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Re: After 5years Of Emotional Abuse Should I Give A 2nd Chance by Ulunne777(f): 9:31am On Jan 10 |
How did you move from UK to Nigeria? We're you so desperate for marriage that you allowed your husband treat you like a floor rag. A masters holder? You ppl were not in good terms yet pregnancy just dey come. Nne, this is 2024,one thing I'd never do is to advise married people because I believe everyone knows what's good for them. We will say one thing now and 2moro we will be used to settle quarrel. ![]() Lastly, as a human,place value on yourself. Look good,laugh more,make money and see your partner respect you. FOr me I call out my husband's bulshit right there so everybody knows their place. Respect is earned.Respect who you are to be respected. |
Re: After 5years Of Emotional Abuse Should I Give A 2nd Chance by Ahnii(f): 9:34am On Jan 10 |
Cumrade in the industry ![]() ![]() Ulunne777: |
Re: After 5years Of Emotional Abuse Should I Give A 2nd Chance by Bigseven(m): 11:30am On Jan 10 |
You mean you didn’t moved on ? Well simple and sincere answer NO DONT |
Re: After 5years Of Emotional Abuse Should I Give A 2nd Chance by Westwoman: 12:50pm On Jan 10 |
That man is simply a Narcissist! Go and read on it. I would have said Narcissim is a mental disorder but abeg they know what they are doing. So sorry that you had to meet and marry this kind of man. Its not your fault dear and there's nothing wrong with you. The problem is himself. Okay? A Narcissist cannot stay with one woman sorry. They always believe there's something more exciting ahead and because they believe so much in themselves they expect to always have the best of everything in life. So if at the moment you are not at your best, you won't appeal to them much especially if they find someone richer, prettier or better than you in some way outside that would make them look good to other people. They would easily maltreat you without any remorse cos to them you don't fit into their lives. Now guess what you'd be doing by then....begging, crying and trying everything possible to please them. And what does this do? It makes them hate you more. They are not very normal humans actually. Living with a narcissist is like playing a game. Give them reasons to respect you. How? Well, because of the way they are, they only respect people of status, people who can make them look better, people who are doing well in life and all of that. And people who act like they don't exist. Your husband is back because he is now afraid of losing control over you. Thats their greatest fear. Especially now that you have a job. I really don't know how to advise you on whether to stay or leave. I just wanted you to know that he is a narcissist. Going back to him does not mean he would change unless you can maintain a high value status in his eyes, be less dependent on him, act like you don't care about him, once in a while pretend to be seeing another man, subtly. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: After 5years Of Emotional Abuse Should I Give A 2nd Chance by Jeon(f): 2:06pm On Jan 10 |
Ahnii: Hmmn some Women are trying. 4 Likes |
Re: After 5years Of Emotional Abuse Should I Give A 2nd Chance by fineboynl(m): 7:32pm On Jan 10 |
The guy wanted to marry a white woman. But you forced it. That only means you destroyed his plans and there is a karma for that. When such things happens and other plan if his doesn’t work he will begin to blame you. That you are the cause of his failure. When a man tell his wife to give him space like when you leave the house it means he is going through alot. I thinking things are not working for him as it should be. Him sleeping with many girls means he is trying to cut you off and Bleep other girls to try his luck |
Re: After 5years Of Emotional Abuse Should I Give A 2nd Chance by frozen70(f): 7:16am On Jan 11 |
definitelyso: Dey play, you will soon regret more if you continue with this gamble Use your sense |
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