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Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by SoNature(m): 7:57pm On Apr 15 |
Just like most things, marriage faces its challenges but can never lose its relevance. Our women, society and traditions that expect so much from the male folks (husbands) haven't made things a lot more difficult. |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by Godwin25king: 7:58pm On Apr 15 |
I disagree |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by Proudman1: 7:59pm On Apr 15 |
The author is neither here nor there |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by occfx: 8:00pm On Apr 15 |
In Africa, it's economy that's fighting marriages but in the west, its lucifer himself in the form of LGBT, and woke nature. 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by Lanre1st(m): 8:00pm On Apr 15 |
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Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by Donedeal1(m): 8:01pm On Apr 15 |
The institution is divine Otherwise enemies yapa The reason the institution is existing Is there is no alternative That can come closer LGBT or whatever can not take away marriage Even cloning can't. So marriage is here to stay. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by olaniyilukman(m): 8:02pm On Apr 15 |
sweetTai:there is nothing like mature in marriage, both parties are suffering in silent..... 6 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by ibrocool(m): 8:03pm On Apr 15 |
A |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by Taquin: 8:03pm On Apr 15 |
I wonder sometimes. As a lady, I don’t know if it’s just me but the thought of marriage doesn’t excite me. Is it weird 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by InvertedHammer: 8:04pm On Apr 15 |
/ Marriage was killed once government got fully involved and made it a business contract in which one party is rewarded more if the contract is breached. Children used to be seen as blessings from God but these days women have turned it into a bargaining chip and a handcuff to chain unsuspecting men into financial slavery. Many men opt for love gamble without signing the dotted line to avoid stories that touch especially the "no-fault" divorce laws. A woman professing love for a successful man these days is not different from a yahoo guy fishing for clients. / 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by chuksjuve(m): 8:05pm On Apr 15 |
Marriage is loosing relevance to you because you have choose to focus on the wrong set of people, hence that’s where your anger is coming from.. I’d advise you channel your view and direction to those who are successful in the same marriage that others are finding difficult ; I’m pretty sure you will delete these things you just wrote out from your mind and tender an apology for this miseducation you are doing.. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by Geovanni412(m): 8:07pm On Apr 15 |
nairalee: Just this week, a work colleague came in wearing a shawl This man was apparently happily married with three children When we talked further, he took off the shawl to reveal deep scars on his head. He had a nasty quarrel with his wife. Whilst he was asleep, she used pestle to hit him on his ribs and on his head. It's hard to feel optimistic about marriage when you hear some of the nasty stories of what men are going through in silence. 13 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by Shimran(m): 8:09pm On Apr 15 |
EreluRoz: God bless you. 😊 I doubt a lovely and happy families, Family clans, Family Relatives, Communities and nations, the love, feels for one another could ever exist in the absence of Marriage. |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by Kobojunkie: 8:10pm On Apr 15 |
vibbb:Nonsense! ![]() |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by JustcallmeFavou(f): 8:11pm On Apr 15 |
uche87: How do you expect most marriages to work, when some marriages these days, has become transactional? Most folks are now getting married to strangers instead of to their friends. Some just want to get married cos all their friends are already married, and they seem like the odd one out. If you ask me, marriage is beautiful. Pray to get it right with the right person, and who knows, you might have your happily ever after here on earth. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by benitwater(m): 8:11pm On Apr 15 |
To some not all. |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by GUNITGuy: 8:11pm On Apr 15 |
Taquin:Even me too,...l just don't know am not so eager 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by WorldRichest: 8:11pm On Apr 15 |
Marriage is a scam nah. Those of us who are married and are not afraid of the truth knows this. Marriage is a bigger scam than Religion. Now the western world is doing away with the two frauds 11 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by jojothaiv(m): 8:11pm On Apr 15 |
I'm glad this is your opinion and it's valid but like the knight of the English language will always say, I wouldn't have delve into it if not for AI. |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by israelmao(m): 8:13pm On Apr 15 |
Marriage in Christ is a blessing,God's word remains unfailing. 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by WorldRichest: 8:13pm On Apr 15 |
DarkLover: Yes, some marriages are good sight to behold for people to see, but in the closets, they are scams. Will you believe that Rev Chris Oyakhilome's former wife Rev (Mrs) Anita Oyakhilome will kick his ass out with all the fake outings they portray? That's how 95% of marriages are. Couples just show off fake smiles and love, underneath, it is plenty trouble. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by ivolt: 8:13pm On Apr 15 |
TonyeBarcanista:What is Russia doing in your list? |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by Biglittlelois(f): 8:15pm On Apr 15 |
nairalee: I've come to realise that so many people on nairaland are products of dysfunctional upbringing or a single parent household especially the males, or they are not loved at home, that's why they preach the abolishment of marriage, to continue the moral degradation of the society. 5 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by EreluRoz: 8:15pm On Apr 15 |
Shimran:There's no one from a decent home that'll ever talk down on marriage, one of the easiest way of spotting a damaged person is his idea and views on marriage. So many young people especially Nigerian men needs therapist because the government has messed them up. It's sad 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by ivolt: 8:15pm On Apr 15 |
olaniyilukman:You just proved her point. Mature people don't suffer and keep quiet. 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by Greenfaces: 8:16pm On Apr 15 |
Until we discover the punishment for zina |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by obaidan: 8:16pm On Apr 15 |
Marriage is now Poverty Alleviation or Get-rich-quick scheme for ladies. Young men are no longer interested. In most cases they are the ones that bring money and sacrifice to the table, the other gender once they bring private part to the table like ds, they believe they have done what no one else can do 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by labake1(f): 8:16pm On Apr 15 |
Marriage is supposed to be like a retirement plan meant to be enjoyed but marriage of this time is like war, pains and troubles. Men doesn't respect and value women so women are trying every means to succeed more than men. I told my boss that I just want to be a mother 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by Biglittlelois(f): 8:16pm On Apr 15 |
cutecommend: One size does not fit all What may work for you may not work for others. |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by temmyyem: 8:17pm On Apr 15 |
This is a lie, marriage will never loss it value. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Gradually Losing Its Relevance by anungangampu: 8:17pm On Apr 15 |
4 of my friends including a sibling that married in the last 2 years have went back to their late night and olosho lifestyle. REASON: They all married out of shame to either get a very young girl or to marry someone they can boss over or something beautiful their friend's could envy. Last, Last, After 6 months they preferred their former olosho than their wives. The woman on the other hand was eager to get baby to tie their husband. After first post-partum they totally lost their husband. For me, with half naked girls walking everywhere, it seems I have generalized every woman to be too close to an olosho to be valued. 6 Likes |
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