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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by RaptorX: 11:58pm On Jun 09

otherway:

Super story.

Get the visa first. If you come and go back then you will be taken serious.

Do you know how many Nigerians travel regularly to the UK and come back without staying there, what are you talking about get a visa first. Before this current japa trend Jandon(London) was just a Lagos extension that people go and come back in days.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Sleekfingers: 11:59pm On Jun 09

omooba969:
Who says finding love in the UK is difficult?

I tire oooo.....

Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Collins4u1(m): 12:02am On Jun 10

Dehinde24:
I heard from a female friend that Nigeria ladies in UK care less about marriage and the men too are not ready for it

everybody is packing shift.
ladies are looking for dem with paper.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Originalsly: 12:11am On Jun 10

KnowledgePower7:
Ever since I was a child, for some weird reason I have always disliked UK

Like if I'm given Free Visa to UK
I will not go 1000% serious

And even if I must go, once I enter London
After 10 minutes I will go back to Airport

To me, UK has a gloomy dark vibe that I can't really explain.
Maybe in my past life I was involved with an event in UK, which made me dislike that place..

Just the thought of me going to UK
Gives me Anxiety... I just can't explain why

I rather go to Japan, South Korea than UK

Hmmm..... I thought I was the only one! ... I have very close friends and relatives there ... always trying to convince me to visit... but for the same reasons I wouldn't!... can't recall seeing a photo of a bright and sunny day... like always overcast ... gloomy ... snowing or raining!... and the people seem to have no joy in their life! ... seems depressing to me! I'm not one bit surprised by what is mentioned in this post!

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by JohnBullMySon: 12:14am On Jun 10

KnowledgePower7:
Ever since I was a child, for some weird reason I have always disliked UK

Like if I'm given Free Visa to UK
I will not go 1000% serious

And even if I must go, once I enter London
After 10 minutes I will go back to Airport

To me, UK has a gloomy dark vibe that I can't really explain.
Maybe in my past life I was involved with an event in UK, which made me dislike that place..

Just the thought of me going to UK
Gives me Anxiety... I just can't explain why

I rather go to Japan, South Korea than UK

That's because you haven't been to the UK yet and your opinion of the UK has been formed around these multitude of Nigerians that work low pay jobs.

That's why many people say they don't like UK. It's the same thing in any developed country. These Nigerians that maybe faked POFs or work all those low pay, repetitive tasking and depressing jobs (care jobs, walmart and others) have given it a bad rep.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by goran3310(m): 12:19am On Jun 10

Franzinni:
Guys if you dear marry an African girl in Europe .. you will be emasculated, if you bring a lady from Nigeria to UK/Europe the already infected ones will infect her with the feminism mindset and in no time you wilk be emasculated ... If you marry those ones with PhD and masters ... If you like be a brain surgeon ... You will be emasculated.

These things I have seen firsthand ... I have been in the same room with a husband in one European country who was rejoicing to the point of celebrating that his wife who kicked him out and turned an importer exporter into a homeless guy has finally decided to give him chance to come back home ... He was happy like he won a visa lottery.

Wetin concern me self

Interesting. Yes. In Europe, family law is on the side of women in its worst feminist form. But that's why there is a prenuptial agreement. I would not be afraid to bring a wife from Africa. But she would have to sign a prenuptial agreement.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by CoronaVirusPro: 12:24am On Jun 10

UK should be renamed to Lekki phase 3

UK dis, UK dat!

Damn! But we have Nigerians in other parts of the world and they don’t make noise like UK and Canada peeps!

The habit is so peculiar to the JJC’s

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by goran3310(m): 12:25am On Jun 10

I don't have a good opinion of Great Britain. I feel much better in my country. We are much better people. We are a healthier society.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by LordIsaac(m): 12:25am On Jun 10

RaptorX:
Dogs and cats come before black kids. Everything else is correct.

I agree. But in public, they would save a black kid in danger before a dog.😊

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Ilekokonit: 12:39am On Jun 10

KnowledgePower7:
To me, UK has a gloomy dark vibe that I can't really explain.
Maybe in my past life I was involved with an event in UK, which made me dislike that place..

Just the thought of me going to UK
Gives me Anxiety... I just can't explain why

Your spirit is very strong.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Ilekokonit: 12:46am On Jun 10

nepapole:
There is no secret...

There is no love in the uk.

The love for dogs supercedes that for humans.

Everybody is crazy here.

Everybody get craze for head for UK and its just a matter of the percentage of craze and that comes with forcing humans to live like robots. For example in London there is now 1 CCTV Camera for every 13 people , meaning there are now 691,000 CCTV Cameras in London and the average Londoner is caught on CCTV 300 times a day. so, in the UK your every move in public is being caught on camera.
https://www.cctv.co.uk/how-many-cctv-cameras-are-there-in-london/

UK women are all neurotic and the black women in the UK have resident demons living inside them and their legion of demons gets unleashed when they are arguing / quarreling with a man.

A wise woman builds her home but a foolish woman tears her home down with her very own hands.

UK women with their nasty foul behaviors have spoilt the market for the tiny % of them that "might" be marriageable.

11 years ago, I was going to Heathrow airport on my way to Naija and the cab driver a Nigerian man in his 60's was narrating to me what happened to his friend some time back.

His friend is also in his 60's and one day the friends wife woke her husband up in the middle of the night and told him to look at her n.akedness properly as that was going to be the last time he saw her n.aked and eventually the husband found out that she had started dating a younger man.

Then, I was shocked to learn that a Naija woman at that age who is meant to correct the younger women in London is also part of the game to frustrate Naija men who are trying their best to be the head of the home in a country and culture where the man is seen by all and sundry including the laws as being at the bottom of the pecking order below children, women, cats and dogs in that order.

And this is why more and more "smart" Naija men in the UK are deciding to adopt a "bearish" look on rushing into any new permanent relationships as the words "caveat emptor" doesn't even start to describe the horrors resident in falling into the trap of a "latently" angry Nigerian woman in London because with a Naija woman in London, once the initial love fades or reduces which it WILL after 1 - 2 kids, the undercurrent of PHD "Pull Him Down" at all costs directed at men by some Naija wives in London knows no bounds.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by zumbigbo(m): 12:48am On Jun 10

Originalsly:

but for the same reasons I wouldn't!... can't recall seeing a photo of a bright and sunny day... like always overcast ... gloomy ... snowing or raining!... and the people seems to have no joy in their life! ... s

Lol.....Nigerians and their vivid dreams based on fantasy

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Notfogotten: 12:53am On Jun 10

RaptorX:
90% of Nigerian men married or single living abroad visit Nigeria primarily for sex, any other reasons are secondary.

See finish.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by T3ndrils: 12:55am On Jun 10

uche87:

stooped idiot bastttarrddd
Spewing trash everywhere animal

Osahon George Osayimwen is a UK-based Nigerian journalist

Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by T3ndrils: 12:56am On Jun 10

uche87:

Osahon George Osayimwen is a UK-based Nigerian journalist

Animal spewing trash

Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Izuchukwu70: 12:57am On Jun 10

uche87:

Osahon George Osayimwen is a UK-based Nigerian journalist

Lies. I get 5 white women wey I Bleep steady for Ohio. I no dey Bleep Akata. Most White women too simple to Bleep.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by zebszebs: 1:05am On Jun 10

Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by lordally(m): 1:18am On Jun 10

Domaining101:
Lolzz. One reason i can never relocate abroad to stay. How i wan take dey fûck 5 days a week for abroad? My love for sex and women (Nigerian women especially) No go gree me. Here you no need guide or fine too much, just hold small money and package yourself well, na toto go dey find you come. But the abroad wey you dey go, the money wey you get na him everybody for there get too, if not more. Not like their girls don't like money too ohh, but the kind money you need to dey fûck their girls steady, you gats be millionaire in dollars, dey drive the least Lamborghini SVJ That's why i pray every day for Nigeria to remain like this because if this country better, toto go expensive and to fornicate regularly will become difficult.

Why you just made my day grin

I don laugh die

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by BabbanBura(m): 1:19am On Jun 10

zebszebs:
come for you. Wishful thinking and pride amongst Nigerians in the UK *have* created a large pool of singles who believe they don’t need

A journalist who doesn't know where to use *have* and *has* is a waste of space,, a functional illiterate and a bloodclat who shouldn't be listened to

Sadly that sentence you quoted is actually correct. The subject "Wishful thinking and pride" is a plural, therefore the verb should be a plural also "have"

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by lordally(m): 1:21am On Jun 10

KnowledgePower7:

Like if I'm given Free Visa to UK
I will not go 1000% serious

This was me so many years ago... untill 9ja show me shege! God bless UK abeg... my coming here don help my family small.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by hardbody: 1:27am On Jun 10

RaptorX:
Do you know how many Nigerians travel regularly to the UK and come back without staying there, what are you talking about get a visa first. Before this current japa trend Jandon(London) was just a Lagos extension that people go and come back in days.

My last trip about two weeks ago was the longest I have stayed because I did not travel alone and it was personally sponsored. We spent 6 days and left on the 7th. Typically when my office funds my trip, I have never stayed beyond 3 days (even though my MD will be encouraging me to spend a little bit more time)

Travelling is not exactly a biggie and I can understand if anyone has a kind of negative feeling about the UK. My experience has taught me that they are some of the most unfriendly people you could ever meet (except perhaps you move further to like Birmingham, Manchester, etc). I recall trying to ask a few guys at Chancery lane where I could convert some dollars to pounds ( I had exhausted what I changed at Travelex when I touched down), the guys just dismissed me and at the same moment went their different ways. I learnt to always be self sufficient and never ask anyone for direction. I learnt the train routes by force and had sometimes ended up in the opposite direction of where I intended. Always ensuring my oyster card is loaded above 50pounds on the regular to avoid stories. London Sha no be am at all.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by hardbody: 1:33am On Jun 10

Originalsly:

Hmmm..... I thought I was the only one! ... I have very close friends and relatives there ... always trying to convince me to visit... but for the same reasons I wouldn't!... can't recall seeing a photo of a bright and sunny day... like always overcast ... gloomy ... snowing or raining!... and the people seems to have no joy in their life! ... seems depressing to me! I'm not one bit surprised by what is mentioned in this post!

Lol. This my last trip in May this year has been the only time I saw daylight and brightness that extended into night. All my other trips I have always flown into dark gloomy weather which sort of continues all day round. Funny country indeed.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by InvertedHammer: 1:39am On Jun 10

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When you advise young women, they think you are being judgemental. Then there are no shortage of simps who arrogate to themselves the de facto spokespersons for single women. Most of the ladies are shocked at how quickly 30 creeps up on them.

Your education beyond Bachelor's degree or job cannot prevent anyone from raising families. Will it be challenging? Life is difficult. Some fail to realize how easily expendable they are at any jobs. It could be downsizing, bad economy or other litany of excuses.

From 20-28 (the best child-bearing age biologically), a good 8 years, many of these Nigerian ladies are in meaningless relationships or still doing hookups. Some co-habit with partners offering free marital services without locking him in a contract. The smart ones detach themselves from their friends and get married. The worst relationship advice a lady will get is from other single ladies--they mean no well. Sadly many learn this a tad too late.

Most ladies above 30 that are addicted to church activities have horrible experiences no faint-hearted man would want to hear. A stitch in time saves nigh.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Mcslize: 1:41am On Jun 10

Domaining101:
Lolzz. One reason i can never relocate abroad to stay. How i wan take dey fûck 5 days a week for abroad? My love for sex and women (Nigerian women especially) No go gree me. Here you no need guide or fine too much, just hold small money and package yourself well, na toto go dey find you come. But the abroad wey you dey go, the money wey you get na him everybody for there get too, if not more. Not like their girls don't like money too ohh, but the kind money you need to dey fûck their girls steady, you gats be millionaire in dollars, dey drive the least Lamborghini SVJ That's why i pray every day for Nigeria to remain like this because if this country better, toto go expensive and to fornicate regularly will become difficult.

Chaaaiiii, no wonder the rate of Oloshos increase for Naija. Runs don spoil relationship for Naija. Every girl dey run runs on code and men are ready to patronise them. This don put better big hole for most Naija guys pocket, especially now that things are very expensive, men still dey fvck o. Pay as you go. God abeg o.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by aestake: 1:54am On Jun 10

remsonik:
Hmm,even in naija it's hard to find. All over the world true love is hard to find ~~this~~ these days. We're already in the endtimes

Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by IAmHim1: 1:57am On Jun 10

So you held your own future back WITH your own hands because of sex

Hmmm. Interesting times

Domaining101:
Lolzz. One reason i can never relocate abroad to stay. How i wan take dey fûck 5 days a week for abroad? My love for sex and women (Nigerian women especially) No go gree me. Here you no need guide or fine too much, just hold small money and package yourself well, na toto go dey find you come. But the abroad wey you dey go, the money wey you get na him everybody for there get too, if not more. Not like their girls don't like money too ohh, but the kind money you need to dey fûck their girls steady, you gats be millionaire in dollars, dey drive the least Lamborghini SVJ That's why i pray every day for Nigeria to remain like this because if this country better, toto go expensive and to fornicate regularly will become difficult.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by IAmHim1: 2:02am On Jun 10

You're wasting your precious time in church

You don't worship THE Mightiest Spiritual Being ever in a physical building

The moment you start to understand this, your life becomes better spiritually

Help the people around you, think good thoughts and treat people the same way you would love to be treated. Understand that if karma exist, then reincarnation MUST ALSO EXIST

That's all

Aremu01:
It's hard, really hard to keep up being religious when you cross the border indeed.
The church here self isn't so helping. This is my second year and I am still not used to there church system here.
Talk of dancing and singing and praying..for where...and without that church community it could be hard for many to keep up the spirituality.
They sung and pray don't get me wrong o. But na worship alone and prayer that pastor will just pray and everyone say amen. That's all.
I have to talk to myself to start joining Nigeria services online. Lol... I know the kind of background I came from
.
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Imagine going to a church and getting served doughnut and coffee even before service starts. Someone will now be sleeping in service chai..oyinbo...
Go

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Aremu01(m): 2:23am On Jun 10

IAmHim1:
You're wasting your precious time in church

You don't worship THE Mightiest Spiritual Being ever in a physical building

The moment you start to understand this, your life becomes better spiritually

Help the people around you, think good thoughts and treat people the same way you would love to be treated. Understand that if karma exist, then reincarnation MUST ALSO EXIST

That's all

Thanks for your info
But I am not wasting my time in church.
Peace

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Mayflowa(m): 2:26am On Jun 10

cococandy:

Started as if he had something useful to say to single men and women only to end it in the typical brain rot advice they typically offer single people aka single women which is nothing but ✨desperation✨.

You are right. This is wacked journalism from his own parochial mind. It made a woman looks needy, desperate and expiring. I would understand if it was a woman writing the piece.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by HIbreed(m): 2:27am On Jun 10

otherway:

I have lived here for over 10years and it is the best place I have ever lived and far better than the states, Canada and many other countries.

Stay there be typing what you don't know.

I have been in a state of confusion to choose between the UK and Canada, I am utterly confused, my mind is gearing to Canada. Maybe, I'm about to make mistake. What edge does the UK have over the States and Canada? Can you throw more light if you don't mind.

Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by HIbreed(m): 2:34am On Jun 10

Izuchukwu70:

Lies. I get 5 white women wey I Bleep steady for Ohio. I no dey Bleep Akata. Most White women too simple to Bleep.

You dey pay them?

Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by goran3310(m): 2:38am On Jun 10

https://youtube.com/shorts/adT1aiUPA7A?si=3ewXWRBZyHQj6Ngt
Translation of the first sentence:In Serbia, I felt like a human being for the first time.
cool

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