Samfloxin:
Many of them are feeling bad but the cost of marrying a woman now is very high

Samfloxin:
Many of them are feeling bad but the cost of marrying a woman now is very high

2shure:
I'm 34 years and I only have a car,rented apartment and 2 pos business which has suffered a blow.im planning on selling all my propert for 10m before thisbyear ends and travel out.

Chingyyy878:
People in their 30s with no kids and single, do you worry about being old parents ?

I sure say most of una dey panic but una go deny

Gerrard59:


Sorry to be a bearer of bad news, but 10 million would not go that far if your target country is a developed one. Also, to truly enjoy living in the abroad, you will need to get a good job, which is tied to having relevant skills the economy of that country desires. If you have those skills and pretty young, it is a good one.

P.S. If you can japa without selling your properties, better.

oluwoleife:
Panic say wetin happen?

MrBrownJay1:
many dont even want children, let alone a wife to settle with.

Dundalk:
Honestly make i no lie.. I feel bad about it, depressed all the time,
The main problem is not even married and have a kid, the problem is making in it in life financially..

Rexymania:
Me wey get children, if you know wetin I dey face? I'm just grateful to Allah. If you're not mentally ready, don't venture into it. Life no be competition

Chingyyy878:


Imagine having your first kid when you are almost 45

stop painting kids on people's faces, some kids are to send you to early grave.. Seems like u are woman,
No condition is permanent though

Some married ones are craving for divorce and thinking had i know..

Dundalk:
comrade how is fasting.. May God make it easy for us, and accept our ibadah..

barrydee:
This OP is not wise at all.
Africa needs to grow beyond this mindset. Having a wife and kids is not an achievement but a fulfillment which by the way, different people have their own definition of fulfillment.

If you are a man in your 30s living in a difficult country like Nigeria, i advise you chase the bread to better your life & your future. If you stumble on a good woman while at it, you can marry her but if you allow societal pressure to make you marry one of these damaged, unproductive, & useless slay queens who are liabilities as a wife, sorry na your name.

You can still get married in your late 30s or early 40s and live a fulfilled life & by the time you are in your 60s, your kids would be in their eaely 20s keeping you company, running erands for you and making you happy while you relax and groom them to takeover your business/empire aince you utilized your youthful era to make some good investments.

Unlike those niggas who got married in their late 20s using all their energy as youths just to fend, suffer and provide for the family. By the time they hit 60, no major investments, their kids have all abandoned them to begin their own lives/families making them feel lonely and abandoned. Only few lucky ones get regular visits, care and gifts from their kids at this point.

Chingyyy878:

Imagine having your first kid when you are almost 45