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Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by Fearurcreeator: 5:08pm On Jun 13 |
Nsiehi:Ask the woman na 1 Like |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by Localgrandpa: 5:08pm On Jun 13 |
Fearurcreeator: I'm not arguing. I'm just saying from my own perspective. I be pikin no mean say I no go get my own opinion. 1 Like |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by Fearurcreeator: 5:09pm On Jun 13 |
Emeskhalifa:I tell you ... Him eye go clear later, the mumu never mature |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by GloriousGbola: 5:10pm On Jun 13 |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by bentenny(m): 5:21pm On Jun 13 |
shortgun:The father should have stayed away from their lives rather than trying to reconnect after many years of abandoning them esp d son! Well we still don't know the full gist until we hear from everyone! |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by AreaFada2: 5:21pm On Jun 13 |
Gerrard59:My brother, marriage is actually supposed to be a wonderful thing. It is the oldest institution still in existence. At a basic level, a man and a woman are supposed to work together. To create a sanctuary within which to grow and happily raise a family. But nowadays, marriage has become a battlefield of wokery and shenanigans . Genders now fail to complement each other. Some women say they have been too historically oppressed and now want their pound of flesh. Well, right now, no-one benefits. Least of all the children. Even the benefits the women claim to have now is only temporary. Chinua Achebe wrote : "Aneke the bird said since men began to shoot without missing, it has learnt to fly without perching". Hakimi has shown how to hide your money from gold diggers. The Chinese will one day create a machine to carry a baby for 9 months. Everything will soon fall in place and water will find its level. But for now, men have little to gain. Only to toil for decades and then kpafuka. Wife will be doing Omugo all over the world into old age. Men just have to weigh things carefully. Expect nothing and expect anything. Do paternity on all kids. 1 Like |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by Obviouslyblunt: 5:22pm On Jun 13 |
shortgun:this is a lie. Used to think this way till I saw a dead beat dad/guy with my own eyes. 4 Likes |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by Emeskhalifa(m): 5:23pm On Jun 13 |
Fearurcreeator: When he becomes of age, he will understand 1 Like |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by CaptainLora: 5:26pm On Jun 13 |
Thundafireseun: Correct guy! |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by Fearurcreeator: 5:28pm On Jun 13 |
Emeskhalifa:Men go dey live with I be man ... Woman go dey torture am with bad bad words ... Till he dies ... The woman go come dey cry like she no dey do am anything... 1 Like |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by donbenie(m): 5:28pm On Jun 13 |
shortgun:Indeed,men don't walk away from good women.. As if all the men that walked out was because of the woman.. Let the man get!at! He walked away,why is he now back? 4 Likes |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by lailo: 5:28pm On Jun 13 |
The mother get ukwu wella. The wetin the man don waste for many years |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by Fearurcreeator: 5:29pm On Jun 13 |
Localgrandpa:Normal.... Woman matter no be for here ooo... Na person wey never collect go dey feel like say nothing na lie ... If that man open mouth tell you how the story take be you sef go do pass ... |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by donbenie(m): 5:30pm On Jun 13 |
shortgun:Then he should stay gone! You make your bed,be man enough to lay on it.. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by Mrincredy(m): 5:31pm On Jun 13 |
What is this one saying? It's like they have not abandoned you in one area of life before... shortgun: 2 Likes |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by cococandy(f): 5:32pm On Jun 13 |
Did the kid torture him with bad words too? Fearurcreeator: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by donbenie(m): 5:32pm On Jun 13 |
Localgrandpa:There are enough excuses for many men to steer away from a manipulative and toxic woman,but he should be man enough to sink or swim with his decision.. |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by donbenie(m): 5:35pm On Jun 13 |
cococandy:Being near the child involves interaction with the toxicity that's the woman,many men will walk away.. The child is collateral damage and the man should have stayed gone.. |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by Gerrard59(m): 5:36pm On Jun 13 |
AreaFada2: Agreed. Hakimi has shown how to hide your money from gold diggers. Sure. This is small thing for me. There are good bank(ers) around. The Chinese will one day create a machine to carry a baby for 9 months. I pray for this day, and I believe it would come especially as the developed world have anaemic low birth rates, but natives are not open to endless trooping in of immigrants from developing countries. Men just have to weigh things carefully. Expect nothing and expect anything. Do paternity on all kids. fair deal. Keep a poker face mentality. The bold is extremely important regardless of prevailing circumstances. |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by ZekeYeager: 5:39pm On Jun 13 |
Men may not walk away from good men, but is it okay to walk away from your 2 year old child? Without any care of what might befall the child? Why didn't he take his son along with him when he was running away from his responsibilities? shortgun: 3 Likes |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by cococandy(f): 5:41pm On Jun 13 |
donbenie: Yes many men would rather walk away from their kids because they can’t get along with the women and they’re okay sacrificing their children as collateral damage. Now they’re wondering why the kids hate them. Many women don’t mind enduring the toxicity that the men are, as long as it means they can be around to care for the small helpless children and that’s the difference. The women can sacrifice comfort to be there for the kids but the men can’t. The kids know it too. That’s why they hate y’all (generalization obviously). The funny thing is the mom and dad don’t have to be in a relationship to care for the kids. They can arrange custody and provision for their kids while trying as much as possible to stay out of each other’s way. Most of you need the maturity to get to that mental level. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by osazsky(m): 5:42pm On Jun 13 |
Stagged for traffic..who film them... |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by Hassanmaye(m): 5:45pm On Jun 13 |
Gistmedia10:Good job |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by Willed042(m): 5:46pm On Jun 13 |
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Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by donbenie(m): 5:51pm On Jun 13 |
cococandy:Twist it how you like.. Women are the primary care givers when it comes to underage children.. Whether or not she's with the man, she's the one with access to the child.. So, you claim is ab initio on a faulty premise. Placing all kinds of hoops and pitfalls on the man's ability to access the children ,is a woman's weapon of choice.. A man can only take so much bull,shit ,before he realises that nothing is worth his mental health.. |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by Lovit(m): 5:52pm On Jun 13 |
He and his mother would have pardon and make excuses for the man if he was as rich as Dangote. Otedola or Davido or Ned Nwoko Hustle O! |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by cococandy(f): 6:02pm On Jun 13 |
donbenie:Sounds like a bunch of silly excuses. Masking irresponsibility as protecting mental health Then If you wanna go, stay gone. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by donbenie(m): 6:09pm On Jun 13 |
cococandy:That is real life.. If you want a child's father around, then stop being toxic. One thing I agree with you though,he should have moved on . |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by lagabush(m): 6:10pm On Jun 13 |
Jeon:Which food riped or cooked. No woman they chop hard work of men |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by Father254: 6:15pm On Jun 13 |
Localgrandpa: Answer this : If the woman absconded with this boy and left his husband without a trace and communication. And this husband has been looking for them to know this boy welfare. Last last he saw him at this full age . How would you judge this case? Note if he was not interested he won't be out looking for the boy. My advice is for every man to become successful. If this man was successful the woman will show up with this boy to meet his father. |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by Exceed15: 6:16pm On Jun 13 |
shortgun: Oil no go finish for your head. May your wisdom increase. 1 Like |
Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by Exceed15: 6:17pm On Jun 13 |
Localgrandpa: Some women will make sure you don't have contact with your children again when this goes south. May u not meet such. |
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