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Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by Seun(m): 9:28pm On Jan 07 |
Hello Everyone, There have been numerous complaints about anti-women, anti-feminist and misogynistic content on Nairaland, especially in this section. This is not unrelated to the rising popularity of people like Sola, who are trying to fight back against the perceived excesses of woke western feminism. But it has brewed too much toxicity. It has driven too many women out of the Romance section and out of Nairaland. They feel that they are always being attacked by male Nairalanders who seem to hate and despise them. How can we make women feel welcome in the Romance section and on Nairaland? What rules should we put in place to bring women back and make them very happy? Cheers. 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by Prec1ous(m): 9:30pm On Jan 07 |
First, you have to understand that people will always have opinion. Just that some people are not mild when they want to express themselves. Second, anti this and uncle that comments really depends on what side of the extremity you are. So if you want to pick a side, what will the anti-men comments hater say? Third, I am disappointed that you mentioned a twitter person when you could have used someone from nairaland.com for your illustration. Four, I really don't think they hate women here. Just a sprinkle of them who want things there way and don't get it always scream to high heaven. Five, it's a forum. If you don't like a thread. Can't you just skip. Six, accept that what you are trying to achieve is counterintuitive. The biggest thread on this board is a so-called women hating thread but it gets a comment almost everyday. Seven, now you want to fight for the women, who will speak for men, you inclusive! 43 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by iLegendd(m): 9:30pm On Jan 07 |
Real men don't hate women—they just don't want disrespect and dragging of duties as assigned by their forefathers. Men (husband and boyfriends) just want faithfulness, submissiveness and respect. Women feel offering these 3 things = slavery. (All thanks to Western media). There is only one solution and that is: women should obey those three things I listed above. When they do, no sensible man will ever say bad things about them. Failure to do this, African men won't keep quiet to avoid being emasculated like American men. A faithful, submissive (not slave) and respectful woman is the most beautiful flower on Earth. No solution until tradition is restored. Or, deactivate every male account on Nairaland so that women can be the only ones to create posts and comment while the men watch like voiceless and powerless SIMPs. This will even help more men focus on money and self-improvement than creating threads on NL day and night. Straight women roam around where there are men—be it toxic male or not. If all the men leave or get silenced, these women you want to fight for will get bored and also leave. The Romance Section will collapse. #Fact. 58 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by overdrive(m): 9:30pm On Jan 07 |
We need inputs from zonefree and mosdii. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by Wawelexy(m): 9:30pm On Jan 07 |
Nairaland feminist don play victim card for this bro.... Mr Seun is a SIMPle man ![]() 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by Proserpina: 9:31pm On Jan 07 |
I'm not biting... |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by EmptyGarden(m): 9:33pm On Jan 07 |
Too many rules and regulations might end up chasing everyone else. 21 Likes |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by Ballzproblem2: 9:33pm On Jan 07 |
you can do whatever you want don't just touch the redpill thread, besides they free defend themselves nobody is stopping them. 25 Likes |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by Keaton(m): 9:35pm On Jan 07 |
Oga seun, leave all this plenty talk. As long as your mods respond to reports quickly, people will be encouraged to use the report button. That covers just about everything. 13 Likes |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by Odunharry(m): 9:38pm On Jan 07 |
Vice versa bro. Check anti-men post also. Insults from both genders should be totally frown at.. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by atilla(m): 9:41pm On Jan 07 |
Have mods that are working and visible In the section . If I know a mod is around and responds to comments in posts then I'll feel careful. At a time all the mods last seen was 3 or 4 months ago on the day I checked. ![]() Also if mods respond to when people report posts then I feel they will be more encouraged. E.g when ai report some abusive posts, all I know is they are removed from my view but I dont know If anything is done. 9 Likes |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by Nazgul: 9:42pm On Jan 07 |
By improving Moderating activities on this section. Moderators presence in this forum is almost non-existent. This is why so many anti female posts are left untouched. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by Fira09(m): 9:43pm On Jan 07 |
Nah..... ; Definitely, there's actually no way you can stop anti-women post, it's just not possible. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by Havesomesense(m): 9:44pm On Jan 07 |
Women are not special. 20 Likes |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by leisuretym: 9:47pm On Jan 07 |
You want to start banning men for countering feminist? Well let me stick to my twitter. 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by Starz825(m): 9:51pm On Jan 07 |
see, you already have your plans... I support your plans |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by cococandy(f): 9:57pm On Jan 07 |
1) The unwillingness or inability to admit that women are mistreated both on this forum and in real life is in itself an offense. I’d start from there. 2) Sometimes threads that present the case of a murdered or missing woman/girl are met with disgusting comments from men. Look into that. 3) let the MODs actually enforce the rules against people that trivialize domestic violence and rape. What’s the point of rules if they are not enforced BRB 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by UptownVibes(m): 10:01pm On Jan 07 |
Instead of you to bring what will make nairaland interesting like the X app you visit all the time,you are doing rules this up and down.. Small thing wen dey make the forum dey interesting, you dey scatter am. Now if you remove all these,wetin come be fun for the nairaland? When feminist were calling we men scum,you been travel that time? Now that we guys are saying no to bulshit,na now you dey find rules. Na ur site sha,anything you like .. U no talk of how to remove under aged and scammers, na our self defense you wan place rule on. Just dey play Seun its time you start paying for first to comment,but for only those who subscribed for green tick monthly. How u see am? ![]() ![]() 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by Demigod22: 10:02pm On Jan 07 |
The problem I have with the so called feminist is simple, they want others to fight their battle, like Seun doing right now. They also want same men to subscribe their phone, feed them, clothes them and the only job they want is dancing half naked on social media. Ngozi Okonjo Iweala, Amina Mohammed, Uche Ekwunife, Ngozi Chimamanda Adichie, Alakija, Agbani Derego, Rita Dominic, and other leading African women who have achieved something meaningful and productive in life, do not consider home duty as slavery, but Precious with carryover in school, urgent 2k begging, won't allow someone to hear word. Most of them don't even know the etymology of feminism, how it started, the tenets of feminism, the goals and objectives, talk more of womanism. They just jump on movement without comprehending the nitty gritty or intellectual compass of such theory. How many happy feminist do you know? Come on online to rant and mislead the gullible young girls, then cry miserably because of loneliness at home. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by leisuretym: 10:11pm On Jan 07 |
UptownVibes: Women attacking men, the man who is the referee too gave the man red card, the other man who is just passing by jumped on the man and started slapping him, shouting" you dey beat woman" , You don't put emotions in business, ban those who promote rape, not men, be logical men are rape victim also, so apply the rule to both gender if you want to promote gender equality, don't throw men under the bus. 6 Likes |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by Nicepoker(m): 10:14pm On Jan 07 |
Well. If you think you want to learn how to shoot without missing. We have already graduated from flying without perching ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by UptownVibes(m): 10:17pm On Jan 07 |
leisuretym:Oga Seun Shey u dey hear. If no be one thing,I for say weda one feminist here don dey give seun vibes on vibes. 2 Likes |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by Seun(m): 10:19pm On Jan 07 |
Nazgul: Keaton:So the first order of business is to hire new moderators, particularly women, who can enforce the existing rules against harassment, derailment, etc. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by Zonefree(m): 10:23pm On Jan 07 |
iLegendd:Qed. All rise. 5 Likes |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by Zonefree(m): 10:29pm On Jan 07 |
Seun:Obviously, you want your investments on Nairaland to be a waste. I pity you in advance. 28 Likes |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by Nicepoker(m): 10:31pm On Jan 07 |
Seun:Any lady mod you are about to hire for the romance section. Pls create a thread for us to elect them ourselves. |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by Nazgul: 10:37pm On Jan 07 |
Seun:Not necessarily women, but people who are ready to sanitize this section. The current mods are all women. Yet their impact is hardly felt. So the solution wouldn't be to limit your search to just women. Rather look for people who are ready to moderate without being biased. And you can be assured that they won't take sides when punishing an offender. 2 Likes |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by kkins25(m): 10:39pm On Jan 07 |
Seun: Aren't there bots sophistated enough to do that job? Hopefully, you pick some ladies from who have stayed on the forum...Check Pinkpill thread. Nicepoker:Why ![]() |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by reddingtonblack: 10:53pm On Jan 07 |
cococandy: You have two eyes for a reason stop using one, a woman just cash out millions in real life just posting she wakes up to cook for her husband If men aint showing love or sensitivity are the ladies doing any better ![]() are ladies here saying cool and nices things to the guys or its just an entitlement mentality men must pamper women Injustice & Maltreatment knows no gender, in real world only a woman will have no job or hustle but drive in big cars & live in mansion We all are victims here ... no gree for anybody 10 Likes |
Re: Dealing With Misogyny (Anti-Women Posts) On Nairaland by Nicepoker(m): 10:57pm On Jan 07 |
kkins25:Are we dragging land? What's your own. You gave out your own opinion why is mine your headache. 1 Like |
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