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Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by gigabyte13: 8:29pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
You dey Happy say you dey your Papa house You dey use your innocent aged mother as excuse to continually live there.... If to say Your Papa sef dey him Papa house marry your mama, you think say, you go get house to call your own.... Let me tell you straight up You be lazy foooooooooool Any girl wey agree to marry you eeeehn Her future POVERTY go raise to power infinity. You sef go dey tell girl say Come to my house abi... Your house abi your Papa house If you no get shame I dey help you shame oooooooooooo 2 Likes |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Bliss52: 8:29pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
oguns222: Dude act maturely a d stop quoting me |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Acidosis(m): 8:31pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Staying in your parent's house because of poverty is not a good thing. However, for rich folks, no issues. 1 Like |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Clinghton: 8:31pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
If you're the one providing for your aged mother I see no reason why you should leave. 1 Like |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by candygist: 8:33pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth: Any man that get married to you may die of depression. Bcus it's ladies like your type that will frustrate a man for not bringing enough to the table, compering your husband with other peoples husband and broke shaming. You don't even have anything to your name if we check well. 1 Like |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by LydayBobo(m): 8:34pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
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Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Exedyne: 8:35pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
At 33 I still live with my parents and I send no body Any girl wey no dey comfortable with that make she Park well 1 Like |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by uuzba(m): 8:35pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth:Times and economy have changed. The ease of getting jobs in the 60s is different from now, 2023. There was a time you only had to attend school. Once you come out, jobs are waiting for you. Proper salary to build house, buy car, marry wife. Nowadays, basic school is not enough. You will add, University, then add masters degree, then add PHD... Then still run up and down with CV begging and crying for job. then licking your boss ass, to keep the job for fear of being sacked... Just to earn LESS value than what your father earned during his time. Yes this is happening both here NIgeria and in foreign nations as well. 4 Likes
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Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by AbujaLagos: 8:35pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
@36 wa gbayi |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by uksam007: 8:36pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
King Charles still dey live for him mama house. So no bad thing there's 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Blankstare(m): 8:36pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Empresa: Forget that thing! gone are the days when opportunities and luck spread everywhere, every part of the globe is now competitive. Nothing day outside anymore, O.p can still make it from his parent's home if he's well strategic. 3 Likes |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by tellwisdom: 8:40pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth: Tell him you have yansh and breassst |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Boyooosa(m): 8:41pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Yeah, depends on what you are doing with your life. |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by nedekid: 8:45pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth:Oga, the fact he stays with his parents does not mean he might not own his own property. If his parents are old and obviously need the company, people around to take care of them, the pleasure of seeing and playing with their grand kids, then there is nothing wrong in that. Do you know that is the best life you can give your aged parents in vulnerable age? Lots of elderly folks, especially the men are suffering from loneliness, no care etc. Most have the problem of kids that relocated abroad. Most times the mothers have to go stay for Long periods visiting all the kids while the man is left all on his own. You see men in his 70s, 80s cooking himself or going to buy mama put. There is no way you will pay stewards, helps etc that they will give the best to aged parents. A friend few months ago had to fly in from the US to move his sick dad to a better hospital for treatment, hire a new care giver, then flew out within 1 week because of work, modgage payments etc in the US. Read about the Indians, pakistanis, jews, Arabs. If op, stays with them, saves his rent money, uses it to care for them, build his own personal house, he may move along with them. For now, why waste money renting? https://youtube.com/shorts/zSubmAg-9Js?si=V_L6D-h9T4ccLUPO |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Onyiiobi7735(m): 8:45pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Brother, enjoy what's working for you,as long as you aren't committing any evil. 1 Like |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by uuzba(m): 8:46pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth:You are shaking your head against Nigerian cultures. It is white men in foreign lands that don't have villages. Once they turn 18, they leave their parents home and survive anyhow. The parents don't leave anything for them. They sell off the house and donate the money to charity or take cruise ship around the world. There is NO VILLAGE NO HERITAGE. NOTHING. Here in Nigeria, we MUST HAVE village. Some property MUST REMAIN behind. And that property is what is given to the children. That is just our collective culture. |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Nehyooh(m): 8:46pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth:What's this lady talking about my people? Your claim get k-leg, so auntie rest I beg |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by olamilekan9(m): 8:53pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Same here,dad late mom aged,so i let my mom & sisters occupy one of the three bedroom flat while i and my wife flex the other three bedroom flat,as a matter of fact, i plan to buy a land and build my own house soon but will still not relocate there instead i will rent it out.This my papa house i love am die..but im just 27 sha |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by porthouse7(f): 8:58pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Peter532:how u come Dey Bleep, na that one concern me |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Iamzik: 9:01pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth: Why do you think it is a shameful or embarrassing to inherit your parents properties? Do your parents own properties?? |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Almunjid(m): 9:01pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth:U don't sound reasonable at all. U don't have the moral right to condemn any man still living in his parent's house, that's how it was before white people brain washed u to believe that it's wrong. In many cultures all over the world, families and clans live close to each other. In villages you'll see families live together, built their houses close to each other. A man can live in his parents house till he's financially capable or strong enough to build his own house. And even if he does, he'll still build his home close to his family members. This makes training and upbringing of the children easy for other family members in case one or both parents is late. Men living in their parents houses shouldn't be ur problem, some families have more than enough rooms to accommodate their members and it's a waste of money renting a room outside. U should worry about little girls who are in haste to leave their parents' houses to engage in prostitution or living in their so called boyfriends rented apartments without marriage, but are quick to condemn decent and obidient men that are still living in their parents' houses. Most ladies had half-baked home training because they're in haste to leave their parents' houses (due to peer pressure) even when they're not yet ready, that's why even their children born out of wedlock lack proper upbringing. Because they (children) were raised far away from their family members (that could have contributed in their upbringing since they don't have responsible fathers), and the mother is not always there for them, she's always jumping from one bed (diçk) to the other in the name of hookups. Most women have nothing to offer men than sex and procreation, yet they have standards that if they themselves were men, they can't meet up with. Such a confused gender! Peace! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by OlawaleBammie: 9:02pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth:just accept u re a f&&l wey dey misyarn make everybody rest na |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Ajehkpako4naija(f): 9:02pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Bliss52:advise for the lazy and shallow minds. Your mates are CEOs at same age, why u are comfortable in your family house. Backward thinking. Mtchewwwww |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Owen247: 9:05pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Beverlyjean: Happy new year too you in.... That fountain or abi fence of youth no get common sense. She's just overtly blinded by hatred for men, i wonder why. |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Ashirioluwa: 9:05pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
How you live your life is your personal choice, no one cares. |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by PastorFire: 9:06pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Peter532: You are a disgrace to Men! |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by maasoap(m): 9:08pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
ahmedio2017: Apus: I just built one flat. That won't be too big for me and my wife to live in alone if and when the kids finally move out which will definitely happen. I don't need more than that for now. If I need a second wife, may be I will consider building a second flat 1 Like |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by maasoap(m): 9:10pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
PastorFire: Lol. On top this life wey go come to an end? Everything has its own time 1 Like |
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