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My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by ChinemeremFidel: 10:43pm On Apr 27
I am in my twenties and never been in a relationship before so I met this lady from the particular tribe because reside and school in Lagos. I am a student of a university in Lagos and also a pianist because that's what I use in surviving in school.
We met two years ago but we kept on breaking up and making up, but this time around it must be over because i deleted her completely from my life.

I decided to make a plunge into tech, Cyber security to be precise by September so I told my gf that I will start saving a substantial amount of money in the hands of my foster mother who resides in the US because that one too promised to complete whatever is left to begin the career by September, i told my gf she was mad that i was saving money with someone else instead of her...This girl is a good girl no doubt and she cared but she just hated my foster mum for no reason..i started wondering how she would react to my own mom because my mum is not even accommodating like my foster mum.

Fast forward to the moment I told her to stop some contributions that was choking her as I was always the one turning up for her when she defaults but before that she started asking me of money, huge amount that she know i have it but i wont release it because i have something's I am working on, i school and i am solely in charge of my school fees, i live in a one room apartment and the bills is choking, so its hard to release such amount this period, i have given her thrice the amount twice sha..

Later on she said she want to start working in a company closer to my place but I refused because the work is stressful and moreover she's a student..That one was a wahala on its own...I actually ducked because if she's around na another expenses for my head..buy this buy that ..

Then I noticed she started snubbing my chats so I confronted it today, she told me she's tired and don't love any more, that all men are scum bla bla bla...
I don't even want to exchange words,I just told her okay and blocked her immediately and deleted her contacts.

Then I saw text message from her other line that I never loved her, that I took away her virginity and all that..I texted her back "my own virginity you took is what?" And blocked the line

See me see wahala....did I do bad?
No insults please

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Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by Cassandraloius: 10:46pm On Apr 27
Please focus on your life, ignore her.

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Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by ForValour: 10:46pm On Apr 27
Forget her or she will derail you.

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Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by ChinemeremFidel: 10:49pm On Apr 27
Cassandraloius:
Please focus on your life, ignore her.
That's just what I have done
I won't even date again sef for now until further notice..
The first one I say make I try turned out this way

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Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by PerfectStranger(m): 10:51pm On Apr 27
Stay focused. Avoid her totally,shes a distraction

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Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by Cassandraloius: 10:51pm On Apr 27
ChinemeremFidel:

That's just what I have done
I won't even date again sef for now until further notice..
The first one I say make I try turned out this way

At this age, I'd advise you should build your life and find you balance. If she sees any guy that will spend on her she won't hesitate.

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Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by ChinemeremFidel: 10:54pm On Apr 27
ForValour:
Forget her or she will derail you.
Thank you very much
Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by Freelancerboy(m): 10:59pm On Apr 27
Ok.

Anytime you make up your mind to unblock her, just be prepared to learn the hard way.
Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:09pm On Apr 27
i remember seeing a post by some Nigerian babe who said:" every time she wants to go and wh0re herself and sleep around with other men, she will just create some yeye discussion/fight with BF and then block him for a few days, supposedly out of anger... enough time needed for her to go wh0re herself... then after she finished being a wh0re, she will contact BF and apologize."

if you are the only man in her life, then why suddenly she will now say that "men are scum"? abeg bros, stay wise!

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Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by Sonnobax15(m): 11:15pm On Apr 27
lipsrsealed
If I had known what I know now,I swear I wouldn't have gotten an inch close to any banny.....Cuz ,come on,of what benefit is being in a relationship with these brainless bannies is to a guy nowadays? I keep asking myself this particular question all the time....Guyman tries to be funny,she will just pick up an offense unnecessarily!!!!!! They can't start or even keep up with a sensible conversation without sparking up an unnecessary beef!!! ........ Investment-wise mindset zero,No business mentality,in fact,zero allocation!!!!! angry. Entitlement mentality is out of the world!!!!! Omoh, sometimes,to stay single while building ones self is golden abeg!!!!!

E get why las las!!!!!!!!

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Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by superCleanworks(m): 11:20pm On Apr 27
ChinemeremFidel:
"my own virginity you took is what?" And blocked the line
September is almost here. you have removed a very big obstacle. Now ride on.

When you finally hit that money, you will see how babes will be spending money to get your attention and you will wonder... HOW DID I EVEN SPEND SO MUCH TIME ON THAT GIRL?

finally, I hope say u no write the babe number somewhere to call later because na there you go regret.

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Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by TheWinterBird: 11:25pm On Apr 27
She wanted to work but you prevented her from taking the job. At the same time, you don't want to be giving her money. Pick a side, dude. She could've started that job to earn, then look for another that's far from your place. This was nothing to break up over. Clearly, she's right that you didn't love her because you would've handled this differently if you did.

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Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by ChinemeremFidel: 11:37pm On Apr 27
superCleanworks:

September is almost here. you have removed a very big obstacle. Now ride on.

When you finally hit that money, you will see how babes will be spending money to get your attention and you will wonder... HOW DID I EVEN SPEND SO MUCH TIME ON THAT GIRL?

finally, I hope say u no write the babe number somewhere to call later because na there you go regret.
God forbid
Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by ChinemeremFidel: 11:40pm On Apr 27
TheWinterBird:
She wanted to work but you prevented her from taking the job. At the same time, you don't want to be giving her money. Pick a side, dude. She could've started that job to earn, then look for another that's far from your place. This was nothing to break up over. Clearly, she's right that you didn't love her because you would've handled this differently if you did.
She could work somewhere else but not close to me when I am trying to save up..with her around na big expenses...
Moreover the company is not environment friendly for her... she that always fall sick almost every time

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Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by drimzsmoke(m): 11:53pm On Apr 27
ChinemeremFidel:
I am in my twenties and never been in a relationship before so I met this lady from the particular tribe because reside and school in Lagos. I am a student of a university in Lagos and also a pianist because that's what I use in surviving in school.
We met two years ago but we kept on breaking up and making up, but this time around it must be over because i deleted her completely from my life.

I decided to make a plunge into tech, Cyber security to be precise by September so I told my gf that I will start saving a substantial amount of money in the hands of my foster mother who resides in the US because that one too promised to complete whatever is left to begin the career by September, i told my gf she was mad that i was saving money with someone else instead of her...This girl is a good girl no doubt and she cared but she just hated my foster mum for no reason..i started wondering how she would react to my own mom because my mum is not even accommodating like my foster mum.

Fast forward to the moment I told her to stop some contributions that was choking her as I was always the one turning up for her when she defaults but before that she started asking me of money, huge amount that she know i have it but i wont release it because i have something's I am working on, i school and i am solely in charge of my school fees, i live in a one room apartment and the bills is choking, so its hard to release such amount this period, i have given her thrice the amount twice sha..

Later on she said she want to start working in a company closer to my place but I refused because the work is stressful and moreover she's a student..That one was a wahala on its own...I actually ducked because if she's around na another expenses for my head..buy this buy that ..

Then I noticed she started snubbing my chats so I confronted it today, she told me she's tired and don't love any more, that all men are scum bla bla bla...
I don't even want to exchange words,I just told her okay and blocked her immediately and deleted her contacts.

Then I saw text message from her other line that I never loved her, that I took away her virginity and all that..I texted her back "my own virginity you took is what?" And blocked the line

See me see wahala....did I do bad?
No insults please


Please why did you mention tribe and Lagos,you wanted us to know the girl is yoruba abi🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚
Anyways, you Lagos people are mad people, so I have nothing to say!!!
Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by JASONjnr(m): 12:05am On Apr 28
MrBrownJay1:
i remember seeing a post by some Nigerian babe who said:" every time she wants to go and wh0ree herself and sleep around with other men, she will just create some yeye discussion/fight with BF and then block him for a few days, supposedly out of anger... enough time needed for her to go wh0re herself... then after she finished being a wh0re, she will contact BF and apologize."

if you are the only man in her life, then why suddenly she will now say that "men are scum"? abeg bros, stay wise!

This was what I faced many years back when I used to love with my brain and not with my heart.

She will create a fight.... And when you react to it, she will block you instantly... After doing what she intended doing, she will unblock me and send me a message that will make me feel terrible and the mind games will have me apologizing for the misunderstanding.

Omo, this was all that happened all these moments and lasted for 5yrs.

But as usual, a man will grow out of his foolishness and learn to love with his heart while using his brain to think. Women will hate you when you don't fall for their games!

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Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by drimzsmoke(m): 12:08am On Apr 28
ChinemeremFidel:


Later on she said she want to start working in a company closer to my place but I refused because the work is stressful and moreover she's a student..That one was a wahala on its own...I actually ducked because if she's around na another expenses for my head..buy this buy that ..

Then I noticed she started snubbing my chats so I confronted it today, she told me she's tired and don't love any more, that all men are scum bla bla bla...
I don't even want to exchange words,I just told her okay and blocked her immediately and deleted her contacts.

Then I saw text message from her other line that I never loved her, that I took away her virginity and all that..I texted her back "my own virginity you took is what?" And blocked the line

See me see wahala....did I do bad?
No insults please


On a second thought, let me drop my 2 cent
Serves the stupid girl right. In her next life, if her parent should invest in her by sending her to school to go study, she wouldn't go about doing relationship and hoping on dick of a lowlife!!!
You've done well jare my brother!!!
Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by 1000Capacity: 12:25am On Apr 28
Fast forward to the moment I told her to stop some contributions that was choking her as I was always the one turning up for her when she defaults but before that she started asking me of money, huge amount that she know i have it but i wont release it because i have something's I am working on,
Pele o lover Boi. You are her father so it's ok to support your daughter and help her pay her contributions grin just like her numerous other dads


Think of your growth first before you think about how any mothefucking female will feel.
Don't feel sorry for anything. Omo Oba Harden your heart angry there are more females on earth than there are men

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Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by Sapasenator: 12:33am On Apr 28
Any woman who thinks Virginity is a big asset is a moΓ—ron to be avoided. They mostly have nothing upstairs.

I never dated throughout university. Focus on yourself and studies.

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Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by BigYash: 12:36am On Apr 28
Focus on your carreer and yourself.. When you are succeful you will meet with more classy ladies.. That girl is still a child that wants to expore,so just focus on your life and let her go grow up first...

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Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by ChinemeremFidel: 1:11am On Apr 28
drimzsmoke:


On a second thought, let me drop my 2 cent
Serves the stupid girl right. In her next life, if her parent should invest in her by sending her to school to go study, she wouldn't go about doing relationship and hoping on dick of a lowlife!!!
You've done well jare my brother!!!
So who's a low life?
Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by advanceDNA: 2:06am On Apr 28
ChinemeremFidel:

So who's a low life?

Any woman choking u for money when u have not blown is an enemy of progress... If she can't make do with what u give her on ur own, she should get the fvck out........She even get mind dey vex say u dey save for ur mama hand...and u nor clear am straight say she don fvck up..u don't too play mumu for the girl....

See ehnnn.......nor dey tell woman say u dey save....nor dey tel woman the total amount of money wey dey ur hand ..she will carry calculator and decide on her own how much is hers out of the money......

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Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by imagrg(m): 5:34am On Apr 28
You did the right thing.

She's nothing but a leach.
Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by JOACHINpedro: 5:50am On Apr 28
Being in a relationship is never an achievement for men. It's a psychological punishment, esp when you want the best for the two of you.
Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by Verbtips(m): 6:05am On Apr 28
I no get gf
but when e come to relationship matter i be refereegrin.
WELL YOU NO DO BAD
because the girl no get brain.
and next time no dey share tips of wetin you wan do,if shey she be one kain girl,she go dey patient so that the money go plenty then she go strike,you go fit use stlye the ask for advise,but no do am direct

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Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by ExudeLoveToAll: 7:07am On Apr 28
Bro I beg you continue to block that block head.

Where did you even get the sense to call someone who wants to bring you down a good girl girl? You are lucky you have deleted her number else ba 2 by 2 I for use on you grin

A lady who is beefing you because you had an alliance with your mum(foster) even while she is milking you without adding value to you, if you want to grow keep her there permanently. You are not the cause of her problems.

Any person who stress you won't help you grow , leave them behind and face your front.

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Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by ExudeLoveToAll: 7:13am On Apr 28
TheWinterBird:
She wanted to work but you prevented her from taking the job. At the same time, you don't want to be giving her money. Pick a side, dude. She could've started that job to earn, then look for another that's far from your place. This was nothing to break up over. Clearly, she's right that you didn't love her because you would've handled this differently if you did.


Women since the beginning of time hav never been accountable and responsible for their actions, you aren't the first and you won't be the last , women grin

This is why for any relationship issue as a man never ask a woman her views , you tendency to enter express is closer to 1 than 0. Learn to be accountable and responsible, it will help you in discerning issues the right way.

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Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by AcadaWriter: 7:14am On Apr 28
Please focus on your life, ignore her.
Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by advanceDNA: 7:28am On Apr 28
JOACHINpedro:
Being in a relationship is never an achievement for men. It's a psychological punishment, esp when you want the best for the two of you.

... I don't get how a human being will just feel another person's money belongs to them., When it's not like the person has it excess, overflowing

...you will even get mind to be angry, and insult the person for not giving you the money to spend on wateva u want....when u are not a child

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Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by okoroemeka(m): 8:25am On Apr 28
ChinemeremFidel:
I am in my twenties and never been in a relationship before so I met this lady from the particular tribe because reside and school in Lagos. I am a student of a university in Lagos and also a pianist because that's what I use in surviving in school.
We met two years ago but we kept on breaking up and making up, but this time around it must be over because i deleted her completely from my life.

I decided to make a plunge into tech, Cyber security to be precise by September so I told my gf that I will start saving a substantial amount of money in the hands of my foster mother who resides in the US because that one too promised to complete whatever is left to begin the career by September, i told my gf she was mad that i was saving money with someone else instead of her...This girl is a good girl no doubt and she cared but she just hated my foster mum for no reason..i started wondering how she would react to my own mom because my mum is not even accommodating like my foster mum.

Fast forward to the moment I told her to stop some contributions that was choking her as I was always the one turning up for her when she defaults but before that she started asking me of money, huge amount that she know i have it but i wont release it because i have something's I am working on, i school and i am solely in charge of my school fees, i live in a one room apartment and the bills is choking, so its hard to release such amount this period, i have given her thrice the amount twice sha..

Later on she said she want to start working in a company closer to my place but I refused because the work is stressful and moreover she's a student..That one was a wahala on its own...I actually ducked because if she's around na another expenses for my head..buy this buy that ..

Then I noticed she started snubbing my chats so I confronted it today, she told me she's tired and don't love any more, that all men are scum bla bla bla...
I don't even want to exchange words,I just told her okay and blocked her immediately and deleted her contacts.

Then I saw text message from her other line that I never loved her, that I took away her virginity and all that..I texted her back "my own virginity you took is what?" And blocked the line

See me see wahala....did I do bad?
No insults please

you didn't do anything bad,just make sure the cement you used to block her is hard,if in doubt use concrete and iron to reinforce the blockage, concentrate on your education and self improvement,women and their dramas is a huge distraction,if knoji wants to rear it's ugly head talk to your Vaseline,it's is a better option these days.

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Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by Gadafii: 8:27am On Apr 28
She's the weapon fashioned against you

Any woman who's not interested in your own growth and development is not for you, imagine paying for ajo she's solely entitled to, and still selfishly demand for funds


Burn that bridge and never look back, go focus on developing yourself, there will always be prettier and more sensible girls out there

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Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of This by JOACHINpedro: 8:49am On Apr 28
advanceDNA:


... I don't get how a human being will just feel another person's money belongs to them., When it's not like the person has it excess, overflowing

...you will even get mind to be angry, and insult the person for not giving you the money to spend on wateva u want....when u are not a child
That is societal programming that worked in the millenniums. Chances of it working in today's world is conflicting. Loneliness is no longer seen as an omen, people were terribly deceived.
A balance must be struck in traditional ways of doing things incorporated in modern era.


Do not forget,
You heard it from Joachinpedro First

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