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Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by DrFunmisticGlow: 6:02pm On Mar 06 |
advanceDNA:like I said. Contraceptive pillswill soon be available for men.. vasectomy is also a better option 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by DrFunmisticGlow: 6:06pm On Mar 06 |
advanceDNA:because the other options have bad side effects. It could increase the risk of stroke, breast cancer, ectopic pregnancy,causes hormonal issues, may lead to infertility. Then weight gain and high blood pressure are the common ones I see. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by Jeon(f): 6:10pm On Mar 06 |
She should abort it. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by advanceDNA: 6:56pm On Mar 06 |
DrFunmisticGlow: Madam doctor...Its funny that u choose to blame only men for pregnancy..... Well who u blame is totally ur choice The good thing is Ur choice doesn't change the party that face greater risk in premarital sex. .and until the gender that faces greater risk realizes that escaping being a baby mama is more in her control because she can decide to have sex only in marriage.....this ur blame game and victim card will never end 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by Panda7: 6:57pm On Mar 06 |
If you are not ready to pay her bride price, marry her and take her to your personal house right now, then let her abort it. Being the only child of your parents doesn't give you the right to bring in chances of more prostitution in the country right now. When bills start kicking in you won't talk like this. Ezechi18: 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by DrFunmisticGlow: 7:58pm On Mar 06 |
advanceDNA:funny thing though. Marriage doesn't stop a woman from being a single mother at all. It's never a guarantee. The only thing that can prevent a woman from being a single mother is if she chooses to never sleep with a man and swears off having children. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by advanceDNA: 8:06pm On Mar 06 |
DrFunmisticGlow: I never said single mother ...I said baby mama. And I know u know what baby mama means in the context we have discussing |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by DrFunmisticGlow: 8:11pm On Mar 06 |
advanceDNA:yes I do. Both are still treated the same way though. Both will suffer similarly 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by Recardo(m): 8:17pm On Mar 06 |
Ezechi18: You go leave here more confused than you came in lol. Here's not the best place to seek sensitive advice. Na craze people full here. Long story short, go get an abortion and free yourself from future migraines. If it's not that advanced there are pills that can do the work. Leave all these religious bigots advising you to keep it, they are worse than armed robbers. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by advanceDNA: 8:38pm On Mar 06 |
DrFunmisticGlow: Suffer similarly ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() All baby mamas or single mamas don't suffer |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by Uyi168: 8:44pm On Mar 06 |
Ezechi18:.. Nothing in life fails more than the withdrawal technique.. Una go just dey whyne una selves.. ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by advanceDNA: 8:56pm On Mar 06 |
Uyi168: There was this nigga back in uni that use to call himself King of pull out...changes women like meals......turns out the werey has very low sperm count.... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by Uyi168: 8:58pm On Mar 06 |
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Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by Jewessgratitud3: 9:03pm On Mar 06 |
Ezechi18: In this hardship you still let your manhood control you? You know quite well you're broke and still went ahead having sex without protection. Some of you prefer suffering to soft life. I'm sure your dull girlfriend who's talking about abortion doesn't know the risk in it. What if she dies from there? Double problem on you Welcome to fatherhood.. fatherhood will teach to think with your senses and not your third leg. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by Prettygirl200(f): 10:42pm On Mar 06 |
dkidd:Is that so? So you mean single mothers impregnated themselves and told the men to abandon the child right? You must be high on marijuana Sir, no offense!! 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by LagosG: 12:07am On Mar 07 |
DrFunmisticGlow:A woman can spread her legs for fresh air and get pregnant. Abi how did Jesus come again? |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by Gerrard59(m): 6:54am On Mar 07 |
Ezechi18: You are a BASTARD! You knew you were broke, yet you had unprotected sex with a woman and want her to keep the baby because of "I am the only son of my parents"! And so freaking what?! Who effing cares if you are the only son? Didn't you think of the financial implications when you were thrusting?! You promised marriage is pointless because as you stated, you don't have money. To further show how stooopid you are, your being the only son of your parents didn't energise you to work towards financial comfort but rather, you spent that energy ejaculating when both of you are not ready. I also blame the stoopid girl for allowing unprotected sex. Young women MUST insist on condoms if they are not mentally prepared to raise a child let alone for men who are not ready. Both of you are stoopid and bastards! 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by Gerrard59(m): 7:08am On Mar 07 |
NeckingNgulping: Wedlock isn't really the issue, but his ability to cater for the family as he is expected to (all males are expected to do the same anyway). He stated that he is broke and in his final year. Had it been his being the only son translated into coming from a family that could back him financially, this would not have been a problem. Also, both and especially the lass, are in their final year. This pregnancy disrupts that timeline in an important period in her life. The girl too has 50% of the blame. So stoopid to allow a stoopid and broke boy to ejaculate into her without using Postinor, which is another stoopidty. Jesus! Nigeria has so many stoopid people for crying out loud!!!! What happened to Postinor, considering her family background and present realities?! If your woman doesn't want to keep that child knowing full well you'll marry her, show her the exit door, because she doesn't care about your happiness. As much as his happiness is important, hers is also necessary. He does not have the funds. Dem dey final year. And you just want him to show her the exit door because she aborted. This is why she should have insisted on condom!!!!!!!!! DrFunmi is right here. The entire baggage is on the woman. Now now, you have suggested exiting, which is pretty easy for any man. But the woman cannot. Young women should learn a thing or two. How much is Postinor in Nigeria sef? Last I knew, e no pass 500 naira. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by lastkingsman: 8:10am On Mar 07 |
Gerrard59: Take it easy na 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by KingDash09(m): 8:15am On Mar 07 |
Condoms the best y’all |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by DrFunmisticGlow: 8:40am On Mar 07 |
LagosG:do you really want to go into the small details of immaculate conception ? 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by LagosG: 9:11am On Mar 07 |
DrFunmisticGlow:Don't you mean artificial insemination? |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by Savedday2: 9:23am On Mar 07 |
My brother, don't live in foolery. Churchy girls are full time ashawo ooh! Some do it openly and others do it codedly. You can never separate 9ja girls and ashawo work. They are all the same. Have u tot for a second that the pregnancy is not yours? Use ur brain before coded olosho use it for you. 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by seguno2: 9:43am On Mar 07 |
Gerrard59: Funny and harsh but shock therapy is useful sometimes to get the point across. Well done sir. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by DrFunmisticGlow: 10:13am On Mar 07 |
LagosG:with who's seed? The holy spirit? I don't want to go down that rabbithole |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by LagosG: 10:36am On Mar 07 |
DrFunmisticGlow:The rabbit hole you're already in? Lol |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by DrFunmisticGlow: 10:40am On Mar 07 |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by LagosG: 10:45am On Mar 07 |
DrFunmisticGlow:Well, I can't hold you back. I'm just saying. The moment a woman conceives, the decision on the pregnancy falls to the two parties who made it happen. I'm not completely against abortion. If it needs to be done both parties must consent to it. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by DrFunmisticGlow: 10:49am On Mar 07 |
LagosG:I agree. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by Gerrard59(m): 12:11pm On Mar 07 |
lastkingsman: Sorry, but I won't take it easy, especially during these trying times. Honestly, if he were my brother, I would have disassociated myself from him. He would be solely responsible for everything. This also applies if the girl was my sister. I detest irresponsible people! I really do! Does it mean those of us who haven't given woman belly don't like children?! Does it mean we don't like to fvck skin to skin?! I have stated it here that I love raw sex, but the consequences scare me, so I would rather use a condom. Times are freaking hard, but we have one cretin who is making things harder simply because he is the only son. God punish him with the mentality of being the only son! Nonsense! Only sons should be focused on lifting their families out of multidimensional poverty, not impregnating women left, right and centre! Foolish girl who would see buying Postinor as a bad thing, but decided not to close her legs! Idiot! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by Skillsnigeria: 12:39pm On Mar 07 |
Hmmm |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants An Abortion by Starpro87(m): 12:39pm On Mar 07 |
Have you confirmed she is pregnant? That will give you a clarity of what steps to take. |
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