My newly married wife is not romantic, what should i do in this situation, very boastful i mean pride.i don't know where all this is coming from ,if she haven't given birth i would have send her home .


Am only enduring this because our child is just nine months old .
She is still a house wife and lack's nothing in the house. She's not romantic at all and a very difficult person to correct or talk to

Bro don't conclude by saying she lacks NOTHING in the house.

That may be where you are getting it wrong. And besides i figured during courtship you must have seen the red flags. Believing marriage would change things is the biggest mistake couples make..

When courting.. err your views and seek understanding. Marriage with just put you in a snail shell where you will have to leave carrying the burden for the rest of your life

SGANIVA:
My newly married wife is not romantic, what should i do in this situation, very boastful i mean pride.i don't know where all this is coming from ,if she haven't given birth i would have send her home .


Am only enduring this because our child is just nine months old .
She is still a house wife and lack's nothing in the house.

just get her something to do... even if it's just a private school...let her teach...if she can't carry out the pedagogical aspect she must be involved in something... Wait ooo una nor do courtship

What is the usefulness of COURTSHIP?

But am sure she lack's nothing or what could be the problem

WhereMyLoud:
Bro don't conclude by saying she lacks NOTHING in the house.

That may be where you are getting it wrong.

SGANIVA:
My newly married wife is not romantic, what should i do in this situation, very boastful i mean pride.i don't know where all this is coming from ,if she haven't given birth i would have send her home .


Am only enduring this because our child is just nine months old .
She is still a house wife and lack's nothing in the house. She's not romantic at all and a very difficult person to correct or talk to

😐😐😐 Didn't u see all dis before marrying her....?😐😐

No,no courtship, the traditional marriage and wedding happened within some months i meet her

OKUCHI11:
just get her something to do... even if it's just a private school...let her teach...if she can't carry out the pedagogical aspect she must be involved in something... Wait ooo una nor do courtship

OP OKAY OO!!!

SGANIVA:
My newly married wife is not romantic, what should i do in this situation, very boastful i mean pride.i don't know where all this is coming from ,if she haven't given

*Politeness*
The below may help you cope. You ain't alone

You no court am beforehand? What is all this noise?

SGANIVA:
My newly married wife is not romantic, what should i do in this situation, very boastful i mean pride.i don't know where all this is coming from ,if she haven't given birth i would have send her home .


Am only enduring this because our child is just nine months old .
She is still a house wife and lack's nothing in the house. She's not romantic at all and a very difficult person to correct or talk to

I love being blunt and I'm going to give you a list of reasons and I will be 80% accurate....

Whatever you discover from this exposé is up to you

1) she has wrong friends who make all you do for her seem low class or not enough hence she is dissatisfied

2) you are a 5mins 3 sex position style man.... You are boring to her because you dont give attention to what will take her by surprise

3) she was not a virgin at marriage, she has met better guys hence she is unhappy with you

4) she is NOT your friend, you both jus wanted to marry to ease off the pressure. Maybe arranged or matched making wedding

5) communication between you both has lost its spark or it was never really there.

6) she is a familiar stranger... You dont know her, you didnt take time to really know her inside out.

7) she has serious secrets that she cant tell you and it's clashing with her emotions

it may be spiritual/religious

9) all of these and more


Either way, talk to a counselor, an elderly family relative that she respects


Haa3k her phones, so you can know who and what she communicates

Plant hidden cameras in the house too.


Thank m later

Thanks

woginid967:


I love being blunt and I'm going to give you a list of reasons and I will be 80% accurate....

Whatever you discover from this exposé is up to you

1) she has wrong friends who make all you do for her seem low class or not enough hence she is dissatisfied

2) you are a 5mins 3 sex position style man.... You are boring to her because you dont give attention to what will take her by surprise

3) she was not a virgin at marriage, she has met better guys hence she is unhappy with you

4) she is NOT your friend, you both jus wanted to marry to ease off the pressure. Maybe arranged or matched making wedding

5) communication between you both has lost its spark or it was never really there.

6) she is a familiar stranger... You dont know her, you didnt take time to really know her inside out.

7) she has serious secrets that she cant tell you and it's clashing with her emotions

it may be spiritual/religious

9) all of these and more


Either way, talk to a counselor, an elderly family relative that she respects


Haa3k her phones, so you can know who and what she communicates

Plant hidden cameras in the house too.


Thank m later

You didn’t date or cohabit with her before you married her

SGANIVA:
No,no courtship, the traditional marriage and wedding happened within some months i meet her

It seems you quickly married her because she got pregnant

SGANIVA:
My newly married wife is not romantic, what should i do in this situation, very boastful i mean pride.i don't know where all this is coming from ,if she haven't given birth i would have send her home .


Am only enduring this because our child is just nine months old .
She is still a house wife and lack's nothing in the house. She's not romantic at all and a very difficult person to correct or talk to

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You guys are really just funny. You saw all these in her and still went ahead marry?
The mistake people make is that they believe they can change an adult. That's just not possible.
For you befriending and eventually marrying her means you liked her personality. You better have one on one talk with her.
We nairaland members are not enjoying the other room with both of you.

You sound bossy like a controling husband and can't get romance from a woman that way. Try to show her love and respect and see her change for the better...

Maybe she's an illiterate. Those ones like to show strong head and never agree with their husband cos they always have this mentality that I've entered and no going anywhere again.

SGANIVA:
My newly married wife is not romantic, what should i do in this situation, very boastful i mean pride.i don't know where all this is coming from ,if she haven't given birth i would have send her home .


Am only enduring this because our child is just nine months old .
She is still a house wife and lack's nothing in the house. She's not romantic at all and a very difficult person to correct or talk to

You mean she is not Lomantic!

Inukwa!

Are you going to endure this for the rest of your life ?

Gadafii:
You didn’t date or cohabit with her before you married her

Badman spotted

May you live long

SGANIVA:
My newly married wife is not romantic, what should i do in this situation, very boastful i mean pride.i don't know where all this is coming from ,if she haven't given birth i would have send her home .


Am only enduring this because our child is just nine months old .
She is still a house wife and lack's nothing in the house. She's not romantic at all and a very difficult person to correct or talk to

I threaten all my girlfriends with polygamy. See them sit-up in seconds. That's why I love Islamic religion though am a Christian.

This is pride speaking.
Have you even discussed this with her?

You might even be the one that's not romantic

SGANIVA:
No,no courtship, the traditional marriage and wedding happened within some months i meet her

Every mallam with him kettle. Carry your cross bro. How can you play a match without warm up?

KingLennon:

Every mallam with him kettle. Carry your cross bro. How can you play a match without warm up?

Another badman spotted

Bless up

SGANIVA:
No,no courtship, the traditional marriage and wedding happened within some months i meet her

She has another guy warming her kpekus the way she wants it. Secondly do a DNA test on that kid to ascertain it's yours.

What happened to test running before purchase.

Maybe you have a smelling mouth or bad odour or she doesn't love you


Woman way love you no gree for you

Na me day avoid women these days because of too much see finish

Sorry is not possible,my wife can never think of such, will she fly to the person's place

G00dharddick:


She has another guy warming her kpekus the way she wants it. Secondly do a DNA test on that kid to ascertain it's yours.

Humans ...

We will always find something to complain about.

I have even heard someone complain that his partner is toooo fine and another his wife is too good and calm he needed some relationship wahala as he felt bored.

The amazing thing is they never tend to initially notice these imperfections from the beginning.

If your focus is finding faults... Then faults you will find!

DiskJokeyManic:


😐😐😐 Didn't u see all dis before marrying her....?😐😐

Love covered his eyes
Marriage don open am

I'm sure there is one or two things she doesn't like about you too. Ignore her bad side and focus on the good side. No one is perfect, we are just managing ourselves!

SGANIVA:
My newly married wife is not romantic, what should i do in this situation, very boastful i mean pride.i don't know where all this is coming from ,if she haven't given birth i would have send her home .


Am only enduring this because our child is just nine months old .
She is still a house wife and lack's nothing in the house. She's not romantic at all and a very difficult person to correct or talk to

Una no date before marriage?

I never get wetin to tell.

G00dharddick:


She has another guy warming her kpekus the way she wants it. Secondly do a DNA test on that kid to ascertain it's yours.

You sure say you go school like this? Do you know what it means when they say someone is not romantic? Sèx means romantic in your dictionary?

The type of people you chat with sha, na wa....