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Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by uche87(m): 4:35pm On Jun 09 |
If there is any society that is designed to make you feel lonely and at the same time keep you single, it is the United Kingdom. Even if you come in married, you might lose your spouse if care isn’t taken. Over 100,000 marriages crash in a year in the UK, about 44% of marriages will always crash annually. The cost of living also puts so much pressure on you that your workplace might become your salvation. Every other thing takes a secondary position except for very religious people. Mind you, Nigerians mostly become less religious once they cross international borders. Osahon George Osayimwen is a UK-based Nigerian journalist 64 Likes 11 Shares
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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Dehinde24: 4:52pm On Jun 09 |
I heard from a female friend that Nigeria ladies in UK care less about marriage and the men too are not ready for it 101 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by eazzzy1(m): 5:34pm On Jun 09 |
A lot of women plan to get married, a lot of men stumble upon marriage. Most men are married to women they planned to just sleep with. They got in and could not come out. Women in their 30’s don’t have time for the trial and error, they have it all planned out. Before you get their number, you have to commit, before they visit you, they have to make sure you are willing to get married in 6 months. Desperation is one of the biggest turnoffs ever. When you are not sure whether a woman likes you or she just likes the idea of marriage. Trying to avoid ‘time wasters’ is one of the main reasons there are a lot of single women. You see a woman leave her boyfriend of two years because he’s wasting her time, 3 years later he’s getting married and she’s still single. 180 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Domaining101: 10:15pm On Jun 09 |
Lolzz. One reason i can never relocate abroad to stay. How i wan take dey fûck 5 days a week for abroad? ![]() ![]() 109 Likes 25 Shares |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by remsonik(f): 10:16pm On Jun 09 |
Hmm,even in naija it's hard to find. All over the world true love is hard to find this days. We're already in the endtimes 26 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by eepeepook: 10:16pm On Jun 09 |
Useless topic. As useless as Nairaland is when looking for information. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Macdeey: 10:16pm On Jun 09 |
![]() Try and Find Love in Pounds Starling that's all 😚💞😚💞 55 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by dapsoneh: 10:16pm On Jun 09 |
Na by force to find love 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by omooba969(m): 10:17pm On Jun 09 |
Who says finding love in the UK is difficult? ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by whytediamond(m): 10:17pm On Jun 09 |
![]() Most people don't get married out of love, they do it to satisfy societal expectations. Bolder ladies just get pregnant for unidentifiable men and keep the child to herself. Do what you feel is right and live with the consequences, good or bad. Time no too dey. livebullet: Read the last paragraph with more understanding. It's still not enough having a father. Many single mothers have raised global heroes without the presence of a father/husband. I hope you understand the last paragraph. Shalom! 27 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by tiswell(m): 10:17pm On Jun 09 |
No go find love near naija ladies abroad or black girls. Na suicide mission! 24 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by MaziObinnaokija: 10:17pm On Jun 09 |
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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by obicoolnino: 10:17pm On Jun 09 |
When you reason like a normal human and put aside pride, love will surely find you. 8 Likes |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by MajorOvakporaye(f): 10:17pm On Jun 09 |
I'd rather stay in the UK and be single than stay in Nigeria and be in a relationship that is characterized by fakeness and that is hunger-inspired. 61 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by KnowledgePower7: 10:17pm On Jun 09 |
Ever since I was a child, for some weird reason I have always disliked UK Like if I'm given Free Visa to UK I will not go 1000% serious And even if I must go, once I enter London After 10 minutes I will go back to Airport To me, UK has a gloomy dark vibe that I can't really explain. Maybe in my past life I was involved with an event in UK, which made me dislike that place.. Just the thought of me going to UK Gives me Anxiety... I just can't explain why ![]() I rather go to Japan, South Korea than UK ![]() 103 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by nepapole(m): 10:18pm On Jun 09 |
There is no secret... There is no love in the uk. The love for dogs supercedes that for humans. Everybody is crazy here... 60 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Raalsalghul: 10:19pm On Jun 09 |
eazzzy1: Touche! 17 Likes |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by AirBay: 10:19pm On Jun 09 |
Everybody too dy fucck around. 0.01% chance of real relationship |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by givedemwotowoto: 10:20pm On Jun 09 |
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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Aremu01(m): 10:20pm On Jun 09 |
It's hard, really hard to keep up being religious when you cross the border indeed. The church here self isn't so helping. This is my second year and I am still not used to there church system here. Talk of dancing and singing and praying..for where...and without that church community it could be hard for many to keep up the spirituality. They sung and pray don't get me wrong o. But na worship alone and prayer that pastor will just pray and everyone say amen. That's all. I have to talk to myself to start joining Nigeria services online. Lol... I know the kind of background I came from . . Imagine going to a church and getting served doughnut and coffee even before service starts. Someone will now be sleeping in service chai..oyinbo... Go 75 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by correctguy101(m): 10:20pm On Jun 09 |
Humans... Wetin be love sef? Is not just being responsible for another? What do i even know? I better go relax.. smh 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Globad(f): 10:20pm On Jun 09 |
Japa has no provision for love 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Otulented: 10:20pm On Jun 09 |
Its well. |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by ednut1(m): 10:20pm On Jun 09 |
Nigerian never get tired of relationship matters. Those in uk without citizenship/ ILR are not looking for love but soft landing that will lead to permanent papers. The guys with papers are having a field day nacking 😭 42 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by virginboy1(m): 10:21pm On Jun 09 |
If i japa enter UK wetin concern me with love...When i supposed dey find Money. Make the money come first plenty plenty....I can always love myself...na that one sure pass ![]() 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Lincton: 10:21pm On Jun 09 |
Love across the bridge |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by SomeoneTalkToMe: 10:22pm On Jun 09 |
Lol @ declaring a state of emergency ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Antoeni(m): 10:22pm On Jun 09 |
Ladies "Until a Man Has Married you, He is Not Obligated to be Responsible For You. Whatever He Does is Out of the Generosity of His Heart , So Ladies you should Never Feel Entitled to His Money 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by optimusprime2(m): 10:22pm On Jun 09 |
There's no secret... because theres no love period... it's all about "Knack & Move" no strings attached. If you need to find love, do it in Naija. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Always82: 10:23pm On Jun 09 |
This life no Ballance atall. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by xtianchris(m): 10:23pm On Jun 09 |
remsonik:The love of many shall wax cold 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Franzinni: 10:24pm On Jun 09 |
Guys if you dear marry an African girl in Europe .. you will be emasculated, if you bring a lady from Nigeria to UK/Europe the already infected ones will infect her with the feminism mindset and in no time you wilk be emasculated ... If you marry those ones with PhD and masters ... If you like be a brain surgeon ... You will be emasculated. These things I have seen firsthand ... I have been in the same room with a husband in one European country who was rejoicing to the point of celebrating that his wife who kicked him out and turned an importer exporter into a homeless guy has finally decided to give him chance to come back home ... He was happy like he won a visa lottery. Wetin concern me self 45 Likes 5 Shares |
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