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Hmm another problem by ex again, if ex was that good why did he become an ex mtcheww. Do your dirty before marriage and don't take it into marriage else the marriage won't be blessed. Op I don't know what to tell you

Lol...
Bro, not trying to be a bad person but make your wife go meet her ex....
What she cannot let go means alot to her....
No vex o but na you and your ex dey marry your wife even though you think say una deh apart..... U don't know what may happen tomorrow behind you..... If you have started having kids.. Bro go do DNA for all of them.... E get why!!!

...........She told her ex that she misses him and they still keep in touch and she said they don't have anything in common and that she just keeps in touch with him yen yen yen..........Na for clap e dey take enta dance. Op shine ya eyes o before them both illustrate Okafor's Law of Congoelasticity ontop your bed.

Later, them go knack and she go wan pin the belle for OP head. When she later give birth to the child and the child share no resemblance with Op, then Nairaland Resident parternity fraud observer in person of @EreluRoz would want to raise an alarm like he did today on one thread about the son of his Dad driver, then everybody would gather on the Alarm thread to shout "Mind ya bizness, Mind ya bizness".

Even the Op could even be an advocate of "Mind your business".

As for me, in this case, I want to Mind my own bizness this night....

The useless time you are using in telling us this, is the same time you shld have used in perfecting your Divorce Papers. Don't be a SIMP, be a MAN!

Go face to face with her, with a stern voice and make sure you are gallantly on your feet and give her a very very very concrete warning ⚠️ , if there is a table close by stamp on it with your palm, say; AS FROM TODAY IF I NOTICE YOU ARE STILL COMMUNICATING WITH YOUR EX, I WILL MAKE SURE I BUNDLE YOU BACK TO NIGERIA 🇳🇬 SO THAT YOU CAN BE WITH HIM FOR GOOD. IF YOU THINK I'M BLUFFING TRY ME AND SEE.

Walk out on her, you can even leave the house at that moment.

Imagine the efforntary angry 😠😡. And that mumu ex in naija, only God know how the wife to have been coping.

Baba, abeg dump her and stop all these epistle!

You don go marry hoelosho

As she no respect you na...

Women will always be loyal to their feelings.

The only luck u have is that you both are not based in Nigeria plus She doesn't rate You.

This is very painful. Serve her the divorce papers already. She's in love with her ex. Let her go, she no mean well for you.

FightingFalcon:
We met in Enugu 3 years ago, got married and relocated to Australia.
My wife told me of how close she was with her ex and all the things they normally do together.
When she started behaving funny, I installed a cctv and hidden recorders in my home just to see if there was something going on whenever I go to work.
To my surprise, my wife told her ex that she misses him and they still keep in touch and she said they don't have anything in common and that she just keeps in touch with him.
Whatever she does in the house, she wants to tell him about it.
When they are talking, you see them referring to her sex life.
I am upset but I don't know if I should be.
I have talked about it to my wife and she promised to stop communicating with him but she didn't know I installed a cctv in my house with the capability to record voices too.
She speaks to him often.
I am thinking of ending the whole marriage so we go our separate ways because it's too early for her to begin to make me develop trust issues.
I want to know if I am right or wrong.
I've spoken but she won't listen.
If she respects me, I think she should listen to me and let her ex go for ever because the dude is a married man too living in Nigeria.

IF THE SO CALLED EX IS NOT IN AUSTRALIA....... JUST CALM DOWN FOR NOW AND KEEP RECORDING TO GATHER MORE INFO FROM THEIR DISCUSSIONS.......... I KNOW IT PAINS ....BUT KEEP YOUR SECRET MONITORING.......TILL SHE OPENS UP WELL, THEN USE GAMBIAN THUNDER TO KICK HER OUT FAST........TRICK HER SO THAT TWO OF YOU WILL NIGERIA........ TAJE HER TO HER PARENTS AND INFORM THEM OF YOUR DECISION.

This equation is very simple


She was dating that ex but chose to marry you because you presented her a lifetime chance of leaving the country. Her heart and mind is with that ex and frankly my friend, I will say to you that is a very dangerous thing, like prophet odumeje will say, “it is veli gengelos”.

That’ she keeps in touch with that ex is she getting closer to banging him one day should the opportunity arise, Okafors law remains constant. Get ready to keep harboring trust issues and be prepared to raise a child that is not yours.

Install the WhatsApp spy app on her device, I can help with that if you can reach me. But I must warn you that the can of warms you will dig up will leave you sick for one full year😂 cause no be only that ex matter you go see🤣🤣🤣


I do not envy you one bit😂

Give her one final warning and ask her to desist from reaching that so call ex again. Should she continue, call off the marriage without warning and send her packing to her father to correct his mistake of giving her to you as wife in the first place and give her to that ex instead to make his second wife. Do this for the sake of your sanity.

Why that gender no go ever get sense na Wetin I no go ever understand!😩


I am so wired with the alpha male ideology that if my partner, be it wife, gf or fiancé, does as much as reply to her ex or keep in touch with him when we are together, I’m done loving you, I send you to him since you can’t do without him.

They can only be one king in a woman’s heart.

The next king should be our son, not a guy whose dick you once rode on, that’s unforgivable.

The one thing I request from my woman is her loyalty…….that’s why I picked you to be my queen in the first place.

Should you be found wanting, even after 5children, I can’t help but drop you like the Biblical Queen Vashti and go Seeking for a worthy Queen Esther

Or better still, let that throne remain vacant!

I cannot kee myself Abeg


My peace I leave you

FightingFalcon:
We met in Enugu 3 years ago, got married and relocated to Australia.
My wife told me of how close she was with her ex and all the things they normally do together.
When she started behaving funny, I installed a cctv and hidden recorders in my home just to see if there was something going on whenever I go to work.
To my surprise, my wife told her ex that she misses him and they still keep in touch and she said they don't have anything in common and that she just keeps in touch with him.
Whatever she does in the house, she wants to tell him about it.
When they are talking, you see them referring to her sex life.
I am upset but I don't know if I should be.
I have talked about it to my wife and she promised to stop communicating with him but she didn't know I installed a cctv in my house with the capability to record voices too.
She speaks to him often.
I am thinking of ending the whole marriage so we go our separate ways because it's too early for her to begin to make me develop trust issues.
I want to know if I am right or wrong.
I've spoken but she won't listen.
If she respects me, I think she should listen to me and let her ex go for ever because the dude is a married man too living in Nigeria.

If she gets to know of the recording be ready for gaslighting, she will try turn it round and dump it on you that you’re spying on her which is not the bone of contention.
First trick her to give you her phone and query her of her call records if Mr ex is on the call log.
Since you have every other evidence, you know what to do.
You are not safe my brother

My issues with you guys is taking a Nigerian woman abroad. Enjoy

NoahHadNoArk:
This equation is very simple


She was dating that ex but chose to marry you because you presented her a lifetime chance of leaving the country. Her heart and mind is with that ex and frankly my friend, I will say to you that is a very dangerous thing, like prophet odumeje will say, “it is veli gengelos”.

That’ she keeps in touch with that ex is she getting closer to banging him one day should the opportunity arise, Okafors law remains constant. Get ready to keep harboring trust issues and be prepared to raise a child that is not yours.


I do not envy you one bit😂

Give her one final warning and ask her to desist from reaching that so call ex again. Should she continue, call off the marriage and send her packing to her father to correct his mistake of giving her to you as wife and give her to that ex to make his second wife. Do this for the sake of your sanity.

Why that gender no go ever get sense na Wetin I no go ever understand!😩


I am so wired with the alpha male ideology that if my partner, be it wife, gf or fiancé, does as much as reply to her ex or keep in touch with him when we are together, I’m done loving you, I send you to him since you can’t do without him.

They can only be one king in a woman’s heart.

The next king should be our son, not a guy whose dick you once rode on, that’s unforgivable.

The one thing I request from my woman is her loyalty…….that’s why I picked you to be my queen in the first place.

Should you be found wanting, even after 5children, I can help but drop you like the Biblical Queen Vashti and go Seeking for a worthy Queen Esther

Or better still, let that throne remain vacant!

I cannot kee myself Abeg


My peace I leave you



PS ……Abeg I never chop make person bless my life, make I see food chop since last week😭

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Alpha male wey dey beg for money, which kind nonsense alpha male is that. You all just come online and use all this terminology wrongly!!!

The man’s wife is talking to her ex so he’s getting revenge by talking to his ex, you sef find your ex. If you don’t have an ex, let your wife go marry someone else and become one of the exes she talks to. Chikena yowa!

NoahHadNoArk:
This equation is very simple


She was dating that ex but chose to marry you because you presented her a lifetime chance of leaving the country. Her heart and mind is with that ex and frankly my friend, I will say to you that is a very dangerous thing, like prophet odumeje will say, “it is veli gengelos”.

That’ she keeps in touch with that ex is she getting closer to banging him one day should the opportunity arise, Okafors law remains constant. Get ready to keep harboring trust issues and be prepared to raise a child that is not yours.

Install the WhatsApp spy app on her device, I can help with that if you can reach me. But I must warn you that the can of warms you will dig up will leave you sick for one full year😂 cause no be only that ex matter you go see🤣🤣🤣


I do not envy you one bit😂

Give her one final warning and ask her to desist from reaching that so call ex again. Should she continue, call off the marriage without warning and send her packing to her father to correct his mistake of giving her to you as wife in the first place and give her to that ex instead to make his second wife. Do this for the sake of your sanity.

Why that gender no go ever get sense na Wetin I no go ever understand!😩


I am so wired with the alpha male ideology that if my partner, be it wife, gf or fiancé, does as much as reply to her ex or keep in touch with him when we are together, I’m done loving you, I send you to him since you can’t do without him.

They can only be one king in a woman’s heart.

The next king should be our son, not a guy whose dick you once rode on, that’s unforgivable.

The one thing I request from my woman is her loyalty…….that’s why I picked you to be my queen in the first place.

Should you be found wanting, even after 5children, I can’t help but drop you like the Biblical Queen Vashti and go Seeking for a worthy Queen Esther

Or better still, let that throne remain vacant!

I cannot kee myself Abeg


My peace I leave you

You think being an alpha has to do with a man's relationship with a woman

The solution to this is to get your wife a job or something to keep her busy, presently she has a lot of idle time on her hands

Make no mistake your wife will fucck that ex if chance dey

Infact she had bleeped him while you guys was dating it before you traveled out

The ex got her hooked like cocaaine real good that’s why she’s still attached to him

But right now you don’t have any concrete evidence to even mail her with, and I wouldn’t advise you to divorce her over there in Australia, for obvious reasons at the same time I don’t see reason why you should allow her remain in your house when she doesn’t respect you and the marriage.

Find another woman too before they shock you. If the husband don't take precautions early, the ex will donate babbies to his marriage, half a word is enough for the wise. Over to the next observer, what yo gat to say bro?

Why did you "steal" her from her ex?

Because you get money & australian whatever.

Mr australian husband enjoy the evil that you brought upon yourself for "stealing" what was not rightfully yours from the begining.

Timid simp!

If she love you enough , she won't get caught. They are all the same. Once you caught them, they might kill you one day

FightingFalcon:
We met in Enugu 3 years ago, got married and relocated to Australia.
My wife told me of how close she was with her ex and all the things they normally do together.
When she started behaving funny, I installed a cctv and hidden recorders in my home just to see if there was something going on whenever I go to work.
To my surprise, my wife told her ex that she misses him and they still keep in touch and she said they don't have anything in common and that she just keeps in touch with him.
Whatever she does in the house, she wants to tell him about it.
When they are talking, you see them referring to her sex life.
I am upset but I don't know if I should be.
I have talked about it to my wife and she promised to stop communicating with him but she didn't know I installed a cctv in my house with the capability to record voices too.
She speaks to him often.
I am thinking of ending the whole marriage so we go our separate ways because it's too early for her to begin to make me develop trust issues.
I want to know if I am right or wrong.
I've spoken but she won't listen.
If she respects me, I think she should listen to me and let her ex go for ever because the dude is a married man too living in Nigeria.

Why not send her back to Nigeria on code .

Una no dey tire for fabricated stories

If their connection is really that deep, how come they broke up? Be like say your wife get olosho tendencies. Sorry man.

Once debe must always debe ....

If you run into some challenges today, that woman will dump you and move to another part of Australia with another man. She can even bring that her ex over from Nigeria

Man use your sense and don't let her suspect any of your moves. take her back to Nigeria and divorce her there. Count your loss and move on orelse that same woman is going to kill you and bring the ex over there to enjoy your sweat.

She told you about how close she was with her ex..you still went ahead to fall for her...You brought it upon yourself...bruh this generation of women are something else...my first question to girls I have met was how close and committed they were to their ex.

Once I hear close or well I can't forget him coz he's my ex..bruh na race I go pick...I hate that ex of a thing eeh..some girls cheat with their ex like kilode..

EreluRoz:
Hmm another problem by ex again, if ex was that good why did he become an ex mtcheww. Do your dirty before marriage and don't take it into marriage else the marriage won't be blessed. Op I don't know what to tell you

I never expected you to know what to tell op, always the same, if was a man now, you would have cursed and reign different advice to the woman

Nigerian ladies, stop exporting your bad attitudes and sluttish lifestyle abroad.

Men look well OOO. Your family will sell everything, borrow and support you with funds. Just for one to end with daughter of jezebel who didn't contribute a single Kobo.

Why na christians dey suffer this nonsense
Bring her back and throw her away.

Snowx:
She told you about how close she was with her ex..you still went ahead to fall for her...You brought it upon yourself...bruh this generation of women are something else...my first question to girls I have met was how close and committed they were to their ex.

Once I hear close or well I can't forget him coz he's my ex..bruh na race I go pick...I hate that ex of a thing eeh..some girls cheat with their ex like kilode..

That's how one daughter of jezebel was telling me is just pleasantries the exchange and not enemies. Very selfish and stupid folks