If you have been through storms of life and you overcame there is no way pride will enter you.
I am talking from experience though una fit correct me, if two friends are striving to make it, if one finally does, why is it that the one that made it 95% of them forgets the other friend who is still struggling, an helping hand is okay, a situation you yourself had experienced.
No come dey ask me who i don help, i am almost there but still do the little i can afford to help.
Life is vanity, we hold too much to what we can never keep, we all see lessons from life but daily we ignore.
Anyways last last, we will all be successful, timing differs, each day we wake up, there is hope 100%.

kabanayol9:
If you have been through storms of life and you overcame there is no way pride will enter you.
I am talking from experience though una fit correct me, if two friends are striving to make it, if one finally does, why is it that the one that made it 95% of them forgets the other friend who is still struggling, an helping hand is okay, a situation you yourself had experienced.
No come dey ask me who i don help, i am almost there but still do the little i can afford to help.
Life is vanity, we hold too much to what we can never keep, we all see lessons from life but daily we ignore.
Anyways last last, we will all be successful, timing differs, each day we wake up, there is hope 100%.

Sometimes people you think have made it are still struggling in silence.

Nebes:


Sometimes people you think that have made it are still struggling in silence.

I agree boss but they would have done well to speak out but not all of them.

I dont have many friends but the few I have would go the whole length for each other...we lift each other up and we are all millionaires. We are already laying the foundations to be billionaires.

Blitzking:
I dont have many friends but the few I have would go the whole length for each other...we lift each other up and we are all millionaires. We are already laying the foundations to be billionaires.

Can I join the moving train.
Maybe you can lift me up also

mosho2good:

Can I join the moving train.
Maybe you can lift me up also

Sometimes you people think it's so easy like that.

kabanayol9:
If you have been through storms of life and you overcame there is no way pride will enter you.
I am talking from experience though una fit correct me, if two friends are striving to make it, if one finally does, why is it that the one that made it 95% of them forgets the other friend who is still struggling, an helping hand is okay, a situation you yourself had experienced.
No come dey ask me who i don help, i am almost there but still do the little i can afford to help.
Life is vanity, we hold too much to what we can never keep, we all see lessons from life but daily we ignore.
Anyways last last, we will all be successful, timing differs, each day we wake up, there is hope 100%.

Not everyone will be successful. That's the bitter truth

It's not every human that has a helping heart
Just have that at the back of your mind.....
Some people might be poor but would still help the little way they can
While some would be rich but won't help with water.

Maj196:
Not everyone will be successful. That's the bitter truth

Everyone will be successful, e just get levels, there is no one GOD Almighty hasn't done well for.

Blitzking:
I dont have many friends but the few I have would go the whole length for each other...we lift each other up and we are all millionaires. We are already laying the foundations to be billionaires.

Smiles.....
You are fortunate, thank GOD for the blessings, well my own close friends not frenemies o those who pretend, we are still praying to GOD to bless us all.

davillian:
It's not every human that has a helping heart
Just have that at the back of your mind.....
Some people might be poor but would still help the little way they can
While some would be rich but won't help with water.

That is true, not every human that has a helping hand, one of guy then wey nothing don sup, we dey on talking terms, o boy as GOD bless am, my guy bone me.
But does money 💰 changes people to that extent?

kabanayol9:

Everyone will be successful, e just get levels, there is no one GOD Almighty hasn't done well for.

I beg to differ

kabanayol9:

Everyone will be successful, e just get levels, there is no one GOD Almighty hasn't done well for.

Even the begotten son of God Almighty, Jesus, said, "The poor will always be with you." Now I know you want to be hopeful and it's good, but NOT EVERYONE WILL BE SUCCESSFUL. The only prayer you should have on your lips every day is to not be among the "poor" Jesus was referring to, and then back it up with hard work and zeal.

Everyone expect you to help them which it is not so.. You can't help everybody

Entitlement mentality day worry you



Better go and kys before you regret ever living

kabanayol9:

I agree boss but they would have done well to speak out but not all of them.

And when they "speak out", you'll be the first to mock them & spread gossip.


It's very easy to castigate players on the football field, when you're a mere spectator.

kabanayol9:

That is true, not every human that has a helping hand, one of guy then wey nothing don sup, we dey on talking terms, o boy as GOD bless am, my guy bone me.
But does money 💰 changes people to that extent?

Money doesn't "change" anybody, it only amplifies your personality.

You don't expect the dude's schedule to remain the same, when he's upgraded financially.


If he's still hanging out with you, you'll still be the same person to say he's become pompous due to your insecurity.

Everything is not as easy as you think it is.

The challenge is what many people call 'help' is actually 'handouts' if I keep giving u handouts then you are leeching no body likes leeches, if I was leeching I won't make it. Show them how you make it, they will run or cannot replicate your success

There’s something called closing the gap

This is the reason rich people don't like to hang out w/ the poor because they'll be pulled down to their level.

How many ppl can rich ppl help and still remain rich?

MyVILLAGEpeople:


Sometimes you people think it's so easy like that.

I know it not easy and I'm ready to start with determination

You can help all you want but the truth remains that

1% will be wealthy filthy rich
4% will be rich can afford anything they wish
15% will be comfortable
80+ will be dead broke.

It's universal principle of life.

Check all the schools first class 1% 2nd class 4% third class and the rest na them plenty pass.

1% of all websites make more than 90% of the money 90% struggle to even pay for hosting after the first year.

Even yahoo 1% dey cash out steady why 90% just dey follow follow.

Ask yourself why?

It's because of the action the 1% take than the overwhelming 90% will never take.

That's what seperate the rich from the poor.

People think it's luck yes luck happens when preparation meets opportunity.

The more hardworking you get the more luckiest (lol you become)

Recap you now know the majority is always wrong.

if you get nothing else out of my rant please write this down.

POPULAR CULTURE AND OPINION ARE BS.

Find the 1% those who don't follow the popular culture and you increase your chances of success.

If success is easy why isn't everyone successful.

Patience and persistence following the right formula that works is important.

In SEO and online business where I leave if you follow the nerds mentality (popular culture) you're wired to fall into cliff.

Find the 1%
Become a life long learner
Always see and count investing in your education as important (one good idea from a course is worth 12 months playing blind archery.

That's what most people starting business do they play blind archery coming to nairaland looking for idea to invest without first investing in educating themselves.

Let me end my rant with a quote from a mentor the late charlie munger warren buffet business partner.

If it is wisdom you're after, you're going to spend a lot of time on your ass reading."

Here's charlie munger nuggets I'm thinking I of adoption.

"I don't have too much interest in teaching other people how to get rich."

When ask why he's muggers reply.

Intense interest in any subject is indispensable if you're really going to excel in it" and only few people develop the interest.

I'd hope my rant help someone out there get to the top.

It's lonely at the top but at least it's not crowded.

Remember people are determined to be right than become rich.

Money/status are revealers. Those on top that refused to help are just like that regardless.

But again, if you think money is the only qualifier to know who is on top and living the good life, then you have a very narrow way of seeing the world.

Money is just material wealth, and lots of wealthy folks commit suicide daily. As one go up in status, his problems doesn't end, it only evolves. Poor people won't understand this, hence wealthy folks just segregate themselves.

Rich people also need who to trust, they want to be loved, their money can't cover their shortcomings (eg a short man), they also feel insecure. They need genuine friends, they want to be vulnerable, etc.

You don't know the heavy price they paid to be wealthy, and they might be jealous of you that's poor but still have your peace. They can see on a higher plain because they've climbed far. They struggle too. Your helper also need help.

But to those still in survival mode, they can't think past money, and just assume because you have it, then you have no problems. That's wrong.

before I embarked on my journey, I made you an offer to ride with me, but you declined.


you said I should go forth, If(when) the coast is clear, I should come for you.

so you don't want to die, but you want to go to heaven.

nah broh..its a give and take world.

It is because most rich people are psychopaths, only very few are good people.

kabanayol9:
If you have been through storms of life and you overcame there is no way pride will enter you.
I am talking from experience though una fit correct me, if two friends are striving to make it, if one finally does, why is it that the one that made it 95% of them forgets the other friend who is still struggling, an helping hand is okay, a situation you yourself had experienced.
No come dey ask me who i don help, i am almost there but still do the little i can afford to help.
Life is vanity, we hold too much to what we can never keep, we all see lessons from life but daily we ignore.
Anyways last last, we will all be successful, timing differs, each day we wake up, there is hope 100%.

Don’t you know that the rich also cry?
Relax man, nobody has it all sorted out.
Life challenges can never be solved absolutely rather they only transform from one form to another.

How did I know this?

Listen fam, looking back I remember praying and brainstorming on a stead to be where I am today. Now, on getting here my priorities have changed in pursuit of more.
So you see, human needs are insatiable. It’s an unending cycle.

But at a point you’ll realize that what actually matters in this life are basically immaterial in nature.

wwwtortoise:


Listen fam, looking back I remember praying and brainstorming on a stead to be where I am today. Now, on getting here my priorities have changed in pursuit of more. So you see, human needs are insatiable. It’s an unending cycle.

But at a point you’ll realize that what actually matters in this life are basically immaterial in nature.

Yes. I have been saying this here for long. The immaterial are what actually matters, and material wealth are complimentary.

A wealthy woman that is not sexually satisfied will go get it from a broke boy that has dedicated his life to knacking as a calling

Big man will park his car to go to the ghetto to meet iya alagbo to give her better herbal medicine. Though he is rich, he needs the service of a poor woman.

Rich folks are mostly wolves, very wise within themselves, and need those lower to feel respected, and to put their wealth in the spotlight becsuse if everyone are rich, then no one is rich.

A governor that is wealthy and has access to unimaginable funds recently passed away. So time was actually his greatest wealth, and poor man has it in abundant.

Or all these rich western people that yahoo boys are exploiting becsuse they need companionship. Their big houses, money, and financial freedom could not fill the desire for love and to be loved.

Life is lived immaterially, money just makes it more interesting.



etc.

wwwtortoise:


Don’t you know that the rich also cry?
Relax man, nobody has it all sorted out.
Life challenges can never be solved absolutely rather they only transform from one form to another.

How did I know this?

Listen fam, looking back I remember praying and brainstorming on a stead to be where I am today. Now, on getting here my priorities have changed in pursuit of more.
So you see, human needs are insatiable. It’s an unending cycle.

But at a point you’ll realize that what actually matters in this life are basically immaterial in nature.

Thanks for more enlightenment, everyone go through one stuff or the other but i think that shouldn't hinder helping a good friend.

Karlifate:



Money doesn't "change" anybody, it only amplifies your personality.

You don't expect the dude's schedule to remain the same, when he's upgraded financially.


If he's still hanging out with you, you'll still be the same person to say he's become pompous due to your insecurity.

Are you saying because money 💰 has come now, his scheduled changed, upgraded financially, he can't still be hanging with his family, girlfriend?
I can't say because he is still hanging out with me, i should be saying he is now pompous, No.

Karlifate:


And when they "speak out", you'll be the first to mock them & spread gossip.


It's very easy to castigate players on the football field, when you're a mere spectator.

Nah women dey do that one, real men doesn't gossip, it's just for the good friend to know what he is passing through, a good friend wouldn't do so.

About castigation, i am just wondering why people changes after making it and forgetting people wey dem dey before.