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I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by Wallteck: 7:59pm On May 13 |
Good morning, I will first start by introducing personalty, I'm a very soft, naive guy and shy guy..I stayed indoors most of the times and I'm also an introvert, i enjoy been alone. Knowing my weakness, I always avoid not be take advantage of because I'm working like crazily to developed and structured myself. But this my area girls are always talking about me.. ""he doesn't talk with anyone"", he is rude, he is proud, lot of things I'm hearing from them... My neighbour always even tell me that I should be carrying girls. That am I gay??, there is even one day one girl even asked me why I don't like relating people, I just said It is just my decision... Currently, I'm really tired of their complain how can I handle all this criticism.. Should I start relating with them.. because I always dey careful with type of person I wanna relate with.. because I Sabi my weaknesses die!!! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by immortalcrown(m): 8:00pm On May 13 |
How old are you? 5 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by MMempire(m): 8:03pm On May 13 |
My advice, pack out of that area. Relocate to another area. Look for a quiet estate to go and be staying. Your eyes go clear when you go get emergency and you will know that your neighbors and people around you are your first family there. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by AqualinaXYZ: 8:04pm On May 13 |
[b][Since you’re working so hard and don’t wanna relate with people Then move to some estates that you won’t even meet your next door neighbors for a year Very serene and mind your business estate/b] 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by Johnwrite(m): 9:45pm On May 13 |
Because u no gree give them face na 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by Englishisamust: 9:55pm On May 13 |
immortalcrown:Why do u want to know is age??.. |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by Yugoslavia247(m): 9:55pm On May 13 |
Wallteck: Lol.. Seems there are lot of jobless people and idle hands in your vicinity. They talk because they don't have a secret of you in their hands. Better keep up your focus. When everywhere set. You will drive by and not walk by. By then they won't hear you and you won't hear them. All the best. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by muyico(m): 10:12pm On May 13 |
Itu baba ita? |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by immortalcrown(m): 10:16pm On May 13 |
Englishisamust:Because his age will tell who he is in this situation. |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by chatinent: 11:44pm On May 13 |
Probably you are a teenager or hitting adolescence but in the maturer sense, whatever anyone on the street says about you should be no business of yours. In this hard time, you even have time to care about what people say. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by SporaD8: 6:29am On May 14 |
Yugoslavia247:That's usually the case! I can't for the life of me imagine any responsible and gainfully employed Adult in this Tinubulation period to leave their legit hustle only to take up the job of monitoring spirit for another. Some people just get too much free time for their hand! |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by Macnnoli4(m): 6:47am On May 14 |
You don't have to relate with everyone. Just choose a small circle of people you that look non troublesome in your eye and relate with them. As for the people disturbing you, all you owe them is a simple 'good morning' , 'good afternoon', etc and you go your way. As for your neighbor, the last time I checked, you only need one girlfriend to prove you are straight and if you don't have financial capacity to be in a relationship, don't force it. 6 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by 100smile(m): 7:32am On May 14 |
Abeg try dey relate with people..''leave am' i know am'' don dey save lives since 18 BC 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by okunwaye(m): 7:43am On May 14 |
I am just like op. I had same issue in school, workplaces and at home but i don't give 2 fvck about them ![]() ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by sulakishop(m): 7:49am On May 14 |
The earlier you start accepting yourself for yourself is better. Build up more confidence too and live your life Wallteck: |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by ObaKlaz: 9:21am On May 14 |
Do you. Stay true to yourself. |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by ObaKlaz: 9:24am On May 14 |
Wallteck: Bro, just lift up your hands and thank God for your life. You're doing well! You're too obsessed about being productive to start courting their attention, and that hurts them - women are powered by attention. Starve them of that fuel and you're powerful - they dislike those type of men, but respect them nevertheless. I speak from experience. Should a fellow man (no Diddy! 😃) say you ain't sh*t to your face, he's saying facts 80% of the time. Man to man (again no Diddy!), he's weighed you on the balances and found you wanting, so it's left to you to up your game. But if a woman says trash about you, please take it like a grain of salt - she's most of the time speaking out of emotions and sentiment - women say anything. Just keep being the best you can be, never be guilt-tripped to become a simp and starve those stupid pass-arround hoes more of your attention. In fact, don't mingle with whoever isn't worth it, whether male or female. 90% of our stress comes from the wrong sorts of people we keep around. Cheers, bro!!! 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by Exceed15: 11:11am On May 14 |
Keep being a mystery. It's attractive. 5 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by Saviourk: 1:06pm On May 14 |
MMempire:funny but you're right. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by josh123(m): 2:57pm On May 14 |
Wallteck:bro, I am just an introvert like you amd people has said a lot of bad things about me... I stay indoors always and they say I am always inside my room like a woman, i stay indoors and work most of the times, I have lands and a house.... They think going to work in the morning proves that you are working, uneducated lot.... Some of them even call m gay and that I behave like a woman, bro don't mind them.... Different girls comes and visit me when I am Hot but they still call me gay, I feel they are just jealous.... Live your life bro don't mind whatever they say 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by Englishisamust: 7:28pm On May 14 |
immortalcrown:Lll |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by Wallteck: 7:31pm On May 14 |
immortalcrown: 23 years old sir 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by Englishisamust: 7:32pm On May 14 |
immortalcrown: Ok boss |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by okoroemeka(m): 8:46pm On May 14 |
immortalcrown:Hahahahahaa,you got me there,you can easily guess the age when he is still worried about girls opinions |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by pansophist(m): 9:43pm On May 14 |
Your life is so stress-free man, I am jealous. So in essence, you are bothered that some random people gather, just as church members gather, to talk about you, the same way members talk about Jesus, and you are not happy? As in, the little time they have on this planet, it is your matter they want to waste it on discussing? Please give them more reason to talk about you, so they won't die of depression. It is a sin against yourself to live timidly, like a victim, or you need permission or approval to blossom. You need to accept that some people will not like you, and its okay. You also do not like everybody. When real-life problems are handling you, such as life-threatening health issues, or heavy debt that after you even sell your kidney, you can't pay, gossip would be nothing you will disturb yourself with. Empty can make the loudest noise, the same way a human cruising life in soft mode notices every little inconvenience. So start adopting responsibilities that will build your character, and sophisticate your mind, which makes you well-grounded, without needing any approval because you trust and know yourself, and won't untroubled with low-class problems You should start adding ''honorable'' in front of your name, after all, only those worthy of honor are talked about. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by Wallteck: 12:56pm On May 16 |
pansophist: Thank you boss |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by KingNom(m): 1:49pm On May 16 |
If you're small, no one will talk about you |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by jeromestarks: 3:22pm On May 16 |
immortalcrown:🤣 But you wuked oooo. If he's a teenager, must you tell him? Let him enjoy his moment as a stupid and emotionally imbalanced teenager biko. |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by Wallteck: 6:09pm On May 16 |
jeromestarks: Ok sir. |
Re: I Don't Know Why Girls In My Area Are Talking Bad About Me by Fiscus105(m): 6:37pm On May 16 |
Wallteck: Wen u swallow red pill.....YOU BECOME A BULL IN A CHINESE SHOP! Repiller is another name for mad urchins, only them thinking that they are doing rational things, while others see them having absolute irrational behaviours. May God hand touches you for goodness! |
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