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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by RepoMan007: 2:46am On Jun 10
Franzinni:
Guys if you dear marry an African girl in Europe .. you will be emasculated, if you bring a lady from Nigeria to UK/Europe the already infected ones will infect her with the feminism mindset and in no time you wilk be emasculated ... If you marry those ones with PhD and masters ... If you like be a brain surgeon ... You will be emasculated.



These things I have seen firsthand ... I have been in the same room with a husband in one European country who was rejoicing to the point of celebrating that his wife who kicked him out and turned an importer exporter into a homeless guy has finally decided to give him chance to come back home ... He was happy like he won a visa lottery.

Wetin concern me self
shell fish in a bucket attitude of black people is a well known phenomenon.
They pull other blacks down when they are down. Know that and you are highly intelligent to deal with their wiles they throw socially at you.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Cul4real(m): 2:59am On Jun 10
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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by otherway: 3:41am On Jun 10
RaptorX:
Do you know how many Nigerians travel regularly to the UK and come back without staying there, what are you talking about get a visa first. Before this current japa trend Jandon(London) was just a Lagos extension that people go and come back in days.

That word "Lagos estension" is particularly used by those who have never visited UK once.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Orlu13: 3:46am On Jun 10
LordIsaac:

The order is:
White kids—White Women—-White Men—Black Kids (because of the general feeling for children)—-dogs and cats—-Black women (because of the general bias for women)—-then trees/property and every other living and none living things they care about——then Black Men (Unfortunately).
That’s the order of priority, from the highest to the least.


white women first bfr them kids bro

if u read between d lines, u will know dat...so unfortunate sad
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by StillDtruth: 3:52am On Jun 10
See desperation! Mtchew. Rawbitsh
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by membranus: 3:57am On Jun 10
Newyorkitis:
I get stories to talk about love in the UK.
Ayamu coming

We dey wait you to come nak us the tories.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by livebullet(m): 3:58am On Jun 10
whytediamond:
cheesy

Most people don't get married out of love, they do it to satisfy societal expectations.

Bolder ladies just get pregnant for unidentifiable men and keep the child to herself.

Do what you feel is right and live with the consequences, good or bad. Time no too dey.

The word isn't "bolder". The correct word is "loose" or "olosho" people who glorify immorality. There's no boldness in stupidity. A child without a father?

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Gerrard59(m): 4:11am On Jun 10
Domaining101:
Lolzz. One reason i can never relocate abroad to stay. How i wan take dey fûck 5 days a week for abroad? grin My love for sex and women (Nigerian women especially) No go gree me. Here you no need guide or fine too much, just hold small money and package yourself well, na toto go dey find you come. But the abroad wey you dey go, the money wey you get na him everybody for there get too, if not more. Not like their girls don't like money too ohh, but the kind money you need to dey fûck their girls steady, you gats be millionaire in dollars, dey drive the least Lamborghini SVJ grin That's why i pray every day for Nigeria to remain like this because if this country better, toto go expensive and to fornicate regularly will become difficult.

grin grin

I appreciate your honesty. You know, I once thought that Nigerian elites intentionally make the country the way it is so they reap the benefits, one of which is easy/cheap sex.

Thanks again for the honesty.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Kabir119: 4:12am On Jun 10

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Gerrard59(m): 4:13am On Jun 10
Aremu01:
It's hard, really hard to keep up being religious when you cross the border indeed.
The church here self isn't so helping. This is my second year and I am still not used to there church system here.
Talk of dancing and singing and praying..for where...and without that church community it could be hard for many to keep up the spirituality.
They sung and pray don't get me wrong o. But na worship alone and prayer that pastor will just pray and everyone say amen. That's all.
I have to talk to myself to start joining Nigeria services online. Lol... I know the kind of background I came from
Imagine going to a church and getting served doughnut and coffee even before service starts. Someone will now be sleeping in service chai..oyinbo...
Go

Nigeria churches no dey near your side? You mean no RCCG, Winners Chapel, CCI, CCC, Christ Embassy etc.,?

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by luminouz(m): 4:14am On Jun 10
1Sharon:
They're all over social media complaining that nobody want to date them because they don't have papers.

And why should they? Go sort yourself out.
Yet you don't have too...so why should any man date your black ass?

Be single to stupor

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by otherway: 4:31am On Jun 10
HIbreed:
I have been in a state of confusion to choose between the UK and Canada, I am utterly confused, my mind is gearing to Canada. Maybe, I'm about to make mistake. What edge does the UK have over the States and Canada? Can you throw more light if you don't mind.

1. Healthcare

UK has free healthcare across board so much that even visitors don't pay to give birth cos it is considered an emergency which everyone in UK is entitled to regardless of your immigration status. You will only pay for extra treatment as a visitor.

This is not the same in te states and most likely not the case in Canada.

2. Road transport network.

The UK has one of the best network in the world compared to other countries esoecially the states where you will need to get yourself a car of face a very harrowing experience.

3. Accommodation cost...

America has the highest accommodation cost when you compare to the UK and Canada.

In UK you can easily get a shared room for 600pounds where you don't need to pay extra bills but that same apartment will cost you far more in America especially in many urban cities.

4. Welfare system.

The UK has the best social welfare when it comes to taking care of their citizens.

The UK government prioritises welfare so much that no single mum with a minor child is homeless as the Govt provides accommodation for them (even if you don't have resident permit)

The ability to have emergency treatment free is also part of the robust welfare system.

5. Cost of living.

The UK is designed in such a way that the average wage of workers is sufficient enough for you to pay for a decent place to live and groceries are very affordable despite the increment in price unlike America where groceries are more expensive and you even have to pay extra added tax.

6. Salary..

This is the area many people think America is better than the UK but when you consider the cost of accommodation and living cost in America generally, you will realize that it is easier to save 700pounds in the UK if you make like 2k pounds than it will be easy to save 700usd if you make 3000usd a month.

7. Life security

Please I don't even need to write so much on this.

8. Taxation...

People say UK has a high tax but this is a big fat lie.

The UK generally tax you 20% and you don't get taxed at all if you make 12k or less a year.

The America system has a lower income tax but you will also pay additional different types of tax that make it even far more than that of the UK.

9. Ease of integration.

Asides the marriage route which the states is known for, it is easier to have resident permit in UK than Canada and America.

A. You can get your residence in UK if you are a man or woman who has a child with a UK citizen or one with ILR(indefinite leave to remain)

B. You can have your resident permit if you have a child that has no link to any UK citizen but you just have to wait for 7 years.

C. You can have your resident permit if you come to the UK with a minor child... Just wait for the child to live for at least 7 years.

D. You can have leave to remain in the UK if you suffer a serious medical condition and if you can prove that the condition will deteriorate in the absence of treatment and that you can't afford the treatment back in your country.

Let me just stop here.

Only ignorant people who have no clue of how things work will be typing shits.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Gerrard59(m): 4:40am On Jun 10
uche87:


Osahon George Osayimwen is a UK-based Nigerian journalist

I thought the post would cover relationships as a unit, but it was targeted only at women. What about the men? Na ghosts the women go marry?

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by RaptorX: 4:46am On Jun 10
otherway:


That word "Lagos estension" is particularly used by those who have never visited UK once.
.
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Ebenfat: 4:48am On Jun 10
Wetin concern me with marriage.

Rev.father dey marry ?

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by membranus: 4:51am On Jun 10
otherway:


1. Healthcare

UK has free healthcare across board so much that even visitors don't pay to give birth cos it is considered an emergency which everyone in UK is entitled to regardless of your immigration status. You will only pay for extra treatment as a visitor.

This is not the same in te states and most likely not the case in Canada.

2. Road transport network.

The UK has one of the best network in the world compared to other countries esoecially the states where you will need to get yourself a car of face a very harrowing experience.

3. Accommodation cost...

America has the highest accommodation cost when you compare to the UK and Canada.

In UK you can easily get a shared room for 600pounds where you don't need to pay extra bills but that same apartment will cost you far more in America especially in many urban cities.

4. Welfare system.

The UK has the best social welfare when it comes to taking care of their citizens.

The UK government prioritises welfare so much that no single mum with a minor child is homeless as the Govt provides accommodation for them (even if you don't have resident permit)

The ability to have emergency treatment free is also part of the robust welfare system.

5. Cost of living.

The UK is designed in such a way that the average wage of workers is sufficient enough for you to pay for a decent place to live and groceries are very affordable despite the increment in price unlike America where groceries are more expensive and you even have to pay extra added tax.

6. Salary..

This is the area many people think America is better than the UK but when you consider the cost of accommodation and living cost in America generally, you will realize that it is easier to save 700pounds in the UK if you make like 2k pounds than it will be easy to save 700usd if you make 3000usd a month.

7. Life security

Please I don't even need to write so much on this.

8. Taxation...

People say UK has a high tax but this is a big fat lie.

The UK generally tax you 20% and you don't get taxed at all if you make 12k or less a year.

The America system has a lower income tax but you will also pay additional different types of tax that make it even far more than that of the UK.

9. Ease of integration.

Asides the marriage route which the states is known for, it is easier to have resident permit in UK than Canada and America.

A. You can get your residence in UK if you are a man or woman who has a child with a UK citizen or one with ILR(indefinite leave to remain)

B. You can have your resident permit if you have a child that has no link to any UK citizen but you just have to wait for 7 years.

C. You can have your resident permit if you come to the UK with a minor child... Just wait for the child to live for at least 7 years.

D. You can have leave to remain in the UK if you suffer a serious medical condition and if you can prove that the condition will deteriorate in the absence of treatment and that you can't afford the treatment back in your country.

Let me just stop here.

Only ignorant people who have no clue of how things work will be typing shits.

Thanks for this travelling enlightenment.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by otherway: 4:54am On Jun 10
membranus:


Thanks for this travelling enlightenment.

You are welcome bro.

I try to ignore many ignorant people online cos it's a waste of time trying to prove shits to them.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by SocialJustice: 5:06am On Jun 10
Dehinde24:
I heard from a female friend that Nigeria ladies in UK care less about marriage and the men too are not ready for it
Big lie

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Calylove: 6:01am On Jun 10
Can someone who knows India, discuss them here in details. As in relocating to India?

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Father4all: 6:08am On Jun 10
Domaining101:
Lolzz. One reason i can never relocate abroad to stay. How i wan take dey fûck 5 days a week for abroad? grin My love for sex and women (Nigerian women especially) No go gree me. Here you no need guide or fine too much, just hold small money and package yourself well, na toto go dey find you come. But the abroad wey you dey go, the money wey you get na him everybody for there get too, if not more. Not like their girls don't like money too ohh, but the kind money you need to dey fûck their girls steady, you gats be millionaire in dollars, dey drive the least Lamborghini SVJ grin That's why i pray every day for Nigeria to remain like this because if this country better, toto go expensive and to fornicate regularly will become difficult.
irresponsible person

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by armyofone(m): 6:11am On Jun 10
Aremu01:
It's hard, really hard to keep up being religious when you cross the border indeed.
The church here self isn't so helping. This is my second year and I am still not used to there church system here.
Talk of dancing and singing and praying..for where...and without that church community it could be hard for many to keep up the spirituality.
They sung and pray don't get me wrong o. But na worship alone and prayer that pastor will just pray and everyone say amen. That's all.
I have to talk to myself to start joining Nigeria services online. Lol... I know the kind of background I came from
.
.
Imagine going to a church and getting served doughnut and coffee even before service starts. Someone will now be sleeping in service chai..oyinbo...
Go

Lol grin but just walk away from the doughnuts 🍩 😅

Have you attended potluck events after service? smiley
Fried chicken, potatoes salad, bagels and cream grin etc
At least no daddy and mommy GO

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by ITbomb(m): 6:18am On Jun 10
Mention UK and my mind would be seeing an overcrowded island

I prefer the US for space and more diverse opportunities

KnowledgePower7:
Ever since I was a child, for some weird reason I have always disliked UK

Like if I'm given Free Visa to UK
I will not go 1000% serious

And even if I must go, once I enter London
After 10 minutes I will go back to Airport

To me, UK has a gloomy dark vibe that I can't really explain.
Maybe in my past life I was involved with an event in UK, which made me dislike that place..

Just the thought of me going to UK
Gives me Anxiety... I just can't explain why

I rather go to Japan, South Korea than UK angry

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Kaybaba5(m): 6:21am On Jun 10
Domaining101:
Lolzz. One reason i can never relocate abroad to stay. How i wan take dey fûck 5 days a week for abroad? grin My love for sex and women (Nigerian women especially) No go gree me. Here you no need guide or fine too much, just hold small money and package yourself well, na toto go dey find you come. But the abroad wey you dey go, the money wey you get na him everybody for there get too, if not more. Not like their girls don't like money too ohh, but the kind money you need to dey fûck their girls steady, you gats be millionaire in dollars, dey drive the least Lamborghini SVJ grin That's why i pray every day for Nigeria to remain like this because if this country better, toto go expensive and to fornicate regularly will become difficult.

See enemy of Nigeria

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by AImoneyAdder: 6:22am On Jun 10
Money Answereth All Prayers!

All My Crypto Friends in The UK Nailing It Big in This Bull Run Got No Worry of Finding Love!


Truly Work On Yourself.
True Love Will Definitely Find You.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by faithfull18(f): 6:42am On Jun 10
uche87:


Osahon George Osayimwen is a UK-based Nigerian journalist
Most of the partners some people settle for are either stolen or ‘fairly used’ like clothes from charity shops.
Kai, it's the 'second-hand' for me.
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by MatrixReloaded: 6:44am On Jun 10
KnowledgePower7:
Ever since I was a child, for some weird reason I have always disliked UK

Like if I'm given Free Visa to UK
I will not go 1000% serious

And even if I must go, once I enter London
After 10 minutes I will go back to Airport

To me, UK has a gloomy dark vibe that I can't really explain.
Maybe in my past life I was involved with an event in UK, which made me dislike that place..

Just the thought of me going to UK
Gives me Anxiety... I just can't explain why

I rather go to Japan, South Korea than UK angry
Quote me I go give you 100k
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Youngpo413: 6:46am On Jun 10
KnowledgePower7:
Ever since I was a child, for some weird reason I have always disliked UK

Like if I'm given Free Visa to UK
I will not go 1000% serious

And even if I must go, once I enter London
After 10 minutes I will go back to Airport

To me, UK has a gloomy dark vibe that I can't really explain.
Maybe in my past life I was involved with an event in UK, which made me dislike that place..

Just the thought of me going to UK
Gives me Anxiety... I just can't explain why

I rather go to Japan, South Korea than UK angry
the same way I feel about America 🇺🇸.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Restaurant92: 6:48am On Jun 10
nepapole:
There is no secret...

There is no love in the uk.

The love for dogs supercedes that for humans.

Everybody is crazy here...

Cats!
Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Tonytonex(m): 6:49am On Jun 10
eazzzy1:
A lot of women plan to get married, a lot of men stumble upon marriage. Most men are married to women they planned to just sleep with. They got in and could not come out.

Women in their 30’s don’t have time for the trial and error, they have it all planned out. Before you get their number, you have to commit, before they visit you, they have to make sure you are willing to get married in 6 months.

Desperation is one of the biggest turnoffs ever. When you are not sure whether a woman likes you or she just likes the idea of marriage. Trying to avoid ‘time wasters’ is one of the main reasons there are a lot of single women. You see a woman leave her boyfriend of two years because he’s wasting her time, 3 years later he’s getting married and she’s still single.
You are not making much sense. Why would someone waste another person's time? If you don't want to marry, why waste her time?

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by UnitedKingdom: 6:58am On Jun 10
I'm talking from experience. As a single, before you relocate to UK, make sure you have a serious relationship back home before coming here. You can't find true love here in UK. Why do you think guys come back home to marry and go back with their wife's?

Here can be so lonely and them no born you well to approach a white lady anyhow. Hence, she'll call 999 on you for harassment. Unlike Nigeria were you can walk up to any lady toast her anyday.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by sonnie10: 6:59am On Jun 10
otherway:


1. Healthcare

UK has free healthcare across board so much that even visitors don't pay to give birth cos it is considered an emergency which everyone in UK is entitled to regardless of your immigration status. You will only pay for extra treatment as a visitor.

This is not the same in te states and most likely not the case in Canada.

2. Road transport network.

The UK has one of the best network in the world compared to other countries esoecially the states where you will need to get yourself a car of face a very harrowing experience.

3. Accommodation cost...

America has the highest accommodation cost when you compare to the UK and Canada.

In UK you can easily get a shared room for 600pounds where you don't need to pay extra bills but that same apartment will cost you far more in America especially in many urban cities.

4. Welfare system.

The UK has the best social welfare when it comes to taking care of their citizens.

The UK government prioritises welfare so much that no single mum with a minor child is homeless as the Govt provides accommodation for them (even if you don't have resident permit)

The ability to have emergency treatment free is also part of the robust welfare system.

5. Cost of living.

The UK is designed in such a way that the average wage of workers is sufficient enough for you to pay for a decent place to live and groceries are very affordable despite the increment in price unlike America where groceries are more expensive and you even have to pay extra added tax.

6. Salary..

This is the area many people think America is better than the UK but when you consider the cost of accommodation and living cost in America generally, you will realize that it is easier to save 700pounds in the UK if you make like 2k pounds than it will be easy to save 700usd if you make 3000usd a month.

7. Life security

Please I don't even need to write so much on this.

8. Taxation...

People say UK has a high tax but this is a big fat lie.

The UK generally tax you 20% and you don't get taxed at all if you make 12k or less a year.

The America system has a lower income tax but you will also pay additional different types of tax that make it even far more than that of the UK.

9. Ease of integration.

Asides the marriage route which the states is known for, it is easier to have resident permit in UK than Canada and America.

A. You can get your residence in UK if you are a man or woman who has a child with a UK citizen or one with ILR(indefinite leave to remain)

B. You can have your resident permit if you have a child that has no link to any UK citizen but you just have to wait for 7 years.

C. You can have your resident permit if you come to the UK with a minor child... Just wait for the child to live for at least 7 years.

D. You can have leave to remain in the UK if you suffer a serious medical condition and if you can prove that the condition will deteriorate in the absence of treatment and that you can't afford the treatment back in your country.

Let me just stop here.

Only ignorant people who have no clue of how things work will be typing shits.

So you would rather go to UK where your child would have to wait 7 year after birth to become a citizen than a place like the US that the child becomes automatic citizen right from birth?
Also you would rather go to UK where for instance a nurse makes less than 50k per year than the US where nurses make on average 80- 90 a year?
Talking about emergency treatment, did you even know that it is law for hospitals in US to treat anyone with emergency situation, including child birth whether they can pay or not?
And who told you that you can’t find a single self contain room for less 600 dollars in most US state
Everything you listed up is not a true comparison of the two countries.

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Re: Finding Love In The UK Is Hard, But There's A Secret by Dshocker(m): 7:02am On Jun 10
Izuchukwu70:


Lies. I get 5 white women wey I Bleep steady for Ohio. I no dey Bleep Akata. Most White women too simple to Bleep.

Probably Mexicans, and other nationals that looks like white.

Stop capping, before a pure white will look at a black man, it means you are celebrity or top earners in the USA.

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