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Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by voiceofpaul(m): 1:07pm On May 14 |
Odewaleadesoye: As a man, if you figured your female bestie has a boyfriend, the best for you is to set boundaries, not for her but for her husband, boyfriend or fiancée. “Men protecting other men.” 3 Likes |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by arantess: 1:08pm On May 14 |
Odewaleadesoye:what will my wife be doing with male bestie if no be ment? 1 Like |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by papyjaypaul: 1:10pm On May 14 |
"Will not allow" As if she's a slave and you're the master. I was thinking about this topic and was thinking about what happened in the past. Everything is sexual today. No one is talking about family friends now, everthing is now self. A family can be friends with another family but you the husband or wife cannot provide all that your spouse will need or be. Your emotional balance in life needs PEOPLE. This mistrust we have is why women are going to pastors and Imams because they expect them not to have any sexual promiscuity with them. In the past, men will go to another city or country and the woman will raise the family with support of neighbours and family. If she likes let her sleep out. If he too likes, let him sleep outside. Everything sex sex sex. Una no wan rest The same man will prevent his girlfriend from having male friends, so after using the girl, you will remember that your mother does not like their people when you want to dump her. Go and marry and stop disturbing us with rights of possession. Those Alhaji that kept their women home because they were afraid of other men, do you think some of them didn't cheat depsite that? Grow from your insecurities and be a man or woman of value. If everything you do with the opposite sex is fcccck ccccck and fccck you have a mental PROBLEM, you never know What the mind wants to do, it will attract eventually 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by omoredia: 1:11pm On May 14 |
Na all these Netflix girls dey do that one |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by tnerro1(m): 1:12pm On May 14 |
Bestie, another name for part time fvck buddy 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by Angelfrost(m): 1:14pm On May 14 |
It's not even a question of allowing or disallowing...! A real man and woman ought to know better than have such things as "intimate besties". If you are not ready to get married and stay married, then remain single and have your fill of the single life. No drag person daughter or son into marriage, and start stressing them emotionally and mentally. Life no suppose hard! "We are just friends" kee una dia! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by Dennisochampa: 1:14pm On May 14 |
The day wen my wife get male bestie, na that day she go become single again... I should be her bestie just as she's mine... Male bestie are devilish and unnecessary distractions in marriages and relationship... Woman get issues with her man.. Instead of her to pray and work on how to resolve the issue.. She go carry am go give useless bestie wen deh find who e go dey knack without taking responsibility.... Ogun kee both the bestie and the woman wen Wan get the bestie 8 Likes |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by jericco1(m): 1:15pm On May 14 |
he is completely right, I will starting implementing the first point.. as for the las two, it is something I take personally |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by spencekat(m): 1:17pm On May 14 |
Well explained |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by Fiscus105(m): 1:17pm On May 14 |
papyjaypaul: Go and check the meanings of this following? Bestie (close friend) Ordinary/ casual friends Family friends Acquittance Colleagues Church or mosque members Neighbours. All except the bolded are allowed for married man or woman, when you are noe pushing it to level of the bolded, something is wrong with you. U re supposed to be ur wife bestie and vice versa. 1 Like |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by Shikena(m): 1:19pm On May 14 |
Bestie with another man? Use your brain for once. What example are you setting for your daughter? ... and your son? Did your mother have male bestie? Did your father have female bestie? Where did you learn that from? 2 Likes |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by papyjaypaul: 1:19pm On May 14 |
Fiscus105: Don't worry about that. I follow Nedu and I have heard his line of thoughts severally about these issues, that's why you see my response there. There is some form of insecurity when you begin to police everything. You think say before she meet you, she no follow man talk Na when you come in she go come be saint for you only. A woman who will lose guard will lose guard but at the same time, men should also not do the same. It is easier for us to be setting and breaking rules. Men think they are smartt but na still woman get men mumu button. No be today e start, e don tey since. This is why you have culture, tradition and systems in place for dos and donts for EVERYONE to follow |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by Adakintroy: 1:19pm On May 14 |
If he is broke and ugly women dont want any thing to do with him. If a woman is a besty to a man chances are she already admires something about him and that is a ticking time bomb. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by Fiscus105(m): 1:23pm On May 14 |
[quote author=papyjaypaul post=129947900] Don't worry about that. I follow Nedu and I have heard his line of thoughts severally about these issues, that's why you see my response thete[/quote/) If you really know the meanings, you don't have to argue otherwise, hence you are projecting urself as unwise before the public, for you to hate the messenger not necessarily mean you should hate the message. TAKE FOR INSTANCE. If you travel and you call ur wife around 11pm, how would you feel if she says she still with a male family friend at such ungodly hour......after all, Mr Ige ur family friend is a bestie to ur wife. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by ogastone(m): 1:24pm On May 14 |
anonymous1759:If you have unattractive and fatty as your female besty or secretary, you are in trouble my brother. You will be attracted to her and she will one day act Potipha's wife on you and finish you. I know that you are not as strong as Joseph. |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by DaveHarry(m): 1:25pm On May 14 |
from xperiens, if not for my godgiven selfcontrol towards women, i 4 no fit dey count married women wey i 4 don chop.....hmm man is on point. 2 Likes |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by ppogba: 1:27pm On May 14 |
Nedu sef don get man to dey talk about real man. Wonders shall not end. Were you real when woman carry another person belle shuck for your head? You still get mouth? Certificated Otondo. 2 Likes |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by onatisi(m): 1:28pm On May 14 |
he is wrong about the bestie part but very very correct about all the others. you can't stop a woman from cheating if she wants to and you can't stop her from having a male bestie if she wants too. Odewaleadesoye: 1 Like |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by Shikena(m): 1:29pm On May 14 |
Spot on. The moment one of the besties finds a partner, that's the end of it else you are looking for issues and regrets. To those doing it, no matter how poorly brought up up you are, this is an area where you must respect your partner or simply move on. Like it or not, bestie is shadow marriage. Sonnobax15: |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by onatisi(m): 1:30pm On May 14 |
maybe he is talking from experience and only advising so that others who haven't made the mistake he made would take heed ppogba: 2 Likes |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by mmadu5(m): 1:31pm On May 14 |
And a real a loyal woman would never think of having male besties period . If she does then she is a hoe and belong in the gutter 5 Likes |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by Shikena(m): 1:34pm On May 14 |
By that experience, isn't he in a vintage position to share opinion on the topic? ppogba: |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by peterboro: 1:35pm On May 14 |
if not olosho life in that woman and a chronic manipulator. WHAT IS THE REASON FOR THAT NONSENSE THEY CALLED BEASTIE? Craze women without everywhere without brain and control. 3 Likes |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by bentenny(m): 1:35pm On May 14 |
Supported 200% This also includes women with female besties! How can a single or married lady be locked inside the room for hours with a female bestie? What are they doing? Trying out new clothes or gisting? If you like your bestie so much,why not get married to them? No need for the confusion! 5 Likes |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by olisaEze(m): 1:37pm On May 14 |
All my besties are females. As long as you have a good poker face and can keep a secret, it’s a lot cheaper than a girlfriend or olosho and a lot more satisfying for both. IYKYK 2 Likes
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Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by gidyambi(m): 1:37pm On May 14 |
Forget about Wike... All besties are knacking. Bestie is a soft way to say 'my knacking partner'. #Fubara #Davido #Wizkid #PeterObi 1 Like |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by ukastan: 1:37pm On May 14 |
the more reason you should listen to him because he is talking from experience. TheBillyonaire: 1 Like |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by jahsharon: 1:38pm On May 14 |
Ogun go kee all of una. Wetin be bestie of the opposite sex, Isinku yin o ni sinmi, that is, your spirit will not rest after your death |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by Fhowe: 1:41pm On May 14 |
Odewaleadesoye:i laugh in swahili , dont streamline it to a category of persons , a woman can cheat with just any random dude . If you have watched this movie unfaithful the guy was just a random guy from the library , just try to find a partner that is responsible enough to know when and where to set boundaries. Female besties you think less of are even the most dangerous . When your partner tells you she is going to see her female bestie you would not think much of it , she might even call you on video call to show you she is actually with her female bestie but when the call ends do you know what goes down behimd closed doors .some are lesbians ,some are bi- sexual some even use intimacy gadgets on themselves , some go as far as using their homes as a meeting point for your partner and her lover . THE BOTTOM LINE IS YOU CAMT MONITOR ANYONE THESE DAYS A PATTNER THAT WOULD CHEAT WILL CHEAT AND THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT ,AS THE BOYS SCOUT SAYING GOES BE PREPARED . 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by jahsharon: 1:41pm On May 14 |
TheBillyonaire: It will be difficult for you to make Heaven. If he sees this post, shey you want make he commit suicide ni? |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by Elzazzi: 1:43pm On May 14 |
TheBillyonaire: He is talking from experience. Experience begats wisdom. 4 Likes |
Re: ‘Real Man Doesn’t Allow His Partner To Have Male Bestie’ – Actor Nedu by Kaybaba5(m): 1:46pm On May 14 |
Sonnobax15: Not everyone will act like you.... |
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