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Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 4:40pm On May 18 |
Susily: Mmm hmm. Yep. you also don’t owe women sex. You don’t have to sleep with a woman just because she wants it. And she doesn’t owe you commitment either. No one owes anyone anything 1 Like |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by Sapasenator: 5:17pm On May 18 |
cococandy: Easier said than done. In Nigerian dating scene, women actually believe the are owed financial commitments and relationships are often viewed as a poverty alleviation program. I am not hating on women but stating realities on ground. Lots of people have sex before marriage and go on to marry with a happy marriage. I dare say that good sex in a relationship can even be a good bonding factor. 2 Likes |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by KingLennon(m): 5:23pm On May 18 |
YourGFsnatcher:Swearz 1 Like |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by rickleye: 5:23pm On May 18 |
If she is dressed like that then no way Jose ! If it’s something mutually agreed upon then I have no issues . Something kind of along the lines of “ absence makes the heart grow fonder “ And they pray today … then wish them well. |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by aysnoopy(m): 5:33pm On May 18 |
Lovelydaisies: Don't mind me. I'm only trying to pepper that stubborn babe coz we all know her to be a feminist |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by Igbokwechika101(m): 5:35pm On May 18 |
Bro Sha try marry virgin.....Aka Ashawo full everywhere.....I meet my wife as tear robber☺️☺️ 2 Likes |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by Fuckyoumod: 5:46pm On May 18 |
Double0h7:absolute trash! Only low self worth men will concur to this scam and nonsense. 2 Likes |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 5:57pm On May 18 |
I don’t have anything against sex before marriage. I’m not a prude. I just think people have autonomy over their bodies and if they don’t want to have sex then they shouldn’t be pressured into it. All that she’s done it before she should be willing to do it again logic doesn’t make sense to me. As far as money goes, If a woman doesn’t want sex before marriage and she’s ready to stick to it, she should also be willing to accept the man’s own conditions. If he says he doesn’t spend money until after marriage, she can choose to accept him the way he accepted her conditions or walk away. Sapasenator: 3 Likes |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by Sapasenator: 6:07pm On May 18 |
cococandy: You and I are in agreement. I would not coerce any lady into sex and I am severely lacking in the entitled mentality of being owed sex just because I rendered a financial favour. I will also let it be known from the get go I won't be responsible for her financial upkeep if we are to have a brother-sister relationship. That said, sex is a beautiful art meant to be enjoyed and my philosophy has always been, if you love me, we should be able to have responsible, mind-blowing sex together. I will have to clearly explain my position to my girlfriend from the get go and If she still insists, the relationship will have to be broken, I will look for a lady we can have a mutual understanding. |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by psalmylee(m): 6:16pm On May 18 |
No be me n u ok.. How person no go test wetin he wan pay for? Can't practice such oo Not me.. 2 Likes |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 6:20pm On May 18 |
Sapasenator: Perfect |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by lildush(m): 6:34pm On May 18 |
KingLennon: That is why most well to do men don't marry Nigerian girls. 8 out of 10 of them are not good enough for a wife.. considering their lifestyle. Thank God I married wen girls were a bit good. 1 Like |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by purples25(f): 6:53pm On May 18 |
MrIcredible: May you be judged by the same irrational rules you set for others. You enjoy THAT. You deal with THAT! SAY AMEN! 1 Like |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by IyaTola: 7:05pm On May 18 |
Tu ferais mieux d'être très bon au lit parce que tu ne l'es pas, je ne t'aime pas |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by BalogunIdowu(m): 7:33pm On May 18 |
chimuanya24: Every time I see trends like this, I wonder how much degenerated we have become. What do religious centers still teach their congregations about being chaste. One komodo dragon will be in the corner saying they want virgin while they have being on hunting spree themselves. Others come to justify the act, some claim nobody (either male or female) can be a virgin because of the atrocities they have created. Some still thinks like suya, they need testing so they can easily run away for another testing somewhere... These things that have clouded our thoughts and overwhelmed the society is much... May those who desire a morally upright state be saved! 4 Likes |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by MrIcredible: 7:46pm On May 18 |
purples25:Of course, I want to be judged. It's only low-life hypocrites like you that don't want to be judged. You hurt people You dish what you don't like to be served Yet, you don't want to be judged Imagine a girl with numerous BODYCOUNT, the bodycount she gathered out of greed and selfishness. She knows what she's doing is wrong but she continued. Now she expecting herself to end up with loyal, God-fearing and decent man, SOMETHING SHE DOESN'T DESERVE. 2 Likes |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by MrIcredible: 7:54pm On May 18 |
cococandy:I think you just need to open your blocked head to the reality that no sensible and high value man will take and accept you for who you're without judging you. This is why Many of you gather numerous BODYCOUNT before settling for a low-life eventually. We few men that still have sense will continue to instill this into your head and the best you can do is to continue ranting and wailing. Stop feeling attacked whenever discussion of sexual morality and virginity comes up. You can't eat your cake and have it. 2 Likes |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by purples25(f): 8:48pm On May 18 |
MrIcredible: Don't reflect your personal qualities unto me. You want to be judged to continue with your mistakes until you are destroyed by them? I think you have forgotten the kind of judgement you were dishing out, by your words. The way you want women to keep effing around because they started, that's how you will continue with your own mistakes too. Well if you want that... @ 'SOMETHING SHE DOESN'T DESERVE' ... E be like say you wan join God to judge o. So we're in a thread with men blatantly gunning for premarital sex, yet you say ladies acquired it all through selfishness and greed? Take a look at the argument you and your guys are championing. Premarital sex, premarital sex, but these 'damaged women' only exist because of selfishness/greed? You don't think you guys mentality that you MUST have premarital sex is somehow a factor? I'm thankful for one thing today and that is the fact that men like you, infact all men, are not God. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 9:02pm On May 18 |
MrIcredible: Are somehow thinking you can bully women into sleeping with you? Give it a rest you little weird man Talking about morality and virginity with the same mouth that doesn’t accept no when a woman says no to sex. Lil creep |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 9:06pm On May 18 |
The only way she will gather high body count is when men like you refuse to take no for an answer. What’s not clicking in the garri-filled brain of yours? Gosh I’m tired. Talking to a black head is an exercise in futility. You obviously hate women who say yes to sex at the same time you don’t want them to say no. Are you okay like this? Very imbecilic of you MrIcredible: |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by Joy2dworldxyz: 9:46pm On May 18 |
Stargurl20: You see, yet people making it look as though it's a very bad offense. Like me, when I will get married, I just pray I get a good wife whether we test o or not.... |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by Stargurl20(f): 9:50pm On May 18 |
Joy2dworldxyz: It's not like they are not aware. Na wetin them wan chop no gree them do the right thing. May God grant us the best of spouses 1 Like |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by Joy2dworldxyz: 9:54pm On May 18 |
Stargurl20: Yes o, good norms and principles have turned to bad and awkward in the eyes of the people of this generation. But it wasn't like that in our past generations. Sorry thought you were asleep by now!! |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by Govocrete: 10:00pm On May 18 |
I had the experience, and I walked away only for the lady to have a child for a Canadian based married man out of wedlock. She is now a single mom while the Canadian based man hardly communicate. The fact is I didn't walk away based on the no sex before marriage but I did walk away because she denied Methwold opportunity of seeing her uncle when I trivalled to meet her in the family house. |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by MrIcredible: 10:39pm On May 18 |
cococandy:The only thing that will make us agree and trust is when you're a virgin. Why would you want to use another innocent man for your restitution? All reasonable man would agree to such nonsense because it's very senseless to trust a non-virgin as regards her sexuality. Why is that hard for you to understand if you're not cursed. 2 Likes |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 10:41pm On May 18 |
MrIcredible: Again just because she said yes to the first man doesn’t mean she has to say to you. Maybe you’re not worth it. Accept it and move on What else can you do? Force her? |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by MrIcredible: 10:42pm On May 18 |
purples25:Don't reflect your stupidity and standards on others. If you're not good, you don't deserve good. You deserve you kind or worse. 1 Like |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by MrIcredible: 10:45pm On May 18 |
cococandy:Just as you couldn't tell the first fuckeɍ no and others that came along, you can't start setting standards for others. You don't have the moral rights and you'll never end up with reasonable man of value with such mentality. Once you're broken, you're forever broken. 2 Likes |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by Emyogalanya: 10:52pm On May 18 |
So how did she lose her virginity if she is a strong Advocate for NSBM |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 11:12pm On May 18 |
MrIcredible: That’s your personal opinion. The woman in question doesn’t have to agree. Cry about it or move on. If she doesn’t want to sleep with you, she won’t. There’s nothing you can do about it |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by BluntCrazeMan: 5:05am On May 19 |
Better still,, why not find someone else if you're a high-libido somebody?? Because, if she can stay long periods without sex (non-virgin),, while you as the man in the relationship, you cannot,, then, there is a great mis-match here. |
Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by MrIcredible: 5:49am On May 19 |
cococandy:Lol And what you're ranting about is not your personal opinion, right? It's a general fact? Or dehhhhh 1 Like |
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