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14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by Tomcorp(m): 4:29pm On Mar 31 |
Brotherhood Code of Observation; 1. Don't marry her if she has nothing to bring to the table. 2. Don't marry her if she doesn't have a job or business. 3. Don't marry her if she loves extravagant lifestyle. 4. Don't marry her if she likes to go out alot. 5. Don't marry her if she is from a poor background. Their parents sees them as saviors that will uplift their family from poverty, and she will bank on you to do that. 6. Don't marry her if her mother is a divorcee or baby mama. 7. Don't marry her if her IQ is very low. 8. Don't marry her if she follows Blessing CEO, Saidaboj, Nons Miraj, Bobrisky and other known p*rostitutes on social media. Her mindset will be the same as theirs. 9. Don't marry her if she likes materialistic competition. 10. Don't marry her if she doesn't know how to make money but wants to squander yours. 11. Don't marry her if she lacks priorities. 12. Don't marry her if she keeps too many friends. 13. Don't marry her if her mother consults prophets, marabouts, seers and spiritists. 14. Don't marry her if she lacks empathy and understanding. These are the main red flags to watch out for if you don't want to die before your time. Happy Easter. 28 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by Chukwuka319(m): 4:41pm On Mar 31 |
What a great and wonderful post, this Blessed Easter Sunday. Unfortunately many men are still entangling themselves with ladies with one,two , three most,or all of the mentioned nasty attitudes and attributes, because they are foolishly carried away by her curves,big hips,beauty, social status. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by pretydiva(f): 4:43pm On Mar 31 |
Ok 1 Like |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by brain54(m): 4:44pm On Mar 31 |
Some of these your red flags... Should just be an issue of personal choice Sha! 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by Tomcorp(m): 4:51pm On Mar 31 |
brain54: I hope you will learn. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by Tomcorp(m): 4:51pm On Mar 31 |
Chukwuka319: They will learn the hard way. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by jimmyvic(m): 4:56pm On Mar 31 |
One manipulative one with big nyash and many red flags nearly carry me go where I no know ![]() ![]() But God pass her.....I come down for junction 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by Tomcorp(m): 4:59pm On Mar 31 |
jimmyvic: You wise up on time. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by jimmyvic(m): 5:00pm On Mar 31 |
Wallahii Tomcorp: 2 Likes |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by kokakola: 5:30pm On Mar 31 |
Your points are valid. As a guy, use your free gift of Logic to know a woman better for your future sake... Never take the seat of emotion when it comes to choosing right. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by Solofresh2: 5:34pm On Mar 31 |
I disagree with number 3,4,5,6 and 13 |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by brain54(m): 5:40pm On Mar 31 |
Solofresh2:You just picked my exact reservations... Those are matters of personal choice as I stated and not necessary red flags. I mean what's wrong if a person has many friends or likes to go out? Everyone cannot be docile, timid or reserved. Some people have outgoing personalities. Its okay if you say it's your personal choice and can't cope with that. So you don't go and marry someone and try to make the person change. So Its choice and that's why I didn't want to argue with the OP. But to me some of the points listed just seem like insecurities! |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by Chukwuka319(m): 6:19pm On Mar 31 |
Tomcorp:Exactly! 1 Like |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by Tomcorp(m): 6:30pm On Mar 31 |
kokakola: I swear. 1 Like |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by Nijimog: 6:47pm On Mar 31 |
jimmyvic:she carry me go O, where I no know O Fefenefem, Kcee song comes to mind 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by Tomcorp(m): 6:47pm On Mar 31 |
brain54: When you get married and your eyes see shege, you will understand why these points are extremely important. A wife is not a girlfriend, there are attributes she must and mustn't have. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by brain54(m): 6:53pm On Mar 31 |
Tomcorp:And that's why I said it's your choice... You are entitled to it. But stop making it look like a general standard! |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by Tomcorp(m): 6:56pm On Mar 31 |
brain54: Get married first then come back to comment. You don't know life yet. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by brain54(m): 6:58pm On Mar 31 |
Tomcorp:Very funny... You are only being insecure "Mr don't get married from a poor background" So now being married makes you have all the perfect knowledge about marriage? It makes you understand all that will work and cannot work... Well congratulations sir. I leave you at this point with your insecurities! |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by otipoju(m): 6:59pm On Mar 31 |
I made some mistakes early but thank God for his guidance. I quick correct them. But there are some red flags that you don't see or see early enough. Na that one dey cause severe headache. You will either continue to bear your cross or drop it down and run 9 Likes |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by jimmyvic(m): 7:01pm On Mar 31 |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by Tomcorp(m): 7:04pm On Mar 31 |
otipoju: I quite agree with you. There are some red flags you won't notice at all but with time you will see it clearly. 2 Likes |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by Tomcorp(m): 7:05pm On Mar 31 |
brain54: Obviously you are still a kid so I won't waste time debating with you. The real grown up men are commenting. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by Nickymezor(f): 7:38pm On Mar 31 |
Seen 2 Likes |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by Evolutionism: 7:42pm On Mar 31 |
Tomcorp: Op na from deeper parts of the Streets ![]() 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by Tomcorp(m): 7:56pm On Mar 31 |
Evolutionism: Confirma. ...eyes don see. I say make I warn guys but some ote nor wan hear. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by AcadaWriter: 10:12pm On Mar 31 |
Ok 1 Like |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by Sonnobax15(m): 10:22pm On Mar 31 |
![]() And unfortunately many Nigerian bannies of these days have taken pleasure in having most of those red flags... 3 Likes |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:35pm On Mar 31 |
Tomcorp: |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by Gadafii: 11:40pm On Mar 31 |
I do not expect men to disagree with these points, except maybe irredeemable simps who will learn the hard way 6 Likes |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by TrustNone: 12:01am On Apr 01 |
MrBrownJay1:I've been observing you these days. You're beginning to reason like a simp 6 Likes |
Re: 14 Red Flags To Watch Out For While Dating A Nigerian Girl. by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:30am On Apr 01 |
TrustNone: its called USING YOUR BRAIN, and not trying to make women look like low life oloshoes at every corner (even when "some" definitely are). the problem is not women not having a job or business (anyone can go through a bad patch).... the problem is women with failed mentality/character who dont have a job or business because they DONT WANT TO WORK. there are many women out there with great character or state of mind that dont work nor have a business, and are great women to marry. just because she is jobless or without a business today, doesnt make her a liability. BTW remember, not all men want their women to work or even leave the house to run their own business, they'd rather their wife stays home and take care of the children/family. same shiit with women who are hardworking and love extravagant lifestyle...whats wrong with that? or are you now claiming that a woman. with money should not buy a big motor/house, in order not to bruise the ego of men who cant afford such toys? what kind of yeye insecure nonsense is this? or better yet, women coming from poor background?! BWAAAAAAAAAH! what kind of insecure BS is that? forget her background (whether poor or rich). is she a good person with great character TODAY? if she is then so be it. some of the most successful Nigerians today come from poor background.. and equally, some of these rich background girls are mentally broken living in la la land because everything in their lives was handed to them on a silver platter (since they were born). 2 Likes 3 Shares |
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