mariahAngel:
Now, I believe you're a troll.

You can do whatever the heck you want. You're the scriptwriter.

Keep on updating us, you hear?

At least, Obavoh isn't this annoying with his own storyline.

Handsomejok:



Please madam I am not a troll , is it a crime to ask for advice here? please tell me how I am annoying have I ever beg you or anyone in this forum for money to feed my family ?

Please if you think my post is annoying skip it and find other post that will not annoy you

immortalcrown:
1.
You don't want her to hustle now because of the six-month-old baby.

2.
The same you want to give her 150k now for her to start a business.

3.
The ex had a child with her ex before you started with her.

You have a six-month-old baby with the ex but your current girlfriend is already pregnant.

Is this a fiction?

Caaz:
So many damaged men on this forum.


What an irresponsible man.
Harvesting kids anyhow with different women


Smh

Handsomejok:


You didn't answer my question please I need matured advice

Handsomejok:


It is no fiction please am very serious , starting her own business in front of the house is better than her working for someone else with a small baby. Nobody will even hired her with a small baby

immortalcrown:
Give her the money and tell her the purpose of the money.

I am tempted to tell you that you are very..., let me not say it.

mariahAngel:
Now, I believe you're a troll.

You can do whatever the heck you want. You're the scriptwriter.

Keep on updating us, you hear?

At least, Obavoh isn't this annoying with his own storyline.

Caaz:

.
Harvesting kids anyhow with different women
Smh

Handsomejok:


It is no fiction please am very serious , starting her own business in front of the house is better than her working for someone else with a small baby. Nobody will even hired her with a small baby

GboyegaD:


It takes two to tango though. Don't blame the guy only.

Caaz:

Yeah gboskii...
But this man here sounds like a very irresponsible man to me,I had to go thru his entire topics.

He just separated from his live in lover and has quickly pregnated his lover.

Very soon he would break up with his lover then hops and impregnate another lady again.

Na so he go just de breed innocent kids upandan

Handsomejok:
My ex and I share 2 children together she also had a child from her previous relationship, we are separated and I provide for her and the children. She isn't working because our last child is only 6 months old hence I am still providing for her child from her previous relationship until the baby is old enough for her to work .
Due to the harsh economy my shop is dry and I can't afford to provide everything for them again and I don't want her to go and hustle with a small baby.
I've requested a loan of 500k from a family friend because I wanted to top up my my shops. he gave me 350k which I am grateful. I want to give my ex wife 150 out of the 350k for her to establish herself with a profitable business for her to take care of the rent and her daughter school fees meanwhile I will be paying our daughter school fee and will continue to send something for the children like feeding money .
My hands are full I cannot longer keep providing rent and her daughter school fee because I have other bills too including my shop and my own house rent , plus my girlfriend who's pregnant that am living with her. I do send 15k to 25k monthly for feeding plus the children school fees , the rent will be expired by August. So she will not start paying rent immediately she has some months left.

My question is if you were in my position , what would you have done ?

GboyegaD:


It takes two to tango though. Don't blame the guy only.

@handsomejok,
Why are you getting someone else pregnant when you and your wife barely separated?

Stevenbright:


Your plan is a great one but inform her to make sure the business is successful, otherwise she will be on her own.

To ensure it works for the good of both of you, follow up with her, don't just look away. You can contribute ideas or other strategic issues concerning the business.

Handsomejok:
My ex and I share 2 children together she also had a child from her previous relationship, we are separated and I provide for her and the children. She isn't working because our last child is only 6 months old hence I am still providing for her child from her previous relationship until the baby is old enough for her to work .
Due to the harsh economy my shop is dry and I can't afford to provide everything for them again and I don't want her to go and hustle with a small baby.
I've requested a loan of 500k from a family friend because I wanted to top up my my shops. he gave me 350k which I am grateful. I want to give my ex wife 150 out of the 350k for her to establish herself with a profitable business for her to take care of the rent and her daughter school fees meanwhile I will be paying our daughter school fee and will continue to send something for the children like feeding money .
My hands are full I cannot longer keep providing rent and her daughter school fee because I have other bills too including my shop and my own house rent , plus my girlfriend who's pregnant that am living with her. I do send 15k to 25k monthly for feeding plus the children school fees , the rent will be expired by August. So she will not start paying rent immediately she has some months left.

My question is if you were in my position , what would you have done ?

Handsomejok:



To be honest with you I started dating with her before my ex wife and I separated, our marriage wasn't working so I needed someone else to keep me company. I am not proud of what I did but I am just being honest with you.