Susily:

Women don't owe men sex, Men also don't owe women commitment. Always complete the statement

Mmm hmm.

Yep. you also don’t owe women sex. You don’t have to sleep with a woman just because she wants it. And she doesn’t owe you commitment either. No one owes anyone anything

cococandy:


Mmm hmm.

Yep. you also don’t owe women sex. You don’t have to sleep with a woman just because she wants it. And she doesn’t owe you commitment either. No one owes anyone anything

Easier said than done.

In Nigerian dating scene, women actually believe the are owed financial commitments and relationships are often viewed as a poverty alleviation program. I am not hating on women but stating realities on ground.
Lots of people have sex before marriage and go on to marry with a happy marriage. I dare say that good sex in a relationship can even be a good bonding factor.

YourGFsnatcher:
You can imagine.. it's sad bro

Swearz

If she is dressed like that then no way Jose !

If it’s something mutually agreed upon then I have no issues . Something kind of along the lines of “ absence makes the heart grow fonder “
And they pray today … then wish them well.

Lovelydaisies:


Ay, my guy... If you don't, someone else will.

Don't mind me. I'm only trying to pepper that stubborn babe coz we all know her to be a feminist

Bro Sha try marry virgin.....Aka Ashawo full everywhere.....I meet my wife as tear robber☺️☺️

Double0h7:
As a woman you are blessed with the gift of controlling your libido, it’s only through low self esteem, and low self worth that a woman opens her legs to secure a relationship.

If you can control your legs then you can walk away with the biggest fish in the ocean. Broke smelling dusties get a platform today because women have dropped their crown, adjust that shi and these brokies will get a job or die trying. Heaven has always been at the feet of women. 👸

absolute trash!

Only low self worth men will concur to this scam and nonsense.

I don’t have anything against sex before marriage. I’m not a prude. I just think people have autonomy over their bodies and if they don’t want to have sex then they shouldn’t be pressured into it. All that she’s done it before she should be willing to do it again logic doesn’t make sense to me.

As far as money goes, If a woman doesn’t want sex before marriage and she’s ready to stick to it, she should also be willing to accept the man’s own conditions. If he says he doesn’t spend money until after marriage, she can choose to accept him the way he accepted her conditions or walk away.

Sapasenator:


Easier said than done.

In Nigerian dating scene, women actually believe the are owed financial commitments and relationships are often viewed as a poverty alleviation program. I am not hating on women but stating realities on ground.
Lots of people have sex before marriage and go on to marry with a happy marriage. I dare say that good sex in a relationship can even be a good bonding factor.

cococandy:
I don’t have anything against sex before marriage. I’m not a prude. I just think people have autonomy over their bodies and if they don’t want to have sex then they shouldn’t be pressured into it. All that she’s done it before she should be willing to do it again logic doesn’t make sense to me.

As far as money goes, If a woman doesn’t want sex before marriage and she’s ready to stick to it, she should also be willing to accept the man’s own conditions. If he says he doesn’t spend money until after marriage, she can choose to accept him the way he accepted her conditions or walk away.

You and I are in agreement.

I would not coerce any lady into sex and I am severely lacking in the entitled mentality of being owed sex just because I rendered a financial favour. I will also let it be known from the get go I won't be responsible for her financial upkeep if we are to have a brother-sister relationship.

That said, sex is a beautiful art meant to be enjoyed and my philosophy has always been, if you love me, we should be able to have responsible, mind-blowing sex together.

I will have to clearly explain my position to my girlfriend from the get go and If she still insists, the relationship will have to be broken, I will look for a lady we can have a mutual understanding.

No be me n u ok..
How person no go test wetin he wan pay for?
Can't practice such oo
Not me..

Sapasenator:


You and I are in agreement.

I would not coerce any lady into sex with severely lacking in the entitled mentality of being owed sex just because I rendered financial favours. I will also let it be known from the get go I won't be responsible for her financial upkeeps if we are to have a brother-sister relationship.
That said, sex is a beautiful art meant to be enjoyed and my philosophy has always been, if you love me, we should be able to have responsible, mind-blowing sex together.

I will have to clearly explain my position to my girlfriend from the get go and If she still insists, the relationship will have to be broken, I will look for a lady we can have a mutual understanding .

Perfect

KingLennon:

It's shocking abro....

That is why most well to do men don't marry Nigerian girls. 8 out of 10 of them are not good enough for a wife.. considering their lifestyle. Thank God I married wen girls were a bit good.

MrIcredible:

Unfortunately, you can't eat your cake and have it.
We humans will forever judge each other based on our actions and past.
Deal with that!

May you be judged by the same irrational rules you set for others. You enjoy THAT. You deal with THAT! SAY AMEN!

Tu ferais mieux d'être très bon au lit parce que tu ne l'es pas, je ne t'aime pas

chimuanya24:
Most guys find it difficult being in a relationship with a girl without sex. Imagine being told to wait until the wedding night, before you can have a taste of your girlfriend.

There's nothing wrong with it, but some girls are known to use it to scam guys. While you are waiting and respecting her decision out of love, she might be busy having sex with a side boo. Girls tend to make themselves look special in the eyes of the man they want to spend the rest of the life with. And not indulging so much in pre marital sex or asking the guy to wait, is one of the schemes used by girls

If you are willing to respect her decision, no wahala. But it's also advisable to taste it before venturing...

Every time I see trends like this, I wonder how much degenerated we have become.

What do religious centers still teach their congregations about being chaste.

One komodo dragon will be in the corner saying they want virgin while they have being on hunting spree themselves.

Others come to justify the act, some claim nobody (either male or female) can be a virgin because of the atrocities they have created.

Some still thinks like suya, they need testing so they can easily run away for another testing somewhere...

These things that have clouded our thoughts and overwhelmed the society is much...

May those who desire a morally upright state be saved!

purples25:


May you be judged by the same irrational rules you set for others. You enjoy THAT. You deal with THAT! SAY AMEN!

Of course, I want to be judged.
It's only low-life hypocrites like you that don't want to be judged.
You hurt people

You dish what you don't like to be served
Yet, you don't want to be judged

Imagine a girl with numerous BODYCOUNT, the bodycount she gathered out of greed and selfishness. She knows what she's doing is wrong but she continued. Now she expecting herself to end up with loyal, God-fearing and decent man, SOMETHING SHE DOESN'T DESERVE.

cococandy:


Yes. that’s exactly what I stated in my post

Just because a woman had sex before she met doesn’t mean she must have sex with you. If you don’t like it, walk away.

I know I keep repeating this simple idea but maybe it’ll take a few tries to register in your brain.

Walk away. No one owes you sex.

God I pray I grow old. Amen
Dunno about you 🤷🏽‍♀️

You’re talking about confused and incoherent when you can’t accept a woman’s no to sex but at the same time hate women who said yes to sex. Just a dimwit through and through

I think you just need to open your blocked head to the reality that no sensible and high value man will take and accept you for who you're without judging you. This is why Many of you gather numerous BODYCOUNT before settling for a low-life eventually. We few men that still have sense will continue to instill this into your head and the best you can do is to continue ranting and wailing.
Stop feeling attacked whenever discussion of sexual morality and virginity comes up. You can't eat your cake and have it.

MrIcredible:

Of course, I want to be judged.
It's only low-life hypocrites like you that don't want to be judged.
You hurt people

You dish what you don't like to be served
Yet, you don't want to be judged

Imagine a girl with numerous BODYCOUNT, the bodycount she gathered out of greed and selfishness. She knows what she's doing is wrong but she continued. Now she expecting herself to end up with loyal, God-fearing and decent man, SOMETHING SHE DOESN'T DESERVE.

Don't reflect your personal qualities unto me. You want to be judged to continue with your mistakes until you are destroyed by them? I think you have forgotten the kind of judgement you were dishing out, by your words. The way you want women to keep effing around because they started, that's how you will continue with your own mistakes too. Well if you want that...

@ 'SOMETHING SHE DOESN'T DESERVE' ... E be like say you wan join God to judge o.

So we're in a thread with men blatantly gunning for premarital sex, yet you say ladies acquired it all through selfishness and greed? Take a look at the argument you and your guys are championing. Premarital sex, premarital sex, but these 'damaged women' only exist because of selfishness/greed? You don't think you guys mentality that you MUST have premarital sex is somehow a factor?

I'm thankful for one thing today and that is the fact that men like you, infact all men, are not God.

MrIcredible:

I think you just need to open your blocked head to the reality that no sensible and high value man will take and accept you for who you're without judging you. This is why Many of you gather numerous BODYCOUNT before settling for a low-life eventually. We few men that still have sense will continue to instill this into your head and the best you can do is to continue ranting and wailing.
Stop feeling attacked whenever discussion of sexual morality and virginity comes up. You can't eat your cake and have it.

Are somehow thinking you can bully women into sleeping with you?

Give it a rest you little weird man

Talking about morality and virginity with the same mouth that doesn’t accept no when a woman says no to sex. Lil creep

The only way she will gather high body count is when men like you refuse to take no for an answer.

What’s not clicking in the garri-filled brain of yours?

Gosh I’m tired. Talking to a black head is an exercise in futility.

You obviously hate women who say yes to sex at the same time you don’t want them to say no.

Are you okay like this? Very imbecilic of you

MrIcredible:


Imagine a girl with numerous BODYCOUNT, the bodycount she gathered out of greed and selfishness. She knows what she's doing is wrong but she continued. Now she expecting herself to end up with loyal, God-fearing and decent man, SOMETHING SHE DOESN'T DESERVE.

Stargurl20:


I'm a lady and a Muslim. Islam is totally against it as well.

You see, yet people making it look as though it's a very bad offense. Like me, when I will get married, I just pray I get a good wife whether we test o or not....

Joy2dworldxyz:


You see, yet people making it look as though it's a very bad offense. Like me, when I will get married, I just pray I get a good wife whether we test o or not....

It's not like they are not aware. Na wetin them wan chop no gree them do the right thing. May God grant us the best of spouses

Stargurl20:


It's not like they are not aware. Na wetin them wan chop no gree them do the right thing. May God grant us the best of spouses

Yes o, good norms and principles have turned to bad and awkward in the eyes of the people of this generation. But it wasn't like that in our past generations.

Sorry thought you were asleep by now!!

I had the experience, and I walked away only for the lady to have a child for a Canadian based married man out of wedlock.

She is now a single mom while the Canadian based man hardly communicate.

The fact is I didn't walk away based on the no sex before marriage but I did walk away because she denied Methwold opportunity of seeing her uncle when I trivalled to meet her in the family house.

cococandy:
The only way she will gather high body count is when men like you refuse to take no for an answer.

What’s not clicking in the garri-filled brain of yours?

Gosh I’m tired. Talking to a black head is an exercise in futility.

You obviously hate women who say yes to sex at the same time you don’t want them to say no.

Are you okay like this? Very imbecilic of you

The only thing that will make us agree and trust is when you're a virgin.
Why would you want to use another innocent man for your restitution?
All reasonable man would agree to such nonsense because it's very senseless to trust a non-virgin as regards her sexuality. Why is that hard for you to understand if you're not cursed.

MrIcredible:

The only thing that will make us agree and trust is when you're a virgin.
Why would you want to use another innocent man for your restitution?
All reasonable man would agree to such nonsense because it's very senseless to trust a non-virgin as regards her sexuality. Why is that hard for you to understand if you're not cursed.

Again just because she said yes to the first man doesn’t mean she has to say to you.

Maybe you’re not worth it. Accept it and move on

What else can you do? Force her?

purples25:


Don't reflect your personal qualities unto me. You want to be judged to continue with your mistakes until you are destroyed by them? I think you have forgotten the kind of judgement you were dishing out, by your words. The way you want women to keep effing around because they started, that's how you will continue with your own mistakes too. Well if you want that...

@ 'SOMETHING SHE DOESN'T DESERVE' ... E be like say you wan join God to judge o.

So we're in a thread with men blatantly gunning for premarital sex, yet you say ladies acquired it all through selfishness and greed? Take a look at the argument you and your guys are championing. Premarital sex, premarital sex, but these 'damaged women' only exist because of selfishness/greed? You don't think you guys mentality that you MUST have premarital sex is somehow a factor?

I'm thankful for one thing today and that is the fact that men like you, infact all men, are not God.

Don't reflect your stupidity and standards on others.
If you're not good, you don't deserve good.
You deserve you kind or worse.

cococandy:


Again just because she said yes to the first man doesn’t mean she has to say to you.

Maybe you’re not worth it. Accept it and move on

Just as you couldn't tell the first fuckeɍ no and others that came along, you can't start setting standards for others. You don't have the moral rights and you'll never end up with reasonable man of value with such mentality.
Once you're broken, you're forever broken.

So how did she lose her virginity if she is a strong Advocate for NSBM

MrIcredible:

Just as you couldn't tell the first fuckeɍ no and others that came along, you can't start setting standards for others. You don't have the moral rights and you'll never end up with reasonable man of value with such mentality.
Once you're broken, you're forever broken.

That’s your personal opinion.

The woman in question doesn’t have to agree. Cry about it or move on. If she doesn’t want to sleep with you, she won’t. There’s nothing you can do about it

Better still,, why not find someone else if you're a high-libido somebody??


Because, if she can stay long periods without sex (non-virgin),, while you as the man in the relationship, you cannot,, then, there is a great mis-match here.

cococandy:


That’s your personal opinion.

The woman in question doesn’t have to agree. Cry about it or move on. If she doesn’t want to sleep with you, she won’t. There’s nothing you can do about it

Lol
And what you're ranting about is not your personal opinion, right? It's a general fact?
Or dehhhhh