VeryWickedMan:
Kidnap yourself and set a high ransom.
Her negotiation with the kidnappers will reveal her networth.

Day169:

.. correction, her negotiation will rather reveal your 'real' networth.
Don't be surprised if she says that she doesn't negotiate with kidnappers!

Notfogotten:
A lot of men complain that their women hide their finances from them. Such women, according to the men, contributes little or nothing in the home.

Marriage is supposed to be between man and woman share everything in common including finances.
While their are women who are truthful to their husbands, there are many others who are in the majority that hides everything from their husbands. The women in this later category hardly use their husbands as their next of kin. They may have 2 or more investments that the husbands may never be aware of.

If as a man, your wife is in the category of women who believe that their money is meant for them and them alone and who are very secretive about many other things, this is what you must do.

You must start reciprocating her behavior by being secretive yourself. You must start saving as much as possible. continue to provide for your family, but make sure you aren't doing that to please your woman. For instance, pay for an accommodation you can afford. If you can afford, N700k accommodation per annum, please go for the one of N400k.

If she complains that she doesn't like the 400k apartment, make her understand that is what you can afford at the moment. Give her the option of completing the money if she has so that the family will have a better one.

The whole idea is to make sure you save as much as possible. It most unlikely that a woman who hides money from you will be there for you if you no longer have the strength to work due to old age or illness.

Be intentional about your saving and ensure you maintain it as top secret.

Tallesty1:
LOL. I don't understand why she should know how much you earn, even if she is the proverbial woman. Work hard, make your money, and take good care of the wife of your youth and your kids.

How much you earn or have is not her business as long as you're living up to your responsibilities. If she works and you guys have a joint account, that's cool. What is in your personal account is not her business, at least until she becomes your soulmate.

You people can share ideas, discuss your investments and even plan it, ensure she feels it when you make profit but it ends there, total income is not her business.

Humans can be wicked and evil, and they can do and undo; they can change any minute. Trust no one easily.

Take good care of her, take very good care of her, take more good care of her but keep your finances to yourself until she..... you are a man, you should know when.


Please note that this may not apply to all couples.