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Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by FeliciaOja(f): 1:12pm On Jan 16 |
Yes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by alizma: 1:16pm On Jan 16 |
Nothing is perfect in a relationship with a man who's family don't want you. The topic should be, will you take the risk of marrying a man who's family don't want you |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by pretydiva(f): 1:16pm On Jan 16 |
A big No |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by KarinaSlim(f): 1:17pm On Jan 16 |
wis3: Lies from the pit of hell. Any woman who marries u just for money does not love you in this world. Just take that from me. |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by integrity16(m): 1:18pm On Jan 16 |
That's a no go area! |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by Trophy12: 1:20pm On Jan 16 |
advanceDNA:I love ur comment God bless u, the best comment so far .I pray she take this advice |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by Emmymarvel(m): 1:22pm On Jan 16 |
Run out of that relationship, forget about all the Glitz and manly look you described. From the family issues you described and how you are convinced that it was the mum that brainwashed him. He is a mummys boy and will not change. Sxyhalima: 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by Ttipsy(f): 1:24pm On Jan 16 |
As a lady u r just gathering firewood that will ……….. Wha if the man die |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by Menclothing: 1:26pm On Jan 16 |
This is funny |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by Teejaney88(m): 1:29pm On Jan 16 |
Gbam! advanceDNA: |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by Babaken(m): 1:32pm On Jan 16 |
As long the money is there 99.9 character she want in a man is there. |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by DukeNija(m): 1:32pm On Jan 16 |
Sxyhalima: Don’t do it. You’ll regret the marriage. If your prospective in-laws don’t like you, walking into that family will be suicide |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by healthkknatural: 1:34pm On Jan 16 |
Cruise777:. True..Talk. |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by Fiscus105(m): 1:34pm On Jan 16 |
He keeps malice to "this and doesn't talk to that" still you called that person a good man. How did u measure ur good man? I guess wen guy is tall and rich , that's ur own dictionary meaning of good man. |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by KanuSE: 1:36pm On Jan 16 |
Ok |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by IamOrei(m): 1:37pm On Jan 16 |
nevere u try am |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by ObalendeCMS: 1:38pm On Jan 16 |
Bwitch, leave that ni66a alone. You probably are nothing different from his mother! Atenu. |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by jaxxy(m): 1:40pm On Jan 16 |
If the family has no genuine reason to dislike u and he/she is financially and emotionally independent of his family. U could probably go ahead. |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by yusufmurry: 1:50pm On Jan 16 |
wis3: No mind them deceiving themselves. She see money say the guy na him spec. Nonsense |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by Originalsly: 1:50pm On Jan 16 |
His mother will control the marriage through him. If she can control who he speaks to in his blood family ... who are you? ... isn't blood thicker than water? If half his salary goes to his mom ... what will be left for his family? Do you really believe his mother will accept him cutting her off and redirecting his resources to your benefit and development? ... to make your married life better than hers? You need to set your feelings aside and really put things in perspective while bearing in mind "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned." |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by Yousuph007(m): 1:59pm On Jan 16 |
Who'll Mary me nah |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by NovusHomo(m): 2:05pm On Jan 16 |
Sxyhalima: Run, Halima, run. This is perhaps the most toxic setup I've ever read about. |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by ukaface(f): 2:09pm On Jan 16 |
You want enter fire by yourself Goodluck |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by Goodnewsforlife: 2:11pm On Jan 16 |
Sxyhalima:u saw fire n u are asking us if u should enter Can’t u see d red flags? The mother will always have d way no matter who u are, don’t worry go ahead n marry him despite the fact that the woman made it clear she doesn’t like your tribe I pity u Na people like u go come dey create thread about regrets later n expect people to pity u Read about a naira lander here, @greatresearcher by name. He was warned not to marry a gold digger here but love overclouded his common sense Now oga don end up for court in d name of divorce |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by LordIsaac(m): 2:24pm On Jan 16 |
Sxyhalima:You have a choice between what you can see in the present (the man and all he has) and the cross waiting for you, so much so that you may almost be praying for the death of his mother. The choice is yours to make now o…remember not to blame God later if you decide to walk by sight! I’m just advocating for God o. |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by Juniorangel(m): 2:29pm On Jan 16 |
Is a man perfect without his family? Can a man be perfect without the support of his family. Work on your man he is the problem only him can unite his family. |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by kkins25(m): 2:36pm On Jan 16 |
Sxyhalima: If he gives his mom half of his salary, then, that's not a strong-willed man, ma. Mums are very good at making you(I mean their sons) feel indebted to them, so they can keep you under their control. From what you say, the guy isn't in control of his own salary. Come on! Plus, he might be good at hiding it, but, from experience, there are times when I wanted to make moves that my mom didn't agree with and ended up not going through with them because that emotional trojan horse still lingers. He could be wise enough to avoid scenarios that cause trouble between you and the mum, but to say, he'll cut off from her for your sake, is day-dreaming. What makes you think he'll abandon his mother he feels made him who he is for you? On your part, why are you bothered about being on good terms with the mum? From what I know, mums are always on the lookout for flaws in their daughter-in-law. I don't really understand why women want to so badly please their mom inlaws. is there some hierarchical shit going on behind the scenes that we, men, are oblivious to? Somebody, educate me, please. Mod: You better up your own emotional manipulation games: 1) Let him know of your concerns and that he should remember that you, alone, have everything to lose if things don't work out along these lines. 2) Don't try to paint the mum in bad light. That always backfires. Instead, exploit his selfishness (it's a man thingy. ![]() 3) Entice him with stuff like "The burden lies on you to break the yolk, and I will be there to support you all the way." 4) "I'm sorry I have to burden you with this, but please, it's a matter that can destroy the whole family if it's not settled. If you want it to be just me and you, fine. We'll see manage." 5) "Let's talk about this in two weeks time." Something in that manner. Just don't paint the mum or his family in bad light. If possible, rope yourself into the drama. You too, come from home with mommy and daddy issues. and you want to cut off too. ![]() ![]() ![]() It's what I would do anyway. |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by tesuto1(m): 2:40pm On Jan 16 |
After una two don marry,una too kom get issue,who u fit run to,to epp you talk to am....answer this question sincerely before deciding what to do 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Was Perfect For You, But His Family Did Not Like You? by Rrchrd(m): 3:39pm On Jan 16 |
You haven't tell us the country you're from & the 3things you don't like about him or his apperance whatever. |
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