joseph1832:
so just three is enough for you to arrive at this nonsense conclusion

you won't understand, just chill

Take a syrup and shurrup

I'm not loose and not a looser.

ukaface:

Wetin you want make I use swear? Your scrotum?

You think say every women Dey loose like una

All these women you listed what value did they bring into their home.

These men, they married were initially poor, and were selfmade. I could remember AY first stand up comedy, same as ighalo who struggled to a big team.. all these women just have something in common they saw a big fish, and threw themselves at these rich boys.

And you expect them, not to go after other women, when the reason you were able to pin pregnancy on them, was to secure the money bag for yourself.

Madam rest, allow side chick to eat too..
We all know how the life of these single mum, would later turn out to be side chicks to other married men.. so leave all these initial gra gra

chimuanya24:
Back in the day, a lot of married men dey cheat and also engage in extra marital affairs with reckless abandon. Some even do it to the knowledge of their wives. Who see it as a normal thing then.

But it seems married ladies of today aint willing to take any shit from their partners. Once their hubby cheat on them, they disengage from the marriage one time!

The likes of Mabel Makun, Elsie Okpocha, and Sonia Ighalo, represent the new Naija women...

You forgot to add Rubby boy wife, Tonto Duke, Toke Makinwa and May Edochie to your list

UnknownQueen:
Freaking narcissists masquerading as husbands, if them do anyhow, we give them anyhow....No time..

Next please

See small nyash, wants to shake. Go and find work first. So you don't have to suck it, before you can eat.

sheriffindy:
Take a syrup and shurrup

I'm not loose and not a looser.

Cry me a river

Irresponsible Dalemosu , asewo kobokobo, beteku , oniranu osi.

tunjijones:
These women have money to take care of themselves without the husbands. Many more women are now educated and make money on their own.

I know some women that can't even survive without a man too wld leave her husband cos he cheated.

But do you know the funny thing? These women that left Thier husbands cos he cheated on them wld now start dating married men. They didn't leave the husband cos he cheated, they left thr man cos they want to be free....marriage dey tie them down, dem no fit explore.

Na the real truth you talk. They want to br free to go and come as dey like

Any married woman who leave her will her husband always be a second hand value no matter how rich she is las las na regret dey end am because men outside go use dem play ludo game both money and body. Nonsense

All these yauyau women! Side hen loading...

chimuanya24:
Back in the day, a lot of married men dey cheat and also engage in extra marital affairs with reckless abandon. Some even do it to the knowledge of their wives. Who see it as a normal thing then.

But it seems married ladies of today aint willing to take any shit from their partners. Once their hubby cheat on them, they disengage from the marriage one time!

The likes of Mabel Makun, Elsie Okpocha, and Sonia Ighalo, represent the new Naija women...

Please You should understand that we are polygamous in nature

xjiggy:
Marriage is Sacred but most couples nowadays see it as a convenience. Too many outside influences (social media, foreign culture, unrealistic expectations)....
no GOD. If you fear GOD, you will have a blissful marriage.

D day way I go mistakenly jam you...
I must Arrest you with Cold Heineken and Isi EWU + correct pepper soup wmd catfish .. for this comment of yours..

They will now be jumping from one man to another including married men thereby distabilizing other people's home.

They don't want their husbands to sleep with other women but they end up sleeping with other people's husband

I don't want to be tribalistic. But this is something more rampant with Ibo ladies nowadays. You'll see the average Ibo lady has lost regard for culture and is more likely to be a "feminist". As Alakija rich reach, she stood by the husband until he shot himself in the foot. It's not very rampant with Hausas and Yorubas. I almost got married to an Ibo lady. She was a very good cook, very good sx, everything. But you can tell she will opt out anytime the thrill leaves. People like Okonjo should sit these young generation of Ibo ladies down. It's practically getting out of hand there. It's a recipe for loneliness and regret down the line.

But will still come out to cheat with other people's husband ....Confusion be like bicycle

lolz...see foolish women upandan saying nonsense...men cheat yenyenyen....but if they mention DNA test now, y'all daughters of eve will be running helter skelter...


like I said bfr...I rather listen to a mad man dan listen to the words dat came out of a lady

wagzyl:



Well, it's a faceless forum so you can insult as you please. I'd have expected you to at least contribute to the conversation intelligently and argue your points with some grace and candour, perhaps you could convince us about your 'selfless' thought process and offer another perspective.

My life is a success and I'm a happily married faithful man. I choose to be that way with pride and grace. My sisters, mom and other women in my family are highly successful and happily married to the glory of God. You can save your pity for the men and women in your life and the pitiable state of your pitiably pitiable bitter soul who cannot make a few sentences online without expressing the state of your family tree.

There's nothing to argue in your point when marriage is literally subjective in today's society but you think it's objective, really? In 2024? Your point is rooted in patriarchy that serves only men and belittles and undermine the other because they are a woman (someone say misogynist twice) and I can't educate on why this reeks of wickedness when you can educate yourself

Yea right.....you are a faithful man but victim blaming women who leave an unfaithful man? make it make sense. In your lengthy anecdote,you never once showed empathy for what a woman who've been scorned and living with an infidel go through rather you quickly blame them for leaving and seeking better for themselves and absolve the man of his part in the problem with just two lines calling him out. I pray you don't get cheated on or your sisters get cheated on,then they or you will know how it feels

…funny enough, the women who rush out of these marriages are some who feels they still have alot to offer. Like good shapes, banging body and attractive face. But deep down, u will even know that they r the real cheats in marriages. They only opt out for freedom to carry out their biddings

Las-las they'll be side chicks to other married men cheating on their own wives. So who con lose now??

Being the 'first lady' of ur cheating husband versus being a 'second Lady' (aka side chick) to another woman's husband, which one worse pass.

The joke's on them.

Biglittlelois:
Lol the era of "enduring wives" has come to an end, stay if you can manage a cheating partner, leave if you can't.

bukatyne:
Funny thread.

If the OP suggests that more marriages are breaking up because women leave cheating husbands, one would expect that the men realise that they are the weapons fashioned against successful marriages in this case and clamour for change.

But no, they would twist and turn like
earthworms in salt to avoid accountability in this case and blame everything/ everyone but themselves.

Get used to it,more women would leave cheating husbands; if they decide to be side pieces to other married men is outside the scope of this discussion.

The fact I want to/ I have a vice doesn't mean I should tolerate it from someone else .

Hahahaha! Look at all the scare tactics and deflections. Never seen a set that hates accountability like Nigerian men. You want to normalise going out to cheat and bringing back home a manhood with another woman's fluids for your wife? Oh well, they claim there are reasonable women that understand men are WIRED like this. Mabel done run as she tire to treat infections. Goodluck to the reasonable women that would marry these NL men. I can't stop wishing them goodluck!

This topic really pained nairaland boys ooo

See them crying all over the thread

Selfish fools with no self control over their libido. If you like cry, wives leaving cheating husbands has come to stay and na una cause am.

In the olden days when men were actually providers like the Bible and Quran said, wives stayed with cheating husbands because they had no money to liberate themselves from terrible marriages since they depended on their provider husbands' income to survive.

Then you men started insulting women that couldn't provide like their husbands and started calling them liabilities until women acting as co-providers or even better providers became the norm.

Now these providing and hustling wives have no reason to stay behind and tolerate their husband's selfishness and wickedness because they can survive very well without men in their lives.

Nigerian men and misogyny are like 5&6,not surprised by the comments

I wanna fish in your river,though.

Send my regards to the shrubs beneath them, if you can.

ukaface:

Cry me a river

DigitB:
Brainless OP.
You had to attach pictures of whọres to buttress your stụpid point

LOL.

Ladies that don't take nonsense from their husband contributes financially to the family.
Those ones that contributes nothing only wait for their husband to provide everything dare not make any pim.

Wizpa:
The only way you have the right to complain is only if you built with me as a struggling man, if not, dem no born you well to tell me nonsense.

A woman who calls a man broke and rejects him during his struggling days doesn't have the right to dictate to him who he should be with when his made.

If you like, dey find ready made man, dem go beat you till you become pop-eye because you're more or less like a commodity to them.

tell me how you wan make am with this your useless mentality? So all your aim about being successful is to spite women including your wife? You're very useless i swear. Check those billionaires on Forbes list if they reason like you fool.

Your vibrator is on

Use it please

CHoccolaTE:
This topic really pained nairaland boys ooo

See them crying all over the thread

Selfish fools with no self control over their libido. If you like cry, wives leaving cheating husbands has come to stay and na una cause am.

In the olden days when men were actually providers like the Bible and Quran said, wives stayed with cheating husbands because they had no money to liberate themselves from terrible marriages since they depended on their provider husbands' income to survive.

Then you men started insulting women that couldn't provide like their husbands and started calling them liabilities until women acting as co-providers or even better providers became the norm.

Now these providing and hustling wives have no reason to stay behind and tolerate their husband's selfishness and wickedness because they can survive very well without men in their lives.

CanineOfJackal:
Evening newspaper have opinions on every matter

Leave that old lady (juventus) she no wise at all.

Triangles1:
Once a woman is seeing another man outside either married or dating, she will start disrespecting you comparing you to other Men's outside.

what about men?

Laple0541:
At the end we shall see who will be at the receiving end.

A man can boastfully come out and count the number of women he’d slept with, if a woman tries it, she will be tagged a LovePeddler. Our mothers, grandmothers and great grandmothers that were patient with their husbands did that not because they were stupid. But they did to respect God’s commands and build better future for their children.

I’m not saying men should be wayward in nature, but the issue is, cutting off the head should never be a solution to migraine.

our grandmother did so because they're myopic and couldn't see beyond their nose.

If una like imitate us in everything

Doesn't change the fact that women can never ever equal to men.

Hope you run this same mouth with this frequency when you bump into a rat, wall gecko,cockroach. Una spontaneous reactions are priceless

pocohantas:


Hahahaha! Look at all the scare tactics and deflections. Never seen a set that hates accountability like Nigerian men. You want to normalise going out to cheat and bringing back home a manhood with another woman's fluids for your wife? Oh well, they claim there are reasonable women that understand men are WIRED like this. Mabel done run as she tire to treat infections. Goodluck to the reasonable women that would marry these NL men. I can't stop wishing them goodluck!

I still don't understand this: why would you leave your marriage despite having a husband who never abused you, always cared for you and your children, yet you began dating married men after leaving the marriage and now seek public approval.

The day African women come to realize that an average black man is naturally inclined towards polygamy, that's when we'll see more lasting marriages. Conversely, our marital problems began when we started emulating Western lifestyles.