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Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by 1metre: 6:07pm On Dec 28, 2023
You can't achieve a purpose in a relationship without its ingredients.

Romance and finance are the key factor without them you can't achieve any purpose in that relationship.
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by jamesversion: 6:08pm On Dec 28, 2023
The Purpose of a relatiosnhip is romance which is made possible by finance. undecided

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Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by CoronaVirusPro: 6:09pm On Dec 28, 2023
Depends on the type of family.

Nuclear or Polygamy?
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by BluntCrazeMan: 6:11pm On Dec 28, 2023
None of these..


Peace and mutual-understanding is the most important.
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by Lanre1st(m): 6:12pm On Dec 28, 2023
For this Nigeria, Financial responsibility by man hold relationship
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by OBA117(m): 6:12pm On Dec 28, 2023
Purpose!!!!!!!!
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by Justiceleague1: 6:19pm On Dec 28, 2023
Finance makes all others adwaya grin

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Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by Sirseedorf(m): 6:19pm On Dec 28, 2023
Purpose first, because it comes with sense and focus, then any other aspects can come in.
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by abiolamitodun(m): 6:24pm On Dec 28, 2023
Just forget romance....that shit only exist if there's finance...
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by JADEK04: 6:25pm On Dec 28, 2023
Finance
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by MANNABBQGRILLS: 6:27pm On Dec 28, 2023
FACT OF LIFE!!!

The wall of a solid relationship is built on a solid WALLET.

Godsongang:
Damn thats what we call a real woman
Just give a woman what she wants and watch her pampers you to high heavens with everything in her disposal.

We Rise!

adeoladeola:
Pastor, pls speak louder for those at the back.
Lol cheesy

No matter the matter : RTID.
Another Mad jam by our Darling VADO!

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Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by mechanics(m): 6:27pm On Dec 28, 2023
Love is the most important than all.
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by israelmao(m): 6:28pm On Dec 28, 2023
A well defined purpose brings the other two,
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by Massy(m): 6:30pm On Dec 28, 2023
Theopneustos:
Good day nairalanders

I have listened to a couple of preachers both secular and religious on the issue of what is prime in a relationship and they revolve around these three which are romance,finance and purpose.
Some said romance is important, while others finance and yet some others purpose.

Which is more important.
I think it's purpose.

What do you think.


That part about 'purpose' only exists in Motivational speeches and amongst preachers...not in the real world.

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Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by kabanayol9(m): 6:30pm On Dec 28, 2023
Theopneustos:
Good day nairalanders

I have listened to a couple of preachers both secular and religious on the issue of what is prime in a relationship and they revolve around these three which are romance,finance and purpose.
Some said romance is important, while others finance and yet some others purpose.

Which is more important.
I think it's purpose.

What do you think.
Finance
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by AZControversial(m): 6:31pm On Dec 28, 2023
smiley

Purpose!!! The only of all three that can fully stand the test of time.

Romance will always take its place naturally.

Relationship built on finance is as good as simply paying someone to keep you company. And don't deceive yourself. That's no relationship!!!

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Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by Nobody: 6:31pm On Dec 28, 2023
Relationship is dynamic... What works for A might not work for B.

People's values differs, find one whose values match yours and kick off.

Very simple grin

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Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by kabanayol9(m): 6:33pm On Dec 28, 2023
Holluwhakemmy:
Finance. money answereth all things, romance can follow suit
I like you for being sincere, GOD bless you.
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by rapheal5(m): 6:34pm On Dec 28, 2023
Theopneustos:
Good day nairalanders

I have listened to a couple of preachers both secular and religious on the issue of what is prime in a relationship and they revolve around these three which are romance,finance and purpose.
Some said romance is important, while others finance and yet some others purpose.

Which is more important.
I think it's purpose.

What do you think.
Where you are on the continent and your achievements before getting into a relationship determines..
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by kabanayol9(m): 6:35pm On Dec 28, 2023
Animegirl:
Finance, "Money" if not Human beings will show you "shege"Purpose will come when there is money, no matter how small. sweet romance will come when there is finance.

I am telling you.
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by brain54(m): 6:39pm On Dec 28, 2023
Persephone1:
Relationship is dynamic... What works for A might not work for B.

People's values differs, find one whose values match yours and kick off.

Very simple grin
Exactly...

I am always skeptical and reluctant to answer such questions.

Life has no template or manual on these things.

What works for couple A might be what made couple B to divorce.

Life is dynamic!
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by JustPowerApps(m): 6:43pm On Dec 28, 2023
Romance wink
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by M0M0SHIKI: 6:44pm On Dec 28, 2023
If finance is present the other 2 will fall in line
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by MrSmithy: 6:44pm On Dec 28, 2023
Can you stay with ur lover for 3 days without food and keep telling her i love u?

Bros!Go chase funds and be purposeful in life cox money and purpose will give u romance
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by AlphaHakimi: 6:44pm On Dec 28, 2023
As a man, never joke with your Finance. That is not to say that you make money for women. Only give a woman just enough to guarantee her survival. Never provide luxury to any woman, if she wants luxury let her go and work.

The world thinks along the line of finance. A rich man may be stupid but his words, actions and inaction carry more value than that of a wise poor man.

Just know that in any relationship with a woman, the primary aim in her mind is because you are providing something or that you are capable of providing something in the nearest future. So do not go to any length to please her.

One thing men do not understand is that when a woman knows you can provide, she will want to stick with you. Forget the threat of breakfast/divorce. A few Instagram DMs (attention) does not translate to a good life and women know this.

1) Finance
2) Finance
3) Finance.

But don't spoil any woman. Just give them the barest minimum that will guarantee her survival.

Shalom

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Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by tuzle(m): 6:45pm On Dec 28, 2023
Me I think making finance the most important thing is deadly because when u get broke later in future, u have lost the most important thing that brought u guys together. Yes finance is important. But purpose should be the most important thing, in case ur finances fail u in future.
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by jayAjoku(m): 6:46pm On Dec 28, 2023
For men finance is the most important just make sure you are not using your finance to impress the women. Make sure you are looking good, feeling good and eating good. Take care of YOURSELF first before you start to reason relationship.

You can get pussy even if you are broke,
but you cannot coordinate a relationship properly if you are broke know the difference and act accordingly. Romance can come at any point in time

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Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by dkidd: 6:49pm On Dec 28, 2023
orohbirodeysmel:
When you broke without one Kobo and woman begin show u her real colour you go know which one is important
grin
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by Onyiiobi7735(m): 6:51pm On Dec 28, 2023
Purpose is the most important thing in any relationship, because if it is lacking, even when romance and finance are there,it would definitely crash with time.
A relationship with purpose and romance but lacking finance will stand and develop into the next level,as long as the partners accepted each other wholeheartedly for who they are,are committed to work as one in faithfulness, true love and trust, and manage their finances no matter how low it is.
If the partners are God fearing,it is an excellent and very vital point.
With prayers and hard work, there's no storm the couple can't overcome.
There are relationships with romance and finance and purpose which ultimately crash due to.
1.Abusive behaviour
2.Keeping vital secrets.
3.Nagging
4.Petty attitude
5.Dirty habits
6.Drug addiction
7.Incompactibility of goals and views on the future plans.
8.Lack of trust and insecurity.
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by dkidd: 6:52pm On Dec 28, 2023
Persephone1:
Relationship is dynamic... What works for A might not work for B.

People's values differs, find one whose values match yours and kick off.

Very simple grin
I stand with this
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by donwily(m): 6:56pm On Dec 28, 2023
Money answereth all things....says the preacher
Re: Romance,finance Or Purpose Which Is More Important In A Relationship by Stevenbright(m): 6:57pm On Dec 28, 2023
Theopneustos:
Good day nairalanders

I have listened to a couple of preachers both secular and religious on the issue of what is prime in a relationship and they revolve around these three which are romance,finance and purpose.
Some said romance is important, while others finance and yet some others purpose.

Which is more important.
I think it's purpose.

What do you think.

There is a fourth factor, which I think is more important than any of these three and the cryptic sum of the three equals this fourth factor. This factor is Commitment.

Romance: One can be romantic to his/her partner while still cheating on the partner.

Finance: One can make enough financial sacrifice to his/her partner while still being domestically violent to the partner or being unfaithful.

Purpose: Is a higher order than the two above but it can still fail because in most cases, the purpose each brought into the relationship might not converge (Varying individual purposes).

Commitment: This can not be faked for long. So, it is either a partner is committed to the relationship or not. With commitment, romance will be intact, finance will be adequate because the available one will be judiciously managed for the good of all, and there will be common/genuine purpose for the good of all.

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