Back in the day, a lot of married men dey cheat and also engage in extra marital affairs with reckless abandon. Some even do it to the knowledge of their wives. Who see it as a normal thing then.

But it seems married ladies of today aint willing to take any shit from their partners. Once their hubby cheat on them, they disengage from the marriage one time!

The likes of Mabel Makun, Elsie Okpocha, and Sonia Ighalo, represent the new Naija women...

chimuanya24:
Back in the day, a lot of married men dey cheat and also engage in extra marital affairs with reckless abandon. Some even do it to the knowledge of their wives. Who see it as a normal thing then.

But it seems married ladies of today aint willing to take any shit from their partners. Once their hubby cheat on them, they disengage from the marriage one time!

The likes of Mabel Makun, Elsie Okpocha, and Sonia Ighalo, represent the new Naija women...

On the contrary, those women were the ones that cheated. Men don't talk about their cheating wives for their childrens' sake. Get that.

Lol everybody go dey alright....


One aspect of life wey Muslim dey enjoy before u marry a strong Muslim jus av at the back of ur mind say ur husband fit turn hunter anytime....

Very good.

Plenty single mothers running after other women's husbands. We are here, no need to run after us, just come to us with your pussssy for servicing.

See the Olosho ex wife in bikini, irresponsible prostitutes.

If you say wetin she for wear or for beach, then show me Ngozi Okonjo-Iwella or Cecelia Ibru's bikini pictures

We don’t care about them either, they will be in their husbands houses and be eyeing another woman’s husband.

Some of them already started cheating, they just want to divorce and be free to continue.

Why bother get married

A married woman who is a graduate, working with her certificate, earnings a good income, knows her rights and supporting husband at home.

There is no way you can subject such wife to the way ,18 century's husbands subjected their wives into.


THIS IS HARD REALITY MODERN DAY's HUSBANDS MUST KNOW AND INCORPORATE INTO THEIR SYSTEMs, IF THEY WANT LASTING AND PEACEFUL MARRIAGES.

Nevertheless, wife must also know that, no civilisation can make husband to play second fiddle in Marriage.

With this, compromise becomes Integra tool that can make Marriage works in 21st century.

Meanwhile, every wife knows that husband likely to cheat, a wise husband would do it discreetly in such a way that, even if wife knows,Marriage would still be intact. But foolish would say do ur worse! Before you know, a once a beautiful family becomes object of ridicule in the society (Yul Edolche)

Ok o

No be another cheating man go dey sample dem

The world has gone mad.

Sincerely, this warped mentality (my man cheats, I must cheat too. what a man can do, a woman can do better) is the reason why our society especially Southern Nigeria continues to deteriorate massively in the name of being 'educated', 'woke', 'not taking nonsense'. Whether you like it or not, both genders are wired differently. The success of any marriage depends a lot on the maturity of the man and the patience of the woman. I'm not excusing men but this mentality has one and only one outcome, DESTRUCTION of the marriage. The white folks who brought/facilitated this warped mentality have already run down their own societies. They raise feminine men, high rates of divorce, and many more men shying away from marrying altogether. Their women hoe around in their twenties and are left with regrets in their forties, with many taking solace in their cats, dogs and other pets. Their society cannot sustain its own population and their politicians are facilitating immigration at insane levels. Those who fail to learn from the mistakes of others would definitely taste the same cycle of failure. A divorced woman is a money spinning venture (you can research more into their spending habits and the effect of divorce on the black communities in Baltimore, Chicago, etc.) and the children suffer the most.

What more? You divorce your husband for 'cheating' and end up as a side piece to another man in a relationship, most times married. The joke remains on the woman! Those who praise a woman for leaving a loving man whose only downside is cheating (no diseases, no violence and takes great care of his wife and children) are the same people who would quickly fill up her space. These women wont tell you but the truth is that it is only after about four to five relationships after their marriage, that they realize the enormity of the bad decisions that they've made but it's too late. They would then keep posting pictures online, seeking validation from random people to make it seem as though they're happy. If you disagree, it's fine but Jeff Bezos's ex-wife divorced him, remarried one everyday guy (a music or french teacher or so) and guess what? She divorced him again after 2 years. Is she married again now? Oh, you don't need to be married to be happy? Lol.. keep deceiving yourselves. The joke is on you!

Marriage is Sacred but most couples nowadays see it as a convenience. Too many outside influences (social media, foreign culture, unrealistic expectations)....
no GOD. If you fear GOD, you will have a blissful marriage.

These ones were never ready to be wives, and we know how it always end.

Sometimes, for relationship to work out you have to compromise on some set rules and standard or else, OYO be your name.

No perfect relationship anywhere in the world, don't let anyone decide you.

Even you, you are not perfect being. This life should not be a war zone.

Most of all these palarva are man made.

The only way you have the right to complain is only if you built with me as a struggling man

A woman who calls a man broke and rejects him during his struggling days doesn't have the right to dictate to him who he should be with when his made.

If you like, dey find ready made man, dem go beat you till you become pop-eye because you're more or less like a commodity to them.

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Some married Financially Independent women don't take nonsense from their husbands.

You don see were women wey no dey financially independent leave their husbands because of cheating?

Why I dey go far sef? Poor gfs no wan leave bfs wey gallant even if dem wan use beat kill them, talk more of cheating.

Even for Yankee, wives dey leave their husbands because of cheating na because of one reason: if he's rich, dem go get better greens in the name of divorce.

Dey play.

Ok

They are free to go back to the streets

On top of the stress wey dey this world as a man, woman will come and be adding to it?

If there are better men outside, let them go and find the better man

Simple

When they get to 50s they will become extremely bitter women

Major problem now is that most divorced women will now start following other women husband

There is hardly any single guy that will marry them after 3 kids and years of marriage

I D G A F!

Make Dey no gree for thier husband abeg. Las las na still married men go dey knack them for free when dey leave thier husband house.

Yeye.. their 👀 eyes dey outside already

Ok

Noted.

Lol the era of "enduring wives" has come to an end, stay if you can manage a cheating partner, leave if you can't.

chimuanya24:
Back in the day, a lot of married men dey cheat and also engage in extra marital affairs with reckless abandon. Some even do it to the knowledge of their wives. Who see it as a normal thing then.

But it seems married ladies of today aint willing to take any shit from their partners. Once their hubby cheat on them, they disengage from the marriage one time!

The likes of Mabel Makun, Elsie Okpocha, and Sonia Ighalo, represent the new Naija women...

None of the husbands lost, the women are now COUGARs and MILFs.

These women have money to take care of themselves without the husbands. Many more women are now educated and make money on their own.

I know some women that can't even survive without a man too wld leave her husband cos he cheated.

But do you know the funny thing? These women that left Thier husbands cos he cheated on them wld now start dating married men. They didn't leave the husband cos he cheated, they left thr man cos they want to be free....marriage dey tie them down, dem no fit explore.

Amumaigwe:


On the contrary, those women were the ones that cheated. Men don't talk about their cheating wives for their childrens' sake. Get that.

What are you saying?

So men don’t cheat?

He say on the contrary…so Wetin Yul do?

Ok

Wow.. I never knew that disengaging from marriage is now an achievement, maybe Forbes should list them in worlds 100 most influential women

chimuanya24:
Back in the day, a lot of married men dey cheat and also engage in extra marital affairs with reckless abandon. Some even do it to the knowledge of their wives. Who see it as a normal thing then.

But it seems married ladies of today aint willing to take any shit from their partners. Once their hubby cheat on them, they disengage from the marriage one time!

The likes of Mabel Makun, Elsie Okpocha, and Sonia Ighalo, represent the new Naija women...

so just three is enough for you to arrive at this nonsense conclusion