God knows the system he created is hard


He cant be that mean

Suicide is NOT a sin but why do you wanna suicide?

Suicide is a sin. Don't be deceived by satan. Your life is not yours, and you have no power to end it.

ayjay45:
Suicide is NOT a sin but why do you wanna suicide?

Because I have a cursed life

Ilamina:


Because I have a cursed life

in what way? Do you mean financially or what aspect of your life is cursed?

ayjay45:
in what way? Do you mean financially or what aspect of your life is cursed?

everything

I remembered my comment on one of your posts on facial beauty. I don’t know other areas of your life that you find hard to cope with, but I believe that the universe has a purpose for everyone.

Not a staunch believer but I can recall this bible verse.

Jeremiah 1:5

“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.”

It’s true, the creator of this universe knew you from the onset, I can see this manifest in my own life.

My advice is for you to find a purpose in life, not until then life becomes meaningful. You may want to say finances are not easy, everyone is affected by that in Nigeria, so live within your income. Because you don’t have enough today, doesn’t mean life will not be pleasant in future years, but make sure you are also doing smth.

So what other areas makes you regret being alive?

Your facial beauty as a girl? I have had close relations with girls that are not very attractive, and I understand how they feel about it. What is most important is your perception of who you are, is it how you see yourself or how people see you? The question is how do you see yourself?
There is a radio OAP I cherish so much. She formerly works with Cool fm, now with Nigerian info, yes Joyce.
Just look at the beauty in her, and tell me she is not beautiful.

I bet it with you, if you work on yourself in just 3 years from now. You will be the most happiest person on earth. Look at those areas of your life that are in defect, work on it. Is it by improving your skills, knowledge, finances.

Ilamina:
everything

maybe you might want to see a therapist? Talk with a therapist?

To help you view your life from a more positive light.
Don't kill yourself.

Life is too short already and in less than 60 years, you're gone naturally. So be patient

sabbiboi:
but I believe that the universe has a purpose for everyone.

bro I don't believe the universe has a plan for everyone sha.

Life can be brutally cruel sometimes

Sin or no sin he who is ready to end doesn't consider that

Enjoy life as much as you can. Try to avoid excessive competition and just enjoy this life as it comes.

The earth was created for our enjoyment but we humans made it a place of suffering because of our greed to attain some artificially created heights.

Those who live their lives naturally without trying to be anyone else enjoy life better regardless where they live. Some people in the village, for instance, might be seen as misfits by some in the cities because they may not be so much into the hustles and bustles of civilization. But in reality, those guys in the village maybe enjoying life more compared to their city counterparts. I know that I do enjoy myself whenever I am in my village eating bush meat, drinking my correct palmwine and enjoying other 'local' stuff.

Therefore, I think that you, Onila, should try to breakaway from trying to meet your parents', siblings and friends expectations and live life on your own terms and pace if you want to start enjoying life. Not saying you should be laid back but try to go at your own pace. If the source of your depression is poor academic performance and you know you can't cope, quit and find a vocation that you can do well in while having fun at it.

ENJOY LIFE

ayjay45:
bro I don't believe the universe has a plan for everyone sha.

Life can be brutally cruel sometimes

That’s why it’s a plan. Drake sang God’s plan

Truly, life is cruel, but you need to understand where you are, as it will affect the decisions you make here.
Your mindset is an habitual or characteristic mental attitude that determines how you will interpret and respond to situations (google). Let me give you a scenario.

Two days ago, I spent a lot on transport to get to the bank to collect an info on my BVN, while returning from the bank I wanted to give the driver tfare but brought out a paper, due to the stress on the queue I went through at the bank, mistakenly or absent minded I threw that paper that contains the info given to me at the bank away, which I need for an important job application. I thought it was just an ordinary paper in my pocket. It was when I got home that I need to use that info online, that I realized my action.

Many Nigerians will term this event as absurd. I felt bad too, but my mindset is different, I took it in good fate, and went back the next day again, spending lots of money, especially at this time when there is an increase in fuel price.
All I’m saying is, it’s not everything that’s working against you, some things are plans that will eventually work in your favor. It’s your mind that can make this distinction.

Ilamina:


Because I have a cursed life

NO SINGLE HUMAN IS CURSED, BECAUSE WE ARE GODS CHILDREN ONLY GOD CAN CURSE US AND HE CANNOT CURSE HIS CHILDREN, HE'S ALWAYS WISHING THEM WELL.

GOD SAID: can a woman forsake her suckling child?, He said even if a breastfeeding mother can forsake her suckling child that Him God cannot forsake you.

YOU ARE EVERYTHING AND MORE, STAND UP AND LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULLEST

Many people came from background that is not so pleasant, and it interfer with their lives negatively but they found ways changing that negative situations to positive and became prosperous in all their endeavors, you can do it if you want to, at this point I introduce to you the way maker, life changer and all you can think of for restoration, his name is JESUS CHRIST I promise you an encounter with him will change all the cursed experiences you had experienced and give you peace beyond imagination, give him your heart and you will never regret it God bless you.

If you like kill yourself, you can’t escape earth. You will come back till you learn the lesson

Can i Dm let's talk

Amb1045:
If you like kill yourself, you can’t escape earth. You will come back till you learn the lesson

come back as in reincarnation?

Or how? Do you believe in reincarnation?

sabbiboi:

That’s why it’s a plan. Drake sang God’s plan

Truly, life is cruel, but you need to understand where you are, as it will affect the decisions you make here.
Your mindset is an habitual or characteristic mental attitude that determines how you will interpret and respond to situations (google). Let me give you a scenario.

Two days ago, I spent a lot on transport to get to the bank to collect an info on my BVN, while returning from the bank I wanted to give the driver tfare but brought out a paper, due to the stress on the queue I went through at the bank, mistakenly or absent minded I threw that paper that contains the info given to me at the bank away, which I need for an important job application. I thought it was just an ordinary paper in my pocket. It was when I got home that I need to use that info online, that I realized my action.

Many Nigerians will term this event as absurd. I felt bad too, but my mindset is different, I took it in good fate, and went back the next day again, spending lots of money, especially at this time when there is an increase in fuel price.
All I’m saying is, it’s not everything that’s working against you, some things are plans that will eventually work in your favor. It’s your mind that can make this distinction.

me that's advising her sef. I'm actually low-key depressed, but we ve got to stay strong.

LIFE IS HARD

ayjay45:
me that's advising her sef. I'm actually low-key depressed, but we ve got to stay strong.

LIFE IS HARD

Oro mii mafoo, we gather dey. Life no serious, na this country na him no too favour the majority. Na only few people get the real money for Nigeria, the remaining na on God we dey.

A lot of times I wonder what's left after death.
Whether it's going to be worth it after commiting suicide?
Or just going straight to hell?
Or just keep getting re-incarnated?
Which is it?

I don't mean to be mean. If you want to commit suicide, please think about it carefully. Patience and faith can be helpful

sabbiboi:


Oro mii mafoo, we gather dey. Life no serious, na this country na him no too favour the majority. Na only few people get the real money for Nigeria, the remaining na on God we dey.

for real bro.

But that's what God wants. He created us men and destined us to be this way

PlasmaTV:
Suicide is a sin. Don't be deceived by satan. Your life is not yours, and you have no power to end it.

if your life is not yours then it's for who?

No matter what i can not come and kill myself

Ilamina:


Because I have a cursed life

why will you say something like this about yourself .nawa cursed life kwa