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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by RaptorX: 11:58pm On Jun 09 |
otherway:Do you know how many Nigerians travel regularly to the UK and come back without staying there, what are you talking about get a visa first. Before this current japa trend Jandon(London) was just a Lagos extension that people go and come back in days. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Sleekfingers: 11:59pm On Jun 09 |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Collins4u1(m): 12:02am On Jun 10 |
Dehinde24: everybody is packing shift. ladies are looking for dem with paper. 1 Like |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Originalsly: 12:11am On Jun 10 |
KnowledgePower7: Hmmm..... I thought I was the only one! ... I have very close friends and relatives there ... always trying to convince me to visit... but for the same reasons I wouldn't!... can't recall seeing a photo of a bright and sunny day... like always overcast ... gloomy ... snowing or raining!... and the people seem to have no joy in their life! ... seems depressing to me! I'm not one bit surprised by what is mentioned in this post! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by JohnBullMySon: 12:14am On Jun 10 |
KnowledgePower7: That's because you haven't been to the UK yet and your opinion of the UK has been formed around these multitude of Nigerians that work low pay jobs. That's why many people say they don't like UK. It's the same thing in any developed country. These Nigerians that maybe faked POFs or work all those low pay, repetitive tasking and depressing jobs (care jobs, walmart and others) have given it a bad rep. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by goran3310(m): 12:19am On Jun 10 |
Franzinni:Interesting. Yes. In Europe, family law is on the side of women in its worst feminist form. But that's why there is a prenuptial agreement. I would not be afraid to bring a wife from Africa. But she would have to sign a prenuptial agreement. 4 Likes |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by CoronaVirusPro: 12:24am On Jun 10 |
UK should be renamed to Lekki phase 3 UK dis, UK dat! Damn! But we have Nigerians in other parts of the world and they don’t make noise like UK and Canada peeps! The habit is so peculiar to the JJC’s 2 Likes |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by goran3310(m): 12:25am On Jun 10 |
I don't have a good opinion of Great Britain. I feel much better in my country. We are much better people. We are a healthier society. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by LordIsaac(m): 12:25am On Jun 10 |
RaptorX:I agree. But in public, they would save a black kid in danger before a dog.😊 2 Likes |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Ilekokonit: 12:39am On Jun 10 |
KnowledgePower7: Your spirit is very strong. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Ilekokonit: 12:46am On Jun 10 |
nepapole: Everybody get craze for head for UK and its just a matter of the percentage of craze and that comes with forcing humans to live like robots. For example in London there is now 1 CCTV Camera for every 13 people , meaning there are now 691,000 CCTV Cameras in London and the average Londoner is caught on CCTV 300 times a day. so, in the UK your every move in public is being caught on camera. https://www.cctv.co.uk/how-many-cctv-cameras-are-there-in-london/ UK women are all neurotic and the black women in the UK have resident demons living inside them and their legion of demons gets unleashed when they are arguing / quarreling with a man. A wise woman builds her home but a foolish woman tears her home down with her very own hands. UK women with their nasty foul behaviors have spoilt the market for the tiny % of them that "might" be marriageable. 11 years ago, I was going to Heathrow airport on my way to Naija and the cab driver a Nigerian man in his 60's was narrating to me what happened to his friend some time back. His friend is also in his 60's and one day the friends wife woke her husband up in the middle of the night and told him to look at her n.akedness properly as that was going to be the last time he saw her n.aked and eventually the husband found out that she had started dating a younger man. Then, I was shocked to learn that a Naija woman at that age who is meant to correct the younger women in London is also part of the game to frustrate Naija men who are trying their best to be the head of the home in a country and culture where the man is seen by all and sundry including the laws as being at the bottom of the pecking order below children, women, cats and dogs in that order. And this is why more and more "smart" Naija men in the UK are deciding to adopt a "bearish" look on rushing into any new permanent relationships as the words "caveat emptor" doesn't even start to describe the horrors resident in falling into the trap of a "latently" angry Nigerian woman in London because with a Naija woman in London, once the initial love fades or reduces which it WILL after 1 - 2 kids, the undercurrent of PHD "Pull Him Down" at all costs directed at men by some Naija wives in London knows no bounds. 21 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by zumbigbo(m): 12:48am On Jun 10 |
Originalsly: Lol.....Nigerians and their vivid dreams based on fantasy 1 Like
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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Notfogotten: 12:53am On Jun 10 |
RaptorX: See finish. 1 Like |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by T3ndrils: 12:55am On Jun 10 |
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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by T3ndrils: 12:56am On Jun 10 |
uche87: Animal spewing trash |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Izuchukwu70: 12:57am On Jun 10 |
uche87: Lies. I get 5 white women wey I Bleep steady for Ohio. I no dey Bleep Akata. Most White women too simple to Bleep. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by zebszebs: 1:05am On Jun 10 |
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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by lordally(m): 1:18am On Jun 10 |
Domaining101: Why you just made my day ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by BabbanBura(m): 1:19am On Jun 10 |
zebszebs: Sadly that sentence you quoted is actually correct. The subject "Wishful thinking and pride" is a plural, therefore the verb should be a plural also "have" 14 Likes |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by lordally(m): 1:21am On Jun 10 |
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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by hardbody: 1:27am On Jun 10 |
RaptorX: My last trip about two weeks ago was the longest I have stayed because I did not travel alone and it was personally sponsored. We spent 6 days and left on the 7th. Typically when my office funds my trip, I have never stayed beyond 3 days (even though my MD will be encouraging me to spend a little bit more time) Travelling is not exactly a biggie and I can understand if anyone has a kind of negative feeling about the UK. My experience has taught me that they are some of the most unfriendly people you could ever meet (except perhaps you move further to like Birmingham, Manchester, etc). I recall trying to ask a few guys at Chancery lane where I could convert some dollars to pounds ( I had exhausted what I changed at Travelex when I touched down), the guys just dismissed me and at the same moment went their different ways. I learnt to always be self sufficient and never ask anyone for direction. I learnt the train routes by force and had sometimes ended up in the opposite direction of where I intended. Always ensuring my oyster card is loaded above 50pounds on the regular to avoid stories. London Sha no be am at all. 15 Likes |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by hardbody: 1:33am On Jun 10 |
Originalsly: Lol. This my last trip in May this year has been the only time I saw daylight and brightness that extended into night. All my other trips I have always flown into dark gloomy weather which sort of continues all day round. Funny country indeed. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by InvertedHammer: 1:39am On Jun 10 |
/ When you advise young women, they think you are being judgemental. Then there are no shortage of simps who arrogate to themselves the de facto spokespersons for single women. Most of the ladies are shocked at how quickly 30 creeps up on them. Your education beyond Bachelor's degree or job cannot prevent anyone from raising families. Will it be challenging? Life is difficult. Some fail to realize how easily expendable they are at any jobs. It could be downsizing, bad economy or other litany of excuses. From 20-28 (the best child-bearing age biologically), a good 8 years, many of these Nigerian ladies are in meaningless relationships or still doing hookups. Some co-habit with partners offering free marital services without locking him in a contract. The smart ones detach themselves from their friends and get married. The worst relationship advice a lady will get is from other single ladies--they mean no well. Sadly many learn this a tad too late. Most ladies above 30 that are addicted to church activities have horrible experiences no faint-hearted man would want to hear. A stitch in time saves nigh. / 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Mcslize: 1:41am On Jun 10 |
Domaining101: Chaaaiiii, no wonder the rate of Oloshos increase for Naija. Runs don spoil relationship for Naija. Every girl dey run runs on code and men are ready to patronise them. This don put better big hole for most Naija guys pocket, especially now that things are very expensive, men still dey fvck o. Pay as you go. God abeg o. 2 Likes |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by aestake: 1:54am On Jun 10 |
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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by IAmHim1: 1:57am On Jun 10 |
So you held your own future back WITH your own hands because of sex Hmmm. Interesting times Domaining101: 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by IAmHim1: 2:02am On Jun 10 |
You're wasting your precious time in church You don't worship THE Mightiest Spiritual Being ever in a physical building The moment you start to understand this, your life becomes better spiritually Help the people around you, think good thoughts and treat people the same way you would love to be treated. Understand that if karma exist, then reincarnation MUST ALSO EXIST That's all Aremu01: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Aremu01(m): 2:23am On Jun 10 |
IAmHim1: Thanks for your info But I am not wasting my time in church. Peace 7 Likes |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Mayflowa(m): 2:26am On Jun 10 |
cococandy: You are right. This is wacked journalism from his own parochial mind. It made a woman looks needy, desperate and expiring. I would understand if it was a woman writing the piece. 1 Like |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by HIbreed(m): 2:27am On Jun 10 |
otherway:I have been in a state of confusion to choose between the UK and Canada, I am utterly confused, my mind is gearing to Canada. Maybe, I'm about to make mistake. What edge does the UK have over the States and Canada? Can you throw more light if you don't mind. |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by HIbreed(m): 2:34am On Jun 10 |
Izuchukwu70:You dey pay them? |
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by goran3310(m): 2:38am On Jun 10 |
https://youtube.com/shorts/adT1aiUPA7A?si=3ewXWRBZyHQj6Ngt Translation of the first sentence:In Serbia, I felt like a human being for the first time. ![]() 1 Like |
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