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Slavery Of Men By Women by Trueprophet91: 2:34am On Apr 21 |
*SLAVERY OF MEN BY WOMEN* Every Man irrespective of who they are must read the book by a German writer Esther Villar In her book "The Manipulated Man" This book has caused outrage and *hostile criticism* from women, it explains how women since the earliest times have manipulated men and turned them into their slaves, they have *pretended* to be the oppressed sex while in the real sense they are the oppressors. She explains how a woman manipulates a man skillfully by steps like *courtship* and finally *marriage* , hence the saying “ *a man chases a woman until SHE catches him”* . In her book she explains how the man is *tricked* to care for the woman all his life and her offspring. He rolls the stone like *Sisyphus* and in turn gets rewarded by a few minutes of sexual pleasure. We can, by observing Esther Villars assertions that a man is a slave of his desires and the woman uses and has used it for thousands of years as a stick and carrot to keep the man chasing vanity and commit his life to serving her. She goes ahead to explain the *rivalry of women* , how each woman feels the powerful urge and need to own a male for herself. Like a *slave owner* she detests any move the man would make to offer his services to another woman. She uses all means to keep the man to herself and her offspring alone. Esther Villar's sentiments are captured by Nigerian Poet, critic and writer, Chinweizu Ibekwe in his book, “The Anatomy of Female Power” (AFP) and Will Farrel's, “The Predatory Female”. They all push the theory that all societies are matriarchal and not patriarchal as we are pushed and forced to believe. *Matriarchy has ruled not through brawn but wits and tricks;* women feigning weakness to be protected etc. Thus the male becomes the most exploited sex in human history, (in wars the man is always ready to die for the woman; he has been trained to do that). Chinweizu calls the idea of *dating* and *courtship* , *training* , like that of a horse. It is during this time that a woman having kept the man on a leash by denying him sex and getting him addicted to her by false charms, trains and breaks him to whatever she wants him to become. The marriage celebration becomes a celebration for the *woman and her friends,* and they all congratulate her for having succeeded in getting herself a *slave* . A man on that *wedding* day waves goodbye to his independence and his coalition of males and commits himself to a *Sisyphean* life, rolling the stone, an act he cannot abandon having *society* and the *government* checking on him and always ready to *jail* , *shame* or *exile* him for absconding his duties of slavery. Thus the government and society helps the woman in keeping her *slave*(man) in check. Chinweizu gives a narration of how women are trained by older matriarchs to *tame* men. He explains how a man is trained to rely on women by his own mother. A man is *shamed for cooking* for himself and other domestic chores by his *own mother* who is an agent of the global matriarchal rule. By getting the man to hate *domestic* works and having it enforced by culture which warns men against going into the kitchen, doing *laundry* etc. The mother trains his son for the woman who will captivate him and when the time comes she takes hold of the man's stomach and by getting the man addicted to her body she holds him by the two, in *bed* and in the *kitchen* . With those two weapons she manipulates the man and turns him into her plaything. In the “Myth of the Male Power”, Esther Villar's “A Man's Right to the Other Woman”; “The Polygamous Sex”, the authors of those books challenge the narrative that men oppress women, and by detailed research across African, Western and Eastern both in ancient and modern societies, the authors unravel the hidden power of the ruthless matriarchal power that rules the world. Also Helen E. Fisher did anthropological research of ancient human societies and wrote the book "The Sex Contract, The evolution of human behaviour" 1982. She too came to the conclusion that Marriage is a selfish creation of a Woman, where she uses sex to manipulate a man to take care of her and her offspring. Other male animals do not carry the same burden and responsibility. *Presidents* , *Emperors* and *Kings* are all puppets of the matriarchy forces that rule the World by pulling the strings from behind the curtains A noble piece which is a must read for every Man under the globe... 21 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by Trueprophet91: 2:35am On Apr 21 |
I don't even know where this is from, but I think it's worth the read. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by DeeNet1: 2:39am On Apr 21 |
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Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by Trueprophet91: 2:40am On Apr 21 |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by DeeNet1: 2:42am On Apr 21 |
Trueprophet91: Interesting 4 Likes |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by Johnjustice: 3:37am On Apr 21 |
Pure fact 4 Likes |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by BabbanBura(m): 5:56am On Apr 21 |
Trueprophet91: Man is ofcourse the slave to this desire, woman and sex, this is the truth. 8 Likes |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by WarlordBlog: 7:00am On Apr 21 |
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Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by tanigororo: 7:35am On Apr 21 |
Absolutely Right Fact, that's why I keep saying if you want to marry multiple wives don't let them discourage you with those bullshits of one man one wife. Women are fighting for their own interests by trying to keep you to herself alone, if they are on the other side of the table as men they will start complaining. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by Pelumisamuel(m): 9:23am On Apr 21 |
This is shocking |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by DeGods007(m): 9:39am On Apr 21 |
tanigororo: You're wise my brother They will lie to you that more than one wives kills the man faster, that is pure lie. Men die quickly when they marry only one wife. No matter how strong you are when you marry one wife you're gone. Men will keep learning in a hard way ![]() 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by Johnwrite(m): 10:15am On Apr 21 |
Honestly many men are just been trapped by one woman 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by shagasha: 11:59am On Apr 21 |
I'll search for the book and read it |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by Trueprophet91: 12:25pm On Apr 21 |
BabbanBura: Desire is a strong yoke. It's hard to escape 7 Likes |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by Trueprophet91: 12:27pm On Apr 21 |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by Trueprophet91: 12:29pm On Apr 21 |
Johnjustice: Wetin make we do? ![]() I'd say men should protest like those South African women...go naked in protest ![]() |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by Trueprophet91: 12:30pm On Apr 21 |
shagasha: Please share it here when you find |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by Trueprophet91: 12:33pm On Apr 21 |
Johnwrite: I'm more particular about the rule of engagement sef. It's all too matriarchocentric. The whole arrangement should be reviewed. That's why men die too early ![]() They should review it or we protest naked, like em southy women ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by Trueprophet91: 12:38pm On Apr 21 |
[quote author=WarlordBlog post=129549671][/quote] Wow. Thanks |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by Damian911: 12:39pm On Apr 21 |
DeGods007:I'm yet to receive a response from you sir ![]() |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by DevilsEqual(m): 2:56pm On Apr 21 |
Hmmmm Slave to theIr desires |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by advanceDNA: 4:00pm On Apr 21 |
Trueprophet91: Protest?? Lol ..what da hell for?? When u can just decided not to marry.... Have one baby outside wedlock...if u want one And followup with vasectomy...so u don't have another child and avoid one werey from running u street with paternity fraud 6 Likes |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by Gadafii: 5:09pm On Apr 21 |
Just fee men have come to the realization that as a man, you are in trouble This realization has changed the worldview of these men, who now see gow deceptive and cunny women can be. They are now aware if the several tricks most women use to deceive men, marriage inclusive ![]() As a man, marriage is a waste of time and resources, i was having this discussion with my homeboy, his young girlfriend was with us When i said, as a man, expect everything and nothing from a woman, dont deal with aby woman irrespective of what ever the relationship you have with them with your heart but your brain, next thing she said was i need to heal so as to find true love, laughter wan kill me inside She insisted i was nursing trauma from old relationship, meanwhile in reality i have never suffered a significant heartbreak from a lady, but i was opened to the trickery nature of women from a very tender age and i was never going to be a victim of that Women are necessary evil, we cant do without them, however as a man there is nothin you will benefit from marriage that you wont enjoy as a single man, while women have a whole lot to benefit from being a married women like protection, provision,nourishing, etc 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by Trueprophet91: 5:49pm On Apr 21 |
advanceDNA: Funny you! ![]() Interesting views though |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by Trueprophet91: 5:50pm On Apr 21 |
Damian911:Is it about the link to download the book? I think someone already shared a link up there. |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by Trueprophet91: 5:54pm On Apr 21 |
Gadafii: With these thoughts, I believe the world is headed for interesting times ahead 2 Likes |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by Trueprophet91: 5:59pm On Apr 21 |
Gadafii: Considering the bolded, don't you think she's probably right about you. I mean you might have directly seen any significant heart break but you probably experienced something at tender age that gave you a very ugly impression of the womankind. My thoughts though. I may be wrong |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by advanceDNA: 6:06pm On Apr 21 |
Gadafii: Lol...she said u are broken just because u are not all over her and her singing praise... ......u know what I find nauseating? .......women feel that by just being women and saying yes to dating you... they've given u all u could ever need in life....and expect u to pay them back with all the luxuries of life and faithfulness... 9 Likes |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by Gadafii: 7:00pm On Apr 21 |
Trueprophet91:she couldn't have been right, because what formed my view towards women has nothing to do with me directly neither was i traumatized, i merely learnt from the experience of older people around me, which basically was to never expect anything from women amd at the same time expect everything and anything from them I dont have toxic view of women, as a matter of fact, i attract them in drove and relate with them genuinely... But i am never loose guarding no matter how good they come 8 Likes |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by Damian911: 7:15pm On Apr 21 |
Trueprophet91:Not about he promised to help me that was why I quoted him 1 Like |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by Okoroawusa: 7:29pm On Apr 21 |
Mmm... interesting academic research write up. |
Re: Slavery Of Men By Women by austine4real(m): 7:31pm On Apr 21 |
U think I have the PDF |
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