We need to be mindful of what we say or post on social media because it might come back to haunt us.

My cousin met a guy in late 2022, and their relationship was good up until early this month. 

Her boyfriend took her to the UK and Cancun this past February, and he even proposed to her on Valentine's Day in Cancun.

I believe she was really in love with this guy, but her friends who are jealous of her and her relationship ruined everything, all because of the series of things she posted online before she met her boyfriend.

One of her friends, who was jealous of the relationship, sent my cousin's old social media posts to my cousin's boyfriend.

Some of the posts.

“I don’t give a damn about any love, and I am not going to be loyal to any man. I go where money goes”

“Don’t come here to preach love to me because that 4 that letter words is not in my dictionary”

“I don’t know why women get upset when their partners cheat on them, as for me, I don’t care if you cheat on me or not……….I am bleeping any man that can pay the price”

He called her about two weeks ago to break the bad news: "I am no longer interested in this relationship."

Now she’s down crying, and the boyfriend stop picking calls.

Yawn!!!!!!!!


She go dey alright......another bankroller will come her way....that won't even mind she's a Gold digger.....

And if she doesn't get another rich man

She can as well remain single ......... Yawn!!!

We're responsible for our actions the day we clock 18.

Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.

Let her go where money is ooo.. And she must not be loyal to any man..

Them go carry phone dey type nonsense up and down.... Na God save that guy o..

She was just pretending to love the guy,so that she can ruin his life.. Thank God he is a son of a praying mother..

Women supporting women, they just helped their mate get back on track, she almost strayed away

Na where the money dey she dey so. Thank God the guy get understanding and he's looking out for himself, which suppose be the main goal.

All is rosy now na becos the guy dey bankroll am. The moment power change hands, the guy go see shege raise to power 100.

This guy suppose collect award. Na my kind of person be this lol . He will definitely meet another banny, shebi na money be am lol. Banny plenty, just get money

How did her friends ruin everything 🤔 because all i see is loyal friends reminding her of her words and how she must stick to those words 😃😁

She wasn't lieing after all....

That's why it's not good for a responsible lady to be posting nonsense on the social Media.

I was going to bump into a lady dm on FB, but when I saw "zero committed" on her about....I faced front sharperly...

mamawa123:
We need to be mindful of what we say or post on social media because it might come back to haunt us.

My cousin met a guy in late 2022, and their relationship was good up until early this month. 

Her boyfriend took her to the UK and Cancun this past February, and he even proposed to her on Valentine's Day in Cancun.

I believe she was really in love with this guy, but her friends who are jealous of her and her relationship ruined everything, all because of the series of things she posted online before she met her boyfriend.

One of her friends, who was jealous of the relationship, sent my cousin's old social media posts to my cousin's boyfriend.

Some of the posts.

“I don’t give a damn about any love, and I am not going to be loyal to any man. I go where money goes”

“Don’t come here to preach love to me because that 4 that letter words is not in my dictionary”

“I don’t know why women get upset when their partners cheat on them, as for me, I don’t care if you cheat on me or not……….I am bleeping any man that can pay the price”

He called her about two weeks ago to break the bad news: "I am no longer interested in this relationship."

Now she’s down crying, and the boyfriend stop picking calls.

The cock has come home to roost!!

Trevor125:
That's why it's not good for a responsible lady to be posting nonsense on the social Media.

How can responsible and nonsense coexist in the first place ?

Serves her right,
Think before u post on the net cause the internet never forget

Farrason:


The cock has come home to roost!!

You're right, but she is not a bad girl. I believe all those posts were for clout sake.

WantsandMore:
How can responsible and nonsense coexist in the first place ?

He dey happen sometimes...

Sometimes, when ladies are in their lowest emotional state...they start typing rubbish on their socials ...may be after a break up and all telling the whole world how they hate men...

But dem no go remember say good man fit come their way later in life

As much as I hated what she posted... Her fiance is not matured enough to handle a marriage. He should have investigated before breaking up. Who does that. You can't compare a 23 year old me and my 30, it's different man.

Do women really lose out in cases like this? Not at all


There are more in line to wife her up and the good thing is that whatever she did to attract this one would prolly be enough to attract a classy yet stupider man

It's a W in the end

Trevor125:
That's why it's not good for a responsible lady to be posting nonsense on the social Media.

Are there responsible ladies in Nigeria?

Rexymania:
As much as I hated what she posted... Her fiance is not matured enough to handle a marriage. He should have investigated before breaking up. Who does that. You can't compare a 23 year old me and my 30, it's different man.

Men change, women don't.

A womaniser can stop womanising the moment he gets married but an olosho will always remain olosho even after marriage.

Rexymania:
As much as I hated what she posted... Her fiance is not matured enough to handle a marriage. He should have investigated before breaking up. Who does that. You can't compare a 23 year old me and my 30, it's different man.

He's immature for being careful??

What investigation would u have done??

30 year old u could even be worst than 23 year old you...so u don't really have a point on the age issue

mamawa123:

One of her friends, who was jealous of the relationship, sent my cousin's old social media posts to my cousin's boyfriend.

She should not cry. She should celebrate that she dodged a bullet. If a friend can make the guy make this type of decision when they are not married because of what she wrote in the past and could have grown up from, what will he do when he has to manage his neighbours, colleagues and in-laws They will say your wife did this yesterday, oya send her out. Make she de celebrate escape. When you are rejected, it is a redirection. Take heed.

Rexymania:
As much as I hated what she posted... Her fiance is not matured enough to handle a marriage. He should have investigated before breaking up. Who does that. You can't compare a 23 year old me and my 30, it's different man.

Sometimes it’s difficult to take that risk.

If it is in someone’s human nature, it can only be suppressed, which means anytime conditions favor such nature, it springs back up and sometimes like never before.


For example, someone doesn’t just stop being a psychopath.
I no fit blame the guy at all.

Starz825:



He dey happen sometimes...

Sometimes, when ladies are in their lowest emotional state...they start typing rubbish on their socials ...may be after a break up and all telling the whole world how they hate men...

But dem no go remember say good man fit come their way later in life

What goes around comes around

A girl that has social media is a huge red flag to me


Only who'res have social media

Serves her right ,I'm sure if the said guy was broke she won't even consider dating him.

Fake story as usual 🙄 😒 😑

She wasn't lieing after all....

mamawa123:


You're right, but she is not a bad girl. I believe all those posts were for clout sake.

That's not what I mean... The things she did not caring the implications have come back to hunt her. I belief this is what the OP also meant when he said mind what you post online.

It happens even here in Naira land....creta a topic of a good debated issue or ask for assistant...ppl will go to ur old posts and dig up ur ideology

Sharp man
Your cousin is a farm tool

Bongadu:
A girl that has social media is a huge red flag to me


Only who'res have social media

Really?