our cake and have it ... we abide by 2 different set of rules... a woman lying that she is a virgin , is equal to a man lying that he is wealthy


Karlifate:


It is what it is cheesy

The rating scale ⚖️ for men & women in the sexual market are not the same.

Men are judged by their:
•• financial success 💰
•• status
•• future prospect &
•• personalities.

Women are judged by their:
•• appearance 💃
•• ability to bear children
•• their body counts
•• their past relationships &
•• submissiveness.




Women marry up financially.
Men marry up morally.

Be truthful to yourself, if you're in a position to choose between a rich non-virgin guy and a virgin guy that has nothing going on for him, which one would you choose? cheesy


You being a virgin, and also getting married to a virgin guy of your dreams is just an example of an ideal situation, which rarely happens.

Also, aside from virginity, what other values do you have (that will impact the life of your partner & strengthen your relationship?)
Re: Men Don’t Like ‘overly Successful’ Women - Iniobong Edo by eazzzy1(m): 5:11pm On Dec 23, 2023
Successful women always justify their inability to make a relationship work with their success. There are some behaviours that won’t sit well with any man whether you are successful or not.

It’s also not like your success is beneficial to him. It’s common knowledge that a woman can have sufficient to feed a community but have problems with providing for her household because it’s not her ‘role’.

If the things you do to attain the success or what the success has turned you into is inconveniencing to the man and there’s no benefit derived from the success, that’s a lose-lose situation, why should he put up with you?

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