Asavivian:


I will NOT. I will find a good man, not the misgynistic lots like you all who crawl all over women's dreams on nairaland. You are NOT my God.

I have stated what I wanted. I didn't hate on you.

Gerrard59:
Women are more brutal in their choices of partners than men.

Anyway, none of these social media rants about marriage show in real life. I see wedding and childbirth pictures every day on my timeline.

1Sharon:


Thats how men miss their blessing.

Men of today. Our fathers of old could never. They had multiple wives and sired many children. Men of today talking about silly standards.

You will grow old with regret. Find an ugly woman and grow with her. Good looking women are heartbreakers.

luminouz:

Shût ya UK ass up!!!
You don miss your blessing already with your mumu standards!!!
Fishlips

luminouz:

Lmaoooo
No one has unrealistic expectations like Naija women...no be una dey ask for monthly wages, hair money, birthday bash, iPhone, house rent, school fees and then mama and papa hospital bills and family issues and on top that, we must be ripped, caring, have 10-inch dick and must still satisfy you for 2 hours and do 7 rounds per night!!!

Na ekuke (local dog) go bite all of una🤣🤣🤣

Asavivian:


They asked animals with horns to join a parade, even a snail like you is coming out. how much have you ever given a woman in your life that you're complaining like this? isi ewu!

1Sharon:

luminouz:

Why should I give a woman anything?

Can you see how your mumu mentality makes you look like a fuul? Only you go reason say you should be given stuff from men and not work for your own shiit!!!

It's called responsibility!!! Work for your own money and stop being a leech!!

Asavivian:


uncle, you're just poor. your mates buy cars for their girlfriend and aren't even thinking about it ....

If you don't have money, no woman will love you. Not even your mother. just know that and know peace.

luminouz:

Now I know how your mother loves you...with money on your hand. I'm sorry you haven't experienced motherly love in your life to realize my own mother won't use money as a criteria to love her own son.

Where I am, women don't need your money to love you. They make their own shiit and still spend it on their men. Na leech mentality wey worry many Naija babes dey worry your destiny.

And you want to claim equality with a man who literally bought you? Tuehhh

Na Naija simps cause all this entitlement for una.

Aunty, go work on..toto dey slack with heavy poundage. Clitocurrency dey expire!!! Fishlips

Asavivian:


all these unemployed mofos forming gangsta on the internet... go and hustle so you won't be arguing with a complete stranger about taking care of your woman. i'm sorry for the lowlife who's dating you.

make i no forget, try wash your dirty boxers. e dey smell reach here

Asavivian:
Let me share with you a story from my perspective as a Nigerian lady, about the pressure we face to meet unrealistic standards set by Nigerian men.

In today's society, it feels like every Nigerian man has a laundry list of requirements for the "perfect" woman. She must be beautiful, slim, educated, respectful, and of course, able to cook like a gourmet chef. It's as if we're expected to be superwomen, capable of fulfilling every desire and expectation thrown our way.

As a result, many of us feel like we're constantly falling short. We're bombarded with images of flawless women on social media, in movies, and in magazines, and we can't help but compare ourselves to these unattainable standards.

It's not just about physical appearance either. Nigerian men also expect us to be submissive, obedient, and always put their needs before our own. We're expected to sacrifice our dreams and ambitions for the sake of our partners, without question or hesitation.

But the truth is, it's exhausting trying to live up to these unrealistic expectations. We're human beings with our own hopes, dreams, and flaws. We have bad days, insecurities, and moments of weakness, just like anyone else.

And yet, we're constantly judged and criticized for not measuring up to some arbitrary standard of perfection. It's enough to make you want to scream, to demand to be seen and appreciated for who we truly are, flaws and all.

But despite the pressure, we persevere. We refuse to let society define our worth or dictate our value. We embrace our imperfections, our quirks, and our individuality, and we demand to be loved and respected for exactly who we are.

So to all the Nigerian men out there with their unrealistic standards, I say this: we're not here to fit into your narrow mold of what a woman should be. We're here to shatter stereotypes, break barriers, and live our lives on our own terms. And if you can't handle that, well, that's your loss.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2DNoFXD4Bjo

1Sharon:


You will grow old with regret. Find an ugly woman and grow with her. Good looking women are heartbreakers.

FRANCISTOWN:

That's how people complicate the lives of their children. The children will then start jumping from Shiloh to Mountain of fire when they can't find a partner.

It's better to die single rather than being with a woman that looks like a witch.

Ugly people should not procreate. They should be kept in the zoo, museum ,or for horror movies.

Asavivian:


uncle, you're just poor. your mates buy cars for their girlfriend and aren't even thinking about it ....

If you don't have money, no woman will love you. Not even your mother. just know that and know peace.

1Sharon:


Our fathers of old would have never said this. Weak men of today with useless standards.

1Sharon:


Our fathers of old would have never said this. Weak men of today with useless standards.

1Sharon:


Our fathers of old would have never said this. Weak men of today with useless standards.

Dannydrums889:

Good evening sir,can i send you an email?

pansophist:


Depends if you have money. Do you have money?

Asavivian:
Let me share with you a story from my perspective as a Nigerian lady, about the pressure we face to meet unrealistic standards set by Nigerian men.

In today's society, it feels like every Nigerian man has a laundry list of requirements for the "perfect" woman. She must be beautiful, slim, educated, respectful, and of course, able to cook like a gourmet chef. It's as if we're expected to be superwomen, capable of fulfilling every desire and expectation thrown our way.

As a result, many of us feel like we're constantly falling short. We're bombarded with images of flawless women on social media, in movies, and in magazines, and we can't help but compare ourselves to these unattainable standards.

It's not just about physical appearance either. Nigerian men also expect us to be submissive, obedient, and always put their needs before our own. We're expected to sacrifice our dreams and ambitions for the sake of our partners, without question or hesitation.

But the truth is, it's exhausting trying to live up to these unrealistic expectations. We're human beings with our own hopes, dreams, and flaws. We have bad days, insecurities, and moments of weakness, just like anyone else.

And yet, we're constantly judged and criticized for not measuring up to some arbitrary standard of perfection. It's enough to make you want to scream, to demand to be seen and appreciated for who we truly are, flaws and all.

But despite the pressure, we persevere. We refuse to let society define our worth or dictate our value. We embrace our imperfections, our quirks, and our individuality, and we demand to be loved and respected for exactly who we are.

So to all the Nigerian men out there with their unrealistic standards, I say this: we're not here to fit into your narrow mold of what a woman should be. We're here to shatter stereotypes, break barriers, and live our lives on our own terms. And if you can't handle that, well, that's your loss.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2DNoFXD4Bjo

Farfalla:


Really?

So men didn't have preferences until they came across women?

They were just there dating innocently until women came into the scene with their different specs, so men decided to follow suit? You just have to blame women for everything, eh? Everything.

"It was ladies who started it..." You sound just like Adam - "It's the woman you gave unto me that gave me the fruit from the tree and I ate it...".

The woman must take the blame. Issorite.

1Sharon:


Thats how men miss their blessing.

Men of today. Our fathers of old could never. They had multiple wives and sired many children. Men of today talking about silly standards.

You will grow old with regret. Find an ugly woman and grow with her. Good looking women are heartbreakers.

LexngtonSteele:


I can NEVER share rent or school fees.

I hate laziness in women but if she contributes a significant chunk of finances, no reason why the man shouldn't contribute significantly as per chores.

God forbid I lose source of income and she's the breadwinner.. na to enter YouTube learn recipes oo.

Silentgroper:


"Ugly woman" lmao .. where is this coming from??

1Sharon:


Good-looking women are heartbreakers and give you another man's child. Build with that good hard-working ugly woman that you see today.

1Sharon:


Good-looking women are heartbreakers and give you another man's child. Build with that good hard-working ugly woman that you see today.

1Sharon:


Thats how men miss their blessing.

Men of today. Our fathers of old could never. They had multiple wives and sired many children. Men of today talking about silly standards.

You will grow old with regret. Find an ugly woman and grow with her. Good looking women are heartbreakers .

I laff at her in Swahili Good point, bro

tundebasic:
Sometimes you read some things online and wonder what the writer was thinking while writing them.

Anyways, I began to know humans are funny beings who will complain at everything, after a guy advised some adults to brush their teeth before eating, they refused, while arguing that their teeth was whiter than that of the advisor .

So, you mentioned unrealistic expectations, and you said they are:

" She must be beautiful, slim, educated, respectful, and of course, able to cook like a gourmet chef ".

Let's flip the statement.

She must be ugly, uneducated, disrespectful, and of course, a bad cook!

You don't even want the above as your sister, let alone, a mother!

In the AI age, where machines and robots are even increasing their IQ, a woman, a supposed wife, wants to remain uneducated?

The international community, women organizations, and nonprofits are fighting for women education and empowerment, this one, a Nigerian woman, is saying education is unrealistic for women?

dkidd:

What bs is that 😂😂😂

Pathetic statement. Are you his mother? Godforbid you turn out to be anyone's mother with this sort of reasoning. Everyone's opinion matters here. Who the hell do you think you are to shoot him down for having an opinion on the matter. Sister, Live your life the way you want and let that nigga breathe. No woman will love him, my foot. Its obvious you single af and getting to that age where menopause starts creeping towards you.... Thats y you talking BS. Reply if you can..... I ready for you

Asavivian:


uncle, you're just poor. your mates buy cars for their girlfriend and aren't even thinking about it ....

If you don't have money, no woman will love you. Not even your mother. just know that and know peace.