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Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by Sapasenator: 8:48pm On May 29 |
LaRosa01: I won't tell them to Bleep off. I will ignore them and change my line. I never get angry, I am always gentle and smiling but always willing to take a hard decision. Ignore them for one month. Kids are with their mother and will not die. Do not allow this to slide. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by DavidEsq(m): 9:21pm On May 29 |
Dogalmighty17:Thank u oh! I no get time to tell them to ffuck off o! I go jus lock up dey dey my own. Dem go call tire, shimgbain call I no go answer. Shey na madness abi? Dem go see overripe one 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by Pat081: 9:25pm On May 29 |
immortalcrown:There are human rights who can help him for free go to Ministry of Justice or woman affairs in your State 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by SINisSIN(m): 9:35pm On May 29 |
You are worrying over nothing and unfortunately, your wife is not reasonable at all. Tell them to keep them. Something of this happened when we newly married, my wife and our kids went to their family house for Xmas and after like 2 weeks, she still not planning when they will be returning home. Exactly three weeks, I called her babe if by 5pm tmwr, you are not back to this house with our kids, just continue your stay in your mama house. Mother in law called me, what is it now? Why are you threatening your wife. I said you can keep her ma. You can guess who was at the door as early as 10am the following day. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by Bodydiialect57: 9:48pm On May 29 |
SINisSIN: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by westlius(m): 10:38pm On May 29 |
SINisSIN:U na guy man I swr 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by Gr8mind07(m): 10:59pm On May 29 |
See this as an opportunity to terminate in-law's interference in your home ,Please use the opportunity well. Don't be moved your kids are safe. Believe me, they are already getting tired of the whole thing but still pretending 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by GboyegaD(m): 12:55am On May 30 |
INomorethief: Go to the village with your family and take your kids. When she is matured enough to understand that your family is about you, her, and the kids; she will come back home. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by Villa12(m): 5:38am On May 30 |
DavidEsq:your wife might be marry off to a potential suitors if you have this kind of mentality. While you probably may not have access to your kids again. |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by mkoabiola: 6:02am On May 30 |
If na me i wont even bother mysef . Na dem Go beg me las las When they are tired,they Will push her out 1 Like |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by Villa12(m): 6:24am On May 30 |
mkoabiola:I pity you. Your wife will be given out to a potential suitor better than you while you may not have access to your kids. You think op is foolish worrying about his wife and kids. You go just become old bachelor again |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by ChybuzzDD(m): 7:51am On May 30 |
CountinBlessins: After he has been insulted and disrespected already Men were not known to be like this. You guys are ending a worthy era, and that's quite unfortunate. The wife should remain there, let's see who loses eventually. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by ChybuzzDD(m): 7:54am On May 30 |
Villa12: He may lose the wife, but not the children, unless he doesn't know what he's doing. No one can play that kind of rubbish game with me. The guy is not owing them and shouldn't be forced to make any payment. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by Malawian(m): 7:55am On May 30 |
INomorethief:Allow them feed your wife and kids for as long as they are mad. Sense will locate them when it is due to locate them. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by Afodot0022(m): 7:59am On May 30 |
This is trash... as a man , never be scared of loosing a woman even a wife, never allow yourself to be manipulated by your in-laws hence you will be a slave in their hands, show them some little madness.... if they like they should give her to another suitor, they can only collect your wife but not your own kids, there are authorities that will get your kids for you. same thing happened to me, my ex wife took my kids to my in-law without getting my approval, since January i just ignore , now they are calling me to seek my consent. my plan is to take my kids custody from my ex and give them their daughter to eat. Villa12: 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by ChybuzzDD(m): 8:00am On May 30 |
INomorethief: Stop calling any of them again, please Which kind friends una get self that can't give good and real advice? You're not owing them as long as you married her legally. They're just intimidating you and you shouln't give in to that. Stand your ground; when they are tired, the woman will return And if she doesn't, you inititate a legal battle for divorce and custody of your kids if they're upto age. No body should worry himself/herself unnecessarily over any issue in today's world, please. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by ChybuzzDD(m): 8:01am On May 30 |
Afodot0022: Good. This is how it should be. |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by Malawian(m): 8:22am On May 30 |
Villa12:Na so e easy to find husband? especially After 2? 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by CountinBlessins(m): 8:23am On May 30 |
ChybuzzDD: You need to grow up. Two wrongs never make a right. Keeping silent doesn't make you a fool. Neither does turning the other cheek makes you weak. Infact to react the way you are suggesting shows chronic weakness |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by Tame26(f): 9:10am On May 30 |
INomorethief: I can’t help you here , you obviously didn’t marry from the south west. You did from the east or south. Over here, marriage requirements isn’t that difficult. They will clearly tell you they are not selling their daughter 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by Aurelius1(m): 9:45am On May 30 |
Villa12:You think suitors just jump from the sky abi? Single girls with good jobs are finding it hard getting suitors talk less of a single mother of 2 who has no job, no source of income, except a hole between her legs. She would end up loosing on the long run. Think am na! This is a woman that is legally married, bride price paid and all. What else does the family want? They should go to hell. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by mkoabiola: 9:46am On May 30 |
Villa12:So i should develop HPB since they refuse to let her come to meet d husband despite paying all bride prize. They can Go ahead to gv her to another suitor. Life goes on . I Will be fine, d potential suitor shud feed her and The children... Tueh 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by mkoabiola: 9:48am On May 30 |
Aurelius1:No mind that guy . He is threatenning me with a potential suitor. A potential suitor Will jump from heaven to marry a mother of 2...lol That guy is a simp 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by ChybuzzDD(m): 9:52am On May 30 |
CountinBlessins: Two wrongs never make a right? But people who commit crimes are imprisoned and sometimes executed And even God himself promised to send sinners to hellfire. But you know better than both governments and God. Isn't it?? You're growing up with a lot of nonsensical beliefs and that's very dangerous. It's not by force to be a real man, anyway. You can continue to be the weak-ass man you've chosen to be and allow people you're not owing to insult and dribble you around. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by CountinBlessins(m): 10:09am On May 30 |
ChybuzzDD: Stop typing epistles. Grow up |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by PlsBanMe: 10:25am On May 30 |
INomorethief I don't think you truly want your wife and children back but if you do, the only way is to pretend that you don't. Call your wife one more time and tell her you expect her home in the next 24 hours. Tell her is she doesn't return at that time, she should forget the marriage as you will reject her and the children. If she refused to return, completely stop all forms of communications with her. No calls, no text, nothing through social media. Even if it take months, stop communicating with her and the children. The children won't die. Do not pick any calls from her family members too. If you can do this, your wife and children will eventually be back without you paying nothing. A fight will break out between your wife and her family. Sometimes you need to be a man, else they will take you for granted. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by ChybuzzDD(m): 11:31am On May 30 |
CountinBlessins: The truth is that most of you that we're making arguments with about important issues on this forum are just kids who don't know anything yet. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by NaBanga: 12:31pm On May 30 |
Just let your wife and kids rest. The feeding alone, will send them back to you in less than 6 months. |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by Villa12(m): 1:16pm On May 30 |
Malawian:I have seen a woman with 4 kids married to another man better than her first husband. |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by Hedgefunds: 1:21pm On May 30 |
Villa12: Are you sure.? It hard to believe |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by Villa12(m): 2:04pm On May 30 |
Hedgefunds:women do get admirers even in their 50s. Some men just want a woman that'd give him peace and take care of the home |
Re: My Wife and Kids Is Been Held Hostage By My In-laws. by id4sho(m): 3:11pm On May 30 |
Foodqueen: Am beginning to look towards that direction. Marrying from my tribe. It's stops Alot of nonsense 💯 Still single though |
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