Uzorbaby:

right now I feel faustrated and depressed.

I just want to be happy

budaatum:


I'm glad you're depressed and want to be happy, because you can now stop bothering where your husband puts his dik and concern yourself with what you want. Hopefully, sex is off your priority list, so you don't get him putting it in you anymore and give you disease.

Concentrate on what you want. And don't you forget to smile.

Uzorbaby:


I just need someone .......

TheWinterBird:
I was going to say you should go to the single mother and tell her to leave your husband alone. She must be very shameless, having an affair with another woman's husband. That said, you've no business with her and your wedding vows were exchanged with your husband and not her, therefore it's your husband you need to confront but if he's a chronic cheater and shameless cheater himself and refuses to stop, there's nothing you can do in that regard. You should, however, stop giving him money, as he's most likely giving her the money you're giving him, smdh. Don't give him a dime of your money, and further report him to everyone in your family and his so they all know what's going on.

Uzorbaby:
∆ Good evening house, I opened a new account for this issues. This is my ninth years in marriage with 3 kids and since the third year till now the problem I keep having with my husband is infidelity, when ever I catch him he apologises but still continues. Recently I found out he is into a single mother who claim to be a deconess and he opened a business for her and doesn't feel apologetic about it, this same lady when I had not discovered their affairs he sends her his last card and begs me for money. He calls her everyday , video calls her and sends her money frequently.right now I feel faustrated and depressed. I will really love to leave him and rent a house close to my shop but the amount to do that will greatly affect my business if I do that because I just started it 3 months ago. I just need someone I can talk to, gist about normal stuff of life so that my mind can move away from him pending when I will be able to rent a house. I just want to be happy

Kobojunkie:
Whatever you do, do not concern yourself with the women because they aren't the one's who broke your trust. Your husband is the retard who disrespected you reducing your agreement with him to nothing but a sideshow. Since you already endured for over 6 years, why not endure a bit longer so you can save up the money you need to help you continue life outside of this disrespectful union you call a marriage that you have been living with.

TheWinterBird:
I was going to say you should go to the single mother and tell her to leave your husband alone. She must be very shameless, having an affair with another woman's husband. That said, you've no business with her and your wedding vows were exchanged with your husband and not her, therefore it's your husband you need to confront but if he's a chronic cheater and shameless cheater himself and refuses to stop, there's nothing you can do in that regard. You should, however, stop giving him money, as he's most likely giving her the money you're giving him, smdh. Don't give him a dime of your money, and further report him to everyone in your family and his so they all know what's going on.

Uzorbaby:
Good evening house, I opened a new account for this issues. This is my ninth years in marriage with 3 kids and since the third year till now the problem I keep having with my husband is infidelity, when ever I catch him he apologises but still continues. Recently I found out he is into a single mother who claim to be a deconess and he opened a business for her and doesn't feel apologetic about it, this same lady when I had not discovered their affairs he sends her his last card and begs me for money. He calls her everyday , video calls her and sends her money frequently.right now I feel faustrated and depressed. I will really love to leave him and rent a house close to my shop but the amount to do that will greatly affect my business if I do that because I just started it 3 months ago. I just need someone I can talk to, gist about normal stuff of life so that my mind can move away from him pending when I will be able to rent a house. I just want to be happy

Neptunium:
What is his obsession with her? How many kids does she have? Could it be that he fathered her kids?

Kobojunkie:
Why should any of that matter to her?

Neptunium:
■ Where did i say it matters ? If he fathered kids outside her marriage, it's an important information she should know as it would let her know how best to move foward with her n her kids. It wouldn't excuse or justify him cheating or committing adultery

Kobojunkie:
What has A to do with B? Why are you desperate to cause this woman to go chasing after shadows she need not concern herself with? What else? Should she go conduct DNA tests on all kids had by his many baby mamas abi wetin? Abeg, make una release OP so she can focus on her own life and wellbeing o'jare! Those women, and their children, no be her concern at all.

Neptunium:
■ Ahh ahnn, wetin na? I'm allowed to respond to threads the same way you are. It's called freedom of speech, auntie. You're always hot-headed on threads, policing people's comments like say people's matters concern you. All i did was ask a question. She ain't gotta do nothing she don't want to.

Kobojunkie:
I am just concerned that OP, already depressed by it all, may find herself obsessing over things that she should not even concern herself with at all.

Nothing good comes from a woman obsessing over the woman her husband is cheating on her with— absolutely nothing — particularly in Nigeria where the law provides the woman not much say in these cases. I have seen how that bug causes Nigerian women to turn into monsters, some shadows of their former selves, all to defend or try to save what is a failed marriage. (Once a partner resorts to cheating over extended periods without even a pause for air, that marriage, is failed since marriage is meant to be built, every moment of it, on the agreement between a man and a woman.) Enter any one church in Nigeria and you will find it is filled with women, blinded by what is no longer love but obsessive behavior, all praying and fasting, in bitterness, for their failed marriages to be resurrected. OP's focus should be on one thing and one thing only and that is coming up with enough money to escape the side-show of a marriage she has been enduring for over 6 years now.

Uzorbaby:
Good evening house, I opened a new account for this issues. This is my ninth years in marriage with 3 kids and since the third year till now the problem I keep having with my husband is infidelity, when ever I catch him he apologises but still continues. Recently I found out he is into a single mother who claim to be a deconess and he opened a business for her and doesn't feel apologetic about it, this same lady when I had not discovered their affairs he sends her his last card and begs me for money. He calls her everyday , video calls her and sends her money frequently.right now I feel faustrated and depressed.
I will really love to leave him and rent a house close to my shop but the amount to do that will greatly affect my business
if I do that because I just started it 3 months ago. I just need someone I can talk to, gist about normal stuff of life so that my mind can move away from him pending when I will be able to rent a house. I just want to be happy

A King never Cheats, they take. Know this and you know peace

He hustle and earned those money he spent on you and the other woman, yet you want to monopolize him. You are so ungrateful and selfish.
What are you lacking to begin with, is he depriving you of anything?

Your Husband must be a king 👑, you are yet to tell us full details of what's going on.

immortalcrown:
Don't leave your matrimonial home unless you want to jump from frying pan to fire.

For now, just be speaking to him and to those he listens to. Infidelity is very bad.

budaatum:


I'm glad you're depressed and want to be happy, because you can now stop bothering where your husband puts his dik and concern yourself with what you want. Hopefully, sex is off your priority list, so you don't get him putting it in you anymore and give you disease.

Concentrate on what you want. And don't you forget to smile.

Uzorbaby:
Good evening house, I opened a new account for this issues. This is my ninth years in marriage with 3 kids and since the third year till now the problem I keep having with my husband is infidelity, when ever I catch him he apologises but still continues. Recently I found out he is into a single mother who claim to be a deconess and he opened a business for her and doesn't feel apologetic about it, this same lady when I had not discovered their affairs he sends her his last card and begs me for money. He calls her everyday , video calls her and sends her money frequently.right now I feel faustrated and depressed. I will really love to leave him and rent a house close to my shop but the amount to do that will greatly affect my business if I do that because I just started it 3 months ago. I just need someone I can talk to, gist about normal stuff of life so that my mind can move away from him pending when I will be able to rent a house. I just want to be happy

Georgekyrian:
∆ According to your image below, there is nothing like strong woman, clear your head