heartofcity12:
True

That's a wrong doctrine man. Do you want a dumb, naive woman whom you can push around and control or an interesting person whom you can engage meaningful conversations with and can offer support in your endeavors ?

Every girl has a Justin Case saved in her phone under a girl’s name or a fake title like “Mechanic.”

He’s there “just in case” you two don’t work out.

She’ll hit him up, and he’ll be over in 30 or less.


Even your so called good girls have a Justin Case.

Her game doesn’t sleep bro. 💯

Ericmaestrooffi:
Good morning house

I’ve been following this thread for a long time but I’ve not commented before. I want to ask your opinion on cohabitating with a lady that’s not your gf or wife.

A female friend of mine who recently graduated reached out to me that she wants to come stay with me and use that opportunity to look for a job, she didn’t tell me how long she intends to stay but from our conversation it seems she will be staying for a long time.

I’m currently a banker and not doing bad for myself, I don’t have any issue housing or feeding her but I don’t know if it’s right for a guy and lady not dating to live together.

N.b: we are only friends and nothing more, although I once dated her sister.

Please I need your opinion on this before I take a final decision on this.

Excerpt from Illimitable man:

Genuine desire

Women are aware of why men do things for them, they play dumb but on a machiavellian level they are quite smart, they have high machiavellian intelligence.

They play stupid for the sake of appearances so that they can squirm and escape accountability by keeping their hands clean via the employment of plausible deniability, but ultimately a woman with many beta orbiters despite any well-placed display of ignorance she feigns knows full well what she is doing and why she is doing it, the reality of the matter is she just doesn’t care about the needs of the man so long as one or a number of her needs are being met by that man.

She is entirely happy to carry on exploiting his sexual desire of her whilst not reciprocating or giving in to these demands, only implicating the promise of sex to keep him around should he look likes he’s about to leave and throwing him duty sex should she really value his contributions to her life.

Maxim #26:

Women secretly hope that you won’t rob them of the opportunity to make themselves vulnerable before your alpha inscrutability.

—Chateau Heartiste

Dear [young] men,

The nicer you are...

...the more likely she’ll cheat on you with some IDGAF dude.

Women want to feel safe around you.

The best way to make her feel safe is to show her that you've the capacity to be dangerous, but decided to put it on a leash. 💯

Giving a girl mixed signals is powerful 👌

Think about the hottest girls you ever tried to tak too.

She was really good at this.

She’d pull back, take long to respond, flake, and confuse you.

You should do the same. 💯

Be indifferent.
Take long to respond.
Go missing.
Pullback.


The chaotic game women play is sweet, when you're in control.

Dear [young] men,

Depression is just a lack a identity. 👌

You don’t know who you are.

The “Discovery of Self” is like being in a state of enlightenment.

You’ll stop over-pursuing woman.

You’ll stop simping.

The old you will slowly fade away while this new avatar takes over in ur reality.

Women: "I love you"

The Pill 💊: At this moment I feel love for you, but feelings change based on the consistency of your actions.


Love between a man and a woman is ALWAYS conditional. 👌


Only your mother (and grandmother) can love you unconditionally, to a large extent. 💯

Women: “Let’s take a break”


The Pill 💊: Let someone else fukk me silly temporarily until I’m sure I like that person more than you.

Then we can have a formal breakup, or not...

...but just be on standby.

🤣🤣

You’re the rock, she’s the wave.

You’re the flower, she’s the bee.

You are the champion in the arena, she is the cheerleader.

You’re the centre of your world, she gets to be a part of it.



Dear [young] men,

Know your worth. 👌

Karlifate:
Giving a girl mixed signals is powerful 👌

Think about the hottest girls you ever tried to tak too.

She was really good at this.

She’d pull back, take long to respond, flake, and confuse you.

You should do the same. 💯

Be indifferent.
Take long to respond.
Go missing.
Pullback.


The chaotic game women play is sweet, when you're in control.

In sequel:

Hot girls are always in charge of the sexual escalation...

••• They pull back first.

••• They tell you 'NO'.

••• They ghost you.

••• They give mixed signals.


Lotsa dudes still don’t implement the same technique...

...because they can’t control themselves.



They start bombarding her with attention & affection to sustain the fickle initial attraction.

Ericmaestrooffi:
Good morning house

I’ve been following this thread for a long time but I’ve not commented before. I want to ask your opinion on cohabitating with a lady that’s not your gf or wife.

A female friend of mine who recently graduated reached out to me that she wants to come stay with me and use that opportunity to look for a job, she didn’t tell me how long she intends to stay but from our conversation it seems she will be staying for a long time.

I’m currently a banker and not doing bad for myself, I don’t have any issue housing or feeding her but I don’t know if it’s right for a guy and lady not dating to live together.

N.b: we are only friends and nothing more, although I once dated her sister.

Please I need your opinion on this before I take a final decision on this.

Are you not planning to marry for you to be thinking about housing a grown up adult lady?

Don't you think the girl in question, tactically wanted to push herself into ur throat,since she believed you are ready financially for marriage?

If you have girlfriend or fiancee, how do you want her to feel?

If reverse is the case, would you allow ur girlfriend to cohabitate with grown up adult that's not her relation?

In as much I'm not going against you to assist her,but, for two unrelated adults to be cohabitating when they are not into relationship is wrong.

lastly, which is most important....and don't you think you are seeking advice in the wrong room?

Dear [young] men,

You cannot have women love you until you love yourself.

You cannot grasp the female nature until you grasp your male nature.

You cannot win her until you make focus on winning you.



In summary: Know Thyself. 👌

Dear [young] men,

Running out of things to say is usually a result of needing to impress her.

Learn not to give a fukk; develop an outcome independent, abundance mindset. 🔥🔥💯

Karlifate:




In sequel:

Hot girls are always in charge of the sexual escalation...

••• They pull back first.

••• They tell you 'NO'.

••• They ghost you.

••• They give mixed signals.


Lotsa dudes still don’t implement the same technique...

...because they can’t control themselves.



They start bombarding her with attention & affection to sustain the fickle initial attraction.

In addition:
To regain the sex or attention of a woman...

You don't give her more attention.

You remove yours. 💯

Dear [young] men,

If you want to change your bank account, start changing people's lives.

You get paid in direct proportion to the problems you solve for people. 💯

Karlifate:
Dear [young] men,

If you want to change your bank account, start changing people's lives.

You get paid in direct proportion to the problems you solve for people. 💯

In sequel:
Money follows value.

Money follows solution-oriented people.

Money follows individuals who creates avenue to make people's life easier.

👌💯

Dating a woman past her prime is a risk.

This cold harsh truth society doesn’t want to accept is…

...any woman who is is single when her flower is beginning to wither is not happy.


IDC if she is the CEO of Google or has 8 successful businesses.

They were biologically programmed to stand behind a KING. 👌



Examples abound everywhere.

Accountability isn't their forte.

Just passing by to remind you that you should never be Mr. Nice Guy. Happy weekend.

No matter how you try to sugar coat it...

Once your hymen has been broken and/or you've engaged in one romantic/sexual romp or the other, you're no longer a virgin. 💯

Exceptions abound, but they don't rule out the majority.


This is for those accountability dodgers & their SIMPu foot soldiers.

Martinez39s:
Just passing by to remind you that you should never be Mr. Nice Guy. Happy weekend.

The fellow might be following Jackie Chan's footsteps to release the part two of that '97 movie


Happy weekend, anyways.

Badmashiii:


You nailed it bro. No one could have said it any better.

Women love sex but the feeling of having power over a man,especially a high value man triumphs any pleasure they could get from sex.

Heck,personally i prefer having power over ladies than sleeping with them, but your first step to getting power over any girl is to sleep with her.


Nothing beats having power over others. I love and crave such feelings...

@ the bolded.

Yes, definitely: one way to get power over the woman is by sleeping with her.

But the weakness of that is, you'll find yourself accepting bullshit from her just because you want to get sex from her.

And you will open yourself up to be disrespected, manipulated and exploited by her in the process.

And if a woman sees you are willing to go through her bullshit just because you need something(sex), her desire and respect for you will diminish.

The funny thing is, the top very reason why struggled with girls back then was because I was trying to get power over them through sex. This cause me to be desperate and needy.

I didn't start doing really well with women until I decided that I no longer need a woman sexual companionship to feel powerful and worthy as a guy.

So while other guys operated with the weak mindset of:

"What can I do to get this woman to give me sex (so that I can have power over her and be confident about myself)?"

I started operating with the POWERFUL mindset of:

"What can I do to feel powerful and confident about myself regardless of the outcome(so that I'll naturally not give shit if I get the pussy or not)?"

That kind of powerful mindset is very liberating because it frees me to tell her whatever I want and behave however I want around her. [b]Simply because I DON'T CARE if she get upset, or reject me. [/b]This attitude of mine frustrate lots of women, but it counterintuitively makes them more attracted to me.

Once you think you "have to get" sexual relationship from her to have power over her, then you have automatically submit all your self-worth to her, willingly. And you have no one but yourself to blame, when she inevitably make you feel miserable.

But instead, when you think, "to hell with her pussy, she either follow my lead or she get lost", well, now you have true POWER with women.

The guy who cares the LEAST about having access to her sexual companionship is the guy who can who can set the rules and dictate the terms and conditions.

I don't necessarily try to get power over women. Instead I focus on having power over myself. I get power from my ability BEHAVE the exact way I want to regardless of what she thinks.

You cannot control how women behave towards you, but as a man, you can control your sexual desire, your emotions, and your life.

Focus on what you can control and generate power from that...not from women.

Karlifate:
Dear [young] men,

If you want to change your bank account, start changing people's lives.

You get paid in direct proportion to the problems you solve for people. 💯

Karlifate:




In sequel:
Money follows value.

Money follows solution-oriented people.

Money follows individuals who creates avenue to make people's life easier.

👌💯

Dear [young] men,

You can make as much money as you want..

• You can make 1K/Day
• You can make 10K/Day
• You can make 100K/Day
• Etc...


However, you need to level up your:::

√ Skills
√ Efforts
√ Attitude
√ Mindset


In equal proportion to the amount of money you want to make. 👌

Dear [young] men,

Seeking external validation from girls is a feminine behavior.

Your mood, happiness, and overall being has to come from the internal.

Money, girls, status, cars, and approval are fleeting.

You get it for a few seconds but then after you realize it wasn’t worth it.



In summary: Have, maintain, and continually protect your solid frame, regardless of external circumstances. 💯

mablie:


One of the features i strongly admire in women is how they can do anything...ANYTHING that is in their best self-interest.

This is a quality men generally lack.Men care too much about others especially women.Women do not.

Now ask yourself,"What will i gain by this lady coming to stay with me?"

No matter what she says,You will eventually feed her,give her pocket money,if you have a car,you'll begin dropping her at various destinations etc.Even if you finally enter the vagina,all that stress because of that overrated hole?Vagina is now your reward/payment?

That lady simply wants to use you.Tell her she cant stay with you.Believe me,she is a woman she will find another option.That is what they do best.

Men have got to elevate their mindsets when it comes to these women.You have got to be cold-blooded with all of them...COLD-BLOODED because they are cold-blooded with men.

Now there is a nigga who finally understands what I have been saying for ages.
Respect.

Karlifate:
Women want to feel safe around you.

The best way to make her feel safe is to show her that you've the capacity to be dangerous, but decided to put it on a leash. 💯

Nice take

There must always be that undercurrent of strength and capacity for violence in a man. It keeps the woman in check and also turns her on.

Dear [young] men,

How you carry yourself SPEAK VOLUMES. 💯


Here are 3 things you need to do (as a High-Value Man):

1:
Be sharp — Dress nice like someone important cos you're someone important. 👌

2:
Enthusiasm — Carry life in you. Bring the [positive] Vibes. 🔥

3:
Be an authority — Have your own opinions, values, and morals & don’t be afraid to speak on it. 💯



In summary: Your body language should communicate who you're before you even open your mouth.

Karlifate:
No matter how you try to sugar coat it...

Once your hymen has been broken and/or you've engaged in one romantic/sexual romp or the other, you're no longer a virgin. 💯

Exceptions abound, but they don't rule out the majority.


This is for those accountability dodgers & their SIMPu foot soldiers.

Lol, their ability to twist any narrative to avoid accountability via men-shaming, reverse psychology, rope-a-dope technique is unparalleled.

How dafuq do these comments make any sense?